End of the year bash!

Devilishly horny report! 

Posted by: @divine_o

Since I moved in with my partner a year ago, I have found myself less and less inclined to solo sessions. I do have them, and they are always spectacular, but right now they are about 3 times a month

The solo thing isn’t so easy to manage with an journey active partner. I’ve lived that shit.;)

Posted by: @divine_o

I can’t wait to get home and finally sew together a strap on harness for my gal to fuck me with!

The way it’s written,it sounds like you’ve not been pegged before? I’m not sure that’s right. Forgive me if I’m mistaken. No need to sew lol Take her up to the sex shop and buy some treats 😉

Id never be without pegging now. Usually,on the journey,’we do the work’. It’s very special to have someone else do it instead. Now I’m used to more girthy dildos,I don’t even need to do anything other than just take what she gives me. Enjoy it. 🙂

Im getting randy now just thinking about it.

@divine_o, hot post!  If i may ask, what position did you use to finger yourself?   I can't seem to find a comfortable one that allows me to concentrate on the task at hand.

Boy, I wish I had prostate play knowledge when I was doing corporate travelling.  I discovered it shortly after retiring.  Maybe it's best; I probably wouldn't have had much sleep in my trips LOL.

Yes, @gnawdol 's video is hot.  It's easy to imagine yourself in the saddle.

Posted by: @ggringo

[...] what position did you use to finger yourself?

Posted by: @gnawdol

I wish I was flexible enough to do myself !!!! 

I think having fairly long arms helps more than flexibility here. I don't know what's @divine_o secret but I can share how I do it. The best way to get started is to do it standing up, maybe slightly leaning your upper body on something. The reason for this is that you're going to need both hands.  Reach behind you, with your finger of choice towards your anus and both your butt and your finger relaxed, and use the index of your other hand to flex the penetrating finger upwards. This should get you finger tip in the right alignment. This is not super comfy to hold , but as soon as you penetrate yourself, the natural curve of you anal canal and the natural curve of your finger should match and there won't be any strain on your finger. When you get better at this, you can start trying the same kneeling, and when inserted you can then get on all fours or alternatively, lay back and sit on your hand. Kneeling beside the bed is good, too. 

Using the thumb can feel more natural because it curves more easily, but I find that it's very hard on the wrist, plus the thumb is just no long enough to really hook on the prostate, but if you can't do it with your index, it's worth a try just so you can feel your prostate and internal muscles and make that mind-prostate connection stronger. And needless to say, it feels good ! 

@divine_o 

Great story and well done  !

I used to finger myself more often years ago, but it often left me with soreness in my arms, finger joints and butt, plus doing lots of manual stuff, it was hard to keep my hands soft and smooth. But from time to time I'll finish a session with some finger penetration and go for the equivalent of a super-T, and I really enjoy feeling everything contracting and squeezing. I feel it gives me a better understanding of what happens inside me at the moment of orgasm, and I can use this info in my Aneros and Aless sessions. I hope more people follow your lead and start to explore with their fingers, I think it's worth it. On some level, it's really more intimate than using a toy or Aneros device, and just loads of fun in general. Thanks for bringing up the subject ! 

Posted by: @divine_o

And I felt an overwhelming need to share with you all, because hell, that’s part of what this community is about.

@divine_o, I'm glad that you had!  Like @ggringo, I'm curious what position you used to finger yourself.

Posted by: @zentai

Reach behind you,

@zentai, by way of in-between the legs: past the penis, scrotum, and then past the perineum?  Or, by putting your arm of the fingering hand behind your lower back?  Thanks.

Posted by: @helical

@zentai, by way of in-between the legs: past the penis, scrotum, and then past the perineum?  Or, by putting your arm of the fingering hand behind your lower back?  Thanks.

Oopsie, sorry I wasn't clear. The second one, putting your arm and hand behind your back. In addition to leaning a bit forward, arching your back will help align everything. There's a little trial and error but using the other hand to guide your finger is really the secret  

Gloves are good, and you're absolutely right, they make things less intimating at first and clean up much easier, which is great if you decide to switch activities mid-session or take a break or whatever. I prefer to go without, it's just a personal thing, but I do keep a box handy for when I have small cuts and nicks on my hands.  

Lots of gloves are textured, like mechanics vinyl gloves are great and won't react with oil based lubes  but they're made to be non-slip to an extent, so they kind of defeat the purpose and will need more lube. Some latex gloves even have tiny crisscross pattern on the fingertips, (your dentist probably use this style) So it's really worth shopping around and getting the smoothest ones you can find, this makes a difference. 

@zentai

This post brings new meaning to the ‘guy sitting on his hands’ saying 😉

Hey all, thanks for the responses!

@helghast

I have been officially pegged once with a strap-on and harness, 3 years ago, by a friend with whom I once had a spark, but at the time of pegging it was sorta over.  I was already on my prostate adventure at that time, but the intense fullness of it all drew away from subtle prostate sensations.  Otherwise I have been dildoed and fingered by girlfriends for years, since I was a teenager.  Pre-aneros, it enhanced my ejaculation.  Post aneros it ranges from nice to mystical, depending on random factors that none of us are really able to pin down.  But in general I liked it soft and slow, so having a strap on seemed unnecessary.  What was interesting for me here was how hardcore it got.

I would buy a harness but the price is outrageous (50-70 euros) for crappy quality/ugly fake leather that you can’t even wash.  So I will try to make one first.  All you need is a metal ring, heavy fabric, buttons and latches, it looks like.  I will see what I can come up with and if it doesn’t work I will buy one.

Sorry guys, I can’t remember if I went around the back at some point.  In the beginning of fingering I was on my side and on my back.  Otherwise I went around the front for the bits I do remember, at the end, because at that point I was sitting on the toilet just in case… but the entire time I was bearing down pretty darn hard, and that pushed my prostate towards the outside.  I don’t know how dangerous it is to bear down so hard, but damn it felt good.  Also that is why I ended on the toilet, because, well, I wanted to be careful and I hadn’t douched before.  I didn’t mention above, but none of the positions were comfortable for my hand, but I didn’t care…

@gnawdol definitely felt like it was my pussy, more than ever.

@zentai yeah I had a sore butt that night and the next day. Today feels better, and I hope it is truly better on the inside because new years eve will be a two person party for us this year, and I want to invite my bum.

@helghast We just tried this rig on her, to have something for tonight.  It seems to be a decent Ersatz-harness, though I put it on her with her clothes on and she thrusted into my hand for giggles.  We'll see how it works nekkid and in my butt.

https://peggingparadise.com/2017/03/midoris-diy-scarf-harness/

@divine_o

Well,if it holds and is comfortable,then game on. If it,and you do end up buying one,don’t skimp on the price,we have a good quality one that’s nicely tight,yet comfortable. Wife likes to feel the cock as part of her,no moving around and adjusting. 

Anyways,enjoy. 🙂

@helghast it worked, but wasn’t that well fitted. In round two she just dildoed me with her hand. I will try to create one, and if it doesn’t work I will buy one.  In any case last night was a replication of the rougher anal play I described in my initial post, and it was wonderful!

@divine_o

Damn dude so hot!!! I’d wouldn’t give up pegging for all the tea in China now. 
What sort of size did she use? 

@helghast she used the only one we have which is… 16cm long and 9.5cm circumference. She also managed to get all 5 fingers in at one point but I prefer 2-3. She has dainty fingers. What i enjoyed with the actual pegging compared to the dildoing as her weight on me. I’ve mentioned that she’s a bigger gal. Well I often have orgasms just through being crushed by her weight.  With her on top I really enjoyed that additional aspect. The problem with the dildo is that it hit my prostate too hard and directly, so when I came (ie maximum muscle tension/bearing down etc), ofttimes it hurt right at the peak of pleasure, a dull and acute pain like being punched. But it’s fine. She would stop. Fingers are better because more control and she can back off accordingly when she feels pressure rising. Anyways… we’ll be doing this a lot more I’m sure.

@divine_o

I get you on both. The wife always knocked my arms away in missionary so my weight would be on her,i always worried I’d crush the life out of her,but damn she loved it.

A slight change of angle will save the prostate from the brunt. Wife works her angles out as she likes to go hard and get some cheek rippling going from her hips hitting me. Keep it up,as I said,I couldn’t give it up now.

This has been a fun topic.  Thank you all & Happy 2022.

Allow me to introduce to you a treat of mine. I call it "thumbjob." While laying on my right side I use my left thumb in the only way possible (from behind).

The angles may vary & I can get just the right amount of pressure on my gland.

Sometimes I'll buck & thrust as I'm humping my thumb. Give it a whirl fellas, heh heh.