Edging before Aneros session?

JIH,

While opinions may differ on this, mine has always been that this is to be avoided. The reason for this is that penile stimulation centers sensation within the penis and engages the ejaculatory sensory pathway. There are some methods such as those espoused by Chia that involve this kind of brinksmanship. But I never had any success with it as a newbie, and there have been very few users that have ever reported success with it in this forum.

The preferred method involves using higher states of arousal generated by non-penile forms of stimulation (anal, perineal, prostate, nipple etc.) coupled with mental focus as well as focused breathing. The sensations that are produced by these means are often subtler than penile stimulation, yet when amplified produced a more explosive and sustained result...the Super O.

Check out the WIKI in the latter half of the Getting Started section for ideas on engaging the non-ejaculatory pathway.

BF Mayfield

i also believe edging does little to encourage super-os. However, if its a super T youre after, theyre key. I think this is important for beginners who are having minimal success without any penile stimulation. try edging 6-7 times before ejaculating. i believe this can help you bring some awareness to your prostate and experience prolonged sensations of amplified arousal.

I have been experimenting with nipple stimulation and have had some success getting dry O's out of just making circles around my nipples and breast. I have firm personal evidence that this activity gets the prostate humming quite effectively. I have started warming up with very slow, gentle nipple stimulation before using the Aneros and WOW have the results been dramatic.

By the time I insert the Aneros, I am just hungry for it and the involuntaries come so much faster. If I don't get my fill from the Aneros or don't have time for a session, I'll be wildly distracted until I do something to relieve the lust.

Think of it as shifting gears. Being highly aroused is key so if you need to edge I believe it actually swells your prostate making it more sensitive. But it is important to shift your focus to the aneros afterwards, I stop stroking but I hold on and focus on moving the aneros in/out. There are alot of new guys that have trouble and this is what I would rec. Once you get the super O then you can try starting with just the aneros and no penile stimulation.