dud session

so, i was in bed having trouble sleeping last night, with my lovely wife dreaming away next to me. i thought... how about an aneros quicky.

not to make things complicated, i just reached for nearby lube (Abolene -petroleum based and excellent for external lubing) dabbed a bunch on the A, and gave it a whirl. at first things felt pretty good

but then, it just dudded out. no position could get exciting. i wasted a good hour trying. i did relube and things felt reasonably slippery.

i kind of felt sore, including where the tab hits, the next day.

anybody else had this kind of dud experience?

anybody ever set a hard time limit to bail out before wasting too much time trying?

darwin