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@zaqpol Cool! For the orgasm, not the infection.

As @zentai said, do aless. Also, take this time to caress other parts of your body. You don't need to have orgasms as a goal, just pleasure. You can spend 30 minutes every day caressing your partner and vice versa. Use soft bushes, fingertips with and without fingernail, lips, hair, hands... use your imagination and follow the each other's pleasure. If you do this every day for a while you will be surprised by the heights one can reach just through touch.  

I do understand that a yeast infection is a turn off. I had one once on my thighs, less severe than yours, but it is definitely a buzzkill. If this is a block to your focusing on pleasure, all the more reason to spend this time focusing on your partner's pleasure. On days where I am distracted or don't want to be touched (it happens!), I caress my partner, and she doesn't complain. And plus the sensation of receptive skin through my fingertips is magical, meditative and sometimes even orgasmic for me.

@divine_o Great advice and I appreciate it. We (and especially myself) can forget or overlook there are other aspects of sensuality and pleasure. I need to start caressing my other parts more than I have, as even masturbating isn't a comfortable or satisfying option at this point. My girl and I are always affectionate, but since I've felt so icky, we haven't had intimate time for a while. When I get her excited, it usually gets me more excited, so I'll give your suggestions a try. I'll also try @zentai 's chair positions for aless. Since, I've only had a few multi orgasm sessions, I haven't been able to get aless going, but when I tried I could feel or sense the potential for them. Laying on my back didn't quite do it, with luck sitting might. Also, I'll be alone at our other home for a bit, where it's easier for me to be more meditative, where I can focus and work on myself. Thanks

@zaqpol

Good, I’m glad that interests you. With my partner we set aside non-penetration evenings, which make us think outside the box (literally). Being better acquainted with all of ones skin as well as how to caress can only bring pleasure, because caressing is possible all the time, especially combined with other acts. Some people are very ticklish, and I think this is a good thing. That means very sensitive skin, and lots of feelings of vulnerability, which is fine. It means going slowly and building trust. And just like with all these things, it takes time. There are some places on my partners body which have gone from being ultra ticklish for her to becoming direct trigger points for orgasms, over the last several months of learning each other’s bodies. Just some thoughts... have fun!