Does anyone here set themselves a minimum session time?

I never set time limits as I just want to enjoy each and every session! When you learn not to touch your cock, the pleasure can last indefinitely! Usually practicality steps in and I have to quit!

I did the opposite. I never had the 2-4 hrs to devote to a session as some guys reported,due to busy life. I also read somewhere on the forum archives ages ago that it takes a minimum of 45 mins to make a super-o. Fuck that I said.  So I set about training to streamline the whole thing to 15-30 mins. Freakin did it too. A session can be anything you want it to be,just gotta be prepared to put the work in. 

Never a limit on length.  Sometimes my sessions are limited by the amount of alone time I’ll have.  But for me the Aneros sessions are so intense I loose track of time.

My session length is not set by time but rather by the amount of time.  I terminate my sessions at 11:10 pm every time so the length is measured by how soon I start.   I usually insert at 9:30 pm but if I can begin sooner, I do.

Why end at 11:10 pm? Once the toy is removed, it's time for a good edging session mixed with plenty of Aless moments.  At midnight, it's time to go to bed where I quietly continue my Aless moments to the wee hours of the night.

Everyone is different

@helghast man I hope I get there.  It usually takes me 30min sometimes to get...something...not even a Super-O.  But considering I started out where it would be nearly 90min before I felt something I'd say I've made progress!  So any tips how to make it happen faster? 

As far as the crazy long sessions go, I think my body tires out long before I get to the 2-3hr mark so I don't know how you guys do it...might be the pelvic floor training I'm finally starting to do.  I usually get bored far before I can get to that.  Plus if I'm constantly getting up every 30-45min and emptying the bladder, relubing, etc, it's almost like I'm starting over each time.  Now I did totally used to fall asleep in longer sessions when I was younger.  Or I might insert and go immediately to sleep, waking up to some pretty nice sensations, but it's been a while there. 

@faith-manages 

What I did was set a timer/alarm for 30 mins. Got into the mindset of I get what I get and nothing more. Unless shit was super o grade,I employed discipline and cut the session at 30 mins even if things were going quite well. Over time,this training just became normal. Fast forward to now,if I was to have an A-Less,I’d lie down,anchor tension in my pc,and roll a strong sphincter contraction whilst letting out an erotic moan and boom,instant big p-wave and with the tone set,off I go. First o hits within a minute,first super o after about 5. Having said all that,I do have mindset saturated in belief in the process.

@helghast Great idea, one I probably wouldn't have thought of if left to my own devices.  What I really love about this forum is just how much of a sounding board it can be to get not only encouragement, but different ways of tackling problems!

@faith-manages hi I don’t set a time limit. I like to slide it in and just relax. What happen happens. I think that the key is not to think about it just enjoy the feeling it gives.

@faith-manages what I like about this forum is people are excepting who we are and why we use these tools. It’s nothing to do about our sexuality or desires. True people just trying to make our life better and Healthier.

What I love faith is that my wife is completely on board with me using Aneros anytime I feel the need to.  We sleep I separate rooms because we need the sleep! Also we can both play when ever we feel the need to.  Makes life easy and relaxing without pressure! 

My wife's on board with my Aneros use. Being in Chastity  24/7 since last October and being an older gentleman,  my sessions typically last an hour to an hour and a half. I'm an early riser so mornings are my preferred time. I just let my Helix Trident take me where it wants enjoying the ride

Posted by: @rogermarleau

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Being in Chastity  24/7 since last October

I just don't get the logic of this; why cage a part of my gody that provides me with so much pleasures.  I too am an older gentleman and to me, every single minute I can squeeze in to generate penile and/or prostate pleasures is money!

When I stop and think about it, it's amazing how often in a day I reach in my pants to stimulate my perineum, massage my jewels or caress my shaft.  I'm worst (or beter?) today than when I was a young buck...

@ggringo Like you, prior to Chastity I would masturbate, watch porn and have Aneros sessions on my own. Since starting Chastity I switched my Me time to We time. Chastity has brought me closer to my wife emotionally and sexually. She enjoys teasing me then denying me. She enjoys doing it loves the power she has over our sex life. It also keeps in a constant state of arousal and I do reach down and fondle the boys. We both wished we had discovered it earlier. I know it's not for everyone but it's the journey we chose.

Posted by: @rogermarleau

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@ggringo Like you, prior to Chastity I would masturbate, watch porn and have Aneros sessions on my own. Since starting Chastity I switched my Me time to We time. Chastity has brought me closer to my wife emotionally and sexually. She enjoys teasing me then denying me. She enjoys doing it loves the power she has over our sex life. It also keeps in a constant state of arousal and I do reach down and fondle the boys. We both wished we had discovered it earlier. I know it's not for everyone but it's the journey we chose.

@rogermarleau, you pointed out the exact difference in our situations; while this practice has brought you closer to your better half, I am and have been in a sexless marriage for decades with no hope of a reverse course.  This explains why the logic was escaping me but I certainly respect your situation.

I still would be reluctant to lock up the most pleasurable part of my body as I spend far more time by myself than I do around her. You're right, eryone is different.

BTW, my wife of 45 years is the best partner and friend I could ever wish for I wouldn't trade her for anyone else.  Also, I gave up porn many months ago with no regrets.

Good vibes to you.

I used to take one to two hours. Years ago. Now, I rarely go over thirty minutes. And my sessions are way more powerful in recent years. From insertion to hands on nips I’m away and having mild Os after a few minutes. By 30 mins I’ve had about 6! They’re all good (sessions) but I guess as you get older you try for twice as much in half the time. 

I started doing sessions in the shower, as it is very convenient to clean my anus, then lube it and insert my Helix Syn V.  I always do several deep belly breathing Kegels, trying to pull the muscle so that I can retract or pull in my cock.  Sometimes that makes me erect, and always after a while I drip precum.  But I try to ignore what is happening as the Aneros warms up to my body temperature.  Then I may start a light vibration pattern and things really get flowing.  

Yesterday morning, I did all this and my wife walks into the bathroom, and says "Oh, boy" with a smile, as she knows what's going on.  I got harder and went about to finish my bathing, because seeing her made me want to save myself for her later.  I removed and cleaned the Aneros for next time.  As I was drying off, I was still semi-hard and oozing precum, trying to ignore.  My whole time was maybe 30 minutes and I was warm inside, relaxed physically and mentally.

Fast forward to last night watching TV in bed with my wife giving her foot massages on the balls of her feet (she suffers from some neuropathy ther from chemo therapy for ovarian cancer almost two years ago).  She said that she needed a lower back massage.  So we both stripped naked and I started massage that area, occassionally moving higher and then lower, sneaking in a finger down encircling her furry vagina.  As I was doing this she says, "What is that?", in reference to some wetness fealt on her butt.  I was oozing pre-cum again, many hours later from the prostate massage time.  Then she flipped over, and I laid next to her and began sucking her left nipple with a finger nudging her firm clitoris.  I was becoming more aroused and dripping precum on her leg.  I would reach down and spread it all over the head so that she could view it and become more excited.

We finished with me on top and her hands pulling my ass into her, into her wet vagina as my pulsating member slid in and softly came with the wet rythm of many full thrusts!

Golfing1 That’s a hot story

Posted by: @helghast

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I also read somewhere on the forum archives ages ago that it takes a minimum of 45 mins to make a super-o. Fuck that I said.  So I set about training to streamline the whole thing to 15-30 mins. Freakin did it too. A session can be anything you want it to be,just gotta be prepared to put the work in.

Do you have a thread detailing how you trained?  I personally never have done a session longer than an hour.  I always feel as though if most guys are going 2 to 4 hours, maybe I'm not getting to where I want because I am impatient.  I really don't think that is the truth.  Most times I'm thinking "what am I going to feel that I already haven't tonight"?

@vracer mine are also determined by my alone time but I have never set a limit of time! I want to enjoy every pleasurable moment and where it may lead!