Hey, guys I am just curious how many of you actually don't like doing traditional masturbation?
Every time I ejaculate I lose a lot of energy and feel fairly tired after orgasm. I honestly prefer the aneros with no penile stimulation what so ever. Is anyone else in this boat?
Aneros for me with SR.
I have been practicing SR for a while now and recently completed the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge (I made it to 26 days!) I am now exploring male chastity and really feel it is the "next step" for me beyond SR. Masturbation? What's that? I feel an incredible energy that is hard to describe.
the thing is with SR is that though you are retaining it, yes, it does in fact get absorbed back into the body. This surely means that its not doing anything for arousal levels beyond this point, not sure how often this happens but i beleive every few weeks at most this occurs.
Also in answering the OP's question, for me its a hard one, the reason is that when i masturbate there is a chance of a mind blowing, unmatched super T-esque orgasm that i can potentially have. This is an issue because dry-o's dont feel like this at all, there is no releif from them, no satisfaction and come down, just a 'ceasing'. So for me traditioanl masturbation, after sufficient arousal building over a few days, is far more satisfying both physically and mentally.
Please excuse the crude nature of a 'dirty old man.'
In addition to the differences in post-event hormone levels there's an additional factor for me. Semen production and discharge is the single distinguishing purpose that we adult males are all about. Masturbation is the one reliable release I have. My adult male dog realizes this and goes belly to the ground, carpet or floor to masturbate. My wife used to speak harshly to the dog for so engaging himself -- he only glared at her, perhaps knowing that neutering was a populafr option.. My brain knows I've been snipped so I don't do this for reproduction. Just for pleasure or "relief." I gain both pleasure and gratification from several wads of semen coursing through my urethera and there's nothiing else like that.
I've done many weeks of "involuntary SR" when at sea or in stretches of 18-20 hour/day combat. Survival and duty sometimes forced sublimation of all natural drives save for survival. My first priority upon returning to some form of civilization was to dash to the first place that offered a blow job. The BJ was usually available while holding a beer in one hand and one foot on the bar rail.
On the other hand, I know that prostate massage is a healthy persuit and I'm damn thankful that it's available and, that we have developed sophisticated approaches to Aneros use so as to maximize the pleasure while we derive the benefits.
My conclusion--a prostate driven orgasm, with or without some considered and measured SR is a helluva lot more sophisticated than a simple wank.
Short answer: I'll take both -- thank you !
Ive noticed that recently I have been ha e more super t orgasms than nornal ones. Usually they will leave me sastisfied for many days untill I have my next session. But I'verecently noticed something, I've gotten unused to normal ehaculatory orgasms so when I did the other day It was insanely intense. I dont know how to describe the difference, its like rewiring also made normal orgasm more special because they are pess frequent. I feel super Ts in my prostate and legs mostly and I used to feel normal orgasms in my ehole groin area now it seems like I can feel it all entirely in my penis making it more extreme and less spread. I dont know, perhaps I'm overthinking it.
If I were to just whip it out now and stroke one off, I'd be tired and likely have a hard time feeling aroused for the rest of the day (it's noon). I could still get aroused and have sex if I wanted to, but it would be more effort than it should be and not as enjoyable.
If I were to have a session, and have multiple orgasms (Aneros or A-less) now, and ejaculate only after say 1.5-2 hours of that, I would be tired after, but often get aroused or hard again even just 5 min later. I still feel like I keep a lot more of my sexual energy in that case.
I almost never do quick one orgasm ejaculations now. It's an event, or nothing at all for me.
My vote is for the aneros. For the last few months I go for a traditional orgasm every 2-3 weeks. The first few weeks were really tough just trying to get past one week but now that is easy. Just took a little time to train the body.
Totally agree with Tatornator. Just about a week ago my wife was nice enough to give me a BJ and wow that orgasm felt like it lasted forever and was crazy intense. So I think there is something there with traditional orgasms being way more intense.
No more straight JO orgasms for me. Always get some Aneros Less feelings flowing to up the intensity, even when have that animalistic urge to masturbate. Why just jerk and shoot when so much more open to us now?
I gave up on traditional masturbation years ago. Too big a let down after release. I make use of prostate massage, prostate milking and I greatly enjoy wet dreams now as well.
It depends on time availability - I still give a wank occasionally at home (1 week or so) and much more frequently on business trips. However, I prefer aneros when I have the time and try to put 1 day in between sessions. I am lucky in that I usually can get a HFWO with no penile stimulation whatsoever, but as the wiki and other forum posts suggests, this is both a benefit and a curse! Enjoy the Journey!
wanted to also add, its great to see the strengthened muscles take effect with an erection too! I'm a 50yr old and had a tantra session where she commented how strong I was... It was a huge (pun intended) ego boost and I attribute it to my 2+ years aneros use. (THANK YOU!) Enjoy the Journey!