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Do gay men have more intense sex than hetro men?


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After I got a Super O with the aneros, I started thinking, since gay men have anal sex, maybe their anal sex is more intense than heterosexual sex? Because my super O's are way more intense than hetro-intercourse.
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It depends on the relationship and whether heterosexual sex is only 20 mins on a saturday night or allowed to build to something more intense over a longer time frame.


   
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I think men who have an interest in the aneros have better sex regardless of their sexual preference.


   
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What a loaded question! Brucemarkland is correct. In my bi experience, I have far more intense sex with men because there are less expectations as to how. Hetero sex most often has vaginal insert as the goal and very often the man is responsible for the female. M/M sex can be mutual jo and edge together for hours, dry humping, oral and anal and each man is responsible for his own pleasure. I find M/M freer for talking dirty, role play, where it happens, and therefore more intense. Anally, I think there is more understanding of each other's pleasure and what could possible more intense than another man giving you a super O? Just my opinion - to each their own, however.


   
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I think men who have an interest in the aneros have better sex regardless of their sexual preference.

What I appreciate most about Aneros (or rather the Aneros models that I use often in my sessions) is that it has opened up my body, perhaps my sexual consciousness, to all sorts of tactile delights that my body has for me. That is why mostly every Aneros session is pleasurable and fun. But, oh, what I enjoy in Aless is even better. Much more, is my being able to tap into all these pleasures so much now. It is a terrible shame that the Aneros was not around in 1970 when I was in college. Aneros would have taught me much then.

Although I am a now confirmed bachelor at age 66, celibate by choice, but reveling in what Aneros has taught me. Theoretically I could enter into sexual congress with possible partners, male or female!


   
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Are you asking who has better sex or better orgasms? Sex in itself is what two people make of it so I imagine there is amazing and crappy Sex on both sides of the aisle. Orgasms as we have experienced here I believe majority of us would say that prostate orgasms are unbelievably powerful as surly as a woman having g spot orgasms finds extreme pleasure in them. The obvious difference they can reach the spot through the vaginal and men through the rectum. This doesn't guarantee however for men or women that th is stimulation is certain. The best sex I believe I have had involved digital prostate manipulation during oral followed by traditional pleasure. Played for hours and it was great. Heterosexual for me. Without pressure and wi th a partner wi th willingness and creativity


   
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Some here would argue that a super o is not as intense as an ejaculatory orgasm, so this thought is not one all will have here.


   
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You are right. Someone could argue that, but that group would be a minority group compared to the bulk majority, because if the super o were not stronger and more intense than traditional o then people here would not spend their time using the tools, but would be using traditional techniques for their pleasure. Like the girl in that video and many other guys in their videos are finding greater extremes then using regular masturbation. So the case would be made they are seeking a deeper and more enhanced experience. And with a partner there comes and increased sense of vulnerability and openness then can be anticipated which is what this discussion was all about. Do gay people have a better experience then heterosexual traditional sex? I would say it depends the attentiveness of the couple involved.


   
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If the experience did not equal or exceed the usual traditional method nobody here would keep pursuing the experience of the tools and that for years as many have published. To that end does anal sex guarantee prostate orgasm. Not at all, any more than vaginal sex guarantees a gspot orgasm. There are some who are more susceptible like my wife with my attentiveness have been able to stimulate that spot continuously because I know where it is and she is very responsive. But we spend time stimulating many many more senses and and enjoy each others company to a greater fulfillment for us both and it drives to keep our sexual relationship alive and strong. As I said initially, I believe it depends on the couple.


   
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On a personal level I can say I enjoy being the more dominant and controlling person I like and Who I am with enjoys being and the more receiving and of pleasure, and I believe this is true of most couples that the enjoyment and fulfillment of their sexuality comes from fulfilling the role that give us the greatest pleasure. Often you will find there is one who takes the lead roles one who takes the receiving roll and commonly you will hear term switch used where they like to give and take but ultimately one side will usually win out over the other giver or taker and if you have two compatible people giving and receiving then you have most intensity in a relationship that brings about maximum fulfillment and enjoyment, but if you take two people who wants to submit or who want to dominate then you are left struggling and not getting the most out of the experience. That's when you find out that you cannot find that fulfillment with the person you are with and the intensity of regular or p spot orgasm may escape you. Maybe that's a little deep. I know for myself my p spot orgasm has been absolutely amazing but there has been a lot of literature that over stimulation of the area with vibration or excessive motion have led to dud sessions we're going with the flow and accepting becomes the norm to achieve greater delight. Likely this is why many men find their sessions frustrating because they seek to control and dominate by the majority compared to women but not in all cases 4 there are some men who prefer the submissive role in the bedroom and may find it easier to attain pleasure in their sessions alone or with a partner who likes to dominate. What do you think?


   
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I think the true comparison would be between a gay man and a woman, what's more intense 1 or 2 hole insatiable?


   
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That I believe is too great a differentiation. A gay man, a straight man is still a man. A woman is a woman and in all likelihood feels thInga different than a man. Anatomically a woman's clitoris wraps around her vaginal wall internally. Does the tip have the same or different sense. When asking a wOman the feeling of vaginal orgasm I've been told by women it feels like an all around belly implosion but feels really good, to a feel good sense like rubbing a nmber 2 pencil across the palms. Clitoral sensation can feel sharply in tense like rubbing the head of the penis against your palm. G spot as 1 explained to me feels like a buildup of intense pleasure she pushes out uncontrollably and even shoots a large amount of clear liquid. Afraid she was peeing but it was thicker like our precum. I'm not sure we can relate othe than we can all say it feels great. Up until aneros I cannot say I've ever experienced waves of pleasure across my abdomen or through my body and face with a regular ejaculating orgasm. For me p spot pleasure is hit and miss but when it hits I've done the seas of bliss to the feeling lIke I'm coming wi the out ejaculating. Deep bliss, penile bliss, spiritual bliss. You name it. I've used toys before this without getting any of that but a light pleasure with a feeling of fullness. What I have heard from some gay men, that is what they feel is fullness and they get off on their part of being taken. But not many have orgasmed from this without jerking off or stimulating themselves while being a bottom. Some have said they have ejaculated whIle bottoming but only once in a blue moon hands free.it was mantak Chia and his book s on multiorgasmic potential and bracers eso that led me to the possibility of feeling sone thing greater than the 10-30 seconds of orgasm from traditional o. The aneros wiki did make a point of saying the tools are not like dildos and vibratory and didn't they say too that using them like that can desensitize a man away from super o? Assuming the question was meant t I be do straight men coming from the penis stimulation have a better orgasm or the gay bottom? Does he have a better stimulus receiving sexual intercourse anally rather than t he guy on top? Assuming that was the e intent of the question I suppose the answer being slightly subjective wouldn't it be if the bottom is super oing then from a strictly pleasure and stimulus standpoint that would be yes. But that would depend if he was achieving the super o but stands to be that straight or gay any man super oi ng would say it is generally leaps and bounds more stimulating by majority. But in no way replaces the e intimacy of a loving partner which brings the social, emotional fulfillment a. Sex toy could ever bri ng. Besides all that. We're told the mind is where orgasm begins.aren't we? Not the genitals? The greatest neurological engagement then has the greatest pleasure, agreed?


   
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