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08/23/2018 5:12 pm
I find myself in a confusing situation now and am hoping someone here has experienced something similar and can help out.
1. I’ve been using a variety of Aneros devices for some years now, not on a regular basis and have not experienced a great deal of progress. The sensations are truly pleasurable and I consistently reach a point where I can’t resist touching my penis and making myself ejaculate quickly. Because of this, I have not had Super-O, multiple orgasms or the other experiences I’ve seen described here.
2. For the last 8 months or so, I’ve found it very difficult to maintain an erection during regular penile masturbation. I’m not using Aneros during these sessions. Either I will not get an erection or will only get semi-hard and not my full size. I will get very hard and full erections during the night or when I first wake up, but if I try masturbating then, it softens up very quickly. This is clearly quite frustrating.
3. During these penile sessions, I will continue to masturbate, and usually have to use a lot of fast stroking, and it takes a long time to reach orgasm. The orgasm also seems to be ‘reversed,’ in that I will start to ejaculate and only after several spurts will I have the feeling of orgasm. My ejaculation is also not very strong, although there is more fluid. The spurts are weak, so it’s actually more like a continuous flow.
So what I’m looking for primarily is a way to get back to having full erections when I want them during the day, and be able to maintain it until orgasm and ejaculation. If there is something I’ve done wrong in my use of the Aneros, I’d like some advice to start over and get to the experiences that the others of you have described.
I’m worried that somehow I’ve short-circuited my ability to normally masturbate or have sex with a partner.
Thanks in advance!
08/23/2018 6:47 pm
I have similar issues. It's like my pecker quit working when I started with the aneros. I get erections at night and right when I wake up, but can't get it excited when I start a session.
08/23/2018 7:51 pm
and that's the thing. you're relearning sex with aneros. it CAN screw up traditional sex and sexual response, if you don't keep those pathways working as well. So many are scared that they are screwing up their aneros by do anything "traditional" but the reverse is also true. Either practice ALL forms of sex, or focus on the type you like best, but know what rabbit hole you are going down..
08/24/2018 3:54 am
@handsfree59, must say, your conclusions don't seem logical to me. What you did was mixing up Aneros use with traditional masturbation. It would have been the same as if you had mixed up viewing porn with traditional masturbation, as I did some years ago. It led to similar experiences, like you described. The reason must be that you pave those pathways again and again until the circumstances are not only usual but become a necessary stimulation.
Meanhwhile I don't practice traditional masturbation for months, nevertheless I don't have your issues. But I mostly kept my Aneros use and traditional masturbations separate all the way my journey led me. Although it may become a very long way my recipe would be to start from the beginning.
I see two ways for a reset.
1) The longer way starts with putting your Aneros tools in the closet and forget about them for a longer time, exactly until you're back where you were before your first Aneros use. Perhaps a longer semen retention challenge may help, but even only avoiding usage of porn brought me back my sensitivity for manual stimulation some years ago.
2) A shortcut would be to only start with a semen retention challenge and of course avoiding any penile stimulation during all your Aneros sessions, even with Aless.
Feeling fully re-wired I only need some focus on my gland inducing sudden Aless, getting a hard-on, leading to pleasurable Aless orgasms, and if I like a little stimulation of my frenulum makes it become a Super-T.
Good vibes! Mart
08/24/2018 10:12 am
@RocketSeal I experience the same symptoms when I watch too much porn. The mind starves for it and impedes on my ability to engage in normal penile functions without it.
You don't mention if you are a frequent porn watcher so this might be a moot point.
Good luck in finding a solution.
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