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01/01/2008 11:47 am
For years I've suffered with this in the context of conventional sexual intercourse. A lot if it may be due to anxiety associated with my wife's attitude towards sex (puritanical) and using the pull method for birth control early in our marraige. For a number of years now it seems like getting any action just requires so much emotional work that when it opportunity finally presents itself I'm so worked up it's over too quickly.
Given the lack of sex in my marriage (I'm 53, married for 32years now), I've become quite the solo sex master. When it comes to self gratification, I can go for a long time dancing on the edge. I've been able to successfuly apply various Taoist sexual practices to my masturbation sessions. In fact, many of my extended sessions (45 min or longer) do not end in ejaculation at all. If it weren't for the basic human need of being intimately connected with a real life woman I'd be quite satisfied.
Enter the Aneros (mxg). After several months of using this thing (hands off penis), I've had several mind blowing sessions resulting in either super o's or the stage just before. What's most interesting is having this surge of sexual energy flowing through my partialy erect penis, hips bucking in the traditional fucking motion with no ejaculation in sight. I've been meditating and doing qi gong for the past year or so and have been able to get pretty relaxed using the aneros. I think this is the experience to try and duplicate during intercourse if possible. I know that we're working with a different circuit with the aneros (prostate vs penis) however the trigger for ejaculation seems to be disarmed somehow, even though they are connected somehow.
My question would be, what is the trigger and how does the aneros bypass it? Is it the constant pressure on the p spot? Any insights or shared experiences would be appreciated. Thanks.
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01/01/2008 12:54 pm
First, I can't answer your question because it's just as much of a mystery to me as it is to you. This is also very fascinating to me, because sometimes I get these "ghost ejaculation" type feelings where I really do feel a liquid surging out, even though nothing actually comes out at all. Sometimes these contractions are accompanied by orgasm, other times they are not. I really wonder what it is I am feeling though, because I really do feel a liquid literally moving up and gushing out.
The most powerful orgasms usually come from a much deeper involuntary contraction. It is as if my prostate is trying to ejaculate but nothing is happening. I don't usually feel that liquid coming out feeling with this, but it can start happening over and over putting me in heaven.
I think that whatever it is that prevents ejaculation from happening is the key to the endless orgasms. It is as if the body goes in this phase where it's trying over and over to ejaculate and producing orgasms.
There are a few lucky folks here on the forum who say they can trigger ejaculation using the aneros alone, maybe they can respond and enlighten us with more insight on what seems to be happening to prevent it.
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