Crying Orgasm?

Yeah, on one of my 1st strong O, I was feeling so good and so happy that I shed a few tears.As I need to totally surrender myself, which I had never done, I guess I got emotional.

@KatieF25, Yes I often have a warm feeling in my chest while riding these days. If I let go, I sob and cry tears or laugh or shake I'm not always sure why I'm crying; sometimes I'm sad and sometimes happy, sometimes just appreciating the beauty and power of the orgasms. I'm having this experience more frequently when not riding too. I thought it was because I stopped taking antidepressants but it's long after I stopped and I'm still emoting! Its very disconcerting and awkward at times. I can control whether I manifest emotions physically by just not letting go but it takes effort and I'm aware of the emotional charge in my perceptions. I figure I just have to learn how to live with this part of myself and try to understand what it means. I find it grounds me. Curiously the warm feeling that precedes emotions also precedes arousal and orgasms.

Teared up a number of times. its powerful stuff sometimes

Sometimes the sensation are so intense that tears start escaping my eyes involuntarily. This feels more like a physical thing than an emotional one though.

Yes, crying is often a response for me, as well as laughter! 🙂

brine

Enligtening guys. It's clear reading your responses I've not had anything approaching a super orgasm. Always a learning experience.

I was thinking about this in my last session. Like there might be an emotional component to things that I'm keeping a lid on. I'm actually terrible for bottling up my emotions in my everyday life, and I'm beginning to think it could be an obstacle in my sessions.
I've found there's something I'm instinctually recoiling away from when things get good, and I can't even put words on what exactly it is. Like I'm suppressing something that I sense could be out of my control.
So weird.

@inhope
Why would you say that? Does learning how others experience orgasm make you doubt or dismiss the reality of your own?


I've not experienced the uncontrollable emotional response others describe here. I'd even characterize some of my O's by a remarkable elimination of emotion. This does not tell me my O's are damaged or tarnished. It reinforces to me that my O's are uniquely mine.

@inhope
Why would you say that? Does learning how others experience orgasm make you doubt or dismiss the reality of your own?


I've not experienced the uncontrollable emotional response others describe here. I'd even characterize some of my O's by a remarkable elimination of emotion. This does not tell me my O's are damaged or tarnished. It reinforces to me that my O's are uniquely mine.

I admire your the positive spin you have, don't loose that.

Thanks, I think. A little condescending, though. Do you believe it is naive to say I'm comfortable with my subjective experience being radically different from someone else's?


It was a serious question. If your orgasm had validity two days ago, how did reading this thread make it invalid?

Perhaps it is, though it's good to feel what you have is enough for you. I wish I was able to do the same.

In answer to your question, I have never had an orgasm through the aneros (only outside of sessions) so I cannot really answer this objectively. I would be happy with dry orgasms of any level with the aneros.

Crying is a very therapeutic release and crying through orgasm is a wondeful form of Catharsis.
It is a release of stored and repressed emotional energy.
Sometimes when orgasm is strong enough it can shift this repressed energy and release it.
I remember being with an ex partner and she had not been intimate with anyone for 5 years , I was giving her a vaginal massage and must have released something that had been buried for a long time and she just bust out crying in sync with her coming, absolutely sobbing and holding onto me for dear life.
The next week we tried again and this time she was laughing uncontrollably which again is a release of emotional energy.

@shyzen, exactly. It also helps to have someone close to you and to try to understand where the emotional tension is coming from if possible. I wrote a blog about my experiences here a while ago: https://community.aneros.com/blogs/euphemisms/emotions-and-orgasms/. A good group who teaches how to access your emotions and heal from them is CCI, Co-Counselling International, http://co-counselling.info/en or http://www.cci-usa.org/. I would not recommend https://www.rc.org which is a similar practice but has cult tendencies.

So I went into a session last night with a view to keeping an eye on what was going on emotionally. And I noticed something I never have before. There was a strong sense of violation that coincided with a particular type of deeply pleasurable involuntary contraction. Like it was an unknown external force doing something to me, in a way that made me powerless for a moment.
An invasion of my personal integrity, like as if someone came up behind me and stuck their finger in my ear. This is what I've been recoiling from. I've been trying to grab onto it, and reassure myself that it isn't foreign. I have a really hard time just letting it be, I need to own it and take control.

Have had a few total body and emotional orgasm that left tears streaming from my eyes and pleasant spent euphoria. Also, laughed many times during and after in amazement and how a piece of plastics can be so good!

I am a ball of emotions when I ride. Just last night I was all smiles and then the toy hit a new spot & I just burst into tears and then i began to howl like a wolf.