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@Kristianvoorhies, have you ever reflected on how much time blind persons might have to spend on learning Braille until they are able to read using their fingertips? I'd say one should first give one's senses some time to take notice and notify one's mind of the new feelings never felt before until one jumps to another tool that perhaps induces quite different feelings. Re-wiring takes time and can be confused by changing horses in midstream. No pun meant.
Although I would recommend to consider this aspect, as an owner of a whole bunch of Aneros tools, I admittedly can't call buying any of them a waste of money.
Btw, lately there has been another thread about your question, called "Proper fit question".
Cheers!
Mart

I was at a similiar point to this back when I started and I got a progasm ice as my second aneros to kind of figure that out. That didnt help as much. It does take time for you to notice. Because your prostate isnt used to being touched it kind of ignores being touched initially. Gradually you will start to notice things and once you have the muscle memory to know where you are down there it will come as second nature finding it over and over again.

I used to think that in the beginning,I thought I needed something longer or thicker,some on here think if your over 5”10 you may a longer massager,I’m not sure this is the case and I have helix syn,and I’m over 5”10,it’s all in the mind,switching ofamd just focusing on subtle sensations and pleasures,I’ve had it over a year only just had my first super o a week or so ago. Just keep at it,however,when you put it in,either close your eyes and fantasise,or get engrossed in a good porno,you don’t need to do hard contraction,just light ones,deft touches if you like,and try to almost forget the Aneros is there,it’ll come good,practice and patience I’m afraid..

@SOwithoutAneros Thanks so it’s something I shouldn’t worry too much about then I’ll keep yawing my helix syn and give it some time. By the way i started reading a new book called Urban Tantra and it’s the best book I’ve read about Tantra so far. I think it aligns with skills you have to learn and I feel it could be of great use to beginners like me. I do think it would help some people.

I’m quite confused,can someone point me in the right direction. It doesn’t feel like my helix syn is touching my prostate and it’s really difficult to feel any sensations from there I can feel anal sensations but I’ve yet to feel any sensations from my prostate. Is that just the way my body is? I’ve ordered a second model to see if that would help.

While a second Aneros model will elicit slightly different sensations from your body they are not going to be an order of magnitude different from what you are now capable of achieving. As @SOwithoutAneros, @darkbond & @Tommygunn have all alluded to, initial sensations are quite subtle and it takes variable time periods for men to adequately focus their attention on the sensory output of their prostates before they fully awaken the potential inherent therein.

By the way i started reading a new book called Urban Tantra and it’s the best book I’ve read about Tantra so far.

This book is mentioned in the Aneros WIKI and if you haven't taken the time to read through the WIKI yet, as I suggested in my introductory PM to you, please do take some time to read through it.

Passion + Practice + Patience + Persistence = Pleasure when it comes to your Aneros journey young Squire.
Good Vibes to You !

@rumel thanks, it makes sense that since someone on the forum mentioned it that it would be recommended somewhere. I also have read the muliorgasmic man. But the other ones I’m not so familiar with. I’ve read parts of the wiki but I haven seen the whole thing.

@Kristianvoorhies, affirmative! "Urban Tantra" is a great book, please have a look at number three on this list. 😎