At first, the feeling is delicious, subtle & mercurial. It's evasive like a floatie in your eye: you try to look at it & it squiggles away.
Hitting the spot & riding it is like that, to me. Until it takes off on it's own... shhhh...
Yes the early stages of sensation development are delicate, the more you try to make it happen the more likely it will not. You can use this to your advantage, the more you try to stop it happening the more it will.
Ahhh... Never thought of that. Next time...
Thanks Chestnut