over many years my wife and i have a long established routine that enables her to achieve multi orgasms.
this is clitoris focused along with strong kegels in sync with deep breathing.
she is hot wired to clit stim and is able to reach the the pre orgasmic pleasure zone in a very short time and ready for me to edge her towards climax.
we were discussing aneros anal play and the situation where users were able to separate prostate and anal orgasm; especially without the device inserted [ a less ].
as a variation we were thinking if it was possible for her to learn and wire herself towards anal pleasure without penile penatratration.
is it different for a woman?
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I would think that is possible. You don't have to have penetration to have pleasure. If you were to pleasure her anal ring with clitoral stimulation you would get a blended orgasm that would allow her body to interpret as pleasurable. Than only anal stim would do the same thing. If she is also into nipple stim that would be another route to include. While stimulating nipples gently stimulate the anus. You could also introduce a peridise as well at a later date to increase the pleasure as things progress
I recently learned this about my wife. She actually likes when I stick my finger in her anus when doing her doggy style...the nerves there apparently link back to the clitoris so it gives her an amazingly deep orgasm.
Hey @smaster ,
we were thinking if it was possible for her to learn and wire herself towards anal pleasure without penile penatratration
That's absolutely possible! If only Aneros made a toy just for that... oh wait... 😉 You can incorporate the Peridise in your accustomed activities and it will slowly condition her brain for anal stimulation like @somebody mentioned, but at some point you should switch to "proper" hands-off-genitals sessions like it's recommended for the classic aneros models. You may find this post / thread very interesting, since it's from a couple in a similar situation.
If you want no anal penetration at all, then a pure butt-rubbing approach is a good way too.The a-less abilities start to unfold only after one is properly re-wired, so IMHO it doesn't matter which way you choose for the re-wiring itself (a-less or a-on).
For learning more about a-less respectively energy orgasms I highly recommend
is it different for a woman?
Well, nobody will ever know for certain, because you just can't switch bodies. But since the anal sphincter is the same in both sexes, I guess it's save to assume, that there is no difference regarding men and women in general. BUT: it will most likely play out differently for the individual, because re-wiring is a highly personal experience.
Cheers, Unfug
thank you for your helpful replies.
my wife is now focused on re wiring to her anal sphincter by learning to seperate her clenches between clit area and lower anal area whilst breathing deeply.
hopefully after re wiring she is aiming for blended hands free orgasms with a view to later introducing gentle penetration with one of the peredise models.
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One thing my Aneros journey has taught me is that anything is possible,we can orgasm from aless sessions,so can a woman. My wife once orgasmed just from me sucking her nipples,she was on all fours facing down toward my feet,no clit or pussy stim,just sucking her hanging tits and she came,I’d reckon if they do our aless sessions they could orgasm even easier than us,as they have a head start on us with sex being in the head.