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05/17/2017 6:29 am
A little background: I'm in my mid 30's, health perhaps not as good as previous years but working on that. I did change my diet around 1.5 years ago and stopped eating meat.
It has been 11 years of aneros use, its definitey had its ups and downs some are because of my own impatience and some a little more puzzling. I did things wrong at first after my first few sessions (maybe 20-30) nothing would happen and in my haste I forced things, pushing the device and milked me etc and caused pain/damage to my prostate, dull ache and pain which lasted a few years when I would ejaculate. This subsided eventually and now doesnt seem to be an issue at all.
Would also tense my legs hard and end up making me ejaculate because i felt frustrated and to be honest, i didnt know what i was looking for in terms of sensation. For the longest time i thought a super o would involve ejacualtion, but back in 2005 there wasnt the wealth of information availalbe as there is today from this site and from you good people.
After some years I went back to drawing board, followed the wiki especially this part: 'holding contractions and releases' and started this with the peredise and got good results after a number of weeks of this method.
Since then I've found success with the do nothing approach. Best positions would be the usual 'missionary' aneros position, lying on bed legs bent and feet flat on the bed. I would get nice spams/involuntaries. However if I were to put my legs down completely the spasms in my ass would go into a crazy overdrive, out of control! But... No pleasure from these? Had this happen for years, to this day.
WIth this I used to also experience constant a-less orgasms every single day, without fail. Twice I had an aless super-o without any instigating it and I had no control, really incredible, I had multiple O's over and over for hours and hours. I thought i had finally found consistency. I could induce these a-less orgasms for example when getting showered, I could lie in bed as well and get them through simple muscle contractions.
I own all devices but the ones that work best are: peredise, tempo, helix and mgx. The eupho also was good for a time but suddenly stopped working all of a sudden one day. I also found good success with the helix, this was great for a few months then progress stalls, perhaps i get too used it it or something. This could be mentally more than physically as I feel most devices work just some better than others.
Then one day the a-less orgasms stop suddenly one day and doesn't return, I can't induce them much either through concnious effort like before, what i get now is much weaker than before if i get anything.
However the positives:
I now get success every session, by this I mean I get almost instant pleasure when inserting a device usually an orgasm or two in the first few minutes but always after 5-10 mins they stop, very abrputly. Again could be mental focus as if I lie on my back I get drowsy after a time, but I don't know why? It's been like this for years. On those rare days i can push past this 'barrier' of sorts and have much better sessions.
I've had some sessions that are mind blowingly good, fairly rare but do happen nonetheless. I read here a lot that each subsequent orgasm past the first get better and better, but only a handful of occasions can i say this to be true for myself, often they tail off in intensity. Oddly my Mental focus or physical tiredness make no difference on these days, it has no bearing whatsoever. This is where I am currently.
If I lie on my stomach and engage my penis it usually feels the most intense and for longer but this isn't doable for long as I end up feeling sick in my stomach
Also active contractions like in the wiki guide or in 'a quick dirty path to the super o' seem to be highly counter intuitive, often killing a session dead, however a light holding contraction usually works a lot better but not always. Again, whats with the randomness of consistency here? anyone?
Usually only after I've ejaculated do i get the a-less pwaves appear again, a day post ejaculation later the p-waves start up.
The consistency especially after 11 years is all over the place, it's like I'm in flux and one day in a million I seem to have all the stars align and I get a great session. It's frustrating especially after this lenghty period. I have had steady progress though through asking questions, experimenting and focusing.
Im not sure where to go now, on those sessions where it's ramping up and getting amazing it's incredible, but can't identify the factors that make it so. I am prepared to accept that there is something mental I am Missing but what? I have had great progress thus far because of asking you very good people, what now do I need to do? I've been at this point for more than a year, perhaps a year and half nearly and know there are paths i have yet to explore.
Thanks for the help in advance guys!
05/18/2017 7:09 am
@The_Fury Far be it for me to give you advice, you have been at this much longer than me (at half my age!) But one thing that I observe is that you are trying desperately to achieve something that your body isn't ready to produce yet. Rather than constantly force your body into a response (like masturbation to an ejaculation), try just chilling-out for a while. Take a break, relax. Eventually, your body will tell YOU when it is ready for some stimulation. I took a 5-month break from Aneros and got back into it through semen retention and male chastity. I have never been hornier. As the old saying goes: sometimes less is more! Give it a try if you can; you may be surprised at the results. Of course, all of this requires a good deal of mental preparation. But if you are ready to take-on the challenge, the rewards will be yours. Good luck!
05/22/2017 9:06 am
It seems to me that you and I might be going through a bit of the same thing right now. I've been going through a bit of a 'down' period of late where the sensations just aren't as dynamite as I've gotten used to. Its been puzzling me as to why and I've been trying different things to coach my body back to where it was a couple months ago. While I was reading your post here my thoughts were that maybe you're falling into the trap of trying to tell your body what it should be feeling instead of letting it feel want it wants. Then it hit me that that is what I've been doing as well. As soon as we start trying to pretend that we're in charge of what we feel during our sessions, that's when things start going south.
Maybe sometimes we just need to hit the reset button, go back to the basics of laying back, relaxing, and just enjoying what our bodies are giving us.. I know that's how I managed to elevate my sessions to the multi super o level in the first place, so maybe we need to get back to the basics? Its hard because once you've experienced the joys of the super o you want it/need it/expect it every time and it's frustrating as hell to realize that it just doesn't work that way. We just have to constantly keep reminding ourselves that our bodies are what's in charge here...not us.
I don't know if this helps at all...I hope so.;)
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05/22/2017 12:47 pm
It seems to me that you and I might be going through a bit of the same thing right now. I've been going through a bit of a 'down' period of late where the sensations just aren't as dynamite as I've gotten used to. Its been puzzling me as to why and I've been trying different things to coach my body back to where it was a couple months ago. While I was reading your post here my thoughts were that maybe you're falling into the trap of trying to tell your body what it should be feeling instead of letting it feel want it wants. Then it hit me that that is what I've been doing as well. As soon as we start trying to pretend that we're in charge of what we feel during our sessions, that's when things start going south.
Maybe sometimes we just need to hit the reset button, go back to the basics of laying back, relaxing, and just enjoying what our bodies are giving us.. I know that's how I managed to elevate my sessions to the multi super o level in the first place, so maybe we need to get back to the basics? Its hard because once you've experienced the joys of the super o you want it/need it/expect it every time and it's frustrating as hell to realize that it just doesn't work that way. We just have to constantly keep reminding ourselves that our bodies are what's in charge here...not us.
I don't know if this helps at all...I hope so.;)
Good advice this, i like it.
I want to make some things a little clearer:
- I've had some INCREDIBLE sessions, ive tasted of absolute heaven so its not like i dont know what im aiming for here...
- My aless orgasms, uncontrollable as they were, felt incredible. In-frigging-credible. But theyve vanished. WHY.
- I've had golden sessions where ive experience prolongued orgasmic amazingness, rare but do happen
So i'm not 'forcing' at such, i'm 'experiementing and exploring' which has always yeilded results.
The one issue with your advice is that if i were to follow this it would mean setting up a session, which also means waiting for the right time when i have the house free to myself, get into session and then like every session i experience my first orgasms within maybe 20 seconds of insertion.
Yes really.
Then after that 3 minute period or so, thats it. So i remove device, clean it, package it away and clean myself etc.
This whole process of getting ready and then cleaning/ending things is longer than my actual sessions. Its bonkers and i cant help but feeling that its bullsh!t and should not be happening, not after 11 years. Why do some of you have such great control and consistency?
05/22/2017 1:06 pm
While I was reading your post here my thoughts were that maybe you're falling into the trap of trying to tell your body what it should be feeling instead of letting it feel want it wants. Then it hit me that that is what I've been doing as well.
@The_Fury, I fully agree with @karvec1959, especially because of an experience I made yesterday. When on the go to induce some Aless by touching my nipples I suddenly stopped to consider the situation. Hey, I realized, ain't I'm going to exactly demand a certain reaction when my finger will touch my nipple? The experience was quite good last time.
BUT didn't I myself pray
"No expectations!"
:rolleyes:?
I started over, telling myself, that I didn't want a certain reaction, that I even didn't want to decide whenever and however my finger will finally touch my nipple. My forefinger circled my nipple and I did my best to deny myself any target.
The first touch was disappointing, yes, you're right, thus I truly had failed to kick comparisons. I noticed that too but I kept on circling and trying to expect nothing. The next touch felt as if my body was a piece of already white charcoal and I was fanning the embers and seeing the red glow again. Back on my path it became a wonderful Aless session.
While typing this, the picture of glowing coal was so intense, I really could see and feel the fire all through my body again.
As it is all about our mindset, I find pictures extremely helpful to focus on. As if there was someone behind me to lean on and cuddle with, one member here could know, who I am just thinking of, I press myself backwards into the chairback or even into free space, awaiting a caressing of my neck.
Always in a different way something begins to happen, involuntaries, kundalini awakening and erecting along the spine, chairgasms, just now it made me bow forward and leaning to the side with my mouth wide open like in trance while the vibes flow through my body.
Maybe I still await that something would happen. But out of so many different experiences my mind at least has learned to let happen whatever comes.
And as we all know, the best is yet to come. 😎
Sadly I don't know if anything of my not even eight month of experiences can help you any further, but above all thanks for your post, @The_Fury. You have helped me to internalize my last experience and to better my awareness.
Best vibes to all of you! 🙂
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