can’t figure out how to use njoy wand for prostate massage

Hi @shockedwaves, had the same issue with using njoy wand several times, until I used it like my Aneros tools. Laying back, putting (the smaller!) ball in and let the heavy end do its job. I had to be patient for a longer time, but then my prostate took over and suddenly knew how to use it and gave me a blissful session with lots of precum. Good luck! Mart

Less is more, in my experience using the small end in a gentle rocking motion works the best, let the weight of the wand do the work. The pure wand has a learning curve not unlike Aneros, however, I find I get my best results using it while standing, or sitting up with my feet tucked under me. Be patient, it will be worth the effort!

The key for me was connecting the external end to my sweet spot. Once they got together, its like all the rewiring work automatically kicked in. I do wish there were an XL pure wand. I need it to be about four inches longer but still keep the perfect weight balance. I've never been a very big pre-cummer but this thing gets me as close as I'm going to get.

When I have seen guys use the nJoy Wand on Xtube, they seem to use it to milk the prostate, which is different from precumming or ejaculating. They use it to express the gland, which produces a slippery milky fluid, but it's not sticky like semen. The user "arachnopornia" has a good video of this (on the gay side of Xtube).

Thanks for the tips guys. That was all pretty helpful.

I think the tips like these were really helpful:
- using it a bit like an Aneros / Do Nothing
- less is more
- letting your body get used to it, and then doing what it needs to do

I switched to the bigger end once I figured it out, and was having more success, and that seemed to work a lot better for me than the smaller end - less precision needed I think.

Baiscally, just laying back, maybe slightly sitting up with back on a pillow. Sort of held it against where I thought I was making contact with my prostate. I waiting to start feeling the "dull ache" that's usually a good sign of a buildup of something happeneing. And then just barely moved it. I just kept the pressure a bit constant while the buildup and dull ache was happening, and maybe just moved it slightly as my prostate was starting to buzz to make sure the pressure and pleasure was continuing. It doest take a learning curve though - too much movement, or loosing focus can stop the buildup in its track.

But if successful - ass, prostate started contracting and gripping the ball at the end inside my rectum, and then just very easily guided that ball along my prostate based on the rhythm my body had set. It let the orgasms grow stronger and stronger. I felt like I have a bit more control over getting something building up to a really strong prostate orgasm with the wand, where as with Aneros toys it's almost more a game of chance since you don't have as direct control over the position and pressure.

Good fun 🙂

@shockedwaves, thanks for your initial posting and your conclusions, being pretty helpful too! Just found another helpful video on *tube and only can add, if you "wannagetboned" you should look for this user's videos there. Will have to cope with the bigger end soon, 😮 Have fun! 😀