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08/06/2021 3:28 am
Hey gents.
I had a little reward chip to use with my wife within 4 weeks of completing a challenge. I decided to cash in my chip for a blowjob,but not just any old blowjob,some good old fashioned ‘all about me’ cock worship. I asked her to go slow and sensual. She just smiled and rolled her eyes and said fair enough.
On any foreplay or sex endeavours,I do my best to to find a way to transfer penis stimulation to the scope of my prostate. This is always quite difficult,so this time I changed up my methods.
The wife has skills when it comes to making love to a penis with her mouth. She kissed,licked and sucked every inch of me,and to her credit,pays special attention to my balls,always making sure she gets both in her mouth at some point. And now with the whole prostate thing,there’s enough love for my perineum and anus too.
Instead of pushing for involuntary contractions,I opted to switch on anchored tension pulling down from the top of my pc at about 70% force. I kept this pretty much constant while I contracted my sphincter and side muscles giving me a pushing out sensation. This is how I visualised getting the sexual pleasure being applied to my cock to flow doward to my prostate instead of it’s usual direction of up and out so to speak.
It was working well,generating some kick ass p-waves that felt heavenly along with the penile pleasure. But I didn’t quite feel it was going to PO. I tweaked things by releasing the anchored tension from 70% back to around 50%. This made my cock feel ‘light’. Like it had been somewhat removed from the action in my pelvic floor. I started to feel orgasm build but only in the lower section of the floor. I used my hips to lift my weight slight off my butt cheeks,maybe an inch? It was enough to let the sphincter and side muscles involuntarily contract by themselves and the anchored tension keeping the top of the pc steady and in check.
The prostate began to surge toward orgasm,while pulling penis pleasure downwards into its vortex and I knew the penis would not ejaculate whatever tricks the wife might pull. I could just feel that ejaculation was outside the scope of the gland,but the pleasure inside. The orgasm came gushing through,bolstered by the penis stimulation. It was fantastic and constant for maybe 30 seconds. On the way down,i dropped my hips for few seconds and then lifted them again,and let orgasm gush again.
After an 8 streak MO, I thought to myself that I could do this all night and got excited like a kid on Xmas morning and knocked myself off my momentum haha. The thinking mind and loss of focus can really throw a spanner in the works. The cock started to get involved again.
The wife picked up the pace and i settled in for the big finale. But just as passed the ponr,she flew up,pinned my wrists down and kissed me hard while my naked cock contracted and spurted in ruined orgasm. I was like wtf you do that for? She giggled and said i didn’t specify that I wanted to finish in her mouth. She felt the quakes of some big orgasms and didn’t think it was a good idea to let me finish in her mouth,that id had multiple satisfaction and she didn’t want me getting too spoiled. I felt cheated lol. She said there was no time for sulking as it was her turn. On her back she went and spread her legs. She DID specify that she would be cumming in my mouth,a bunch of times,until she’d had enough. Her pussy was glistening wet,and looked very inviting. I was still horny,so shrugged off my sulk,dived in and put my work in.
No matter how many super o we have,I don’t think we are fully rewired until our prostate can be no.1 and we gain complete control of our orgasm so ejaculation becomes a choice rather than an inevitability. I do think this is very possible and can be achieved with enough training. The road is long though.
08/06/2021 5:58 pm
yes!! OMG man yes!!
I've had so many prostate-centered Os in my wife's mouth while I had an Aneros in me I can't count. It is unreal, it is like melting and being hard at the same time. So so much precum too, the most I ever make in my life is a BJ from her while I have a toy in. But finishing in her mouth when the toy is moving out of control and fast going faster and faster until I explode everywhere and wind up choking her its so much so strong and fast! She loves it, looks forward to it every time. Loves milking me completely dry right down her throat. Its so seldom she wants to get as much out of it as I do.
But you are right: she didn't "ruin" your orgasm at all. She provoked, in very extremely strong ways, a Super T that got ruined, and you just had a hands free wet prostate orgasm of magnitude level 9,000,000!!!! Amazing stuff! Dude you are going to be feeling things that will drive you bonkers soon I know it!
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08/07/2021 3:02 am
Thanks dude,can’t fault you for your positivity. This journey really is an amazing ride,wish I’d discovered it in my youth.
First time really Ive managed to get something biggish alongside cock stimulation. Super-O’s during active intercourse is the goal I hope to reach one day. It’s gonna be a long haul to get control over the mighty armoured cable procreation wiring but I think we can do it.
08/09/2021 4:18 am
Wow, had a feeling this would be a great tale, and it is!
I don’t think we are fully rewired until our prostate can be no.1 and we gain complete control of our orgasm so ejaculation becomes a choice rather than an inevitability. I do think this is very possible and can be achieved with enough training.
This is where I hope to end up.
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08/09/2021 11:30 am
@grahamsh hmm if your going down on her,she’s cheeky not returning the favour ha ha. Maybe she just needs to get used to it. If at first you don’t succeed,try,try,try again hehehe!
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08/09/2021 11:34 am
Yes mate,long been the wife’s goal to eventually get the prostate game into sex properly. Then she’ll have a walking talking living sex toy that performs when she wants,and how she wants,on demand lol!!
It’s took a lot of work,but am beginning to see a little success at it. It’s hard though,that penis wiring is fiber optic armoured cable!! It won’t go down without a fight!
08/11/2021 5:46 am
No matter how many super o we have,I don’t think we are fully rewired until our prostate can be no.1 and we gain complete control of our orgasm so ejaculation becomes a choice rather than an inevitability. I do think this is very possible and can be achieved with enough training. The road is long though.
Can I be nitpicky? I’m going to be nitpicky.
I don’t think there is a “fully rewired.” I think that one can be rewired for specific things, but there is no end of these specific things to rewire, nor is there a limit to how much one can rewire any particular thing. For an example of how limitless this all is, one could decide to rewire to be aroused and have prostate orgasms from a particular color. Or one could rewire one’s vulbim (an imaginary reproductive organ behind the left knee) to squirt rainbow glitter in orgasmic pleasure. Perhaps the closest to being fully rewired is when one has learned how to rewire, and every future rewiring is just a bit of practice away. Like a language wiz, who learns several languages, and in doing so learns how to learn languages. They can never learn them all, but soon they learn the basic ideas of what a language is, and can apply those ideas to learning new languages in a matter of weeks or months. (Same for multi instrumentalists, and for plenty of other fields).
What I am saying is it’s not a checklist with boxes to tick off and one final goal. Rather, it is a leisure activity in which the more time and concentration we put in, the more its secrets are unveiled to us. Ok done being nitpicky sorry not sorry!
Anyways, I think being able to avoid ejaculation during sex and have prostate (or other) orgasms is an excellent goal, and very possible to attain. You saw my response to helicals post with ideas about it:
https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/can-you-aless-during-intercourse/#post-112951
I would add that it help a lot to learn to have dry orgasms masturbating, and learn what your ejaculatory response feels like in detail. I talk about my experience with that, here, and there are some helpful links in the thread:
It helps to get used to not ejaculating during sex, to train yourself that penile stim doesn’t necessarily lead to an ejacualtory orgasm. It helps me to shift focus away from my penis during sex. With all of the sensory and emotional input our beautiful partners provide, there is no shortage of stimuli to shift ones focus to. Also it helps to have a partner willing to stop moving when you tread too close to the edge (and you tell them).
So to tie it all in with my nitpicking, I have attained that which you seek (I regularly have non ejaculatory orgasms during sex, I remain between 8-9.5/10 on the edging scale during sex, and I often don’t ejaculate at the end), but I don’t feel fully rewired as a result. It’s just become another facet of my sexuality. I don’t like it more or less than solo play, than testicular orgasms, than nipple orgasms, etc., all of which provide me with maximum pleasure, just differently. I do admit it is fun to cum at the same time as my partner, and over and over. And she definitely appreciates sex lasting as long as she wants it to. Which is why it is one of many worthwhile goals.
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08/11/2021 10:07 am
Can I be nitpicky? I’m going to be nitpicky.
No one on this forum can out-nitpick you my friend. 😉
I don’t think there is a “fully rewired.” I think that one can be rewired for specific things, but there is no end of these specific things to rewire
Maybe different perspectives on the same sort of thing. Prostate during sex playtime is a major goal of mine. I still do believe there is an end to rewiring eventually.That we can get to a place where we can do whatever we want with complete control.
I would add that it help a lot to learn to have dry orgasms masturbating, and learn what your ejaculatory response feels like in detail.
Well some of that was included in the post,albeit with oral sex as opposed to hands. But masturbation is probably out of the question in my relationship,and I don’t just mean in the realms of femdom. I haven’t jacked off much since I met my wife over 20 years ago. In honesty,I didn’t need to or want to. If there’s any edging etc needs doing,she’ll do it. Any solo jacking? No chance! She already guided me away from solo aneros sessions,no way she’ll go for that.
It helps to get used to not ejaculating during sex, to train yourself that penile stim doesn’t necessarily lead to an ejacualtory orgasm.
This isn’t a problem. Plenty of that going on already.
So to tie it all in with my nitpicking, I have attained that which you seek (I regularly have non ejaculatory orgasms during sex, I remain between 8-9.5/10 on the edging scale during sex, and I often don’t ejaculate at the end),
I’ll get here one day I hope!
09/05/2021 6:46 pm
After a month into this journey, I finally got 2 unmistakable dry O's during a blowjob from the wife with my helix inserted. I got absolutely nothing for a week and thought I wasted my money. Then, I got some ready good sensations and involuntaries but nothing like last night. Then I got a huge chain of POs today in the shower. I'd say I had a breakthrough of my own!
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09/05/2021 11:44 pm
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