binaural beats?

So...I'm inviting my friend Mary Jane over for a session tonight, which will be the first time we've done this together. I cannot freaking wait. I have a bunch of things to do and I just can't wait for it to be over so I can get started. Anyway...I am thinking of adding in some binaural beats. I've seen a little here about this, so I'm sorry if this is rehashing something, but the thread I found was old and most of the links dead. Two questions:

1) Have guys who used binaural beats found it helps at all?
2) Any suggestions for links to beats you like? I find on YouTube that most things I find have pictures of women orgasming as the static photo, and hey that's cool but I happen to be gay as the day is long and I'm wondering too if there are any beats specifically for a gay man, although they may just be the same thing and I'm asking a stupid question. I mean, while shoving something up your butt is not gay, imagining that the thing up your butt is a big old dick is definitely super gay, and I am often imagining that during an aneros session. Ha. 🙂

Thanks to anyone who feels like answering. You can PM me too if for some reason you prefer it. Thanks!