Arousal frequency

It does come and go a bit. I had a great night last night as far as orgasming goes, today I don't feel very orgasmic nothing really happening, but then I've been working a lot and not getting enough sleep.
Could it be stress or lack of sleep? Are you looking after yourself eating well and exercising enough?

The recent thread on 'multi-orgasmic man' describes the microcosmic orbit with a link to how to do it - that can build my arousal quite nicely if I want to use it for that. Perhaps give that a try?

I think this is just a phase which could be a result of your circumstances. I usually achieve at least 4 sessions a week and I find them to be additive e.g. I may have a short session say an hour and I am rocking and rolling. Then break off for maybe an hour then go again. Within 10 mins I am rocking and rolling again and build to even higher heights.

During my journey it did use to take me a long time to get going. But I would limit myself to short sessions. My body soon got to know that if it didn't give me pleasure soon I would stop. I then found I was feeling good sessions within 10 mins.

It all goes in cycles. I just passed my peak arousal which usually takes place the week leading up to the full moon. Now, I'm in a bit of a dry spell after being able to have orgasms within seconds of trying last week. Before that, I was in a phase where I didn't feel sexual at all. I think we all have cycles that we don't really pay attention to, unless there is a reason.

No I also mean in general too. For example my balls have been empty for many weeks, like I'm not producing much semen...

As @orgazmo says definitely cycles. I also think there is something in the 'rewiring' theory because anytime I go through a slightly less sexual phase my body then throws something even better at me, as if it was taking a break getting ready for the next phase.If you aren't producing much cum either you are dehydrated or your libido is just going through a suppressed phase. Libido is linked to your emotional state. Are you sure there isn't anything else causing you to be upset/angry/down.

I think it's actually more simple an answer. Recently I've been having more sex, when i ejaculate now it is incredibly intense. My lady stated that when I came (withdrew and came on her) that I was cumming in buckets. The orgasm was so intense I cannot even adequately describe it here, it also lasted a good 20-30 seconds In which time I was writhing around shooting every drop of semen I had and emptying my Prostate as well.

This is what is happening, I'm emptying all my prostate and it is also possibly doing something with my hormones simultaneously, like its draining that too. Note: the ejacualtory orgasm I have from sex is the most intense thing I've ever known, it continues to be absolutely mind blowing, however the last one I had went on for so long, pulsing so powerfully that my prostate began to 'sting' like it was far too much for it...

All this makes it longer for me to get into a sufficiently aroused state

I've noticed my clean up has gotten more tedious recently. Even when I don't use the aneros or have an a-less session, I'm cumming a lot more than I used to. Of course it could be from my diet and drinking more. It used to only take 1 tissue to clean up, now it is taking 2 or 3.

It's because you are probably emptying your prostate too. Like I say i know when this happens because when I ejaculate my orgasms are stratospheric and I seem to shoot as long as I'm doing so, hence the volume.

@Sorena_ at least there is a good reason for it. Maybe learn how to have non ejaculatory orgasms during sex?

@Sorena_ at least there is a good reason for it. Maybe learn how to have non ejaculatory orgasms during sex?

If you had experienced these super wet o's you would not want anything else, nothing else has ever topped this level of intensity. Learning that sounds tricky and is the first time I've heard anyone mention it.

As long as you are happy that's good, they sound amazing, just a suggestion about the non-ejacultory orgasms - no, not easy and unlikely to be as good as what you are having without a lot of practice.

As long as you are happy that's good, they sound amazing, just a suggestion about the non-ejacultory orgasms - no, not easy and unlikely to be as good as what you are having without a lot of practice.

I wouldnt say happy exactly, they're incredible yes, but I would rather have continual dry or super o's like you have, sadly I've yet to match such an experience through just solely aneros usage.