Are you jealous of the female orgasm?

Hi @7b00543c I have experienced a "fantasy" along these lines, which you may want to read. "Are You Ready For Me? - A Metaphysical Intercourse Fantasy".

I was always jealous of the females ability to have multiple orgasms and that's what lead my internet search for a male equivalent. I eventually found the aneros and have never looked back. I would say that most females would be jealous of my super O abilities. Bliss is possible for both male and female.

The word jealousy is a bit too strong for what I feel... I don't feel resentment or anything negative. What I feel is more along the lines of "Wow, wouldn't that be great?"
What I've experienced with the aneros has made me feel less like I'm missing out on something. I see it all as potential. We know we're not biologically limited to traditional penis-stimulation orgasms, and that's something to be positive about.

NO!

If there may have been thoughts of jealousy of the female orgasm in the past my Super-Os have washed them away, leaving behind a grin from ear to ear.

@7b00543c,

Similar questions have been raised on this forum in the past, I encourage you to read the thread Biggest obstacle: Envy for the oh-so-special female orgasm = huge pressure and especially the thread Some serious questions.... These two threads garnered numerous responses, exhibiting some good wisdom and pathos dealing with this topic.

Would you swap your super-O for the ability to have female orgasms? (purely from seeing the physical response of female partners when you see them orgasm)

NO, now that I also have the ability to have multiple orgasms.

Have you ever been jealous of the female orgasm?

YES, prior to learning about the power of prostate massage.

If you have been jealous of the female orgasm, has having a super-o reduced your jealousy?

ABSOLUTELY !

Good Vibes to You !

I can safely say that I do not envy the female orgasm anymore.

By the time I met my wife many years ago I had learned the art of male multiple orgasms and being able to separate orgasm and ejaculation. After our last child was born, we got into a one-sided form of Karezza [woman climaxes, man does not] which satisfies her, keeps sex from lasting for hours and is awesome for me as well, although she cannot understand why 🙂

Yes for now, didn't get anything extraordinary yet

As far as I can tell, I am experiencing female orgasms, so, no, not jealous.

Darwin

As far as I can tell, I am experiencing female orgasms, so, no, not jealous.

This!

Hey @donpelon ,

your post sounds a bit alarming. 🙁

I have always been green with envy at the female sexual response and their ability to have multiple orgasms.
I just die inside- wishing I could just once know what they are experiencing. I would give ANYTHING for it... Not Fair!!!

Exactly that was my motivation to start with the aneros years ago.

In the end, I think its too much pressure on the whole experience and desperately WANTING it to work.

Yep, wise words. Pressure (and high expectations) kills everything and keeping a positive mindset can be very tiring. You are simply not in the present when you constantly think of what you expect to happen. I don't know how much different approaches you tried, but keep in mind that the aneros is called "Tantric Training Wheels" for a reason. What you acutally learn are tantric techniques and the aneros "just" acts as a promoter. Have you tried other tantric techniques yet? KSMO works very well for many users or kundalini yoga or erotic hypnosis or amygdala clicking. Or maybe read "Urban Tantra" by Barbara Carrellas. It's cram-full with different tantric practices she learned over the course of decades.

IMHO the key to success is to get to know your body. To get in touch with your nervous system. To learn how to breath, to relax properly, to meditate and to fall into trance. Learn to be present. The nerves in my pelvic floor only truly woke up after I did a strict kegel workout for 3 months. I learned to recognize and control the different muscles down there and by playing with them I had my first pleasure waves and light orgasms. My last arrow in the quiver would be a tip from @zaneblue , which is to add fishoil/omega-3 to your diet for a few weeks. It may or may not work wonders, so you may give it a shot.

Cheers, Unfug

So I haven't reached the super-o yet but I did experience my first prostate orgasm on my third session and it was mind blowing. But knowing it's just the beginning and there's even more pleasure that I can experience I definitely would not swap. Question 2, I have thought about women being able to have longer orgasms but it's never made feel jealous just that their lucky.:)

So I haven't reached the super-o yet but I did experience my first prostate orgasm on my third session and it was mind blowing.

Going by the advice on this forum, espeically from neros thread, you HAVE had a super-o. Also saying that the pleasure is going to increase/get better and that you are looking forward to that happening, while a positive thought moving forward, is putting the pressure of expectation which can only really lead to a negative end.

Good luck though.

Going by the advice on this forum, espeically from neros thread, you HAVE had a super-o. Also saying that the pleasure is going to increase/get better and that you are looking forward to that happening, while a positive thought moving forward, is putting the pressure of expectation which can only really lead to a negative end.

Good luck though.

I don't know I ended up ejackulating from the prostate massage and I thought the super-o was a non ejaculatory orgasm?

Going by the advice on this forum, espeically from neros thread, you HAVE had a super-o. Also saying that the pleasure is going to increase/get better and that you are looking forward to that happening, while a positive thought moving forward, is putting the pressure of expectation which can only really lead to a negative end.

Good luck though.

This is true I thought because I experienced it that my other sessions would build on that one but no. Sessions are completely random we don't know what to expect.

LOL, no. Most people (men or women) have not had a true orgasm from my experience. The helpful people on this forum have helped me see the light. My experiences are different every time, but they are always good.