Any Regret to Awaking Your Prostate?

I’m beginning to regret it. No unwanted emissions so far, but I get this constant stiffness in my head which I’m certain at this point is prostate o related and it’s pretty debilitating. I keep hoping maybe it’s something I can just push through that’ll go away, but it’s been happening for months now. The orgasms are great, but they’re not worth whatever this is.

Plus it’s hard to sleep sometimes because I get muscle spasms all over my body when I lay down, especially in the lower stomach, even after masturbating normally.

I have sciatica that may be related to the use of Aneros but I love of prostate orgasms so much that I can live with it.

Buddha, Thanks for sharing your experience. How long have you been using the Aneros? It’s been less than a month for me.

My main worry is having an O, mini or super, at an inconvenient time and place.

Been in this for about 3 years. I would tell anyone looking at trying this to be careful if you have an addictive personality. As far as pain and stiffness goes, time doing aneros is time not in the gym. You have to exercise and stretch. Your muscles can get tight laying around spasming from your orgasms. If nothing else take up a yoga class and learn the basics like sun salutations and do them. Keep your body healthy so you can enjoy your sessions and your sex lives. But also remember that there is more to life than chasing pleasure. Try and keep your life balanced.

My only regret is not discovering the pleasures of prostate orgasm sooner! I haven’t experienced any of the downsides others attribute to Aneros use/prostate orgasm.

My wonder about the journey, will it lead to uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime without the device? My main worry is having an O, mini or super, at an inconvenient time and place.

NO ! your Aneros use will not (most likely) lead to "... uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime...", you will always (almost) have the ability to shut the orgasms down through force of your own will. However, with that being said, I also need to note that once you have awakened your prostate it may never go back to sleep.
All manner of tingling, twitches, small spasms/contractions will spontaneously occur at times, including short periods of what we term 'butt buzz' (please see the Aneros WIKI Glossary). None of these will be apparent to the people around you and they are easily assuaged away when your mental energy gets focused elsewhere. It is when your mind is not heavily engaged in other activities that these spontaneous feelings may most often arise. Being in the Alpha-Theta brain wave state (e.g. 'day dreaming') is an ideal mind set for this to occur. If you have the time, then, you can really indulge yourself in an Anerosless session.

You can't unring the bell of an awakened prostate but you can enjoy the resulting pleasure waves indefinitely. Good Vibes to You !

Hello rumel,

Thanks for all advice. I’ve notice more sensations from being aware of my prostate by using the Aneros.

I was surprised from the feelings from the last session when it seemed to generate good feelings on its own without any kegel excercises.

Might take a break for a while to comtemplate the new feelings focus on the journey ahead.

NO ! your Aneros use will not lead to "... uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime...", you will always have the ability to shut the orgasms down through force of your own will.

Sorry but i disagree with you here on this point.

No will of mine has ever stopped me orgasming, especially where Aless is concerned. For example I experience regular charigasms without my control or consent, or at times i just get them and they do not stop at any random point in the day.

If i induce aless orgasms they do not stop until they dictate 'theyre done'. I have heard most others in here say the same also.

My only regret is that I didn't figure it all out sooner.

My only regret is that I didn't figure it all out sooner.

Affirmative!

And NO! My Aneros use NEVER led to "... uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime ...",
instead I always had the ability to shut the orgasms down through force of my own will, often it only needed a certain distraction.

Meanwhile I enjoy the ability to have Aless orgasms wherever I want on the chosen level I found conveniant concerning time and place.
Only at the beginning there might have been some vocalizations I couldn't suppress but only because I willingly indulged in Aless during working time.
As sex is a mind thing you have to be in the mood for your Aless. Last week was so busy, I had not any chance to get into the right mood.
Nothing to fear, enjoy!

Might take a break ...

Nevertheless breaks worked great for my further success.
They helped me to deepen my experiences and to pave my new pathways to my blissful paradise in my secret garden (NSFW!) as such erotic hypnosis did.

@The_Fury I stand corrected by your personal experience. Although I have to say from the tens of thousands of posts I've read on this forum, yours is the first one that I can recall claiming having absolutely no control over his orgasms. I have emended my post to reflect your exception.
Good Vibes to You !

Don't worry. Be Happy!

I've worried plenty, when the severe warnings of uncontrolled Kundallini awakening rang true. After the astounding transition, I'd lie in bed unable to sleep, with aless spasms flowing up and down my spine, emanating to twitches in my face and neck, thinking, "WHAT HAVE I DONE".

How would I explain this to medical professionals, treating my bizarre condition. Then, how would I explain this to my wife?

Now, I'm past all that, writing with a Eupho stuffed up my ass, wondering blissfully to and fro. The night-time back spasms are gone, replaced by face spasms. But with the comfort that comes with time, that the awakened sensations, when allowed to peacefully exist, do lead to sleep. And it seems, a more intense sleep with intense dreams like never before.

This thread capture a great sense of it. Allow me to quote and comment:

your Aneros use will not (most likely) lead to "... uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime...", you will always (almost) have the ability to shut the orgasms down through force of your own will. However, with that being said, I also need to note that once you have awakened your prostate it may never go back to sleep.

While the awakening will never interfere with daily activities, you might think it will prevent you from sleep. Embrace the spasms and let them go. You will sleep. Like never before.

Harness the awakening whenever you want, most enjoyably on long plane flights. You can spend hours in bliss - no movies required.

None of these will be apparent to the people around you and they are easily assuaged away when your mental energy gets focused elsewhere. It is when your mind is not heavily engaged in other activities that these spontaneous feelings may most often arise.

Exactly.

As I write, the Eupho continues to inject plesaure like I've never known it. A good margarita is helping me along.

Being in the Alpha-Theta brain wave state (e.g. 'day dreaming') is an ideal mind set for this to occur. If you have the time, then, you can really indulge yourself in an Anerosless session.....You can't unring the bell of an awakened prostate but you can enjoy the resulting pleasure waves indefinitely..... My only regret is that I didn't figure it all out sooner....Instead I always had the ability to shut the orgasms down through force of my own will, often it only needed a certain distraction....Meanwhile I enjoy the ability to have Aless orgasms wherever I want on the chosen level I found conveniant concerning time and place... They helped me to deepen my experiences and to pave my new pathways to my blissful paradise in my secret garden

All the above is perfect.

More to come, in my future post about the journey from ecstatic HFO to TBO and back.

Cheers to all Aneros fans.

@The_Fury I stand corrected by your personal experience. Although I have to say from the tens of thousands of posts I've read on this forum, yours is the first one that I can recall claiming having absolutely no control over his orgasms. I have emended my post to reflect your exception.
Good Vibes to You !

Then i must be unique, and unique in a way that is highly unusual.

Can you explain this control of which you speak? i cant control and ejacualtory orgasm mid orgasm, or when it starts the peak, nobody can, it is the 'point of no return', is it not?

Are you stating that you can stop an aneros less orgasm in its tracks? start and stop at will? is that what these tens of thousands of posts (i hardly think there has been anywhere near that many) have stated?

Here is what I think. I can't stop an orgasm if it's inevitable. However I can probably stop it before it gets to that point. The thing is half your brain or more doesn't want you to stop. But your rational brain may know you have something to do. As many have said, this can become addictive and have given proper warnings. They are true imo. Be careful.

Can you explain this control of which you speak? i cant control and ejaculatory orgasm mid orgasm, or when it starts the peak, nobody can, it is the 'point of no return', is it not? Are you stating that you can stop an aneros less orgasm in its tracks? start and stop at will?

Orgasms exist across a continuum, you build them from moment to moment. As far as I know, one doesn't just suddenly go into orgasm, ejaculatory or otherwise. You have control of the thought processes which lead into orgasm and you decide when you want to allow your arousal to take the steps which lead to orgasmic states. While I understand that our subconscious mind controls much of our behavior and the body has instinctive controls as well, it is your conscious mind which monitors the current status of you and the environment. It is your conscious mind which can change its focus and influence the behavioral action of the body before the body reacts instinctively to the building sensual input leading to triggering an orgasmic response. Your body will give you signals (it's constantly feeding sensory data to the brain) when it is on a path toward orgasm. If you're paying attention to your body's signals, you can apply conscious effort to alter your behavior and have the body go down a different path. That is why I said one won't experience "... uncontrollable O’s anywhere and anytime...". That is the control of which I speak.

If you truly, without intent, spontaneously go into full orgasmic mode, ejaculatory or otherwise, then I would have to say you are truly unique and rare.

...is that what these tens of thousands of posts (i hardly think there has been anywhere near that many) have stated?

Regarding statistics, please see the bottom of the Forums listing page, there are (as of right now) over 12 thousand topics and over 95 thousand posts, I know I've read over half of them. There were less than 6 thousand members when I first joined the Forum, now there are over 55 thousand.
Good Vibes to You !

That is exactly what im saying. I often get charigasms, not through choice... they just happen. Same goes for ones when im just lying in bed, often i get orgasms of an a-less variety and it is not conciously driven. I find that i can get into an orgasm within seconds of lying down or sitting in a chair (its random) and is not directly related to arousal, though if i am aroused it is something that happens more easily.

Ive seen people make posts about this so i know im not the only one but there are few of us. Often i will get aless orgasms while just walking around in town, it must be something to do with body position in there, something is being activiated and its a response to that action. I have no control over it.

Obviously i can induce these orgasms too, but it something i cant stop once i start the process. My most intense aless orgasm occured without my trying. Just lying down and suddenly within 30 seconds or so im orgasming so hard there are tears in my eyes, for hours. Not complaining, but i wasnt activly trying to make it happen, it just happened! Its been this way for *years* for me and now i consider the norm for my body to do be doing. Im even getting a build up of orgasm and warmth spreading through my prostate, ass, balls and legs as i type this and im far from any mindset to be actively making it happen or aroused in any way.

What i find odd is that i dont always get orgasms in aless sessions, in fact its rare if i do! it always happens outside of sessions and in aless more than any session ive ever had with a device.

As for the posts, do you think all those users have posted here and arnt just mulitple posts from the same users? i think some sign up and never post and some sign up, aska question and then leave otherwise these message boards would have hundereds of new topics and replies a day and i really dont see that happening considering i view this site 3-4 times a day.

As for the posts, do you think all those users have posted here and arnt just mulitple posts from the same users? i think some sign up and never post and some sign up, aska question and then leave otherwise these message boards would have hundereds of new topics and replies a day and i really dont see that happening considering i view this site 3-4 times a day.

[/HR]Aneros Community Statistics of today:

Topics: 12,045 Posts: 95,118 Members: 55,705 Active Members: 257

@The_Fury, your counter tells us about 339 posts of yours, nearly 3,000 posts belong only to rumel. That's why I'd agree with your conclusion, making this already my own 575th post. Furthermore a first post quite often begins with, "having lurked for some months/years now I'd dare a first post ..." (to lurk [coll.] [read without commenting or contributing]). Taking your observations as fact we could assume one post to half of the members, no post to the other half, leaving 70,000 posts divided by 250 active members, the result would be 280 posts of each of them. No scientist would call that an adequate sample.

On the one hand this makes one more reason why we must be cautious not to generalize own and more often read experiences, on the other hand it still remains difficult to me to think in your shoes. Admittedly every now and then I feel a buzz from my prostate like just now when rereading my post and adding this sentence. But luckily I decide about letting go or suppressing this feeling, I even can interrupt my Aless session for a ringing phone or door bell as well as I can find back nearly to the same mood I was in before the interruption, if it wasn't too long. Sometimes due to circumstances I was quite in an ON-OFF-mode like with a video you start and pause at will. Lucky me. 🙂

the cases in this thread are not unique. There is media evidence of this. https://gizmodo.com/man-had-so-many-...cor-1821441931

This is like having a super power. But like Uncle Ben told Peter Parker, "with great power comes great responsibility." Like with alcohol, use it responsibly!

You guys are so lucky to have orgasms on demand. I have been using the aneros for almost 2 1/2 years that have led to absolutely Nothing. It has given some good feelings but nothing that has led to any orgasms or anything close to an orgasm. I keep trying in hopes of it working someday. I do have a fairly addictive personality so my guess is I’m lucky I can’t wake my prostate up so to speak. But I sure want to achieve this someday

Three weeks into my Aneros journey in June 2012, I began to experience P-waves which quickly evolved in sustained Aless several weeks later in July 2012. Thus my prostate began to awaken which I regard as an early gift of my Aneros and Aless journey!

What i find odd is that i dont always get orgasms in aless sessions, in fact its rare if i do! it always happens outside of sessions and in aless more than any session ive ever had with a device.

As I noted above, your experience is unique and rare, it is clearly not the typical user report (as I alluded to) and as you yourself acknowledge.

As for the posts, do you think all those users have posted here and arnt just mulitple posts from the same users? i think some sign up and never post and some sign up, aska question and then leave otherwise these message boards would have hundereds of new topics and replies a day and i really dont see that happening considering i view this site 3-4 times a day.

I agree that the majority (more than 50%) of the members of this forum have never posted to the forum and that the majority of those who have posted have posted fewer than 100 times. Nonetheless, that doesn't negate or trivialize the total number or the subject matter of those posts, it just demonstrates the willingness of a certain minority of men to speak openly about their own unique experiences.

On the one hand this makes one more reason why we must be cautious not to generalize own and more often read experiences,

Your point is well taken. There are billions of men in this world and I speculate the vast majority of them have never and will never practice any form of prostate massage much less Aneros use. The members of this forum are indeed a very select minority group of the male population and our related experiences constitute a statistically insignificant percentage of the male population from which any generalizations can or should be made. I admit I am guilty of making some of those generalizations based primarily on the related experiences expressed within the pages of this forum.

My apologies to @KookyKat for not previously responding to the subject line of his thread Any Regret to Awaking Your Prostate?, My answer is a simple NO ! I have no regrets. My main concern was assuaging any fears he may have which would preclude him from experiencing this new form of sensual stimulation thereby limiting his potential for enjoying a much higher degree of pleasure in his life. To the extent some men have reported negative side effects which may or may not be practice related is unfortunate and I hope those men only experience their negative effects for the briefest of periods.

IMHO, the whole topic of prostate massage as related to health and pleasure is grossly under studied. Unfortunately, much of the information we do have about the pleasure aspects is through the anecdotal reports to be found on websites such as this one. My hope is we keep talking about it until a critical mass of opinion encourages some funded scientific scrutiny of this phenomenon.
Good Vibes to You !

@KookyKat Great topic...thanks for starting it. I concur with my fellow Aneros users - no regrets! I'm over a year into my journey and it still feels too good to be true. The only semi-regret I have is the amount of time I spend in my sessions. While that time spent is almost indescribably blissful and relaxing, a couple of hours go by and it feels like a couple of minutes. I often can't help but think of the productivity I have lost, whether that be at work, getting stuff done around the house, etc and there may be some moderate guilt there sometimes. That being said, I wouldn't trade it for anything. I am still in disbelief that I have the privilege of being one of the few who gets to experience this journey and an article that I stumbled upon on a typical summer day last year has changed so much for me!

No regrets for awakening my prostate. Every session opens more doors of elevated pleasurable orgasims. This journey is now part of my lifestyle routine, the energy flow is amazing and combined with semon retention adds tremendous vigour. I wish i had discovered aneros in my younger years, but there’s still plenty ahead to enjoy.

Rumel i dont think i am unique in that capacity really, i think i just experience chairgasms/lying down orgasms as I've seen reported here too.

Any regret to awakening my prostate? not as such, no.

However a better answer or waty of looking at this would be more like saying; any regret to discovering the aneros and that is a more in depth question. The reason being that i have had some tough times where the frustration and actual sadness as a result of the tried and true methods not working whatsoever for many years while other would progress was sometimes too much mentally to bare. So i would say its a 50/50 thing, now its awakened and though i seem to be at its mercy somtimes (not neccessarily a negative thing!) it has been a harrowing and not a particauly fun experience the entire time.

No regrets here!

I’m enjoying the journey. I can’t summon super-Os on demand or anything (yet), but the random mini-Os and p-wave and prostate flutters are an absolute joy!

Thanks for sharing! Have not tried it on about two weeks now. Did not have any orgasms from, only penile orgasm stimulation.

Have some feeling it my perenium and rectal area. Not like pain but annoying.

Feels like it is tempering off a bit, but also feels like it feel it comes back with stress/anxiety like muscle tension and interferes a little with my life.

Any suggestions or start a new thread?

I just wish I had found it 15 years ago.

No regrets. Glad I started the journey.

Pre-Aneros It would take a few days to recover after having sex or just a traditional O. I'd get horny but could ignore it.

Now, when my prostate wants attention, it lets me know and is persistent about it. I dated a woman once who told
me that once she turned thirteen or so and the hormones kicked in, she wanted to screw ANYTHING. If she could
grind on something and get off she would. She said she couldn't get enough and was horny 24/7. I'm starting to
understand what she may have meant.

I have not had space for an Aneros session in over a week and my prostate is letting me know it. What I have had
time for is some nipple stimulation that has resulted in some intense Aless prostate O's. The longer I go without
an Aneros session the faster the nipple stim works and the more intense these orgasms have become.

Watching videos of women masturbating and orgasming gets my prostate hot. Once they actually come I usually have
a little mini-O. Never happened before the prostate awakening.

I do regret not finding out about this earlier. Regret isn't the right word, it means you knew but elected not to follow.
Disappointed is probably a better word.

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