Any help or advice I can get.

It sounds like you are close. My advice is that you need to focus on the feelings you get when you start having the pleasure waves. When they begin to build, get stronger and come on like tidal wave after tidal wave, that's when you are getting it. In my early days of having the prostate orgasm, I didn't watch porn while riding the aneros. I just put on some relaxing sounds, closed my eyes and focused on my breathing and how that impacted the pleasure waves. I focused hard on each one as it passed through my body - it's almost like it fills your body with pleasure until you cannot fill it anymore.

Once I became more familiar with what those sensations meant and how the body progressed to an anal orgasm, I've been able to introduce porn, or play with my wife - situations that aren't as relaxing as solo play, and still have massive anal orgasms. There really is something to the "rewiring" process that you may read about. And for me, that rewiring came when I really harnessed those pleasure waves.

A few other thoughts:

- The "i'm going to cum" and "i need a pee feeling" is natural when the prostate starts spasming. If you touch your perineum, you might even feel it contracting. But that shouldn't be a focus point of your session. Get back to focusing on the intensity of the pleasure waves.
- It doesn't really feel like a traditional orgasm at all, so I was able to work on the intensity of the waves when I stopped thinking about my dick when having a session. When using the strapon with my wife, it's better if she doesn't play with my dick (until I want to have a traditional orgasm)
- For the most part it has been flaccid, even when I've been having orgasm after orgasm. There is oozing of fluid, but for me I've never experienced gushing or squirting.
- For lube, I prefer the gel type lube over the astroglide. I now buy the surgical grade gel on amazon.
- When inserting, I clench down like I'm pushing something out as I slide in. Then when I relax the muscles, it feels like a better hold. Maybe practice kegels early in the session to get a nice grip on the device?
- Vibrations hindered my experience prior to really being rewired. It was almost desensitizing on the P area. Felt nice, but didn't help me get to orgasm. Now my wife might use the vibrator on the tantus feeldoe, but the vibrations aren't really that strong in the main insertable part of the dildo. I'm still having multiple orgasms when busting that out for play.

Thank you for your response. It was good info. Last night I was horny and over come with feelings that I wanted my wife to fuck me with a strap on. What's your take on that

I love it. It was a complicated discussion to have, and took her a long time to warm up to it. Check out Ruby Ryder's pegging paradise podcast for more info generally. She answers every question that there is about using a strapon

@Dogmen, Hmmm, let's go over what you said a bit. "...it has felt..great at times." "I had a session that was...different. It lasted a few hours." "I was feeling amazing..." "I came every where but in actuality I came no where..." "... I should have been soaking wet. But from what was there. There was nothing." I pretty much agree with what @Bhopkins said in his post but fom your description of events. I'd say you had a Super-O, whether you recognized it as such or not, so congratulations are in order .

Has anyone had this feeling. I was completely flaccid as I usually am during my sessions.

Yes, this is quite common and normal.

Is this feeling the true start of what's to come and should I push and try to power through it and keep going next time.

What you felt is the essence of prostate based orgasms but don't be fooled into thinking there is more involved than there is. Please read the thread Super-O Myths & Illusions regarding 'the Edge' and a couple of other myths. Also please read @neros thread The Myth of Super Orgasm. It may also be helpful to read @Buster 's thread What exactly is a Super-O? to get a wider perspective of what a Super-O is in reality.

Also is there any tips or tricks or other units that one would suggest that work better than what I have.

Each Aneros massager has its own performance characteristics, it is really a matter of experimenting with each one to find the models which work best for you. I sent you an introductory PM with some additional tips to help you along your journey, click on your 'Messages' button to retrieve it.

I usually use about 30 mls of astroglide (water based) if I'm using the helix syn and 30 mils of astroglide (silicone based) if I'm using the peridise or my orgasm ice. Is this enough lube.

That should be more than adequate, it might even be a bit too much, probably 10ml will suffice.

Also another thing I have noticed that happens is sometimes my ass gets that feeling that I have to shit so bad it contracts so hard almost to hold it in. But usually my ass will squeeze out alot of the lube.

The 'urge to purge' may be a reaction to some of the chemicals in your lube as well as the volume of fluid you are injecting. Try using a different lube and volume in future sessions to see if that changes for you.

So am I doing any thing wrong in any area are these all normal Things. Any feed back would be great.

I don't think you are doing anything wrong per se, you just may need to do some more alternate experimentation and allow your mind to accept prostate based orgasms as essentially different from penile based orgasms.

Last night I was horny and over come with feelings that I wanted my wife to fuck me with a strap on. What's your take on that?

@Ruby Rider 's websites Pegging: 101 & Pegging Paradise are both excellent resources for pegging information. You may also want to take a look at the thread Pegging (with over 800 response/posts {the most on this forum} this thread can take awhile to load).
Good Vibes to You !