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10/19/2022 10:13 am
Sorry for yet another newbie post. I have read through a lot of posts here and I do have a couple questions.
I started this journey watching after seeing a HFO without stimulation video and I wanted to try it. I tried a few times with no luck and ended up jerking myself off. I don't think I can get into that state of mind where I can cum by thoughts alone. After reading online it seemed the consensus for a HFO was to use an Aneros. I debated cheaper options (tried what I had already for prostate stimulation) but finally took the plunge. I found a slightly better price for a Progasm Classic...debated that or the Helix. Maybe I should have started with the Helix but I have some of practice with anal play (vibrator, dildo, boyfriend..) so I was confident I could handle the Progasm with little trouble.
When my progasm arrived it was actually smaller than I expected. I was eager to try it out but had to wait for my teenage kids to be in bed so I could have some privacy (in the meantime I used my bidet to clean up). Finally they were settled so I went to bed and tried it out. I used some Doc Johnson Anal Jelly and I had no trouble getting it in and it felt good in place. Laying naked on my back I tried to follow the recommended time to let my body get used to it, then slow squeezes with lighter pressure..and slowly increased to about 50% which seemed to feel ok. I really had very little sensation from it but I kept going. I certainly had moments that felt like I might be getting somewhere but they passed. ONe time it was feeling pretty good..but to me felt like I was jerking off a tiny little dick at the very back of my dick. Is that how prostate stimulation feels? The odd time I was quivering and felt a bit of buildup but it didn't last. I did enjoy how much precum was leaking which excited me. At times I was hard..mostly soft. I certainly wasn't 100% in the zone because I could hear every time my kids used the bathroom or opened their doors. After a couple of hours it was late so I had to give up. Of course I didn't expect the big Super 'O' on my first attempt..but I was hopeful I'd get something. I know I have to keep expectations low. I thought I'd leave it in for the night. I didn't sleep well and did have a bit of a dirty dream but no magic wet dream (I've never ever had one). I woke up around 1:30am and thought I'd give it another try since I was half asleep and calm..but no luck. Tried again around 3 or 4am..also not much for results.
Last night I decided to try vaseline after reading posts here. I thought maybe I'd get a bit of a head start by putting it in a bit earlier while I was watching some TV (after using bidet). My kids were still up so I just sat on my recliner and they had no idea. Nothing magical happened but it still felt nice. Walking around preparing for bed, doing dishes etc made me think a nice walk might feel good..may have to try that sometime.
Finally my kids went to bed so I locked myself in my room and gave it a try. I played a binaural beats youtube video with headphones to help focus and mask over distraction sounds. This time I started on my right side..legs bend up..top leg bent a bit higher. I left my underwear on this time and covered myself up so be comfortable. I tried to focus on the feelings and kept it in my mind to focus on the feeling..not chase it..embrace it. So hard to do! I stared trying to think how the mild sensations were affecting me in my head, arms, legs...but ended up just focusing on my the feelings in my core/prostate. Again it kind of felt like the back of my dick was being slightly stimulated. I tried to keep my attention on that feeling and I did feel a slight energy radiating. Eventually I was feeling like I was approaching a climax...waist quivering...feeling good. Not a strong feeling, but certainly an approach to something. Of course then my mind wanders and I think "I hope I get to orgasm"..which seems to ruin it. I eventually got there again and then heard the bathroom door next to my room as my kid went to the bathroom. That was it..no climax.
I started over on my back with a pillow under my butt and legs bent up with feet flat (read about that position here). It felt good and eventually I worked my way to the good feeling and a bit of quivering (maybe I am just doing that myself..not the feelings making me quiver?). I found myself doing a humping motion so I thought I'd imagine I was fucking or being fucked to help but it didn't get as good as before and hearing more distractions it passed. I tried my left side and couldn't get there. I tried my right side again but it was not working for me any more. It was getting late so I decided this session was over and went to sleep (left my Progasm in again overnight).
Of course I know I'm only 2 sessions in so I can't expect amazing results yet..but I hoped I'd get lucky. I hope my age doesn't make things harder for me?? I never have issues with erections or having penis orgasms several times a day so I feel I should be able to get there.
A couple of questions I have... will I get more sensation as I "awaken" the prostate? Will they be more consistent? What I get now seems to come and go..and I get...sparks of feelings off and on. Are those nerve/brain connections trying to figure things out? Sometimes I can't tell if it's a good feeling, very slight pain..or what? If sensation does improve..will this process be more consistent and easy to achieve in the future?
I will try to do this a few times a week for sure. I will take the night off tonight (trying every day won't help?). And in the meantime I will try to refrain from ejaculation orgasms although if working the Aneros lead to one of those hands free I'd be happy with the progress. I know being distraction free and focus are key to this..hard to pull off with a small home and teenagers. When I don't have my kids, most nights, I stay with my boyfriend so also no alone time to try this. He'd have no problem with me trying..or maybe even helping but I'd have to concentrate so I don't think that would work.
Although I am only 2 sessions in..I guess mostly I just need some encouragement. Seems like such an accepting helpful community here!
10/20/2022 12:36 am
Sorry for yet another newbie post.
There's no need to be sorry, we were all newbies at one time 
. While your choice of the Progasm as a first model is not usually made for newbies, your prior anal experience should make learning with that model fine. As you get more experienced you will probably want to try other models.
One time it was feeling pretty good..but to me felt like I was jerking off a tiny little dick at the very back of my dick. Is that how prostate stimulation feels?
Early user sensations can be very subtle but as you learn to focus on those sensations their apparent intensity will grow until they eventually lead you into orgasm. Every Anerosession is going to be unique and users frequently remark about the ebb and flow of their pleasure waves, be patient and understand that is very typical. Increased pre-cum production and erections which come and go is also normal.
I tried to keep my attention on that feeling and I did feel a slight energy radiating. Eventually I was feeling like I was approaching a climax...waist quivering...feeling good. Not a strong feeling, but certainly an approach to something. Of course then my mind wanders and I think "I hope I get to orgasm"..which seems to ruin it.
Yeah 'mind noise' can ruin any session so trying to avoid that is imperative but the good news is you were definitely getting a response from your body.
Of course I know I'm only 2 sessions in so I can't expect amazing results yet..but I hoped I'd get lucky. I hope my age doesn't make things harder for me??
Your age should not be a factor but it is important to keep expectations low while keeping hopes high. Diligence and practice and patience are all you need.
A couple of questions I have... will I get more sensation as I "awaken" the prostate?
NO and YES. No, in that the physical pressure your massager provides is not going to change much from day one through years of use. Yes, in that your ability to focus on the sensations and amplify them with your mind makes for a perceived difference of increased sensation.
Will they be more consistent?
Yes, most likely but there are always going to be 'dud' sessions occasionally.
What I get now seems to come and go..and I get...sparks of feelings off and on. Are those nerve/brain connections trying to figure things out? Sometimes I can't tell if it's a good feeling, very slight pain..or what?
Yeah, you are starting the 'rewiring' process, there are going to be numerous new sensations that your brain has to come to terms with as your mind assigns pleasure to them.
I will try to do this a few times a week for sure. I will take the night off tonight (trying every day won't help?).
IMHO, I don't recommend daily use and I see little value in nighttime use though some members do.
And in the meantime I will try to refrain from ejaculation orgasms although if working the Aneros lead to one of those hands free I'd be happy with the progress.
Many members have found the practice of semen retention to be helpful in their quest to get to prostate orgasms (please see Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention).
When I don't have my kids, most nights, I stay with my boyfriend so also no alone time to try this. He'd have no problem with me trying..or maybe even helping but I'd have to concentrate so I don't think that would work.
Initially, working on your 'rewiring' by yourself is probably a good idea but I highly recommend getting your partner involved by discussing what you are trying to accomplish and once you've had some successes, a loving partner's participation can prove invaluable in heightening arousal and adding stimulation that can push you through the door to a Super-O.
Although I am only 2 sessions in..I guess mostly I just need some encouragement.
It sounds to me like you've got a good attitude and will be successful as you move forward. Do some more reading here, I invite you to read the Introductory Message to New Members which has a few hints and tips to facilitate your learning journey with the Aneros. There are links to further helpful information contained therein. Welcome to your new brotherhood.
Good Vibes to You!
10/20/2022 4:15 am
Early user sensations can be very subtle but as you learn to focus on those sensations their apparent intensity will grow until they eventually lead you into orgasm.
@hankey01 Welcome. You instantly were some rungs up the ladder which I was not when I first tried. @rumel is a hard act to follow in terms of adding something beyond his terrific posts.
Be aware that the sensations leading to orgasm and orgasm itself are experienced differently: think the prostate “arousal curve” ’s buildup and timing. They are in a mostly different location in the pelvis than an ordinary ejaculatory orgasm. Sensations are of a different, but wonderful nature, (or flavor?). Going over “the top” is also different. It is not of the faster/harder kind and mentality which can be helpful for ordinary ejaculatory orgasms.
Just relax, observe and enjoy whatever your body gives you. The focus in session is not on orgasm, or thinking “how can I get there?”
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10/20/2022 8:58 am
Thank you @rumel and @helical for the kind replies. I am so happy to see such an accepting and encouraging group! I have read through the Introductory messages and hints..will check out the Semen Retention link ASAP! I did spend the night at my boyfriend's place last night and held off. I'll certainly involve him in my future sessions but I feel I need to learn a lot first. I talked to him about it last night and suggested he may want to consider trying one as well to enhance his performance (he has some erection/testosterone issues). I doubt he'd ever try though. His back door is mostly off limits. I told him lots of straight guys use them too! I did miss the sensations last night, of having the progasm in, so I look forward to try #3 tonight. 🙂 My plan tonight it to use the first Mindgasm lesson to relax myself first. I'll try to focus on the good feeling and nothing else. TRY not to think about getting over the edge and just enjoy the ride..(easier said than done).
I got a very mild cannibus gummy to also try tonight. I tried one last night to see how I would feel but didn't feel anything. Maybe it will help me relax a bit and enjoy my session..hopefully.
I don't think I'll sleep with it in any more. I didn't get much out of that except a bad night sleep.
I didn't see anyone posting about going for walks with an Aneros? I would think the side to side brushing as you walk should generate some good feelings? Although I'd hate to be in public and experience my first intense feelings I can't hide. 😉 I've also seen some people who wear it around the house and saw one person who had their first intense/overwhelming wave while doing dishes. I'll keep experimenting. Is it worth just having in while I watch TV? As a newb..I need to focus on the feelings..not Unsolved Mysteries? 😉
Thanks again for the support! Appreciate it so much! I hope someday I have some great updates!
10/20/2022 9:48 am
I am so happy to see such an accepting and encouraging group!
Yup, without which, I may have quit steps beyond the starting gate.
My opinion is some withholding of ordinary masturbation is helpful, but I didn’t need to go cold turkey.
Daily sessions are not important to progress. Helpful consolidation may occur during periods of rest. It may be early yet to detect this, but see if your body gives you some subtle sign as to when to try again.
Maybe also try enjoying/progressing without aid of gummies- it is entirely possible. Because like above, not throwing too much at your body may help.
Yes, a little walking. Sometimes it’s mere steps from the bathroom to a bed and something good’s brewing.
My opinion is, forget about use during TV. A principle is awareness of some- a little or a lot- of arousal stirring. Yet hardness is not necessary. So let’s not “set it and forget it”. Some may beg to differ, your mileage may vary.
Oh, I see you’re a Mindgasm-er too. In some lessons, they mention “a toy”. Perhaps stick mostly to one “school”. In the end, the approaches complement each other. But it is not necessary to rush to find that conclusion for yourself. Like above I’m trying to encourage you to not throw the kitchen sink at your body. Even if you take a slow and steady approach, these can be some amazing times of observation for you.
Take ‘yer time.
10/20/2022 9:58 am
Also, I beg to differ, “No luck so far”. In time you may come to edit the thread title, as I had for mine.
A key to success is belief in yourself and what you feel. Even if you at first think it’s a “fake feeling”, or a “fake quivering”, would it matter, so long as you enjoy it?! Fake away, onward and upward!
So don’t weigh yourself down with a mischaracterization of “no luck”.
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10/20/2022 10:06 am
@helical thank you for the course corrections. You are right..I may be throwing too much at myself for now. I have never used Mindgasm..just read a bit about it yesterday. I pretty much just need a way to relx and focus and masl outside sounds so I can concentrate,. Hoping Mindgasm will do that?
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10/20/2022 10:08 am
Also, I beg to differ, “No luck so far”. In time you may come to edit the thread title, as I had for mine.
A key to success is belief in yourself and what you feel. Even if you at first think it’s a “fake feeling”, or a “fake quivering”, would it matter, so long as you enjoy it?! Fake away, onward and upward!
So don’t weigh yourself down with a mischaracterization of “no luck”.
Thank you again! I hope to edit my title some day!!
That's a good point..real or fake...as log as I enjoy it...doesn't matter. 🙂
10/20/2022 10:17 am
A principle is relaxation helps sensitivity. So nothing wrong with a bit of that, by whatever sober (my opinion) method you like. The Mindgasm Equilibrium Meditation is also well-done.
I there seem to be few hard and fast rules, so I humbly say mine aren’t course corrections, but opinions. In the end, “All roads lead to Rome”, and “The methods are many, the principles, few.”
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10/20/2022 11:11 am
Attribution, expansion:
As to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.
-Harrington Emerson
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10/20/2022 11:20 am
Attribution, expansion:
As to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.
-Harrington Emerson
Love it! Don't get caught up in the details...focus on the goal! In this case that great feeling inside! 🙂
10/20/2022 12:34 pm
welcome to the group. I stand corrected,there’s 11 of us now 😉
I started this journey watching after seeing a HFO without stimulation video and I wanted to try it. I tried a few times with no luck and ended up jerking myself off. I don't think I can get into that state of mind where I can cum by thoughts alone.
Ok,I’m unsure if you mean ejaculate without touching your dick or having a prostate based orgasm (orgasm without ejaculating). If it was the former,forget it. It’s good,but non-ejaculatory orgasms are better. Multiple o’s are better,and super o’s are better still.
I really had very little sensation from it but I kept going. I certainly had moments that felt like I might be getting somewhere but they passed. ONe time it was feeling pretty good..but to me felt like I was jerking off a tiny little dick at the very back of my dick. Is that how prostate stimulation feels? The odd time I was quivering and felt a bit of buildup but it didn't last. I did enjoy how much precum was leaking which excited me. At times I was hard..mostly soft. I certainly wasn't 100% in the zone because I could hear every time my kids used the bathroom or opened their doors.
Fairly typical to feel little the first few weeks. For the few fleeting feelings you did get,believe it or not,this is good progress. If your door locks,you’ll need a little mental discipline to block out kid noise. Otherwise,you’ll be limited to empty house sessions.
I stared trying to think how the mild sensations were affecting me in my head, arms, legs...but ended up just focusing on my the feelings in my core/prostate. Again it kind of felt like the back of my dick was being slightly stimulated. I tried to keep my attention on that feeling and I did feel a slight energy radiating. Eventually I was feeling like I was approaching a climax...waist quivering...feeling good. Not a strong feeling, but certainly an approach to something. Of course then my mind wanders and I think "I hope I get to orgasm"..which seems to ruin it.
Yes,that’s things started to move,this is good,and you need to ride this wave. Relaxing is even more important in the mind than the body. “I hope this is it” is expectation,again,you’ll have to control this. Focus on the good feeling,don’t try to push it,forget orgasm,don’t try to find it,it will find you,just enjoy things in the moment,live in the now. Again,you must try to forget the doors opening and closing.
Of course I know I'm only 2 sessions in so I can't expect amazing results yet..but I hoped I'd get lucky. I hope my age doesn't make things harder for me?? I never have issues with erections or having penis orgasms several times a day so I feel I should be able to get there.
A little semen retention would help,ejacualtion 3 times a day will likely not. Unless you have a partners needs to see too,sack the ejacualtions off for a little while as you train.
A couple of questions I have... will I get more sensation as I "awaken" the prostate? Will they be more consistent? What I get now seems to come and go..and I get...sparks of feelings off and on. Are those nerve/brain connections trying to figure things out? Sometimes I can't tell if it's a good feeling, very slight pain..or what? If sensation does improve..will this process be more consistent and easy to achieve in the future?
No,more sensation doesn’t come with awakening,it comes as you build focus to quiet your mind more and more so that it focuses on arousal and pleasure and not on doors and future orgasm. From your descriptions,the machinery is firing,but your mind is not yet synced up with it. When it is,game time.
I stay with my boyfriend so also no alone time to try this. He'd have no problem with me trying..or maybe even helping but I'd have to concentrate so I don't think that would work.
Bullshit,your boyfriend can absolutely help you. He arouses you and gives you pleasure in your sex life I presume,why wouldn’t his arousal skills help your journey? Tut tut 😉 Don’t be so quick to rule things out. He could bless you with some semen retention to help you along,talk to him.Perhaps you could journey together? My wife helped my journey astronomically.
Although I am only 2 sessions in..I guess mostly I just need some encouragement. Seems like such an accepting helpful community here!
You’ve had a good first week,had a few pleasures,build on those and believe yourself.
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10/20/2022 2:02 pm
I had some trouble with the quotes feature so I had to paste in a .txt file and then back again to reply. :/
Posted by: @helghast
I stand corrected,there’s 11 of us now
11..members? Only 11?
Posted by: @helghast
Ok,I’m unsure if you mean ejaculate without touching your dick or having a prostate based orgasm (orgasm without ejaculating). If it was the former,forget it. It’s good,but non-ejaculatory orgasms are better. Multiple o’s are better,and super o’s are better still.
I did mean ejaculate hands free. That video started me on this path. Seems like I'm on my way to something better. I am just so used to the feeling of ejaculating and semen coming out...associate that with the pleasure.
Posted by: @helghast
Bullshit,your boyfriend can absolutely help you. He arouses you and gives you pleasure in your sex life I presume,why wouldn’t his arousal skills help your journey? Tut tut Don’t be so quick to rule things out. He could bless you with some semen retention to help you along,talk to him.Perhaps you could journey together? My wife helped my journey astronomically
I will be at his place next week so I hate to miss out on my training sessions. 😉 I'll be trying for sure.
Posted by: @helghast
You’ve had a good first week,had a few pleasures,build on those and believe yourself.
Thank you!! 🙂
This post was modified 2 years ago 2 times by Dundie
10/20/2022 2:11 pm
I have never used Mindgasm..just read a bit about it yesterday. I pretty much just need a way to relx and focus and mask outside sounds so I can concentrate,. Hoping Mindgasm will do that?
Mindgasm is a good program but I would be remiss If I didn't also invite you to sample my "HypnAerosession" guided Anerosession. Just as you need lubrication for pleasurable use of your ANEROS massager, think of HypnAerosession as lube for the mind. This unique hypnotic recording was produced in concert with other distinguished community members, and targets the unique needs of ANEROS users to get into a relaxed frame of mind necessary to achieve the Super-O. It just might help propel your initiation into this wonderful new journey. Please check out the thread -> Hypnaerosession CD for more details.
Good Vibes to You!
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10/20/2022 3:03 pm
Couple of things. First, congrats - you've had pleasurable experiences with only a couple of sessions. For me, it was 2 weeks of just feeling like I had a foreign object up my butt until BOOM! Wowza! Worth the wait!
And for me, cannabis (THC) revs up the process (although I'm backing off during sessions - things can get really crazy with too much).
As for models, you might want a couple of sizes. Responses vary from one time to another and I typically start with Eupho Trident and then Progasm Ice after an hour or so.
I have had disappointment using Aneros on walks because at some point, they fall out (thankfully I walk late nights in partly rural areas).
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10/20/2022 4:01 pm
@pablito1963 thanks! I guess I had a bit of a head start on the "things up my butt". 😉
What kind of cannibus? Edibles? I'll hold off for now with experimenting until I have some foundations.
I'm all for trying a few models..but they are a bit pricey for my budget. Maybe I'll get myself a Christmas gift in a couple months!
Good point about walking....maybe I can wear some tight underwear to help accidental fallout. 😉
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10/20/2022 4:03 pm
I have had disappointment using Aneros on walks because at some point, they fall out (thankfully I walk late nights in partly rural areas).
Hehe, I can only imagine an Aneros being carried away in a stream, or trying to find a lost acetal model in a snow bank, or a wild animal stealing it, or...
Yeah, they're not that good outside of a focused session, at least for me. I won't remove my device during a session if I need to get up and do something quick, but I never had much success wearing one outside the bedroom, doing chores or sleeping. I just lose track of it, and then nothing happens.
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10/21/2022 12:41 am
Just gonna throw my 2 cents in here. I have not heard mention by anyone here about the "Do Nothing" method. I would highly recommend it for the first couple of months. Find out what your body can do without any other stimulation than the aneros itself. This can't hurt, and you'll learn about yourself. I am a do nothinger, you may be one to. I rarely have to flex anything, my body now does that on its own. At most a small anal tug, lasting less than 2sec.. If after a few sessions you don't find it working for you, apply all the good advice you got here.
10/21/2022 7:33 am
@tbob I tried the 'do nothing' method several times with no positive results. While trying, I look at the clock as my sessions are time limited and I don't want to waste a whole session with no or little pleasures.
I always engage my nipples and it sends me to the stars. Deep down, I know the great pleasures I experience with my nips involved are not pure prostate pleasures. I need to try to stick with the 'do nothing' method until I get results and then add nipples but it's providing to be easier said than done for me.
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10/21/2022 9:00 am
Session #3 update: Spoiler..it ends with some great news!
I started my third session with some youtube relaxation audio I found online which actually seemed to relax me..but the extra challenge was the fact that the kids didn't have school today so they were up later than me (meaning they could potentially hear something outside my door..or worse walk in on me). I locked my door..which is suspicious..but they know very well how to open those locked doors (that's another embarrassing story).
After 20-30 minutes of relaxing I tried to work the aneros laying on my back...and then with my legs bent and flat feet. Wasn't quite working for me..eventually I tried laying on my right side. I tried that for a while but not much luck feeling good there either. I tried my left side and also didn't feel much. By this time I was playing a youtube sound video of moaning porn sounds. It kind of helped but looking back I think it was just distracting me? Touching myself, nipples, etc..just seemed to distract. Even thinking sexy thoughts seemed like a distraction. I was also having trouble isolating different muscles. I still can't decide if squeezing my anus works better than my PC muscles or Pelvic floor. Last time it just seemed like I was involuntarily controlling the Aneros.
By now it had been about an hour. I was feeling discouraged and thinking about how I'll have a disappointing update here. Then I thought about how thinking about that was not helping. Tough to focus! I found a different youtube binaural noise only video and started that. I decided to try laying on my back again with legs bent and flat footed (pillow under butt). Again..not much was happening. I tried laying flat (pillow still under) and it seemed like that might work better (at least felt more comfortable). Having my hands at my side or on my lower abdomen also seemed to distract the sensations so I moved them to either on my chest or hands folded together behind my head. It seemed like things were starting to feel better and there was some tingling, tickling inside. I was feeling buildups of good feeling then it would go away..then build up again (as I stroked inside). I was humping the air which felt good and seemed to trick my brain into feeling like I'm having sex, but I wanted it to be more about the contractions. I was feeling good and making some progress and then the video ended and the next one started and ruined my mood.
I restarted the previous video (sound only) and tried one more time. As I was continuing it still felt pretty good from time to time so I experimented with shifting my hips to the right, center or left. Somehow with my hips slightly to the left the Aneros seemed to be hitting the spot better. I was shaking sometimes as I worked the Aneros. Again I was having buildups of good feelings (like stroking the back inside of my penis) then they would pass...then back again then pass. Are those P Waves? I kept at it and noticed they seemed to be happening close and closer together. Of course up until now I was squeezing every contraction. They kept getting closer and closer. I started to feel small involuntary muscle twitches.
And then something happened! The wave of feeling started to get stronger and my body started shaking and my dick started instantly got hard. The muscles started one of those feedback loops and I was out of control! I was shaking and twitching as my body was on auto pilot! I was riding a wave of pleasure and it wouldn't stop. It was like the moment before an orgasm (I can only compare to penis ejaculation orgasms)..but it kept going and going and going. I was able to think about it and wonder how long it would happen and it wasn't stopping! I didn't look at a clock but I would say I hit the 5 minute mark and just wondered how long this could go on?! I kept enjoying it as it just kept happening. By the 10 minute mark I felt great but I needed to get over that hump and cum already!! It didn't seem like anything more would happen and the ride seemed to be slowing slightly. I needed to cum so I decided it was time to break my chastity vow and jerk off while riding the wave. I came pretty quickly while still shaking uncontrollably. MAN that felt good! I was so glad I set a towel down!! After that I felt so good and relaxed. WOW!
I tried to sleep (after removing my new best friend) with a smile on my face (both the feeling and satisfaction of progress) but I coudln't stop thinking about it. Finally fell asleep after about 15 minutes. 🙂
I am so happy to be able to leave a positive update! I don't know exactly where I stand with the Super O or even a dry O but it sure felt good! THAT was something new for this 50 year old! I had to jerk off again this morning in the shower thinking about it. 🙂
This post was modified 2 years ago 2 times by Dundie
10/21/2022 9:00 am
Of course it’s prostate pleasure! There is clearly a nerve connection path as we strum a nipple and buzz down there. I once asked the wife what happens when I get to work on her nipples,she told me she feels a buzz in her pussy,now ain’t that a coincidence 🙂
The only issue is if guys rely on them too much and manage to over stimulate them,that might hurt a session.
10/21/2022 9:19 am
I started my third session with some youtube relaxation audio I found online which actually seemed to relax me..but the extra challenge was the fact that the kids didn't have school today so they were up later than me (meaning they could potentially hear something outside my door..or worse walk in on me). I locked my door..which is suspicious..but they know very well how to open those locked doors (that's another embarrassing story).
Just get a wedge and kick it under the door.
I was feeling good and making some progress and then the video ended and the next one started and ruined my mood.
Porn can do exactly this.
Are those P Waves? I kept at it and noticed they seemed to be happening close and closer together. Of course up until now I was squeezing every contraction. They kept getting closer and closer. I started to feel small involuntary muscle twitches.
Yes,and they amplify up into orgasm.
The wave of feeling started to get stronger and my body started shaking and my dick started instantly got hard. The muscles started one of those feedback loops and I was out of control! I was shaking and twitching as my body was on auto pilot! I was riding a wave of pleasure and it wouldn't stop. It was like the moment before an orgasm (I can only compare to penis ejaculation orgasms)..but it kept going and going and going. I was able to think about ti and wonder how long it would happen and it wasn't stopping! I didn't look at a clock but I would say I hit the 5 minute mark and just wondered how long this could go on?!
This is where we are supposed to be.
By the 10 minute mark I felt great but I needed to get over that hump and cum already!! It didn't seem like anything more would happen and the ride seemed to be slowing slightly. I needed to cum so I decided it was time to break my chastity vow and jerk off while riding the wave. I came pretty quickly while still shaking uncontrollably. MAN that felt good!
Sweet baby Jesus! Has your mind been melted man!!!! No! No! No! Ride the wave as far down the rabbit hole as it takes you!! What was waiting far outshines an ejaculation orgasm. (Smacks hand to forehead). Slow down man!
I am so happy to be able to leave a positive update! I don't know exactly where I stand with the Super O or even a dry O but it sure felt good! THAT was something new for this 50 year old! I had to jerk off again this morning in the shower thinking about it.
You stand pretty good. Not sure about all this jacking off. Slow down,and explore how far it takes you.
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10/21/2022 9:29 am
Sweet baby Jesus! Has your mind been melted man!!!! No! No! No! Ride the wave as far down the rabbit hole as it takes you!! What was waiting far outshines an ejaculation orgasm. (Smacks hand to forehead). Slow down man!
LOL! I wasn't sure..but it was midnight and I had to work in the morning so I couldn't be up all night! I felt like it was lessening and I really needed to cum!! Now I know to keep riding! 🙂
You stand pretty good. Not sure about all this jacking off. Slow down,and explore how far it takes you.
Haha will do! Going 4 or 5 days without was tough for me!
10/21/2022 10:04 am
Now I know to keep riding!
Phenomenal experience! Next time, feel all of that greatness again, and onto when the pleasure reduces and reaches a small lull, to see it might go back up again: await multiples.
When I read you witnessed buildups that came and went, without reading more I knew much more was right around the corner.
Isn’t it remarkable to transcend what you’ve known to be sex, from teen years to be now?
10/21/2022 10:07 am
Sweet baby Jesus! Has your mind been melted man!!!! No! No! No! Ride the wave as far down the rabbit hole as it takes you!! What was waiting far outshines an ejaculation orgasm. (Smacks hand to forehead). Slow down man!
Bwahaha, you're being quite the wordsmith/poet again my friend! Quite right, too. But you can't fault @hankey01 for not knowing what to do when confronted with this particular event. Trying stuff, making "mistakes" or as Bob Ross would say, happy little accidents, is part of the whole experience. Trying to walk the perfect straight and narrow path, there's always a risk of missing some things. With only 3 sessions, no one know at this point where things are going...
Helghast reacted
10/21/2022 10:39 am
Sweet baby Jesus! (…)
Yeah, I roared at that truthful paragraph, too.
With only 3 sessions, no one know at this point where things are going...
What follows is a very pregnant: Amen. Good judgment leaving off at ellipses. To say more may be undue- loading expectations- as it is a delight to walk the path and find some things on one’s own.
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10/21/2022 10:54 am
Now I know to keep riding!
Isn’t it remarkable to transcend what you’ve known to be sex, from teen years to be now?
I have to admit, today at work I feel like I just had sex for the first time. Just excited to experience something so new! Apparently this is just the start!
I'm also glad to know this isn't some elaborate Aneros conspiracy! Seems like a real thing!
This post was modified 2 years ago by Dundie
10/21/2022 12:14 pm
Ha! Chide me if you must garçon! I will go down with my ship! After paddling shakily up onto the crest of the wave,it began to give way into a full blown tsunami only to be decimated by a monkeys spanked behind. I was frustrated and I’ll die before i say sorry!! 🙂
Zentai reacted
10/21/2022 12:16 pm
Yeah, I roared at that truthful paragraph, too.
How many wish they could have been there on the 3rd session.
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