Hi all, just wondering if this is practical and if many people on here wear a toy while thrusting their partner. Does it stay in properly, is it too split-brained to try and thrust while also working the toy? Does it work better with vibrating toys?
Very curious to hear what folks might be doing!
I use a vice2 no problems and feels it vibrating on her clit also
@newtoy That is very hot! What would be your wife's cvomment on this? ...as I would like to share this with my wife in order to get buy in to try my device with vibration on in me and have penetrative intercourse with her. Thank you!
It is absolutely worth a shot. The only model I consistently had trouble with is the old Progasm (with the flat tab on the bottom). That one would pop out during climax.
To the vibration question, I enjoy the HSV but have not tried the Vice 2. I just assumed it would behave like the Progasm, so I avoided it during sex.
I highly recommend using an Aneros during penetration. Going slow and really getting to feel all of the sensations is awesome. A few times I’ve even managed a Super-T but it’s not consistent, yet.
I also recommend it!! A few things need to be taken into consideration:
First, all plastic-based models with handles will create issues. The handle sometimes does not allow for deep enough penetration, which during PIV sex or any penetrative sex including a blowjob, can cause the toy to fall out. I've tried nearly every position imaginable with an intact toy in me and it never, ever worked. On your back and her on top works best, but the handle can touch what you're laying on and prevent the toy from moving the way it needs to move.
Quick fix is to cut off the handle and sand the nub down so it doesn't irritate you. The penetration is much deeper sometimes depending on the model of toy. Personally I like the Eupho best for this. The contact on your prostate is more slight than other models, the penetration is deep, and it "dances" in you a bit more than other models while you're thrusting your hips. Even standing up during sex, the Eupho can stay inside your ass. You can modify any Aneros model though and they all do about the same thing, except the old Progasm with the larger stem, that always fell out of me even laying down on my back. Best positions for handleless Aneros toys is on your back on missionary over her. Try to keep your legs more straight and out instead of spreading your legs and being more on your knees. When you spread your knees and kneel a bit the toy will shoot out of you as your ass and PC muscles flex and relax as you fuck. I can't control it at all! When you have legs straighter and its more you over her, the toy gets deep and moves perfectly and if you can finish in her, you should be able to have the toy stay in you and it will finish you so hard inside her, omgggggggg (I haven't had the opportunity to do this with my wife in a few years now...god it brings back memories and hope we can try it again this year!!)
You can also have success with most of the newer silicone trident line models, especially the Eupho and Helix versions. The K and P tab arms almost "grab" me and somehow the toy locks in good and it doesn't come out. Alone I was fucking a fleshlight in a dock on my knees legs spread out a bit and I had the Eupho Trident Syn in me omg it stayed in me even through my whole orgasm, the toy should've flown outta me like all others but the Syn versions somehow stay locked in man its intense!
on your back, with her on top, the toy won't leave you and she adds another element of mysticism and surprise/discovery to the Aneros abilities because if she can finish you inside her like this, she'll control your orgasm through your cock while the Aneros will control your orgasm through your prostate and anus. Holy fucking fuck balls this is the ultimate of ultimate milk events!!! I've been so drained like this in the past that my wife has had cum falling out of her up to 3 whole days later! The "tug of war" between her and the Aneros and the unique "autofucking" both of them do to you will mesmerize you into complete disillusionment of where your O and ejaculation began and when it will (if ever) end, and the levels of strength of each orgasmic convulsion will fluctuate depending on if she's moving on your cock to make it twitch or if the Aneros is being pulled into you to continue your prostate orgasm. This alone makes sharing an Aneros ride with your lady so so worth it!!
Second, when you use an internal prostate with vibration, she will feel it. It kind of turns your hard on into a vibrator. It can be subtle, it depends on the size of the toy and how deep it gets into you. If the penetration of the toy is right, it can make your cock vibrate more than other depths. Sex positions can alter and affect how much vibration will transmit through your cock.
But, as with anything, too much vibration can dull your prostate and have adverse reaction on what your penis feels. I've had vibes in me that I didn't know here too strong and while my wife could feel them through my boner, it was actually dulling my penis's ability to feel her. I wound up getting desensitized and could barely finish myself off, she tried and couldn't. So it can be rare and it probably depends on the guy, but vibes on your prostate inside you could cause desensitization and that's NOT what this is all about!
If the vibe is too strong, it might also prevent you from having a prostate O. I don't really have prostate Os from any vibe toys except the Aneros Helix Trident Syn that vibrates. The vibe strength can be low if you want it and its fantastic, it's the only vibe that makes my Pspot cum. I haven't tried it with sex yet but I imagine it can work. The unmoving arms might make it fall out depending on the position.
Things have happened to me, my body, my mind, and my cock that cannot happen unless I'm with my wife and have a prostate massager in me. She loves how much it makes me O, and she says its like being with a whole other lover because I get off quite differently through anal and prostate play than traditional cock play. When she takes control of my cock part of the other me comes around, and then I'm totally lost in a huge glee puddle of fun and sex and when she finally gives me a Super T through sex or other ways I'm done done, like more done than any other way I can compare.
Good luck in your adventures and I hope you both have a big blast of a good time!!
I too like to have sex with my wife while the progasm black ice fills up my back side. Double the pleasure for sure. The wife warms up a bit with her hand with the big paradise in the back rubbing out 3 clitoris orgasms with me pulling a little on the paradise. I'm a very lucky man.
@golfing1 as you know I use mine to relax my pelvic door muscles it helps me keep a hard erection. The first time I used it with her I said would mind me trying it while I sit here and massage your hot body with oil.
and I can relax with it for an hour. She only if I let her watch me put in my ass.
while I was sitting next to her on the bed massaging her she could feel it vibrating the bed. I told her we should try having sex with it in me. She said if I think I can keep in let’s try. I put my cock in her slow and deep and she felt it vibrating I pushed my pelvic bone tight against hers and just let the vibrating get her off. She came hard and fast. Then I cum hard without maybe five strokes in and out. Shit we were done . Now it’s every time we have sex. She loves it.
@golfing1 good luck enjoy. Yesterday we were on the bed I oiled my wife down with warm coconut oil from head to toe an massaged her for almost two hours. Along with my vice2 inserted. It was so hot I almost had an orgasm when I was leaning over her licking her ass. She had her orgasm while I was eating her pussy. And I was rubbing the tip of my finger on your her ass. After she settled down from her orgasm I slipped my cock into her tight pussy. It only took me about thirty seconds in their and I blew my nuts. Using that vice gets me so close it doesn’t take much. Wife just loves it. After everything I’ve been thru the last couple of years. Cheers . I’m still thinking about that nude park.
Has anyone else had difficulty achieving ejaculation while engaging in sex/receiving oral with the aneros inserted? I just get repeated dry O's, which drives me crazy and feel like a frenzy. It totally shuts down any progress toward ejaculation. I have to take out the aneros to start building toward that release