Aneros and Tourettes Syndrome.

Hello Quiett42!

Welcome to the forums first off!

I will be clear, I do not have Tourettes so I may not be much use in the total understanding, but maybe if you help the group we can work on a way to help you? What is the exact type and diagnosis? Are you strictly physical? Or do you also have vocal blurting too?

As far as relaxing or at least attempting to relax. Make it a state of mind. If your body will not be fully quiet for you try to make it more relaxing in your mind instead. I am no meditation expert so I can not show you this way, but with light music, running water, wind, rain, crickets...etc There are sounds that may be soothing and could, perhaps, help ease you into a better relaxation. This coupled with slow, steady, deep breathing seem to be the very basics for getting started.

There are good pieces of information all over the internet, but maybe one of our better versed users will stop by and say a word.

Good luck, and be patient!

Thank you Drummel for the great welcome.

I have to say, This has got to be far and away the most friendly and helpful forum I have ever read. So much positive energy around here.

Well, I will try to describe my condition as best I can, I've been told that no-one has just Tourettes. It is alwasy Tourettes and 'fill in the blank', so every case is a bit different. I have a mild case of Tourettes, A-typical Autism, and A-Typical Aspergers. I really don't understand the exact diagnosis, so I'll try and explain my symptoms.

The Tourettes part is mostly tics from my shoulder and up. neck,head,blinking, that kind of thing. It's not that severe, I've head many people trying to decsribe what its like by saying, 'Don't blink... Ever' but for me that doesn't do it justice.

it's more like a mental game of Chicken Pox. You know youre not supposed to scratch it, and for the most part as long as you're thinknig about not scratching you don't. But the instant you stop concentrating on not scratching, you do it. My tics are like that. as long as I think about them, I can control them to a point, but as soon as I relax and stop thinking about them, I twitch.

the Tics seem to throw off my physical relaxing, and the thinking throws off my mental relaxing.

I don't take any drugs for it since I've discovered the side effects of most of them are worse than the actual tourettes ie liver failure, heart failure, thoughts of suicide.

I've read about the binaural meditation files around the forum, I think I'm going to go try and find some and see how they do.

Thank you again for the response.

@Quiett42, hi.
It is just possible that using an Aneros will cause enough "distraction" to enjoy its presence. I do not fully understand your condition but the use of an Aneros is multifaceted. It has many benefits. Relaxation is a part of the process but not all users relax. For example if I can't sleep I will use an Aneros as it distracts me sufficiently to let go my thoughts and anxieties. It becomes a physical focus point.
In my case an inserted Aneros will cause mini random contractions. These are not the continuos ones most users get. These actually are like a physical mantra, or using a worry ball but have the astronomical advantage of being spontaneous, that is require no action from me other than breathing. They usually occur at the end of an 'out' breath. They are not totally predictable hence cause the necessary mental distraction. They are of course nice to feel.
On a side note they are like the spluttering of a mower that won't continue to run! One day the 'mower' will start and I will have the continuous contractions.
I acknowledge that my journey may be different to most on the forum. I am still I hope moving towards the super O but the journey is very good in so many other ways.
What responses do you have from your Aneros?

Edit: have a look at
GENERAL DISCUSSION 'Interesting Sensations' by @Drummel. These are like my distractions. I find they occur more in my BC muscle and Prostate rather than in my anus. I can move them around a bit!

Well, I guess I just wasn't waiting long enough and was another one of those 'it's not working for me' posts. During my last session I tried some meditation techniques recomended here. I just let go of trying to control my tics and focused on the breathing and the aneros. Aftet about 20 min I sat straight up (which kinda ruined my session) but I realized I hadn't Tics in about 20 minutes!!!!

Even if I never get to the Super-O this in itself was wonderful for me. Who woud have thought that would be part of my Journey!

@quiett42, wonderful! The mental training of riding aneros is almost as amazing as the pleasure. I'm healing tension in my abdomen now that I've had most of my life.Best wishes.

I don't know what your views are regarding 'drugs' (and the stigma created by western society), but have you ever considered using medical marijuana? In my opinion it's definitely worth a try. I read a lot of good things about it on the internet from people who also suffer from Tourette’s syndrome. Not only can it relieve you of your symptoms a great deal, it will also help you with relaxing and greater sensitivity promoting progress in your journey. 😉

Well, I guess I just wasn't waiting long enough and was another one of those 'it's not working for me' posts. During my last session I tried some meditation techniques recomended here. I just let go of trying to control my tics and focused on the breathing and the aneros. Aftet about 20 min I sat straight up (which kinda ruined my session) but I realized I hadn't Tics in about 20 minutes!!!!

Even if I never get to the Super-O this in itself was wonderful for me. Who woud have thought that would be part of my Journey!

I am absolutely not surprised. But i am pleased for you.
Keep experimenting and enjoy!

I don't know what your views are regarding 'drugs' (and the stigma created by western society), but have you ever considered using medical marijuana? In my opinion it's definitely worth a try. I read a lot of good things about it on the internet from people who also suffer from Tourette’s syndrome. Not only can it relieve you of your symptoms a great deal, it will also help you with relaxing and greater sensitivity promoting progress in your journey. 😉

I used it quite a bit in the past, and yes it did help my Tourettes. I stopped using it about 15 years ago. Not sure why but all of a sudden every time I smoked I became really paranoid. Not a good sensation.

First off, welcome to Aneros forums. I don't think I have ever shared this with the forum or chat but I also have Tourettes Syndrome. I also have a mild to moderate case with only physical tics (not vocal tics) mostly in the upper body.

I have been using Aneros toys for a little over 6 years with great success. For me when I am in a session I find that the psychical tics go away completely. The relaxation part for me is a challenge as I find my mind does wander and even non sexual/inappropriate thoughts will enter my mind and can be distracting. I don't know if I can say this happens because of Tourrettes or not.

Something I do to help keep my more focused on sexual/arousal is to enjoy porn during my sessions. I know you will here a lot of recommendations that go against this but I have just not had much success just relaxing in quite solitude. I need that extra "distraction".

First off, welcome to Aneros forums. I don't think I have ever shared this with the forum or chat but I also have Tourettes Syndrome. I also have a mild to moderate case with only physical tics (not vocal tics) mostly in the upper body.

I have been using Aneros toys for a little over 6 years with great success. For me when I am in a session I find that the psychical tics go away completely. The relaxation part for me is a challenge as I find my mind does wander and even non sexual/inappropriate thoughts will enter my mind and can be distracting. I don't know if I can say this happens because of Tourrettes or not.

Something I do to help keep my more focused on sexual/arousal is to enjoy porn during my sessions. I know you will here a lot of recommendations that go against this but I have just not had much success just relaxing in quite solitude. I need that extra "distraction".

I could have written that myself. Only I've only been using the Aneros for about 5 weeks. I've been trying lately myself without porn but not getting any success. Not that I've had alot while watching, but i've had some interesting moments so far.

Ever since I was a kid I've had alot of empathy for what other people are feeling physically. I almost passed out literally when I watched my wife get her belly button pierced. Can't even watch tv shows like ER without getting ill. I've been watching this one Video that seems like it was made specifically for Aerous use.

Quick back story, (I can't belive I'll writeing this) My Wife and I are both Bi. She has been with women before we were married, but I was never with a man. Just couldn't get over the stigma I guess.
Neither of us cheat, but we both have urges to be with the same sex. To help, She bought a strapon, and that relieves that urge for me. One day she brought home some lingerie. I was thinknig ok here we go!! until she said it was for me to wear.

I told her no, I just can't I really didn't want to. But she convinced me mostly from saying it was for her and she hoped it would help her urges to be with a woman. Anyway as soon as I put it on I became more aroused than I ever had been. I don't really consider myself a crossdresser, but at home when We are playing, I wear it alot more than she does now.

Anyway. Trying to keep this short. I've been watching a video called 'Love for TGirls 3' It is about 80 minutes which seems to be the perfect time for a session, and I kind of project myself into the role of the Shemale (is that an offensive term? I really don't know). I'm not sure how far along into the journy I am, but while using the 'Do nothing in bed' method doesn't produce anything. I experience something new about 50% of the time while watching that.

Sorry for the long post. just had alot to say I guess. I actually feel good writting this. The only person who knows this side of me is my Wife. And now all of you! it's very liberating knowing that.

@quiett42, you are"quiet" no longer 🙂

Thanks for sharing.

@Quiett42 Congratulations! I find that sharing with people here is an exhilarating experience. And it doesn't feel wrong at all!

I have tried on my better half's clothing before. First time I did it I was "sneaking". She was at work and I was always curious. If it turns me on watching her in them, how would it feel with me in them.

Well, to say it's a turn on is true, but something was missing. I ended up doing it again as a sort of 'joke' when she was in bed and she took to it like a duck to water. I did feel a bit awkward though. She laughed and enjoyed it and then enjoyed me - so it was a win win. Not sure I would continuously "dress up" she just prefers me in boxer-briefs so she can stare at the curves like a 'tease' show kind of thing. You can "see" it all, but it's still under cover.

Bah, I'm blathering on.... 🙂

Congrats again, and thank you for sharing - quite wonderful!

@quiett42, you are"quiet" no longer 🙂

Thanks for sharing. This has been a crazy day and I have to share. Sorry if it's too long my brain is on fire right now.

When I read that on my cell at work I thought to myself 'Yup he got that part right, but does he know what the 42 is' If any of you have read 'Hitchikers Guide' You know it's the answer to 'Life.. The Universe.. EVERYTHING!!!" only problem is no-one knows the actual question. I thought about that for a minute and realized that I've been reading alot about chackras, and oneness and meditation and how cool it was that '42' fits in with Aneros in a strange kind of way.

My next thought was, too bad I don't know the question and then it started.

I felt a huge wave of euphoria, my knees buckled and I would have fallen over if I wasn't standing next to a counter. At the same time I remembered another part in the book that decribed how on of the characters looked through some binoculors at 'Gods last Message to man' and it was the Question, but it was personalized for each person. In my mind I saw myself looking though them and saw the question. It was 'How old were you when you discovered Aneros?' 42!!!!!! I'm not sure if the universe is playing with me or it was just a really strange coincidence. But it didn't stop there.

After I went and sat down, both of my legs stared bouncing really quickly. I'mguessing it's happened to most people. I see it alot, but it was really strong today. I got it under control for the most part but it didn't really go away. At one point I dropped a pen and had to get on all 4's to get it. At that point I got another wave of euphoria (p-wave maybe??) and my pelvis starting thusting instead of my legs bouncing. But it was not thusting like I was having normal sex, it was thusting backwards to where my aneros would have been. (is this what auto-f*** is?) I didn't want to get up but obviously I couldn't stay like that at work. After that I was pretty much humping my chair all day.

I don't know what is going on. My emotions are all over the place and I've been horny as hell all day but never once got an erection.

I feel like. um.. Well, I feel like what I imagine a teenage girl would feel like who has listened to all the other girls talk about sex and orgasms but never experienced it herself. Finally decideing that today MIGHT be the night she gets the courage to let her boyfriend (aneros) take her virginity on the big date tonight (session). Axious, Excited, scared, nervous, horny. Will the date be great? will I change my mind? Will I just chicken out and say 'No! I'm not ready!'. Either way is good, but not knowing how it will progress is exciteing. Someone else said re-wireing is like gonig through pubery again. It does feel like that for me, but only from the other sex.

I hope that makes sense. I've been trembling all day thinking about my next 'date' with my 'boyfriend' hopefully my son will fall asleep soon so we can go! Wish me luck!!

Oh, and I for one can full say Tourettes Syndrome has not in any way stopped me from enjoying my Anrous at all! if you have it and think it won't work for you, I think you may be in for quite a shock!

@quiet42 I'm waiting to hear how your date went 🙂

My Goodness, you want me to Kiss and Tell?

Heh, I thought I may have shared a bit too much on that last post. I am not sure where to begin at the moment. Things are happening that if I post them and my past self from 2 months ago read it he would say, "This guys is either the worlds biggest lier, or clinically insane, either way I want nothing to do with him.'

Heck, even now I am having a hard time with it all. Not talking about the physical stuff that happens during a session (maybe a mini-O, not sure but it was fun), but. I don't know how to put it, Just in general terms, Emotionally, Spiritiually, heck You may think I'm insane too, but Paranormally for petes sake.

I'm just having Epiphany after Epiphany about all types of things. Some are things I buried inside that I never wanted to deal with. Others are completely off the wall type of things.

Like I said, I really don't know how to describe what my brain is doing right now. Please tell me that this is normal during the re-wriring process. I feel like I'm becoming someone completely different.

Heck, even now I am having a hard time with it all. Not talking about the physical stuff that happens during a session (maybe a mini-O, not sure but it was fun), but. I don't know how to put it, Just in general terms, Emotionally, Spiritiually, heck You may think I'm insane too, but Paranormally for petes sake.

I'm just having Epiphany after Epiphany about all types of things. Some are things I buried inside that I never wanted to deal with. Others are completely off the wall type of things."Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center. Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress."Like I said, I really don't know how to describe what my brain is doing right now. Please tell me that this is normal during the re-wriring process. I feel like I'm becoming someone completely different. You are certainly not insane, your gradual awakening to these experiences is not at all unusual as you grow through the rewiring process. A man's prostate has long been associated with particular energy centers in the body in various Eastern religious/philosophical systems. "Internal energetical centers such as chakras in Hinduism, dantians in Taoism and lata`ifs in Sufism, were known in mystical traditions from ancient times." 'BF Mayfield' labeled these prostate massagers "Tantric training wheels" and numerous members of this Forum have remarked this Aneros journey has altered their life perceptions in totally unforeseen and beneficial ways. Welcome to your new world.
Good Vibes to You !

Thank you for the reassurance Rumel. Those links, particulary the second one were very informative and helpful. I went and listened to a binaural chakra healing video on you tube. I felt more balanced afterwards I guess. just really relaxed and at peace. I have to do some searching on how to start doing mantras myself. I could be way off but it seems like if I do them myself it will work better. It would feel right that way.

Anyway, as for my 'date'

I set myself up in my recliner with a pillow under my lower back to raise my butt off the chair and reclined back with my feet maybe 6 inches apart and my knees about a foot apart. The other thing I did may seem weird but it helped me. I have a dog leach that I looped the handle on one of the back legs of the recliner and placed both my wrists in the part that goes around my dogs head. It gave me enough leeway to get up if I needed but not enough to really move my hands more than 2-3 inches down towards my body, just side to side to get up afterwards. It put me in a more submissive mood, and prevented me from touching my penis no matter how aroused I became, which was a problem sometimes.

I set there for about 15 minutes and my legs started shaking quite a bit in that position. it almost felt like there were taking turns shaking but it was really fast like 6-7 quick shakes per second. I stayed like that not moving at all for about 10 minutes thinking it would build to something else, but it didn't, just more leg shaking which was cool, but no pleasure t all and my inner thighs were starting to get sore from it. I then just spread my knees apart so they were resting on the arm rests. Nothing happened then for about 5 minutes and I got a bit depressed and thought 'well leg shaking is better than nothing, guess I'll put my legs back up' so I did it, but slower than when I lowered them. as I started putting my knees back up, the shaking started, but it was really slow, and the closer I put then together the fast it got. it was really cool. No real pleasure, but it was fun experimenting with changing my leg positions to get different I guess Shake vibration patterns,

At one position after doing this for about 15 minutes, I discovered the shaking was going so fast I really wasn't moving and stuff got weird. the shaking went from my legs to my hips, and I could start changing the speed of that as well. So I started experimenting with the hip thurst shake going fast and slow. No pleasure, but my body was moving like my aneros was f***ing me, but I didn't feel the aneros moving at all so I'm not sure what this was.

After about 15 minutes of that, I got to the same point with my hips I got to with my legs, shaking so fast I wasn't moving anymore. I could 'feel' the shaking in my hips, but they weren't. I stayed right there for 3-4 minutes and I felt the 'shaking' spread to my entire body and a really warm sensation built up in my abdomen.. My ears started ringing, and it was like my ear ringing was in sync with the shaking and the feeling in my abdomen started feeling really really good. I almost started laughing it felt so good, Not orgasmic or sexual at all, just really really good. Kinda like you feel when your at the dentist and breathing the gas to calm you down, but 3-4 times the amount you are supposed to get. It lasted about 4 minutes and went away.

That was pretty much the end of the session. Good stuff. Not sure what it was. I wouldn't call it a mini, dry or super-O at all. there was absolutely NO sexual buildup or release at all. Something completely different but I hope I get lots and lots more of them. 🙂

That was my physical sharing. I'm not quite really to share all the emotional and other stuff yet. I'm also not sure if this is the correct thread to do it in. Seems like it would fit better in one of the blogs type posts. I've never been much into posting on forums, in fact this is the most I've done in my life.

Anyway, thanks for reading I know it was really long. Thank you all for the help, support, and love! (yes I said it, and it felt GREAT!!!) *BIG GROUP HUG!*

*edited for spelling

@quitt42 I don't know what is normal for you and your rewiring. I assume our bodies know what we need. I had a lot of emotional release at the beginning too and it seemed disappointing and confusing as I was expecting pleasure. Then Rumel reassured me that some men experience this and I began to use these emotional sessions to explore what they were telling me. Now I get emotions occasionally and welcome them as helpful friends. See my blog about emotions http://www.aneros.com/blogs/euphemisms/emotions-and-orgasms/.