Aneros and Sex Sessions Question

I got a quick question........I made a thread about an hour ago about my first ever orgasm with my MGX and how it took 8 months.......and i've been reading on this site since i've bought my aneros......well alot of the men here seem like they don't have sex much with their wives/girlfriends and as long as they have their aneros, they are cool with that.......and since they don't participate in activities with their wife/girlfriends, they hold out from masturbation for a few days and partake in aneros release

I guess what i'm getting at is for the ones that have sex regularly with their wives/girlfriends, do you find it harder to achieve an aneros orgasm? Or is it the same because you have already "rewired" yourself?

I ask this because me and my wife have high sex drives and we have sex at least 3 times a week or more for the most part unless she is on her period........And this past weekend, i was able to achieve an aneros orgasm because we got into an argument, didn't have sex for days and I stopped masturbating because i wanted to try a different angle to achieving my goal.......and I must say, that i did!!!....

so now that me and my wife are ok again and made up last night, does that mean it will be that much harder for me to achieve an aneros orgasm because i'm receiving a tradition orgasm multiple times a week? will i have to wait till she's around her period to prepare myself?

I love the feelings and i'm aimming higher than I achieved over the weekend with my aneros.....if i can, i would like to have my cake and eat it too