Anal pleasure on really deep penetration, afraid of hurting myself

You didn't say which toys you are using. I assume they are more than Aneros massagers. This info would be very helpful. Thanks.

I am not using Aneros. I have something that looks like a cucumber, but is thicker and straight.

I am not a doctor, but I would say that you must use common sense in using anal toys. I know that Aneros devices are designed around the male anatomy, designed to be hands-free and are safe. Anything else should be used with discretion. Perhaps an Aneros 'expert' can comment as well.

@citydweller:

Your concerns are timely and well placed. Perforation of one's rectum or colon or causing an anal fissure can do much worse than just ruining the day. The general rule is that if you experience pain or resistance, cease what you are doing, relax, gradually remove the toy, correct any lube deficiencies and consider taking the rest of the day off.

It's good to remember that some of the areas you are visiting or planning to visit have very few sensory nerve endings. That makes it easy to do significant damage without any realization of pain.

My experience is that all of the Aneros toys are well designed to be accommodated by well lubricated adult males assuming that they do not have an unusual waste impaction. Not so for many popular anal toys that require special maneuvering.

Without more specifics on the toy you were attempting it's difficult to guess what caused the "brick wall" My experience has been that this is usually an involuntary spasm of the lower G.I. tract. The body is just trying to protect itself against the assault of a foreign body.

Your post shows that you are receiving pleasure from this toy and that makes it "attractive." So, you are probably not going to toss it in the trash. Please don't "rise to the occasion" and attempt a brute force approach. Some of us experienced our first anal canal / inner sphincter spasm during our first session with Progasm. Most who had that experience tried again the next day with more lube, more relaxation (and pauses to relax even more) and, we taught ourselves how to breathe.

rook ...enjoy

citydweller,

You are correct that your prostate is not deeply located. From your description, I believe the resistance you are encountering is the Hirsh's sphincter which occurs at the transition area between the rectum and the sigmoid colon. This sphincter serves the function of restricting the passage of fecal material into the rectum until the instigation of a bowel movement and is not under voluntary control much like the inner anal sphincter. This combined with the radical turn the colon itself makes into the rectum can create a perceived wall limiting object insertion. Evidently it may be more pronounced in some individuals than in others. With gentle probing of a dildo, it can be induced to open and you will feel sensations from the pressure of this probing. Like many bodily sensations, these can be eroticized and perceived as pleasurable.

I agree with @goldenboy that you should exercise great care and caution when stimulating this area as the internal membranes of our bodies are easily injured and damaged. Rigid dildos/probes (and any large diameter objects) are particularly dangerous when negotiating deep anal pentration. Any tear or puncture of the intestinal tract can lead to serious and even potentially deadly infections. It may be wisest to avoid any deep penetration of this area with dildos, instead, consider using a small soft flexible device to just tickle that area and always be gentle. Any pain is a sure sign you are using too much force! Good Vibes to You !

Thanks for the responses. I will be more careful from now on.

I also feel that the deeper into the digestive tract one goes the less defence there is to inserted bacteria. It seems that the rectum has reasonable defenses provided one has basic hygiene. But too far in maybe not.