How do you know if you have had an anal orgasm?
J0hnb0y,
I've always considered an anal orgasm as a more localized version of a dry orgasm. It's generally characterized by anal quivering that may lead to full involuntary contractions accompanied by orgasmic sensations in the anal orifice and canal. Occasionally anal orgasms can prefigure a prostate centered full body orgasm (Super O) as well. Quite delightful!
Cheers,
BF Mayfield
Thanks BF, on my blog I mention, after the super O I took out vice, it was soaking wet, and watery fluid was leaking all down leg, use coconut oil, definitely was not this, like water clear and odourless.
I'm very new to this, so not sure if that's normal; prostrate milk perhaps?
Over the years some users have referred to this as "anal ejaculate". The consensus is this is a product of the anal glands....yes humans have anal glands too! These are small glands located in the lining of the anal canal that secrete a small amount of fluid to keep anal tissues moist. Some individuals seem capable of producing prodigious amounts of this fluid particularly when aroused.
To be clear this is not prostate of seminal vesicle fluid, both of those glands are separated from the rectal cavity by the rectal wall.
BF Mayfield
Hey yo wow, the Mayfield is back!!!! 🙂
And so glad to see Brian back. His wisdom has certain been obvious in the first two threads I have read this morning where he posted. Thanks Brian.
Thanks BF, well what ever it was it was a very enjoyable session. Seems I might be one of those individuals.Could I ask a couple of questions.
What is prostrate milking, is it the production of pre cum, or actual fluid out of prostrate through anus?
Is it normal to have a flaccid penis throughout the session?
Thanks
J
From the Wiki...
Prostate milking is most commonly associated with BDSM activities and the erotic use of sexual denial. The release felt by a man as a result of prostate milking is described as long, drawn out, but not reaching a resolution phase as with normal ejaculation. It leaves a man on 'edge' for not having had full satisfaction, or a yearning for more, as opposed to the "drop" in responsiveness due to satiation after a full ejaculation/orgasm. The traditional technique of prostate massage involves the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation. The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a walnut. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.
During sexual arousal, ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a certain level, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
The seminal vesicles, ampulla and prostate can also be emptied by massage of these glands through the rectum. Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal device or use either the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum. The massage will force the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If arousal is low or penile stimulation is stopped for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears at the head of the penis, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.
A man can learn to perform a self milking without orgasm by using his PC muscles to manipulate the Aneros massager, it should be noted part of the mechanism for orgasm for a male involves the accumulation of fluids within the prostate and associated ducts; accordingly once thoroughly milked, a male may be incapable of achieving an ejaculatory orgasm regardless of the degree of stimulation, for some time after.
Turnrow and Flesh_Joe....thanks for the warm welcome! 🙂 Actually I've been corresponding with users on and off site, but I've been more of a lurker with regard to my participation in the Discussion section of the forum for a little while.
J0hnb0y,
Prostate milking is a vigorous form of prostate massage where the goal is forced expression of prostate fluid and is often associated with erotic sexual denial as Jaxsun's WIKI post indicated. There are two other types of massage that are often confused with milking....therapeutic and erotic prostate massage. Therapeutic prostate massage is generally concerned with increasing blood flood in the prostate and relieving congestion through the expression of fluid, it has no sexual component. Erotic prostate massage is less intense and is about stimulation of the gland for purposes of arousal with the goal of
generating or heightening some form of orgasm (ejaculatory or non-ejaculatory). All of these may result in the production of prostate fluid accompanied by Cowper's fluid (precum).
Whether or not one maintains an erection through these processes depends on the individual. On a personal note, having experienced all three I'd have to say that I didn't find milking or therapeutic massage to be arousing...the sensations were far too intense and not in the least bit sensual for me. As a result I had no erection.
Hope this helps,
BF Mayfield
Thanks BF very informative, think my prostrate has been awakened 🙂