amateur prostate play

Posted by: @anerosamateur

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... and now realise I am expecting far too much too soon.

This is quite common for new users after reading the hyperbole about prostate massage on the net. What most of the stories/tales don't tell you is that it does take time for you to get tuned into the subtle sensations these marvelous little massagers induce. It is those subtle sensations that build into the pleasure waves so often talked about. It is important to note those subtle sensations ARE your pleasure waves, only they are of a very low intensity in the beginning.

EXPECTATIONS are blocks to actually experiencing your session in real time, mind noise and other ...Obstacles to Progress contribute as well. About the only thing you can legitimately expect is that each Anerosession will be unique. Best part is so far every single session has been different, no session is alike with the other.And they never will be, there will certainly be similar sessions but every session is a unique point in time with numerous variables at play and of course your own experiential knowledge is advanced going into each Anerosession.

Posted by: @anerosamateur

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I still am having no luck with pleasure or orgasms or anything but I have noticed that I am becoming more aware of what my body is feeling which I am finding fascinating.

This is also quite common, prostate based orgasms are induced differently from penile based orgasms. It is good that you are developing a better awareness of your body's responses, this is the 'tuning into' aspect of your practice which will move you farther along your path. Your mindset can help a lot too, being positive in attitude can make a tremendous difference. Instead of saying to yourself "I still am having no luck with pleasure or orgasms or anything...", say "I am learning to read and enjoy every little sensation my body produces, I know I will eventually experience a variety of orgasms." Doesn't that sound/feel better?

I like to call my Anerosessions erotic meditations, so I think you are in the right mode of thinking there. Noticing and acknowledging those subtle sensations is definitely being on a good path, you are most certainly on your way! Also how long did it take you to get some type of sensation?  Please do not discount any of your sensations, even if you don't think they are orgasmic they ARE orgasmic contributors, men new to prostate massage need to eroticize these sensations to make maximum use of them. They will evolve over time, as you become more attuned to and focused upon your body, the greater their effect and intensity will be.

Posted by: @anerosamateur

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i don't want to give up on this but I am finding this hard...

Patience, young squire, you have begun a journey without end. In our goal oriented culture let your goal be to experience the pleasures of the journey. If you set your goal as having any kind of orgasm you are going to endure continuing frustration, learn to "Just Let Go !"

Good Vibes to You!

. In my last session I did notice however that when I was completley relaxed, shut off all outside noise (almost like a meditative state) that I was getting a very faint sensation toward the small of my back. This was exteremly faint and almost unoticable but it was there (it came and go a few times). Has anybody else experienced this type of thing before? I understand that everybody is different, I just want know if I am on my way!

I also experience something like this. It is a light feathery sensation. It tends to linger for some time after my sessions as well. It can progress to some very intense sensations at times as well so keep at it as I think you are on your way.