Almost Dry-O - Help needed to progress

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frenchyBoy,

Welcome to the Forum,

From your description of events, “...very intense sensation around my prostate... body ...shaking. ...last around 30 seconds to 1 minute and is physically exhausting but I can repeat that around 10 to 15 times.” It sounds like a classic description of MMO's and Super-O to me. Congratulations, you've already stepped through the doorway into a larger sensual realm.

However, I think you may be misunderstanding the concept of a Super-O. The Super-O is NOT an ejaculatory orgasm, as such it is qualitatively different from a traditional ejaculatory orgasm. If you are expecting the Super-O to be an enhanced multiple ejaculatory experience, I am afraid you will be disappointed.

I do believe whatever technique you are using is working well for you, so in this sense it is already the 'right' thing for you, but you are certainly encouraged to try new variations to fine tune your practice. Let your pleasure guide you in the direction to go. You need to understand that progress in your Aneros 'journey' may not be linear. There are likely to be slack periods of lackluster sessions with jumps of intensity at unexpected moments, you may also experience plateau periods where pleasurable sessions are common but not increasing in intensity. A litlle patience with your re-wiring may be in order here.

The Super-O is a paradigm thought shift away from penile centered ejaculatory orgasms into a more full body/mind orgasmic experience. IMHO, when you let go of any expectations about what you think you should be experiencing you will find the pleasure you do receive will exceed that produced from a traditional masturbatory ejaculation.

P.S. I sent you an introductory PM with some additional hints and tips. Also, I am very pleased to hear that you have found my ”HypnAerosession” to be of great help; thanks for the compliment.

Wow, this is an unexpected good news ! I'm really happy about that!

Honestly, I was not expecting an ejaculatory orgasm or multiple ejaculatory orgasms with the Super-O, but reading to the different threads and descriptions, I was expecting a more mind blowing orgasm (knocking the reality out of me :D). Indeed, the ejaculatory orgasm liberate all the sexual tension in very few seconds, I was expecting the same kind of thing with the Super-O but repeatable.

But let's be honest, I'm experiencing VERY pleasurable and different orgasms right now with my Helix and I'm really happy about that. Perhaps the difference between ejaculatory and super-O is the fact that after the Super-O you are almost ready to restart one, so as the tension is not released, then it appears to be less explosive. The super-O is physical but also more mind oriented. Do you agree ?

Now for me, the journey is continuing and I need to try enhancing my technique for having even more fun and pleasure.

BTW, really well done for the HypnAerosession. It was really the key allowing me to understand that relaxation, focusing on subtile sensations and using gentle contractions are so important. Before, I was trying to hammer my prostate with huge sphincter contractions. It was pleasurable but my sphincter was too exhausted after few time and I was not able to have enough pleasure waves for triggering dry-O and super-O. At the end, gentle continuous contractions are much more efficient.

Don't hesitate to do an even more erotic track combining the first relaxation track and the second track of the hypnAerosession for guiding advanced users (with a perhaps more sample from the same woman ;-)) I'm looking forward HypnAerosession vol 2, do you plan something like that ?.

Welcome frenchyBoy! 😀 And great Congratulations!!!

You are a natural and can now deeply relax, open to all sorts of unexpected orgasmic responses, and enjoy the ride as you have more and less energetic sessions, as your systems gradually rewire to give you sustainable access at will to these experiences, with or without an aneros inside. These are your "training wheel" days and weeks. Enjoy them to the fullest!

all the most wonderful range of energetic ecstasies all

artform