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After 10 + years, my first dry O


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I won't call this a super O, but I do believe it was a dry O.  after 10 years I had it, and here is what I did.

 

I've owned pretty much all the Aneros models.  To date the best model is the Helix syn vibrating aneros.  Not because of the vibrations.  I don't use that.  It's because of the arms on it.  The classic model feels too firm for me.  The Syn arms are too flexible.  This version has firm, yet gentle arms.  In my opinion this is how all the models should be built.

 

That alone didn't do it though.  I've had really nice sessions, but never got pushed over the edge.  That was until the other night after reading a comment on the board.  Jiji2000 posted a message about how he plays a game in which the aneros is trying to make him cum, and he's trying to resist.  I did this.  Normally when it feels like an orgasm is building, I naturally begin tensing up for it, like a traditional orgasm.  I didn't do that this time.  As the orgasm was approaching I tried to relax against it, as though I was trying to resist the urge to come.  It built until I reached the dry orgasm.  I will also mention I felt a kind of fluttering feeling around where my bladder was right before orgasm.  Was this the "buzzing" people explain having?  I don't know.

 

It wasn't exactly as I expected, but it was enjoyable, and interesting.  It wasn't quite like a wet orgasm in intensity, but it lasted longer, and I didn't feel like I was drained after a normal wet orgasm.  I haven't had a session since.  Before I thought I'd be rushing back wanting more.  But I don't.  When I get the urge I will give it another go.  I had a wet orgasm after my session.  The next day I had a sense of peace, and calm.  Was it because of the session?  Honestly I don't know, but thought I'd mention it.  Afterwards, when going to bed I did feel a slight sense like my prostate was "awake".  Honestly I didn't like that part of it.  I want my sex play at a time of my choosing, not when I'm trying to do something else.  This may be why I haven't went back yet.  


   
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Congratulations my friend !

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The next day I had a sense of peace, and calm.  Was it because of the session?  Honestly I don't know, but thought I'd mention it. 

It's probably because of the session, yes. Enjoy it for what it is, we don't get enough peace and calm in daily life, at least in my opinion. 

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Afterwards, when going to bed I did feel a slight sense like my prostate was "awake".  Honestly I didn't like that part of it.

I think that if you don't "cultivate" that feeling, you will get used to it and it will disappear in the background and won't bother you. Don't worry too much about it and focus on the good bits you had. Once again, great job ! 


   
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Don't underestimate what you achieved. You may be able to expand the orgasm(s) next time.


   
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Congratulations my friend!!  Good thing you did not lose interest in it while using Aneros for 10 years.  I have used these toys for 1.5 years or so without any orgasm. I enjoy every sessions though. I will apply your suggestions as well.  Cheers!!


   
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Posted by: @jja3

I won't call this a super O, but I do believe it was a dry O.  after 10 years I had it, and here is what I did.

Best news I’ve heard all week!!!

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I had a wet orgasm after my session. 

You do you brother,but imo,this is a mistake.

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The next day I had a sense of peace, and calm.

The sweet taste of achievement and victory.

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Afterwards, when going to bed I did feel a slight sense like my prostate was "awake". 

Normal,like @zentai said,if you don’t cultivate it,it shouldn’t take over. When my prostate awoke,it didnt bother me like others,I just didn’t entertain it unless it was session time.

Good luck for the next session,chill and see where it takes you.


   
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Nothing to add to what others wrote, but adding my words to the pile- sincere congrats @jja3 , and welcome to a new chapter in your life.

It can be helpful that you left a signpost for others- your mention in the second post paragraph of your use of @jiji2000 ‘s tip.

 

 


   
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After about one and a half years something happened that I can not explain. I was simply enjoying a time with my aneros and all of the sudden out of nowhere I get hit with this amazing feeling like a lightning bolt that made my body jerk and I also made a funny sounding moan it lasted about 2 seconds.  The coolest feeling I ever had felt in my life.  Can someone please tell me what it was?  Maybe my first prostate orgasm?  A start of a SO? One thing I know for sure is it is a start of better things to come.  I tried to post this as a new thread but for the life of me could not figure out how to start a new topic.


   
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Posted by: @stubby3

I tried to post this as a new thread but for the life of me could not figure out how to start a new topic.

Yea its kinda messed up, you have to hit Forum button in the grey header,then hit general dicussion, on the right hand side next to the Tags youll ses Add Topics button, hit that and your set


   
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@tbob it must really be messed up. I don't see any add topic button.  I went to blogs and starting a new topic is a piece of cake. Supper Frustrated!!!


   
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Posted by: @stubby3

After about one and a half years something happened that I can not explain. I was simply enjoying a time with my aneros and all of the sudden out of nowhere I get hit with this amazing feeling like a lightning bolt that made my body jerk and I also made a funny sounding moan it lasted about 2 seconds.  The coolest feeling I ever had felt in my life.

@stubby3 I'm not sure what you had. A few years ago I had two sessions where I experienced, what I call prostate jolts. There were kind of electrical, made me moan each time one occurred and felt really nice. But they were a just second or two long. Both sessions, I had a series of many. My experience with Super-Os is limited, but at least for me the jolts were not S-Os. Others might have different thoughts on this.


   
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@stubby3 

Make sure you re logged in, then in General Discussion and not inside an existing thread. You might have to refresh for the button to show up. Here's what it should look like (see picture). I hope this works out for you.

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  The coolest feeling I ever had felt in my life.  Can someone please tell me what it was?  Maybe my first prostate orgasm?  A start of a SO?

If it's the coolest feeling ever, this might well have been the beginning of a Super-O, my best guess is that it startled you and you "lost" it. This is very encouraging. It could have been a short prostate-O, too, it's pretty hard to tell when one thing ends and where the other begins. Next time it happens try to relax into it and ride the feeling and see where it leads. Congratulations ! 

 


   
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I saw your picture, on my page it doesn't show that option.


   
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@stubby3 

Then something is not working right... I don't know the answer, I hope @anerosit can look into it. Several things are weird today, like I don't show up being online even when logged in, this must be a temporary issue.

 

 

 


   
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@stubby3

Yea its kinda messed up, you have to hit Forum button in the grey header,then hit general dicussion, on the right hand side next to the Tags youll ses Add Topics button, hit that and your set

Are you sure you hit forum, in the next screen hit general discussion, then on next screen adjacent to general discussion there is a add topic button. I just tried it multiple times and its there.

   
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@tbob it's working on our other cell phone.  So it is maybe something with the setting on my end.  Thanks to all. Let the feelings never cease!


   
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@stubby3 @jja3

 

If you are using (Chrome) on your smartphone this happens to me too. In browser settings use "Desktop version" . This add topics button will appear. This appears to be an issue on the mobile version of the site. Don't use "ready made" emojis either.

My first Super - O was with one finger there was some small , scattered pleasure before but no P waves . It branched out inside me all of a sudden. I was scared and shocked.

Today Super-O (with Aneros) is a consequence of increased pleasure from P waves. It's the peak. Much pleasure to you 😉


   
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Thank you Soul Pleasure, that was it, switched to desktop and now I have the option to add topic.


   
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