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My question is I have been a once a day masturbator and I have gone cold turkey so I can Concentrate on obtaining the super o faster. Got about 2 weeks using the sgx and haven't felt anything yet. I'm assuming that if I abstain from masturbation I can bring about a super o quicker. Not sure if this is right but it's worth a shot if it works


   
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@aneros_user113188, your user name is not easily recognized so I am not sure if this is your first post.
You post suggests you have been using the SGX for two weeks and that this is your first experience with an Aneros.
If this is correct you are way too impatient. It can take months for the prostate to 'notice' the SGX let alone respond.
I would suggest you cannot force the process, unfortunately it will take as long as it takes. The general consensus is the more you strive for the SO the longer it takes. As the beginning of Aneros use I am not sure if long abstaining will help, it just may make you frustrated and keep you too aware of the needs of you penis. This is counter productive.
If I have misread the question , or the level of you progress, I apologise.
Edit: I notice this is your fourth post and you have been a member for less than a month. It suggests you are beginning an exciting journey with lots of fun ahead - pace yourself and enjoy the trip.


   
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I'm assuming that if I abstain from masturbation I can bring about a super o quicker. Not sure if this is right but it's worth a shot if it worksIMHO, I think that assumption is flawed. Aneros use itself may be construed as masturbation ("erotic stimulation especially of one's own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual or other bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation, occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various combinations of these agencies") and the definition of what constitutes orgasm in the above definition is somewhat vague. You may wish to read the thread What's an Orgasm? for a fuller interpretation as used on this Forum.

Masturbation which increases one's arousal level may actually help you get to a Super-O quicker but it may also hinder your progress if you're too penile focused, please read 'cockadoodle’s thread Penis, NOT and 'rook's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & "zoneros" for a little insight.

IMHO, arousal is a key factor, it is in creating a high arousal level which will facilitate the path to a Super-O. I encourage you to read the threads Are you "aroused"? and Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence. You may even want to take part in the 21 Day Challenge. Here's where things can get a bit tricky, if you are too aroused, i.e. "horny", then your primary focus may be on getting the dopamine "high" neutralizing effect of an ejaculation induced prolactin release and not on the pleasurable sensations leading to a Super-O. This is where masturbation may lead you to cross the PONR into ejaculatory inevitability. However, if you can sustain riding the pleasurable dopamine "high" without crossing over the PONR by moderating your masturbation actions, then you are primed to evolve into the Super-O zone. There's no guarantee that you'll enter the Super-O but you will be experiencing ongoing pleasure and dry-O's at this point. "Just Let Go !" and see what happens.
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My question is I have been a once a day masturbator and I have gone cold turkey so I can Concentrate on obtaining the super o faster. Got about 2 weeks using the sgx and haven't felt anything yet. I'm assuming that if I abstain from masturbation I can bring about a super o quicker. Not sure if this is right but it's worth a shot if it works

As with much to do with the human body, a balance is often helpful, and healthful! I suggest that stopping masturbation entirely is not as helpful as a slower migration from less masturbation to more Prostate centric awareness over the course of time, to be determined by you, will continue to provide you with pleasure without increasing frustration as dramatically.

As your Prostate awareness, and levels of pleasure increase, the desire to masturbate may even subside more naturally because of the new found pleasure center of your prostate!

This essentially has been my experience!

The Super O comes TO you...always...no exception!

Following the recommendations of Rumel, the Wiki pages and other links he provided, will guide you to attain the mindset to set you, and help keep you, on the path to the Super O!

Be patient with yourself and your body! You've only known one way to orgasm all these years and learning a new way takes patience and perseverance! Enjoy!

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The OP would be better served to continue his masturbation. He should only masturbate prior to a session, not after. Or maybe he should have certain days to masturbate, and certain days to have an Aneros session.
Penis aversion will only cause the OP further problems down the road. There is no need for one to go from one extreme (masturbation) to the other (Aneros). One must have true balance between the penis and the prostate.


   
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I have been at this a really long time (9 years! LOL) so here are my 2 cents, "abstinence makes the heart grow fonder". It wouldn't be a "saying" if there wasn't some truth to it.

There is no right or wrong, there is no cookie cutter process. The comments here are only guides and suggestions because we are all different physically, physiologically, and psychologically.

From personal experience, abstaining from sex, masturbation, porn should increase your sensitivity, arousal, desire and focus.

Limit the duration and frequency of aneros sessions. Let the session happen and enjoy it for what it is, without any expectations. I can't say for sure I've ever had a "super O", but I have had some really interesting experiences that I would have trouble explaining.

Masturbating prior to aneros sessions never makes for a pleasurable aneros session (for me) so I have to say you should only masturbate AFTER a session.

As with sex and masturbation, the longer the interval between sessions (abstaining), the more aroused and sensitive you will become.

Everyone is different, so you need to find what works best for you. Don't be afraid to experiment. The key is to relax, focus on the feeling and sensations, and enjoy them. If it feels good, just go with it. 😉


   
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Masturbating prior to aneros sessions never makes for a pleasurable
aneros session (for me) so I have to say you should only masturbate
AFTER a session.

I agree. We have chatted. Don't be impatient. Take your time.

You are young and the need to ejaculate is strong. Don't stop that. But Aneros is a different kind of orgasm. Learn what it is.


   
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The only thing that will speed rewiring is the mind. Not abstinence. The mind controls the process, not the anus.


   
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I tried another session last night and have been abstaining still from masturbation. All that came from the session was I got extremely horny. Not much progress on the dry or super o front. I decided to end my session and about 10-15 minutes later I masturbated until I blew my load. OMG. It was an incredible orgasm. The amount of semen I spewed was amazing. It was easily 3-4 times the amount I normally do. It almost hurt coming out. I never came with a load that size before even in my teen years and now I'm in my early 40's. I know this was a super t. It so makes me want to have a dry o or super o since those are more powerful.


   
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Having super O's that go on and on for as long as you want...is the super part in my opinion!

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I'm torn on it. On one hand the abstinence makes me horny, but on the other, the desire for ejaculation throws me off-course and makes me "press" for ejaculation, which isn't really ideal.


   
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Been abstaining from masturbating for about a week and have had a few sessions and have gotten absolutely nothing from the aneros session....ugh this is frustrating. I so wanna blow my load but figure it may take a long time before my prostate "wakes" up. I'm gonna try to abstain from masturbation for a while more and will then experiment with cumming before trying a session to see if that makes a difference


   
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@aneros_user113188,

FWIW, I didn't really abstain from masturbating or having regular sex with my wife at any point during my rewiring and I seriously doubt that it would have made any difference if I had!

I just don't think there is any link between orgasm induced through penile stimulation and that achieved through prostate or anal stimulation.

My advice would be to go ahead and enjoy your conventional pleasures (masturbation or whatever), and let the Aneros tool do its job in its own way and in its own time. At least this way you will avoid the frustration involved in abstinence.

Good Luck and just enjoy the journey!


   
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It's about becoming prostate focused instead of penis focused. So once 'rewired' the masturbation experience itself changes, one can even cum into a Super O, or having jerked off for an hour or two the prostate is absolutely throbbing so the body is well prepared the next day when using the Aneros.

When ingesting hash or possibly even pot brownies the effect of an ejaculation is drawn out, not only very intense, but the body feels the echo effect much longer and much stronger.

So actually ejaculation, just from the perspective of increasing body sensitivity to the Aneros, is actually good. The question is if ejaculation in itself is good, besides edging with prostate focus/ awareness is as good as ejaculation, unless you've abstained from ejaculation for a considerable time then ejaculation is better


   
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I've been using the aneros now for about 3 years but have not yet experienced a super-o or dry-o but had several p-waves. The journey is long, but after a year I learned that the best journeys were those without any expectations. During those sessions the p-waves came unexpectedly and near the end of my sessions where I was just about to end the session.

For me abstaining has become a better option for arousal amplification than watching porn or reading erotic literature. But one has to consider that after an ejaculotary orgasm it takes up to 2 weeks to have the hormones reordered again in balance.

For me the best session were in the 3rd week of abstaining. I tried several times to do a 90 days nofap challenge just to see how the body reacts. Now I'm actually at day 18 and the arousal is back again. After several weeks of abstaining one can feel the prostate a bit swollen from outside when the aneros is put inside. Even the putting inside of the aneros and feeling it inside is perceived as arousal then.

I will keep on with my current journey and see what the abstaining will bring. But so far for me it is the best arousal amplifier. I combine my abstaining journey with KSMO sessions and Friday / Saturday with aneros sessions. Even the breaks of about 5 - 6 days between sessions do arouse me.

It has to be said that this method really is also about self-control because the urge to ejaculate returns from time to time. But seeing the progress of days and rising arousal is a good reward for me to continue the journey this way.

I also tried the aneros CD for my journey, but somehow it disturbs me while doing a sessions.


   
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I believe I still have a way to go on my journey, but when I originally started off I abstained. I think it helped in regards to pulling the focus off of the penis.


   
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My advice is to try lots of things and learn from them. I've tried abstaining from masturbation for lengths of time before, and I never got as far as I'd have liked. Still, I took what I could from the experiences.

Don't be afraid to experiment and learn new things!


   
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It's about becoming prostate focused instead of penis focused. So once 'rewired' the masturbation experience itself changes, one can even cum into a Super O, or having jerked off for an hour or two the prostate is absolutely throbbing so the body is well prepared the next day when using the Aneros.

When ingesting hash or possibly even pot brownies the effect of an ejaculation is drawn out, not only very intense, but the body feels the echo effect much longer and much stronger.

So actually ejaculation, just from the perspective of increasing body sensitivity to the Aneros, is actually good. The question is if ejaculation in itself is good, besides edging with prostate focus/ awareness is as good as ejaculation, unless you've abstained from ejaculation for a considerable time then ejaculation is better

Yes man, I agree totally!!! I think what you mean is ejaculation with an aneros inside. I have learned so much about my orgasm, my penis, my anus, prostate, everything!, from having traditional Os with full on ejaculation while an aneros was in me through it all. I think that's what made my dry and super Os actually, and finally, start to happen. I realized how deep the aneros goes when I'm cumming full throttle and that its something I didn't think would happen with the aneros during a penis-free session. The aneros doesn't go as far in when I have dry Os and only goes a little further during super Os (although I lose a lot of clarity during them, I can't really focus on anything but just now starting to be able to). Ejaculation makes my ass pull and flex so hard, that thing goes as far in as it possibly can, sometimes it's so strong I wish it would end right away!! Last week I came manually with aneros in and my right testicle went up inside me, actually hurt a little bit!!!! The orgasm was that damn strong, it kind of fucked up my right nut. I recovered after a minute, but that's never ever happened to me before.

Well this is ranting now, but abstaining from orgasm for 8 days was when I finally had a super O, and it was my first prostate/anal produced hands free O ever. And years of cumming with aneros in I'm sure got me ready for it.


   
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