A reminder to be happy with what you have

I second that.

This.

Doubtless the result of Pavlovian conditioning, I get intense a-less vibes as I'm prepping for a ride. It usually gets me so ass-horny that I don't take time to fully explore it.

What a day it has been..... I had a wave of 'readiness' following today's feelings and I reached for a massager, I was not experiencing anything aneros less, it was like my prostate was telling me it was ready for action.

Upon insertion I was greeted with what felt like an orgasm, not intense, but wonderful. My penis feeling this orgasmic bliss from the bottom to the tip. There i stayed experiencing this for many minutes, lost. Just when i thought it was over I would change position and once again would start up just as if I were having a new session. It was by far my most intense and pleasurable session I've had.

My prostate and body needs variety in session, I'm convinced. Some work for a while but will fade and stop but then I move to a new position and its on again. I feel great right now.

This is all possible because it all followed a particularly powerful ejaculatory orgasm that kickstarted my prostate awake. Really feel incredible now.

Isn't it funny how when you scale back the ambition and accept what you get that I suddenly make a huge leap in progress? Funny.

-Sorena

I feel like the more I want it, the less productive my sessions are. Sometimes I wonder if I would be better off just inserting, watching some mindless tv, and just zoning out. The super o I had was a-less as well. It's weird, sometimes I feel like I push to much when I have it in me.

Really feel incredible now.

Isn't it funny how when you scale back the ambition and accept what you get that I suddenly make a huge leap in progress? Funny.

-Sorena

I cannot agree more, Sorena_. Too many seek what they think they want instead of relishing what they are given.

I liken the whole thing to hoping a wild deer eats out of your hand. If you pursue the deer, it will vanish. If you wait patiently, calmly, and hold your hand ready to receive it's advance, it will eventually come to you. When it does, savor the moment.

Keep on receiving and enjoying! 🙂
brine

I think I finally get the term 'let go' which I thought I was doing. I also realise I was interpreting "relish what you are given" and accepting it as 'this is the best it's ever going to get, so live with it' in my mind which I realise now isn't what people were trying to tell me. What they meant, I think, is to accept what I get because when I do that is when I able to progress to a new level without the constraints of desire or goals weighing me down.

This ties in with another revelation; being goal oriented/focused stopped me me being fully aroused and being really, really aroused is what will make the difference, at least for me. Sometimes it was a chore to lube up a device, wait and pray. It was almost a mentality of "I've gone to all this trouble, lubed my device, got naked, cleared space, waited for the house to be free and now I want an orgasm in return, I think that's fair"

This was my pattern and it was very goal focused, which I didn't realise because it was 'hidden' in the form of this mentality. @smudgefish this could be your current issue too, expecting an orgasm because you had one last time.

-Sorena

Great thought process, Sorena. Great things are coming to you.

brine

@Sorena_ I have sort of been giving it a rest recently and doing some energy circulation and experimenting with Tantric techniques. You are right, last night after doing some energy circulation I sort of just randomly tried for an orgasm A-less, not expecting much, and bang! very nice deep intense long orgasm. Haven't got a clue how I did it. Going about this in a totally relaxed expecting nothing way is probably best.
PS can thoroughly recommend tantric masturbation, almost as good as aneros and guaranteed results every time

@Sorena_ I have sort of been giving it a rest recently and doing some energy circulation and experimenting with Tantric techniques. You are right, last night after doing some energy circulation I sort of just randomly tried for an orgasm A-less, not expecting much, and bang! very nice deep intense long orgasm. Haven't got a clue how I did it. Going about this in a totally relaxed expecting nothing way is probably best.
PS can thoroughly recommend tantric masturbation, almost as good as aneros and guaranteed results every time

Everything is always available. Our mind only is not... Which is fair.

I think I finally get the term 'let go' which I thought I was doing. I also realise I was interpreting "relish what you are given" and accepting it as 'this is the best it's ever going to get, so live with it' in my mind which I realise now isn't what people were trying to tell me. What they meant, I think, is to accept what I get because when I do that is when I able to progress to a new level without the constraints of desire or goals weighing me down.

This ties in with another revelation; being goal oriented/focused stopped me me being fully aroused and being really, really aroused is what will make the difference, at least for me. Sometimes it was a chore to lube up a device, wait and pray. It was almost a mentality of "I've gone to all this trouble, lubed my device, got naked, cleared space, waited for the house to be free and now I want an orgasm in return, I think that's fair"

This was my pattern and it was very goal focused, which I didn't realise because it was 'hidden' in the form of this mentality. @smudgefish this could be your current issue too, expecting an orgasm because you had one last time.

-Sorena

Congratulations. You are moving in a good direction.

What they meant, I think, is to accept what I get because when I do that is when I able to progress to a new level without the constraints of desire or goals weighing me down.

Nice.

I was fortunate to have no early session that I found unrewarding. Each gave me something of value, even if I wasn't hitting the jackpot.

Sometimes I wonder if I would be better off just inserting, watching some mindless tv, and just zoning out.That led me to accidental success in one of my early sessions. I was searching for some appealing porn and not paying a damn bit of attention to what my body was doing.

There was a time when the five-minute porn clips were satisfying. The aneros has forever ruined the quickie jerkoff for me.

The aneros has forever ruined the quickie jerkoff for me.Amen, brother.

The aneros has forever ruined the quickie jerkoff for me.Amen, brother.

Absolutely...Why have a quicky, when you can have orgasms for an hour...or more!

TG

The aneros has forever ruined the quickie jerkoff for me.Amen, brother.

Absolutely...Why have a quicky, when you can have orgasms for an hour...or more!

TG

Because sometimes you can be ass horney and penis horney. Also, there are time constraints. Oh, one more, some people find their prostate orgasms are nowhere near as intense as their ejaculatory orgasms.

Oh wait another, some people find that as a direct result of aneros use their ejac orgasms are now wet super o's. Trust me. They're worth having.

-Sorena

I miss the convenience of spontaneously flopping out my dong and moving through to final cleanup within minutes. Now, on the increasingly rare occasions when I want an honest, no-frills wank, it takes serious time and effort to make it happen.

My orgasm productivity has plummetted. I'm going to lose my job at the orgasm factory if i can't get back on track.

A new dimension today.

I got naked and began some contractions, lying on my back legs flat especially. Some holding contractions too. I got some wonderful feelings, not as good as an aneros session, but lovely!

I am aroused and now I realise how important it really is, knowing when you truly are aroused in the right way is the challenge.