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05/26/2017 10:02 am
As some of you are aware I have this issue for perhaps 2 years now, whereby i start a session and within seconds/1 minute i have my first really wonderful feelings, when im really aroused they turn to orgasms and they are wonderful and all encompassing.
However after around 10 minutes or so i find that the feelings that are building (and at times they are building very nicely indeed!) they just stop, not gradually or gently but abruptly. My mind never looses focus and i never feel it wandering when this occurs.
Searching for the longest time and feeling bereft when nobody could help me i think that today i find the reasons why this happens.
I noticed that my best sessions are when im really aroused and very, very awake. My job means i am almost always tired or low in stamina. What i found though is that when i lie on my back, and even my front (the best position for me to generate sensations) it would always hit this 10 minute barrier and pleasure would abrupty cease.
The issue? lying down. It seems when i am in laid position either front or on my back, my brain becomes drowsy, i feel TOO relaxed and often i nearly drift off. I noticed that when i used to have sessions at night i could barely feel my prostate because i am a lot more tired than normal, the prostate sort of feels 'numbed', i can experience pleasure but it is somehow 'far away' feeling.
Sessions when im sitting (like on the couch), kneeling or on all fours or watching porn in some way all keep my brain active and not feeling as though its 'bed time' because im lying down. It also explains why i ALWAYS get incredible a-less response after i end an aneros session and resume my daily acittives because then i'm 'waking up' again.
The best sessions i've had only occur when these things happen or a combination of them occur:
- Super aroused
- Super awake (fairly rare for me)
- Sitting/standing/kneeling/propped up/on all fours etc
Lying down is the main killer of my sessions.
This could be a chemical thats released when im horizontal, i dont know. I have had awesome sessiosn when lying down but i need, as ive said, to be super awake and/or super aroused. So i can be lying down but i must make sure i have the first two points going for me, otherwise i need to refrain from doing so.
Hope this helps others out there if they ever experience the same issue.
05/26/2017 12:21 pm
Interesting observation. Perhaps I should do a session while sitting instead, just for science. I too have found that my sessions are better when I am not tired. Although, I've also had some great sessions while being very tired. For some reason, losing consciousness for a brief moment causes the sensations to amplify and thus waking me up. I believe my early luck with having a dry orgasm was due to falling asleep.
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05/26/2017 12:35 pm
Interesting observation. Perhaps I should do a session while sitting instead, just for science. I too have found that my sessions are better when I am not tired. Although, I've also had some great sessions while being very tired. For some reason, losing consciousness for a brief moment causes the sensations to amplify and thus waking me up. I believe my early luck with having a dry orgasm was due to falling asleep.
For me it seems to put my body into a sort of state of shutting off phyiscal stimuli, and even if im not tired lying down still causes whatever chemical or whatever process it might be into effect and i sort of drift out. If this occurs then i get no ssensation at all and the session is over, i need to be awake, alert and focused... and vertical.
So you and I seem like were oppoistes in this regard.
05/26/2017 1:51 pm
Well, i am able to get pleasure whether lying down or standing (with my SGX in) but i find my most intense sessions are when i am put myself in doggy position. I put a nice soft pillow under my head and stick my ass up in the air (im a Bi-bottom), and i can watch my cock leak pre-cum which is a big turn on, or i zone out and let it auto-fuck me. If i put it in and walk around i get a very different sensation, but i usually end up prone and twitching. I am considering buying a Helix Syn to try something new to see if i can push to the next level.
05/27/2017 6:53 pm
Sometimes I have experience a similar problem. Shortly after insertion, things really ramp up, sometime very quickly, then drop off suddenly as you describe. Things get very exiting for a couple minutes, sometimes several minutes then abruptly stop. Sometimes things really don't get going again for the entire session.
I believe the problem mostly lies with my arousal level. If my body is really ready for a session and I am aroused, I can remain focused and things get going again; sometimes within a few minutes, sometimes a little longer, but the good feelings do return eventually and the session continues.
I have noticed that if I am listening to some erotic hypno and just zoning out this is much less a problem for me. I do believe there is some connection here with my arousal level,. or maybe excessive mind noise and focusing too much on when the good feelings are going to return. The hypno allows me to just BE and listen to what my body is doing, instead of waiting for things to happen.
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05/27/2017 7:38 pm
I have also recently discovered that I have low iron levels and am anemic to some degree, which is a new fairly recent change (because I no longer eat meat) I've ordered some treatment for that so hopefully this helps out a lot.
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