A Key to the "Backdoor" to Ecstasy

Happy New Year to All,

I had an exquisite experience last night that I thought I'd relate. It started with another terrific session with my MGX Aneros. I had had about 4 large scale Super O's (non ejaculatory orgasms) when I decided to switch back and finish myself off with a superb ejaculation via full-on manual penile contact. After basking in the afterglow of this traditional climax I decided to try something different. Now normally a traditional ejaculation has always constituted an end point to all of my sexual encounters (either alone or with a partner). At the very least it's meant waiting through an obligatory "refractory" period ( a "time-out" if you will, of normally 6 to 10 minutes during which I'm incapable of an erection). But this time I thought it might be interesting to see if I could cross back over to the "non ejaculatory"/Super O experience.

While not expecting much to happen, I focused my attention back onto making some gentle lower abdominal contractions while engaging in some "vibratory breathing" and then slowly introduced some gentle anal contractions as well. I was absolutely astonished when WITHIN A MINUTE I started to feel another Super O beginning to build! It was very gentle but delightful and came and went within about 3 minutes. However, within about 2 minutes it was followed by another Super O and this one was quite large and absolutely magnificent. All and all these POST EJACULATORY SUPER O'S were unique experiences, that is, they were different from any other Super O that I'd had before. It's almost as if the sensory pathway was somehow tweaked by my recent penile ejaculation. It was redefining moment!! My sexual repertoire has been expanded yet again, by the Aneros. The only limitation to this "non ejaculatory" phenomenon appears to be one's stamina and the amount of time at one's disposal! INCREDIBLE!

I'm curious if anyone else has experienced this "post ejaculatory Super O" ?

Check it out!

B Mayfield

Hi

I used aneros 3 times, a week ago now i`m getting blood in my semen. there is no blood in the urine only in the semen.do you think its normal.

I read in a past posting about someone's suggestion to heat up the aneros in order to bend the tab to a new position. Has anyone actually done this? If so, what was used to heat the unit... blow dryer, boiling water?

See my post in the next thread "Keys to the Backdoor... REVISITED" , check out my comments on 1/19/04 where I gave all the details. I used a "heat gun" (looks like a hair dryer, but has lower, much hotter and more focused output). I don't think boiling water generates sufficient heat (haven't tried it though,), I know a conventional hair dryer does not.

Mayfield

OVER-CONTRACTION = IS MORE BETTER?

In the past I have commented about the fact that most, if not all new users have a tendency to apply a traditional masturbatory model to their Aneros sessions. The primary notion that characterizes this kind of thinking is described by the old adage "more is better ". With respect to your garden variety "hand job" this would equate to.. more, harder, faster, longer etc. In relationship to the Aneros this translates exclusively into "over-contraction". Over-contacting can show up in one of several ways; 1) frequency 2) magnitude 3) both

Frequency

Performing large numbers of anal contractions is once again something that is reinforced by our thoughts of how things work for "pulling off" a traditional orgasm. However, I believe that misintrepretation of the manufacturers instructions may have also led others astray. For example the instructions discuss starting with a series of 20 to 30 contractions as EXERCISE, only a warm-up if you will. Unfortunately, many have neglected to read further to where the real technique comes into play. The idea of holding one or more low level contractions for a long duration is really the essence of the method for generating "non-ejaculatory orgasms" (Super O's). The "involuntary contractions" that this technique produces are then encouraged, reinforced and built up with some gentle, short voluntary contractions that cause a "snowballing effect" that results in the Super O. Some time back I read comments from one user who actually managed to get an occasional "involuntary twitch" from a salvo of high frequency contractions only to find that he couldn't maintain them. Again, "more is better" thinking was the culprit here, in reality what was happening is that once he got an encouraging "twitch" he threw a whole series of contractions at it. The result was that he was extinguishing the response not encouraging. Again, once you start to experience these "involuntary contractions" react to them in a small way, LESS IS MORE here, be observant, and you'll find your own rhythm with them.

Magnitude

In my experience, hard/strong contractions will do nothing to promote a Super O and they may actually discourage it. Strong contractions do not encourage "involuntaries" and prolonged use of them can lead to soreness and discomfort, particularly for those new to anal play. That having been said, strong contractions MAY have a role in the later phases of a Super O. Once a Super O is imminent a strong contraction may clinch the deal, but knowing that it IS TRULY imminent is best decided by an advanced user in my opinion. Performing a strong contraction before it's appropriate can once again extinguish the whole build-up which puts you back to zero, which can be very frustrating. The only safe place for strong contractions is in the middle of a Super Orgasm itself. During a Super O, strong contractions can be used to maintain the experience and increase it's duration.

It may seem counterintuitive but to generate a Super O, LESS IS MORE! Low intensity (long duration) contractions do the trick. Once you start having some "involuntaries" mentally focus on them, try to bring the sensations into your abdomen, use rhythmic breathing. (Remember to always maintain proper placement of the abutment tab on your "sweet spot"!) If you feel a small wave of pleasure, try contracting your abdomen frontally and rectum (the bearing down pushing outward contraction deep inside) at the same time. Let your lower abdomen swell and hold it out while contracting. If you get a succession of "involuntary contractions" tell yourself that you're going to cum. Quicken your breathing. Mix it up,... again you must find your own rhythm!

To sum it up, over-contracting is a source of a tremendous amount of frustration for newbies and for more experienced users who are yet to find their way to the Super O. It can terminate pre-orgasmic sensations and can lead to soreness which further stalls the process.

Cheers,

B Mayfield

Originally Posted By: b mayfield
P.S.
Even when you do become experienced at having these types orgasms they don't necessarily happen EVERYTIME you go for it. But you will develop consistency that will make you plenty satisfied! Perhaps its better that way...anyway........NAHHHH, but what the hell

Cheers

B Mayfield

Well, I am new here. But I just ordered my Aneros today. I can't wait to get it. I have played with Anal simulation. But it sound like this will be nothing like I have felt before. I currently have intense orgasms with Penile simulation. I am ready to take it to the next level. To experience multiple orgasm is a long desire for me.

Originally Posted By: b mayfield
Blue

I believe that if you open yourself up to new sensations, you will eventually find your way. So it was for me. Discovering this new orgasmic experience has been very empowering for me. It's just great knowing that you can give yourself this intensity of pleasure. Its funny because my first instinct was to shout it out to the world!! Then I checked myself! Unfortunately, taboos still persist about men (particularly heterosexual men) being into this kind of stimulation. Sadly, there are many of my friends that wouldn't be open to the experience. This forum has given me a terrific opportunity to share my experiences with a group of people who are open to it and I am thankful for that.

I am very happy if anything that I've posted helps you in your journey and as each day passes hopefully I'll have more to share. You see, even though I am having these Super Orgasms on a fairly consistent basis now, I am still learning about the process. It seems that even though I get there, sometimes I'm not quite sure how it is that I make it. It's kind of like knowing how to get to a certain place or address without knowing the names of the streets that get you there. You just move along and take your cues from the landmarks that you see along the way and suddenly... you're there. Part of it too is that the experience of the Orgasm itself so totally "cleans my clock" that sometimes, believe it or not, I don't remember the steps I've taken. In any event, I will endeavor to report to everyone via this forum as things reveal themselves more clearly to me. Again, I would really love to spread the word about the Aneros to world, but I'm not sure the world is ready. In the meantime, my goal is to try to help those who are making an earnest effort with the Aneros go all the way!

Thanks for your kind words,

B Mayfield

I have just read your experiences. How long have you been usig the Aneros?

I have been using the Aneros for 2 years. It still gives me great pleasure each time I use it. My orgasms come very quickly each time, within 5 minutes or so. I can place the tab almost anywhere and still I get the orgasms. I usually re-position the tab after each orgasm. This gives me many many orgasms as I position the tab "around the clock". So I easily spend an hour for each session of use of the Aneros.

I lubricate the aneros with vaseline first with my finger and then apply KY jelly over it. The excess lubricant on my finger is applied on to my anus. This method keeps the aneros lubricated for a long long time.

minsinz

Minsinz,

I've been using the Aneros for just about 15 months now. I've had consistent results from it for the last 8 months. As I've outlined in previous postings, I had my own "learning curve" to deal with. Although this period was frustrating it taught me a great deal about myself and about the "non-ejaculatory" sensory pathway, which I have in turn tried to pass along to others.

If you've read any of the other postings in the forum, you know that you're really lucky that the abutment tab works so well for you in so many positions. My "sweet spot", and I suspect that most people's, tends to be more localized, requiring some attention to maintaining placement. I have found however, that once I have "crossed-over" with my first Super O in a session, that placement of the tab is MUCH less critical for additional orgasms.

In so far as lubrication goes, I tried the oil/water mix very early on, and I will admit that it works very well, but I found that it was too messy for me to be my method of choice. I have also heard that some people have had reactions to oil based products, so I have been reluctant to suggest this to others. Copious amounts of good 'ol KY Jelly is what I use nowadays, with the thinner KY liquid for pre-lubrication sometimes.

Cheers,

B Mayfield

Originally Posted By: b mayfield
Minsinz,

I've been using the Aneros for just about 15 months now. I've had consistent results from it for the last 8 months. As I've outlined in previous postings, I had my own "learning curve" to deal with. Although this period was frustrating it taught me a great deal about myself and about the "non-ejaculatory" sensory pathway, which I have in turn tried to pass along to others.

If you've read any of the other postings in the forum, you know that you're really lucky that the abutment tab works so well for you in so many positions. My "sweet spot", and I suspect that most people's, tends to be more localized, requiring some attention to maintaining placement. I have found however, that once I have "crossed-over" with my first Super O in a session, that placement of the tab is MUCH less critical for additional orgasms.

In so far as lubrication goes, I tried the oil/water mix very early on, and I will admit that it works very well, but I found that it was too messy for me to be my method of choice. I have also heard that some people have had reactions to oil based products, so I have been reluctant to suggest this to others. Copious amounts of good 'ol KY Jelly is what I use nowadays, with the thinner KY liquid for pre-lubrication sometimes.

Cheers,

B Mayfield

I have used the Aneros for over a year. I use lube (I like Millennium)when I am on my back doing PCs, pushing and pulling it past my anus and against my prostate. I haven't reviewed all of the posts, but is there any others out there that use only water for lube when you insert your Aneros? I find there is much less chance of ejecting the Aneros while working or walking around.
BTW: Soaking the Aneros in hot water for a few minutes before insertion feels really good.
TT

Originally Posted By: jojogunn

I recognize those "new sensations" because they're a part of this whole fantastic process I find myself in. If I'm using the machine (since you asked, The Venus is a masturbation device/machine, offering totally hands free ejaculation. A pretty powerful but somewhat expensive ($1K) device. Can be viewed at Sybian.com. The best way to describe the experience is the best Head you've ever had, plus it NEVER gets tired or bored. Flacid or erect doesn't matter; it'll get you off)anyway, if I'm using the machine with the Aneros in place, when i start building towards the traditional penile orgasm the Aneros "starts up" and that is when the heavy fireworks start. Most recently I've kept the speed control close and try to turn the machine down as quickly as possible when the Aneros action starts. Even just turn it off altogether and work with the internal feelings. That CAN be pretty interesting because it seems that anytime an ejaculatory mode is started the natural course of events is completion. Sometimes the vibration internally intensifies and goes along for quite some time before fading out. I've "milked" the internal feelings by turning on and off the Venus machine but at some point the Aneros-induced feelings take off like a rocket and there's NOTHING that can stop it. With the Venus still slowing stroking, the experience lasts a lot longer - barring it being so strong that I go totally nuts and tear everything loose. At a certain point I am just no longer capable of dealing with Venus or Aneros or ANYthing. It's a whole other place. I think I know what you're talking about. I think I recognize it as maybe a part of the normal orgasmic process, some primitive triggering mechanism that hits briefly to push a man over the edge for penile ejaculation. But what I'm experiencing now is a LOT of it instead of just a brief "push" and I'm guessing a person could 'cultivate' that sensation by itself for something really special. I thought out of body experiences were illusion or hallucinations but now I'm having them from time to time and I would never have guessed they'd come from something as crude as playing with my dick. By the way, my wife (who thinks of Aneros as a medical device for prostrate massage)has had me a couple of time with it in place and her not know it; she likes the experience but calls me a crazy man and says its like I was when we first got together and I was 23. She thinks I took Viagra! She also thinks I've become sex obsessed. This is TRUE! I can say in all honesty that I pee better, cum better and am one Hell of a lot more satisfied sexually than in the past 30 years, maybe not ever. I'd sure like to have some pure internal experiences. One question - I get little rushes just thinking about it. Do you get something without the Aneros

Jo:

You said "I pee better, cum better and am one Hell of a lot more satisfied sexually than in the past 30 years". Am I right in surmising you're in your late 40s or early 50s? I'm 52 and, in the last year, have noticed a significant decrease in libido. It's rare that I can get excited enough to be able to masturbate the way I could only a couple of years ago. Sex with my wife is still fantastic, but she, too is slowing down, which means I need to take care of myself in the interim. Did I read you correctly that the Aneros might help with the arousal (not an erectile problem) problem and improve standard, ejaculatory orgasms?

I'm also not sure whether to get the standard model or the slightly smaller one. I've tried taking a life-sized dildo up the but and found it to be uncomfortable. I don't know if I just need to get used to it, or if it would be better to go with the smaller version. Any suggestions?

Thanks

Hi All,

I recently came across a different product for lubrication that I wanted to give a mention. The product is called "Personal Plus Gel" and is manufactured by a company called ForPlay (Trimensa Pharmaceuticals). What makes this water based product different than most is that it is neither a liquid or a jelly, but a "gel". A fine distinction to be sure, but what it comes down to is that it is somewhere between the liquid types of lube that you're familiar with, (ID Glide, KY Liquid/Silk, Wet, etc.) and straight KY Jelly in its consistency. Therefore it is extremely slick without being sticky and it adheres a little better to the Aneros than the liquids. It also contains aloe vera so the manufacturer makes some claim about its moisturizing properties as well (which I haven't observed). Because it is intermediate in consistency it's excellent as a primary lube and a "prelube" as well (flows inside a dropper easily). Lastly, clean up is a snap. Anyway, if you're looking for something different, give it a shot and see what you think. For more info. go to www.forplay.com. (I found it at a local adult shop)
B Mayfield

P.S. Be careful when shopping for lubes these days, there is a entire class of products that are "warming types". You know the kind that you apply then blow on and it makes your skin hot. In the old days I remember a product called "emotion lotion", but nowadays even some of the mainstream manufacturers (Trojan among others ) are offering these kinds of products. BE CERTAIN THAT ANY OF THE PRODUCTS THAT YOU BUY ARE NOT THE WARMING TYPE. THESE PRODUCTS ARE TOTALLY UNSUITABLE FOR USE WITH THE ANEROS. I mention this because I am also aware that FourPlay offers this kind of product as well.

Today I finally hit the jackpot! I've been trying unsuccessfully for several months to achieve more than just vaguely pleasurable sensations with my Aneros. The bottom line (forgive pun) is that the standard instructions and the various enhancements suggested by other users just don't work for me. I've now found a method that does.

I'm a 57 year old bisexual, insulin-dependent diabetic. My diabetes has been well controlled for the last 40 years, so I am only just beginning to experience the anticipated reduction of sexual sensitivity and potency. Viagra's competitor, Cialis, helps and has the advantage that its effect lasts much longer. However, I achieved my recent anal/prostate orgasm without the aid of any pills.

I've had things and people up my bum for almost as long as I've been a diabetic, so didn't have any inhibitions about using an Aneros. The secret of my recent success?

I use an old insulin syringe to inject a lot of lubricant into my rectum (obviously after first removing the needle!). I then sit on a couple of cushions placed on top of a dining room chair. I consciously relax all my muscles, and sit leaning slightly forward with my elbows resting on the arms of the chair. In theory, this should restrict the movement of the Aneros in my anus, but in fact it has the effect of bringing the Aneros into closer and stronger contact with my prostate and whatever else turns me on up there. I'm sitting on my Aneros as I write. What follows is pretty much a real-time account of what I am feeling.

I adjust my position until I feel the beginnings of pleasurable sensations. I then start contracting and relaxing my anal sphincter muscles gently to increase the intensity of the sensations, and identify the optimum small range of positions in which to maintain the Aneros. The vermiculation sensations start first, then change into pulsating (pulse like) sensations from high up in my rectum all the way down to my anus. My cock is completely flaccid (in fact I am fully dressed with my trousers zipped up). I continue contracting and relaxing my anal sphincter, to intensify the pleasurable sensations. I'm not trying to cause an orgasm, just enjoying what I am feeling and waiting for it to happen.

Despite the fact that I am sitting on my Aneros, I can feel it moving around inside me. Maybe my body is moving involuntarily around it. Soon, the pulsating becomes stronger and begins to take over. I just relax and try to maintain the position of the Aneros where the pleasure is greatest. What follows is a feeling of great sensitivity in my rectum and an intensely pleasurable pulsating concentrated near my prostate.

I feel like the Aneros is being drawn up higher and higher into my rectum. I am then overcome by wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure which lasts for minutes. It only stops when I relax or am distracted, but can be restarted quickly, more quickly than the first wave. It seems like I can go on having orgasm after orgasm until I want to stop.

Phew! I need to change my underpants. The Aneros induced orgasm is not "dry" as advertised, as lots of clear pre-cum liquid is produced with the first couple of orgasms.

I'm not sure whether I've achieved the "Super-O" that various people have described, but I certainly plan to carry on and see if the fantastic feelings I have experienced can get any better.

I hope other users who have been experiencing difficulty getting there benefit from my experiences.

However you got there,... it certainly sounds like a Super O to me! As I've stated in the past, there may be many paths to the Super O. (I myself have achieved it with and without the use of the Aneros.) Thanks for sharing your experience with us all.

Enjoy!

B Mayfield

ON SECOND THOUGHT ....!

Fellow Users,

Back on May 20th I had posted some comments about a lubricant called Personal Plus Gel that I had tried and (at the time) been delighted with. At that point, I had used it for about 8 weeks without incident. Since that time however I've been noticing some mild irritation whenever I use this product. Although, the irritation is nothing terrible, and does not persist after my sessions, I simply don't feel comfortable continuing to use anything that causes any kind of irritation in this area, no matter how mild the reaction is . Why it took so long to surface, I'm not really sure. However, since I had given the product a strong recommendation initially, I feel it necessary to warn anybody who may have gone out and purchased it (on my recommendation) about this recent development.

This having been said, I think this lube is still fine when used on your penis, and as a matter of fact I've used it on several occasions with my wife for the old slip and slide (vaginal penetration), without any problems whatsoever.

But when it comes to the Aneros, I'm back to good 'ol fashioned KY. And now it's smooth sailing once more! I guess there's no messing with success. I apologize to any of you who tried Personal Gel Plus and were disatisfied with it. Rest assured that in the future I will give a product a more lengthy test drive (at least 90 days), before offering a recommendation.

Regards,

B Mayfield

It happened! I'm still trembling, but I have to tell someone. My very first super-O. Intense hot and cold flushes, a cold sweat like I was about to faint or pass out. Trembling and shaking all through my body, accompanied by a rush that you get with a normal orgasm, but deeper and more continuous. A shortness of breath. And tingling, lots of tingling all through the body. Wasn't quite what I expected, but once I'd put my expectations aside, there it was. I had four waves of this after which just a tiny touch of my penis almost sent me into a fifth. I finished with the strongest and most intense penile orgasm I've had, as far as I can remember.

I've had the thing for about two months or so and being a yoga teacher thought, "yeah, yeah, I know all about breathing and perineal contractions" and thought I'd hit it with the first insertion. No such luck. I've used it about a dozen times and thought I'd read some of these posts again. Then I had another go. So what did I do today that was different to the other times?

I suppose the main thing was to try and clear my mind of the idea I had built of what the super-O might be. It's not anything like what you have imagined or experienced. The other thing was not to put pressure on myself to have one, whatever it was. If I did feel frustrated, then give up for that day, and have good wank.

The level of contraction that you need is tiny. My pelvic contractions are fairly strong from my practice and teaching of yoga, so not more than 20% of my maximum contraction. I made sure that I let go fully after each one to experience relaxtion again. I was lying on my back with my feet together and knees apart. (Yoga practitioners will know this as supta baddhakonasana), but then I put one knee straight up in the air. I don't know where the idea came from, but I started to time my contractions with the beat of my heart, almost like a flicker. So the feeling of my pulse in my prostate and my conscious contraction came at the same time. I missed a few times, but soon my timing got better. I began to feel involuntary contractions, but they were even tinier than my already tiny contractions, that's when it started to happen. I made my contrations even more subtle so that I could feel the involtary ones more clearly.

Then there was a very strong urge to urinate and ejaculate at the same time. It felt as though my prostate was getting bigger. Meanwhile my penis which had been untouched all the while begged for attention. It had been rising and falling in time with my fantasies, but felt independent to what else was going on.

Then came the rush starting in the pelvic region and emanating to all the extremities of the body. Then the cold sweat and the tingling, the shortness of breath and slight convulsions. More. I wanted more. I felt in control and just lay there and waited. Deeper breathing and more subtle contractions and I was riding the next wave. More hot and cold flushes.

A few weeks ago I passed out, on a plane of all places, but luckily there was a doctor a few rows away to revive me. It was a bit like that but infinitely more pleasureable.

Anyway, that'll do for now I think. It was intense, but sharing it is even more of a rush, especially with guys who understand. Thanks for reading my first post.

Arup

Arup,

Congratulations! Your experience sounds terrific!! As I've noted in the past, and as you pointed out so eloquently in your post...the Super O is truly a product of very subtle contractions that propagate larger pleasure waves that build into this very special all encompassing orgasm. Many who seek the Super O apply old methodology, the masturbatory techniques of harder, faster, tighter etc. . And for such individuals the Super O will remain an elusive goal. Less is more is the aphorism that applies here.

I have often wondered if the discipline of yoga might offer a fast track to the Super O with the Aneros in the hands (sphincter) of an experienced practitioner? In my discussions with those who are into yoga, they emerge as a group of people who are in many ways already in tune with their body's own unique rhythms. It is my opinion that this quality of being in tune is a prerequisite for the Super O. For individuals (such as myself) who have had little formal experience with yoga, it would seem there is a somewhat larger learning curve. In my own case, it took me many months to reach a point of familiarity with my body/mind such that I was able consistently generate this Super O experience for myself.

Again, congratulations and enjoy, there are some tremendous orgasms that await you. Check out positions such as side lying (left vs. right), kneeling (upper body on a bed, knees on the floor), on all fours, in addition to ones that your yoga experience might inspire. I have found that different positions produce subtly different orgasms. A typical Aneros session can include many different positions, producing many superb orgasms. Lastly, check out my post on 1/3/04. In this thread I discuss a post ejaculatory Super O . That is, a Super O that one can generate shortly after a traditional penile ejaculation. It is really different!

Cheers and have fun!

B Mayfield

Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
Arup,

Congratulations! Your experience sounds terrific!! As I've noted in the past, and as you pointed out so eloquently in your post...the Super O is truly a product of very subtle contractions that propagate larger pleasure waves that build into this very special all encompassing orgasm. Many who seek the Super O apply old methodology, the masturbatory techniques of harder, faster, tighter etc. . And for such individuals the Super O will remain an elusive goal. Less is more is the aphorism that applies here.

I have often wondered if the discipline of yoga might offer a fast track to the Super O with the Aneros in the hands (sphincter) of an experienced practitioner? In my discussions with those who are into yoga, they emerge as a group of people who are in many ways already in tune with their body's own unique rhythms. It is my opinion that this quality of being in tune is a prerequisite for the Super O. For individuals (such as myself) who have had little formal experience with yoga, it would seem there is a somewhat larger learning curve. In my own case, it took me many months to reach a point of familiarity with my body/mind such that I was able consistently generate this Super O experience for myself.

Again, congratulations and enjoy, there are some tremendous orgasms that await you. Check out positions such as side lying (left vs. right), kneeling (upper body on a bed, knees on the floor), on all fours, in addition to ones that your yoga experience might inspire. I have found that different positions produce subtly different orgasms. A typical Aneros session can include many different positions, producing many superb orgasms. Lastly, check out my post on 1/3/04. In this thread I discuss a post ejaculatory Super O . That is, a Super O that one can generate shortly after a traditional penile ejaculation. It is really different!

Cheers and have fun!

B Mayfield

The idea behind yoga being a help to those with the use of the Aneros I am sorry to say that I disrupt your hypothesis. It would seem that there is much more to experience in my own body and I have been doing Yoga for 2 years now. I have yet to reach a super O with the Aneros (or anything for that matter), but I have come to the realization that I AM learning new things and I WILL get there eventually and then the trouble will be to master it!
Yoga I suppose helped some as far as relaxing and such however, the mindset for the Aneros is a bit different. Hatha Yoga is for relaxation which, like I said, helps with this kind of play, but I have also noted that an erotic thought, dream, or fantasy will help with the Aneros and that certainly doesn't fit in with yoga. Sorry to bust your hypothesis Mr. Mayfield. I think you may be onto something, but I break the idea that it will help ALWAYS. SORRY!
Onto bigger and brighter things - I hope! 🙂

-Scooby

Scooby,

Thanks for the input. Again, not being a yoga practicioner myself, my thoughts were formed out of the feedback that I've received from Aneros users that are. I didn't mean to infer anything that was absolute. I also didn't mean to imply that yoga, imparts immediate access to the Super O. For most people, certain specific techniques are required for generating this experience. As this forum makes clear, perfecting such a skill set is an individual process.

My thinking was just that yoga, being a discipline of mind and body, that works with the body's inner energy centers, might give an Aneros newbie a little bit of a leg up so to speak. For example, there are many people out there that have never even sat alone and mentally focused in a relaxed way. People, by in large, are accustomed to large scale activity in one form or another. It's no different with traditional masturbatory techniques, it's mechanical and for most people very active in a physical sense. The Super O, by contrast is a much more subtle process, one that is benefited by calm, mental focus and a greater awareness of body. My feeling was that yoga practicioners are already familiar with these qualities. Now, where they go from there... well that is their own journey.

I am also aware that there are different types of yoga; Kundalini, Hatha and Tantric for example. Perhaps this has some bearing also? I haven't really tracked this in my communications with yoga enthusiasts.

Again, thanks for the clarification! Good luck in your endeavors.

B Mayfield

Mr Mayfield,

I didn't intend to attack. I was trying to have a dry and wry sense of humor. Kind of like a whily child. The humor, it would seem, did not get conveyed in my message. Maybe you got it, but I realized that it could have easily been mistaken for a complaint. And for that I apologize, I think you have every right to theorize because afterall, you seem to be the foremost expert of this device. With all the success you seem to have (I am jealous) you should and probably are making correct theorizations.

Yes, there are MANY types of Yoga. Some focus very hard on relaxation and the postures associated with relaxation; Hatha. There are some accelerated forms (the names of which I am not sure of) that promote strength, some that promote flexibility, and some for weight loss. The traditional aspect of Yoga was an aerobic relaxation session that will calm the mind and body for a productive meditation session. It was very soon after that the beginning Yogis were also developing better health in association with their endeavors and the health aspect (as far as a body not necessarily mind) was discovered. Some Yogis that practice Yoga have lived longer and healthier lives. The Yogi here where I live is I think nearing 90 years old. The man looks 70 (he has grey hair and the liver spots etc.) but he walks with grace and can out do anyone as far as the posture are concerned. He is more flexible than I am, probably stronger too. I guess that is not saying much 🙂 Anyway, he is very old in mind, but his body has not aged at the same rate. It is so cool.

Anyone interested in Yoga but fear they may get laughed at or are worried that there is a 'religion' involved, please try it. I can almost guarantee there will be no one to laugh at you and there certainly is NOT any religion associated with it. Hatha was a great start for me into the world of Yoga. I took it for three semesters during school so that it could help with my stress levels and I am glad I did. I still practice at home although I am getting a little bored with it. I would like to learn some new postures and such, but whenever I need to relax and mellow out, I use Yoga. It might help in our search for the 'holy grail' of orgasms vis-a-vis the Super-O.

Thanks Mr Mayfield for all your posts. I can see where your posts have made a difference at least for me because I may have long given up on this thing if it weren't for you. Your idea of the learning process being like a journey warrants praise. Thanks again...

-Scooby

Scoob,

Absolutely no offense taken! I certainly didn't take your comments as an attack or complaint in the least. On the contrary, I appreciate your input, it is afterall, the only way that all of us who contribute to this forum can gain a deeper knowledge of this wonderful Super O phenomena. Discussion and feedback are essential. The understanding that I have today can be directly attributed to my own experiences and experimentation combined with the personal insights of other forum participants. We are all on the same sensory journey, some a little farther along perhaps, but nonetheless we are all still learning.

With regard to yoga, I'm pretty close to taking the plunge. On the recommendations of friends and many in the forum, it seems as though it might be something that could broaden my awareness. (I'm a long-time practicioner of TM and on occasion self hypnosis). My difficulty is finding the time for the classes...but I digress.

Thanks for your words of encouragement, they are much appreciated.

B Mayfield

P.S. What's going on with your old style MGX ? Did you ever repair it?

Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
Scoob,

Thanks for your words of encouragement, they are much appreciated.

B Mayfield

P.S. What's going on with your old style MGX ? Did you ever repair it?

Mr Mayfield,

Yes. I got repaired to some extent, but the abutment tab is very short now. It shrunk!! I heated it together once and the tab hit OK. After some further tweaking it was comfortable, but no pleasure. Then as fate would have it, I dropped it while cleaning it or something and the tab snapped off again! So, I once again reheated it and now the tab hits way too close to the anus. It really doesn't have any more pleasure for me and I think fate is telling me I am not supposed to use that model.

On another note, I have been using the newer MGX and I have had some success with it. The other day I had a sensation that was completely new to me, but like so many people I got excited about it and thought too hard on it and it fizzled. It was an abdominal sensation almost like a shiver as if I was cold. The fan WAS blowing on me at the time so it could have been manifested from a shiver, but with the aneros in place it gave me a wholly different and highly pleasurable sensation. It is another step I think. Another step closer. Soon, all the steps will eventually lead to something that will blow my socks off (if I am wearing any). I can feel it!

Thanks again for your help

-Scooby

A MESSAGE TO ALL USERS

Dear Users,

From here on, I will no longer be adding new topics to this thread. The manufacturer has opened up a new area in this website called BEE LINE that I believe is better suited for that purpose. I strongly urge all of you who are interested in my comments to check it out. The concept of it, as I understand it, is that it's a space that is more informational and a little less chat like in format. In the forum when a thread author generates a topic, there are very often a mix of responses, some of which are on topic and others that are off topic. Not that it's a bad thing per se, but it can be very frustrating to some users, newbies in particular who are trying to find needed information. They are left to try to separate the wheat from the chaff as were, from pages and pages of threads that number in the hundreds at this point.

BEE Line is meant to offer a user quicker access to advice and techniques. To establish BEE Line, they have started by culling from several of my postings in the Keys threads in addition to responses that I've made to other threads in the forum. I've been told that there will be several contributors to start with, and that the number will grow as time goes on.

I encourage anybody with any questions or comments to continue to post to this thread if they so desire. I will continue to respond to comments both here and elsewhere in the forum.

Respectfully,

B Mayfield

P.S. Check out my newest posting on the Super T in BEE LINE !

ANEROS THE NEXT GENERATION - REVIEWED

Sorry guys for taking so long on this, but I had originally wanted to post here and to my own web site at the same time. As it’s been taking a little bit longer than anticipated for development and implementation of the site, I figured I’d start with a condensed version here and offer the more in depth version once I’m on line.

The Next Generation Aneros’ signal a real departure in marketing, form and function. Up until now HIH (the manufacturer of Aneros) has introduced new models (for the western market) one at a time, normally with several years or more in-between. The reason for this is presumably that they were aiming at a one size fits all approach . For those who follow the forum regularly, one thing has become clear; there are certain anatomical variations in all of us that may govern one’s success with one unit or the other. That is, some have found success with the SGX or with the MGX Classic while others have found it with the New MGX.

Rather than making continued improvements on one design path, HIH has broken some new ground by introducing 3 new units all at the same time, 2 of which are geared to meeting more specific needs.

THE MAXIMUS

The Maximus is, as its name implies, the largest unit that has been brought to the western market. Originally dubbed the hammer by Aneros staffers, (for its ball peen hammer appearance), this product clearly out-sizes all the other models with respect to its girth (width/thickness). To give you a rough estimate, it’s probably on the order of about 15% larger at the head, than the MGX. The abutment tab and arm is of the same design as seen in the SGX and NEW MGX models (shorter and closer to the anus than in the MGX Classic). Looking at the base you’ll notice the absence of ribbing (to promote mobility). The overall concept behind this unit is clear; a model for those who were looking for a more filled up sensation.

So does it deliver? Yes indeed it does! No doubt about it, upon insertion one immediately has the sensation of something larger back there. As with all things individual perception on this will be different too. Aneros newbies and those new to anal play will most likely find the Maximus far too large for their purposes. While many anal vets might be saying, is that all there is? . In any event, one must remember that MOBILITY is an absolutely essential component of Aneros function. If the unit is unable to move freely in and out of the anus it will not work properly.

So if you’ve had your troubles accommodating the smaller MGX don’t bother with the Maximus (at least until you’ve opened up a bit). And if you’re an anal vet who’s really into expansion and such, again don’t waste your time…you’ll do better with a large dil or a plug.

So who’s going to benefit from Maximus? The Maximus is best suited for experienced / advanced Aneros users who are looking for a fuller sensation with their Aneros sessions. Such a user should have had previous experience with larger items or a certainly a fair amount of flexibility and the ability to relax easily.

Pros

Delivers a fuller sensation that makes for a really different Aneros experience. (When you come with this one and you begin to clamp down and spasm upon it, you’ll really notice the difference in size…it feels great!)

Cons

One sacrifices a certain amount of agility and focus with this unit. Owing to the disproportionate size of the body and dull rounded shape of the head, the balance seems just a little bit off (again the abutment tab and arm are of the same size as the smaller MGX). As a consequence, there is greater inertia with this unit than the others. So what’s the work-around? In a chance conversation with the Aneros’ inventor, I indicated my concerns and he alluded to the notion that this unit requires more intensive lubrication than the other models. After some experimentation I have found this definitely to be the case. To this task I went back to one of our oldest tricks, mixing oil and water for a really slippery (albeit messy) solution. It’s been terrific ever since.

Final impressions

Between the necessary lube job, the size, weight, and absence of ribs, your rear will get quite a work out trying to move and hold on to this unit. When all is said and done however, the Maximus is good for those who are into something different and into a bit larger fare. I don’t see this as your primary weapon of choice but it’s great to fill out your ARSE-ANAL ! 🙂

THE EUPHO

The Eupho is really at the other end of the spectrum from the Maximus, but more than that, it’s in a class by itself. First, it’s thinner than any of the other models (with the exception of the SGX) and it is far more contoured than anything else that they’ve ever produced. This thing is really impressive to look at, and seems to almost beckon you to insert it! Like the other Next Gen models it’s ribless, but also comes with a newly revamped abutment arm and tab (see http://www.aneros.com/nextgen.php ). The arm itself is much thinner and lighter in construction, while still being nicely balanced in relationship to the body. It’s my belief that this new arm design will make it much simpler to adjust, if it becomes necessary. Considering the problems that many users experienced with the older style abutment arm (and tab) this emerges as a major innovation in my book.

When road testing this model I was immediately taken with just how agile it is….it really moves… and it feels terrific! The numerous contours make for some excellent anal stimulation while the tip dances across your prostate. The thinner design allows for considerable play inside your rectum and I found myself doing a great deal of moving. I came up with two positions just for this model, (I’ll be covering this when I post to my site). I came so many times with this unit…..it’s a winner!

Pros

The Eupho is capable of producing some unique and absolutely delightful sensations as well as some very intense Super O’s. It’s thinner size (girth) combined with the ribless design makes for a very mobile device. Furthermore, it should be fairly easy for everyone to accommodate.

Cons

It possible that some might find that it delivers a little less intensity in the way that it engages the prostate. Consequently one has to work at it a little more to coax a Super O out of it. However, I found that the extra effort came naturally and in a way I felt myself driven to do it, almost as if the Eupho itself was egging me on. For these reasons I would have to say that one might consider this more of an advanced / experienced users model as well.

Final Impressions

Again, I’m intrigued with the way this thing looks (it has a form vaguely reminiscent of a female figure the same way the old coca cola bottles were). If you’re really into anal play to the point where you are collecting different massagers I’d say that the Eupho is an absolute must (I certainly wouldn’t be without it). One might consider it the Aneros connoisseur’s model. If you are a newbie I would advise getting started with one of the other models first (see my review on the Helix).

THE HELIX

At the risk of overstating it a bit, I would have to say that the Helix just might be the Aneros users very own Holy Grail! In general terms its unit similar in size to MGX. But the Helix is not a mere reworking of an old MGX (the way the New MGX was to the Classic), with a redesigned head, body and abutment tab it’s really a whole new unit from the ground up. Specifically, the Helix is slightly shorter, with a head that is wider and thicker than MGX. Overall the device has a more aggressive design with a prominent contour on its anterior surface (toward the prostate) that translates effectively into more intense and more focused prostate contact. Furthermore, they’ve contoured the unit in no less than 4 other areas so that from the moment that you insert the Helix, you know it something different. This one gets right down to business! Miraculously it does all of this without sacrificing any mobility either (owing in part to the ribless design).

The abutment arm and tab are identical to that of the Eupho with its slimmer more minimal design. The tab itself is smaller than that of the MGX so that it yields a more focused pressure (albeit over a smaller area). Surprisingly, even with the smaller surface area of the tab it appeared to anchor the unit as well or better than its predecessor.

From my very first trial with the Helix we were fast friends! For me, there was no learning curve or having to become accustomed to it. I inserted it and started having involuntaries within several minutes, shortly after…I was immersed in Super O’s.

Pros

The Helix is the best unit that HIH has designed since their introduction of the MGX Classic years ago. It’s my opinion that it’s an excellent choice for the advanced user and newbie alike. I anticipate that this unit may give those users who have been having difficulties crossing over that extra push they need.

Furthermore I won’t be surprised if the Helix supplants the MGX as the flagship model in the Aneros line.

Cons

Probably not for SGX users or for those who are having trouble accommodating the MGX already.

Final Impressions

If you’re only buying one Aneros massager….this is the one to get!

Conclusions

In reading this review one might get the impression that I’ve reduced all of this to the level of an old fairytale with …one too big, one too small and another just right. This would be a mistake however. There is a great deal to admire in all 3 of Next Generation models. You’ve just gotta know what you’re getting into! Hopefully this review will have helped you somewhat in that regard.

It’s clear that HIH took a great deal of time and made a creative leap here… and in my opinion it’s paid off big time. To be sure several of these models are more esoteric, but it just goes to show that the manufacturer is open to change and innovation. Well done HIH...keep it (and us) coming!

Cheers,

BF Mayfield

I've had my MGX for about a week now and am in search of my "sweet spot" (I didn't think it would be this difficult). Is it possible not to have a sweet spot? I can feel my prostate and I've read and tried all the methods listed in the forum but the most sensative place for me is about 1 1/2" from my anus--3/4" out of reach for the perineum abutment on my MGX model. The spot really doesn't tingle or send feeling to the inside of my penis and prostate--it's just the most sensative by default. If indeed this is the spot, I can try to do some modifications the MGX as suggested but don't want to risk breaking the abutment if I haven't found my sweet spot. Any ideas? Thanks

Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
My experience has shown me that the "Backdoor" is not opened with a key, but with a combination! I have posted previously that I was lucky enough to stumble into the Super O the very first time I used the Aneros, only to be frustrated by my subsequent attempts. For months I sought in vain for the one factor or "key" that distinguished my first efforts with the device. But to no avail. In my own case I was luckier than many, since I knew what was waiting for me out there, yet that knowledge only seemed to set me into trying to force it to happen. I was finally successful once more when I started to conceptualize it all as a sensual journey, the final destination being this Super Orgasm. In the end I found that there are numerous factors that are necessary to encourage this kind of experience. And in this way it all seems more like trying to find a "combination" to the lock rather than any single key.

First I decided to adopt a "beginner's mind" for the task. This involved not only putting out of my mind all of my previous efforts with the Aneros, but more importantly, the process by which I achieved a traditional penile orgasm. I really tried to clean the slate, and in effect open myself to different forms of sensation. Sensations that WOULD NOT INVOLVE ANY DIRECT PENILE STIMULATION WHATSOEVER. I also removed the burden of expectation which plagued me for many months of frustration. Remember, you don't force this to happen, but rather encourage it. So I just decided to enjoy each of my sessions with the Aneros for what it was as opposed to what it wasn't. Afterall, even absent this Super Orgasm, I was having a lot of fun just trying to find my way, and the "consolation prize" of the penile orgasm while keeping the Aneros inside was(is), well,... not a consolation prize at all, but a terrific experience in its own right.

The first key in this combination lock, is to start your Aneros sessions aroused! To facilitate the experience I always start my sessions by relaxing in a good hot shower, which is also a good place to get squeeky clean too! If an enema is necessary I do this prior to going in the shower. (ALL THAT I WRITE ABOUT HEREAFTER INVOLVES NO TOUCHING OF MY PENIS WHATSOEVER.) Next, I find that viewing some good erotica is a great way to get aroused while practicing some rhythmic breathing. This kind of exercize for me takes the form of breathing into and expanding my lower abdomen, with a gentle "quivering-wave" like motion. Almost as if one was sobbing. I do it slowly, and not necessarily continuously, I'm not trying to hyperventilate, just getting myself excited and in tune with sensations that abdominal-rectal in origin. At some point I start to introduce gentle anal contractions as well, contracting and holding as I breathe in in this way. Soon after, I start to become aware of a "fullness" or swelling of my prostate which I try to center my mind on. As I become more aroused I start to pull on my nipples. When I am really in the mood, I am fully capable of having a very intense orgasm with the technique alone! Go to Jack Johnson's www.multiple.com for more info. (I developed my own technique after using his which involves sound, mine does not)

After getting suitably aroused, I generally retire to my bed where I have prepared everything for my session with the Aneros ahead of time. Those items being: one or two towels (one covering the bed) a tube of KY and the Aneros, cleaned and ready to go. I believe its critical to get all of these things done beforehand, because you don't want to "cool down" your arousal with doing prep stuff. Sometimes I pre-lube my anus with a small syringe full of KY (sometimes not) and then lube the Aneros liberally before inserting it. Depending on my state of arousal the insertion of the Aneros itself can in some cases start the autonomic anal twitching that are the precursors of the Super Orgasm. Generally I start experimenting with gentle low to medium size contractions and hold while doing some of the rhythmic breathing as outlined above.

The second key is then to encourage autonomic anal twitching by paced gentle anal contractions. How many and how long you hold will be part of your own self discovery. Take your time and remember if it doesn't happen for you in this session it will in another. It is my belief that the instructions that the manufacturer gives are just an outline, you don't HAVE to follow them to the letter. But they should get you going in the right direction. You're having the anal twitching, so now what. Key number three, sit back and enjoy them! I've found that the twitching alone can give you kind of a high of its own. But importantly, now is not the time for heavy/strong contractions, again you can't go back into the penile ejaculatory model for cues here, that is, more is not necessarily not better.

Key number four; after experiencing and enjoying several of these waves of twitches MAKE SURE THAT THE PERINEAL ABUTMENT TAB IS CENTERED ON YOUR "SWEET SPOT". Where is the "sweet spot"? Well the good news is that the Aneros takes care of the vertical location for you. All you have to be concerned about is the horizontal orientation of the tab. Generally it is located in the center of you perineum. More specifically, once you start to have the twitches you will hopefully have the makings of a good erection. The erection makes finding the 'sweet spot" easier. Move the tab and find the middle of your perineum. Move the position a little, sometimes its not exactly in the center. When you do find this spot you will experience a tingling sensation that you feel SIMULTANEOUSLY inside your penis, through your perineum, your anus and prostate. Try to keep the tab in this position by gently using one or two finger to the side of it as a guide. However, DO NOT PUT ANY PRESSURE ON IT WITH YOUR FINGERS! The reason why is that any pressure that is exerted on the tab must come from your the anal twitching and/or your anal contractions ONLY!

Key five, is the autonomic anal twitching coupled with proper tab placement with an aroused user that starts the neural feedback loop that generates the wave that becomes the Total Body Orgasm. Knowing how to contract in order to keep the twitches coming, once more is where your own self discovery is involved. Remember, this is an individual experience, we are all "wired" differently. However, in previous postings I've likened this stage to the harmonic motion that is seen in a playground swing. With a swing, when force is properly applied, only a small amount of force is necessary AT SPECIFIC TIMES to make the swing go higher and higher. The same can be said for the Aneros experience too, as this is final key in the combination that will unlock the cascading effect to the Super Orgasm that we all desire.

Some things to avoid: 1) DONT TOUCH YOUR PENIS AT ANYTIME DURING THESE SESSIONS. IT WILL ONLY REDIRECT NEURAL IMPULSES AWAY FROM THE AREA THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO STIMULATE. (If you're finishing off afterwards or if you're discontinuing your session and want finish with a penile orgasm...go for it! 2) Don't use anything (alcohol, drugs) that will dull your senses, you will need to be focused and alert to what comes your way. 3) AVOID VIBRATORS. Vibrators will simply bury the sensations that you're looking for. Again, you're dealing with specific focused neural impulses. Using a vibrator in search of this Super Orgasm is like using a chain saw to cut butter! It won't work. However, as an addition to a traditional penile orgasm with the Aneros in place....go for it. 4) Allow yourself the time you need free of disturbance. 5) SCHEDULE SESSIONS WHEN YOU'RE RESTED AND READY FOR THE EXPERIENCE. It can really make a difference in your success!

GOOD LUCK

B Mayfield

I jsut got my Aneros MGX yesterday, and I want to thank the previous poster who made it possible to get to the pleasure zone so quickly. I am not sure, but I think I have had pretty close to an orgasm on the first day.
when I got it I was so excited it was hard to relax, so I was a little tense. That made it hard to insert, and when I did insert it it felt so huge inside, and also a little painful. I took it out after about ten minutes. Later, I tried again for a twenty minute session or so. I found the best position for me was lying on my back with my legs and but in the air. I started getting some involuntary anal contractions, and I knew I was making progress. Later, I tried squatting, and it was while doing that that I felt a peak experience where my whole body was pounding. Maybe not an orgasm, but a prety high peak.

Then later that night, I had great sex with my wife. when I came, the orgasm I had seemed to last over a minute with at least twenty five contractions. The whole next day at work I felt great, and I had a little bit of a chub all day. Not bad for a guy in his fifties!

Originally Posted By: Sweet Spotless?
I've had my MGX for about a week now and am in search of my \"sweet spot\" (I didn't think it would be this difficult). Is it possible not to have a sweet spot? I can feel my prostate and I've read and tried all the methods listed in the forum but the most sensative place for me is about 1 1/2\" from my anus--3/4\" out of reach for the perineum abutment on my MGX model. The spot really doesn't tingle or send feeling to the inside of my penis and prostate--it's just the most sensative by default. If indeed this is the spot, I can try to do some modifications the MGX as suggested but don't want to risk breaking the abutment if I haven't found my sweet spot. Any ideas? Thanks

Sweet Spotless (great user name!)

In fact, my sweet spot is located pretty close to where you've described. Often times the sensations that I have written about are not obvious until there is a certain amount of engorgement in the area. Try getting your penis erect and then do some hunting around and or squat while you do so. This has a tendency to make the neural plexus move closer to the surface of the skin while under the pressure of the surrounding engorged tissue.

You've stated that you have an MGX, is it a Classic model (the old style with the longer abutment tab) or the New MGX ? If it is the the Classic model it will have two raised bumps (nodules) on the inside surface of the body of the unit near the tip. If you do have this model, it will indeed require modification before it will function properly for you (given what you've said regarding your sensitivity so near your anus.

Fleshjoe (a contributing member in the forum), has recently discovered his Sweet spot after presuming (for many months), that he too was spotless . See his comments below.

Another tip that works best for me with the SGX (the smallest model). With the aneros fully inserted, push the perinium tab gently downwards towards your anus as far as it can go. It should come to rest on the upper side of the ring of muscles lining your sphincter. Now do the hip rocking motion I described earlier. You will be surprised that when your involuntary contractions start, they will be accompanied by extremely pleasurable sensations from your perinium. Added bonus: the Aneros feels positively huge when used this way, it feels like a 4-by-4 in your backside, but in a very very exciting and pleasurable way.

Final word: GENTLY. Do not use any force.

Hope this helps,

BF Mayfield

This may have already been covered, but...I have a question anyway. I'm fairly new to this whole thing, but I have been seraching for the super-o for months now with no luck. I have a question that may help me. Is there suposed to be large movments (in/out)? Or, am I supposed to flex it way up iside and have small movments? It seems I'm having a hard time finging "the spot."

flicker272,

Large scale movements of the Aneros are not required. I have generally found smaller and more modest contractions to be more productive. Who was it...Mies Van der Rohe that said less is more ? Indeed it is so. Larger contractions can have their place as well...but for me the process has always started on more subtle levels.

In terms of the actual movement of the unit inside the rectum, it turns out that the excursion (the distance that is traveled in and out) is actually fairly small, even with larger contractions. For more detail, read through some of the B's Best of Beeline thread in the "sticky" section above.

BF Mayfield