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04/17/2021 7:49 am
Hi, I just thought Id leave a post introducing myself and thanking Aneros and the Forum for this unexpected pleasure journey I stumbled into.
I wrote a quick post about 3 years ago in which I was not quite "getting" it and looking for advice which did help. Since then Ive had more and more success when Ive been able to have the time and privacy to play with the Aneros.
Im a mid 50s "bear", in a loving ,but no longer intimate relationship and this is a bit of a private thing that I havent shared with my other half. I dont think he would really understand or needs to now.
Success so far is having dry-os I believe where my groin/loins surge and seem to go solid and feel like they are doing their own thing. Its hard to stand up when this is happening. It feels great. I think I got near something far bigger once when my whole body was shaking and I was breathing really heavily and pulled back because it was so intense.
I count the biggest win, the activation of my prostate which Im now very aware of. Sometimes when excited, it feels like my cock extends way back inside, and it feels like its hard all the way in, yet my cock is soft externally, its really weird but nice.
I have 4 models but the only 2 which are great for me are the helix and the original model. The Helix is the most "controlled" and creates the greatest variety of sensations. I was surprised because Id played with some large toys in the past.
Recently i discovered that my nipples, which are quite large and have been useless all these years, have become activated too and are directly connected to my prostate. Its a bit hit and miss so I have started talking to people about how I can improve and enhance playing with them. I have had a couple of chair mini-os with them.
Having been able to have a separate bedroom for the last winter has been a nice opportunity for learning but its back to sharing a bed for the near future which will be frustrating.
Going forward, the whole experience has change my experience of sex and I now find it actually physically pleasurable as opposed to an exciting pleasure. I rarely ejaculate anymore, its far nicer to stay in a heightened state and have all these other pleasurable feelings available. Lying in bed diddling and sensing my prostate and just enjoying the feelings is a big win and I find relaxing.
This in turn has changed my outlook and we are going to move closer to the Sea and opportunities for hooking up with others as I am now excited to enjoy my body more fully and happily. Quite a ride from a "simple" toy I didnt expect anything much from.
Thanks all again
04/17/2021 8:24 am
how I can improve and enhance playing with them
Hi, and welcome "back" to the forum. One idea is to play with your nipples only mentally. This morning I put my hands above my chest, thumbs above my nipples and my bent lower phalanges of my hand below them only for support. Now I started to approach my nipples from above moving my thumbs slowly towards them, very slowly while trying to localize their exact position in my mind. This went for minutes and my anticipation for a first touch heightened my arousal to the max, causing already little orgasms before finally hitting them. Or take this idea from my blog:
“Standingasm”
While standing fully naked in front of the bathroom mirror I looked at my nipples and I hit on the idea of doing some mental nipple play. I raised my elbows and pointed with my forefingers at my nipples, slowly coming closer but not yet touching. Like induced electric power some signals at once stirred my gland and sudden unvoluntaries followed. In half a minute I had a semi-hard-on and was fully aroused doing some wild erratic motions. I smiled lustfully. When the first p-gasm arose my face changed to a wild and wicked expression showing me all my horniness. Leering at myself I watched me nodding towards my nipples as to say, “now touch them”. As soon as my fingertips grazed the nipples sudden impulses ran through my body and elicited wild convulsions and horny waves of bliss. When the feelings subsided I saw myself with a wicked grin touch them again triggering the next orgasm. Watching my face gave me a second thrill and I got randy more and more by watching me teasing myself for even more twitching and running wild.
@divine_o just gave some profound report about his "feather fingers" and how to increase sensitivity in the new couple's section of this forum, surely some useful reading matter for your further journey and perhaps even for winning your better half to participate.
Good luck and good vibes! Mart
04/17/2021 9:40 am
One idea is to play with your nipples only mentally.
Yes! This is really nice to do. I discovered « imaginary » caresses a few months ago and it works better and better.
This morning I put my hands above my chest, thumbs above my nipples and my bent lower phalanges of my hand below them only for support. Now I started to approach my nipples from above moving my thumbs slowly towards them, very slowly while trying to localize their exact position in my mind. This went for minutes and my anticipation for a first touch heightened my arousal to the max, causing already little orgasms before finally hitting them.
I did almost the same thing on Thursday morning!
The moment my thumbs very lightly brushed my nipples triggered a calm sea type orgasm. It lasted almost a minute before I pressed a little harder on my nipples which triggered another much less calm orgasm!
04/18/2021 1:36 am
Welcome to the forum. I am excited for your upcoming seaside adventures, as this will surely change your all around sexlife for the better as well as make being penetrated just heavenly. Hopefully you can find guys that are willing to be patient with you, and know that it isn’t always easy right off the bat to have the same prostate pleasure with a partner as one has all alone. But yeah, you will probably notice an overall increase in sexiness, arousal and sensitivity!
@morexp @sowithoutaneros imaginary caresses—YES!!!
04/18/2021 2:10 am
Let me add from @divine_o ‘s other post
Create connections between the sensations of hot sex and those of caressing hands and lips.
and furthermore I’d suggest to create connections between the sensations of two spots caressed by yourself at the same time even during solo sex. What for do you have two hands?!
When diddling your nipple put one finger on another spot - like your perineum, your frenulum or any other spot you like - and sense how both spots are connecting and sending shivers through your body. Then perhaps stop the caressing at your nipple, only let your fingertip have slight contact and start focusing your caresses on that second spot.
As @divine_o has already mentioned, please do this without expectations and accept that it may take some time to let your awareness grow and feel out those sublime sensations, why it makes sense to welcome and enjoy every little new feeling like you would be lucky about every little spark while trying to make a fire with sticks.
Good luck and good vibes! Mart
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