A great experience, but what just happened?

It happens all the time to me. Could have been a super-O on the way, or just another sort of orgasm. Sometimes those things sit there for ages and the more you try to consciously force it or ignore it the worse it gets, very occasionally it breaks through, I find that usually the only thing is to stop and reset.

Hi Smudgefish,


I find that usually the only thing is to stop and reset.

That is what I did as the feelings did not return to this level again, perhaps because it was quite unexpected and it sort of threw me off.

the more you try to consciously force it or ignore it the worse it gets, very occasionally it breaks through,

I did not try to consciously force it or ignore it either, that would have been impossible, I did quite the opposite to those. I will see if it happens again and see where things go. Thanks for your reply.

Sorena

Last night I experienced something though that I cannot understand and I hoped someone here might know what happened?... I felt a little bit scared, I thought I would have a heart attack or something.From your description of events, IMHO, you were entering a Super-O but then allowed your ego to shut it down.I did not try to consciously force it or ignore it either, that would have been impossible, I did quite the opposite to those.This may be true but you also told yourself...,,, I said to myself "I'm not ready for this, it's too big, I can't handle it" and for some odd reason "Don't orgasm, please don't..." even in spite of thinking these quite frankly odd thoughts, it seem to make them more and more intense! Then it all stopped. I seem to hit a wall of sorts right at the edge of whatever this was it's like my body didn't know how to proceed? it was as if I had all the right ingredients for a Super-O but my body had no experience of such a thing and just threw a big "?"I think what you experienced was an event of cognitive dissonance. Your body was fully engaged in producing this experience but your mind thwarted the process due to its fear of loss of control. This is not an uncommon occurrence, I've experienced it myself.Can anyone help?Learning to "Just Let Go !" may be one of the most difficult tasks any of us on this journey have to face but rest assured surrendering your ego's illusion of control to your own pleasure is not really 'losing control' at all. It is merely allowing your great subconscious to handle bodily sensations while your ego can simply sit back, observe and enjoy.
Good Vibes to You !

Thanks rumel,
The thoughts of not being ready seemed to come from somewhere else out of my control, perhaps subconsciously. I was shocked to hear the words in my mind, as if I had not spoke/thought them, it was almost as startling as my heart rate suddenly rising.

Part of the issue seemed to be that the build up was incredible, like it was going to be so intense that I would as you say, lose control. I did overcome this fear eventually but when I returned to the normal flow of the session I found that I could not reach this level again. I feel this is the 'Super-O zone' or state that others talk about here.

One other thing, my sessions used to be a thing I would do during daylight hours, but recently they have been in the evening, right before bedtime. I even use an eye mask and now a adopt a near sleep state in order to get things going. It's strange to see how aroused I am even though i'm very close to being asleep.

Is this something you experienced a lot rumel?

Sorena

Sorena, you are not the only one it has happened to. It happened to me the last session I had a few days ago. It was a regular session with nothing happening and all of a sudden I had a sudden surge of extreme pleasure radiate from the prostate up through my penis. As soon as that happened I suddenly got hard and my heart rate when way up. I thought it gonna be too intense as it the pleasure ratched up rapidly. I mentally short circuited the feeling in my head. I thought it was an overwhelming feeling and was afraid of letting go. Rumel is correct. You and I probably could of had a super o but the mental block stopped it. Letting go though may be harder than it seems. I personally feel like it's the final barrier to having super o's for me

@rumel interesting take on this, thank you for giving your advice. My experience is that when I get one of these 'blocks' to something more intense I can sometimes push it through and when it actually happens it is just another kind of orgasm, often not quite as amazing as I expect it to be, of course I'm always expecting a super-O to appear.

When I do get a super-O it seems to start almost immediately within moments of the orgasm itself starting, I am still trying to figure out why I get each one in particular but can't find any reason yet. Of course I enjoy both immensely but it would be nice to have a predictable super-O.

Do super-Os start during a 'normal' orgasm for most people as a build up of excitement? Am I just thinking that it can't happen and somehow not allowing it to? I'm sure with more practice and experience I will work it out, or more likely it will just happen as I get into the right mindset, but it would be interesting to know what you think.

Interestingly I even got the feeling of a mini block during a super-O last night, but really had to ignore it. Maybe just not letting go fully enough. I would have loved to find out what that would have led to!

Having said that I always find them rather exciting because it makes me think that there is something more just waiting and it keeps me keen to find out what it is.