I've been an on-and-off Aneros user for four years now. That sounds like a long time without results but the truth is that'd be all on me since I'm far from consistent with my use.A week ago I decided that I would start using the Aneros again, and I started by not allowing myself an orgasm at all, and last night something happened that has never happened before in my life. I was having an erotic dream and immediately I was waking up at 4AM to feel myself having an orgasm. I went to the bathroom, sat down on the toilet and I was dripping with pre (never happened before) and everything down there was buzzing like crazy. It might also be worth mentioning that I edged before I went to bed, and I was able to bring myself close to the brink by just rubbing my perineum.
It took me almost an hour to calm down and fall asleep again and now I'm looking forward to start using the aneros again and this time keep at it.
Now I read that you have to be in a different state of arousal (MMO horny?) and withholding ejaculation can interfere with that, but I have a hard time buying it. Personally I think it's all mental, and if you're able to direct your arousal to deeper inside your body while the aneros is in, and that tense arousal combined with the knowledge that you aren't allowed to cum should be plenty exciting. What do you guys think?
Hi justfortonight. I am a newbie but already have had a Super-O! I understand your frustration. I have experienced more erections since starting with aneros than ever before. I find that I need to "balance" the aneros orgasms with ejaculations. If I don't and I feel like I want to "edge" on aneros, I will get erection after erection with cum and more cum until I am forced to masturbate. It hurts! There seems to be no stopping it. I think your body is trying to tell you what it wants. You say you did not allow yourself to have an orgasm?
I will tell you what I have read and have experienced: just relax! Let your body tell YOU what it wants and needs and I think you will find yourself back on the "path"! Enjoy the ride!
If I do what my body wants I'd masturbate exclusively and never use the aneros :PI do it because I've stopped seeing the aneros as something erotic, so I want to withhold orgasm and that way become aroused easier, seeing as I know I can't masturbate the regular way there's a certain tension and taboo nature to it. I think it'll work well and I'll update with results.
I find that with regular Aneros use, I masturbate more than I did before and as I said, I seem to "balance" the two activities. I am getting incredibly hard erections from the Aneros. They have to go somewhere.
If I can get some good results eventually I'll be much more comfortable masturbating just knowing that I have some new knowledge of how my body works and what it needs for the aneros do really do some work
Im also a newbie but i do like your idea of only orgasming without penis masterbation im defintly trying this i havent yet had a dry o or anything but build up of pleasure then stop but the less i maturbate the more aroused ill be good idea buddy. Give an update as to what happens and i will too currantly 1 day since ejaculation