After reading a post earlier about a beginner like me having a heightened experience as a result of practicing SR, I'm going to see if I can hold out until my next session on Thursday, which will be the ten day mark. The anticipation gives me a slight throb.
So many great stories & posts have really inspired me. What a treasure trove this place is.
@sowithoutaneros ~ No way Jose. I'm teetering on explosion enough as it is. Laughs at the proposition.
I'll be rooting for ya though. Thanks for all the fish. 😉
I recall this thread from way back when. I tried it but found it to not really do much for me. However I have kind of placed myself in a self induced type of chastity and I am at the 1.5 month mark of no release to this point. I still have the extreme desire to ejaculate on occasion but I also don't want to at the same time, kind of hard to explain. Now if I could just figure out how to express the gland I would be all set. I am to the point that I despise the refractory hormone release. Long story.
Woo hoo, and not a moment too soon, heh heh.
The last two days, 20 & 21 were kinda strange though 'cus I was concerned that I might have a wet dream. Thankfully not, however, something slightly magical happened.
Day 20, Monday night I had a good session. Then while collecting myself & preparing to take a shower the thought occurred to me that I might be able to do something new so to speak.
Let me preface with a little background. When I start a session & am lubing up my starfish I usually get inside with my finger in attempts to spread the lube around (water based jelly of sorts). At some point I'm on my back spending a few seconds of directed pressure on or near my gland.
Somewhere along the line I had read that the thumb can get a different kind of contact angle. Standing is a trick only contortionists can do. So the new thing I did was lay on my side. My thumb met my gland in just the right way & I could vary the pressure. It was pretty nice. Not wanting to overdo it of course, I stopped & got in the shower as intended.
Day 21, Tuesday I went to get on my stationary bike & my gland had something to say to me. Almost immediately a sensation arose & I thought I might orgasm after only a couple rotations of the pedals. Being so close to finishing out day 21 I feared what might happened as the orgasm grew. I didn't want to wet myself as this was a novel experience. I stopped pedaling & shifted my postition on the seat & regulated my breathing in the effort to calm down. Things did & I was able to resume pedaling without incident. Butt just to be sure, I didn't pedal for the usual amount of time & ended that earlier than usual. Maybe this message had something to do with the thumb-job last night. Maybe not. Either way, if I can revisit this experience, it will redefine bike riding, heh heh. No expectations though, only watch & observe at this stage.
Today I masturbated to ejaculation & it wasn't all that remarkable. While pleasant in it's own right for the most part, just nothing extravagant.
One of the takeaways in this challenge was the lack of blueballs. It wasn't really on my mind that I was in the midst of an endurance or that I needed to jack off or anything like that. Perhaps my regular sessions twice weekly with the prostate massager contributed to some leveling to a degree as the subsequent leakage probably decreases any fluid building up. I'm not certain & that's ok. There are undoubtably many things at work when retaining semen for such a period of time. Whether my next attempt is for a longer or shorter period of time is uncertain. SR experimentation will definately continue. Thanks for the inspiration.
P.S. Anyone reading this should seriously consider giving it a try. The experience is worth it.