18 and ready but..

anonicos-

the failure of your experimentation to find the spots does not mean that your prostate is not capable of those feelings. don't worry, it is capable.

sounds like you are burdened w/ a bit of desperation, both in your need to have big orgasms and in your concern that your body might be "incapable."

you asked what you can do to prepare. i would say the answer is to understand that high expectations or desperation is a common cause of frustration in aneros users.

here are two specific things to do:
- (important) look up on the web how to do relaxation exercises and start doing them every day. they are awesome in many ways and will definitely help with the aneros
- start using your finger on your nipples, perineum and anus, without involving your penis (aneros is penis-less stimulation).

the aneros is half sexual stimulation and half self-discovery.

also, i assume you have seen the other threads discussing the pros and cons of getting started with the aneros at your young age. if not, do some surfing of this forum to get perspective before you take the plunge.

darwin

Anonicos,

Welcome to the Forum.

If you haven't already read it, as 'darwin' suggested, read @Fluflu 's thread/post
Just turned 18, I want to get myself a Helix... Comments?

Good Vibes to You !

However, I have recently been trying to stimulate my prostate with a finger/banana, and I don't seem to be able to locate or feel it. I can't get any different sensation put of touching it.

If there were other, easy solo methods or toys to do effective prostate massage, no one would be paying $50-$90 for an aneros.

I held off buying thinking "That thing CAN'T be worth that much; there MUST be other similar toys that are cheaper." I was half right: there are cheaper toys, but I could not find a single one with the advantages & track record of the aneros products. In fact, I'm constantly amazed at how BADLY designed most anal toys are.

I'm 18 but a virgin, although have no intention of that being true for much longer.

However I am deeply, deeply sexual. It's a big psychological deal for me. I become extremely jealous when I see extreme female orgasms like squirting and g spot orgasms in porn, because I don't just want to give those, I want to have them.

I am hoping the Aneros can bring me those orgasms.

However, I have recently been trying to stimulate my prostate with a finger/banana, and I don't seem to be able to locate or feel it. I can't get any different sensation put of touching it.

Sometimes, if I have my finger up there and sort of push and massage where diagrams tell me my prostate should theoretically be, and I lie real still and focus, I can feel a sort of... icy, radiating pleasure somewhere deep down, but it's pretty weak and it's easy to lose.

I am wondering, what steps should I take to prepare myself for the Aneros, or is it possible my prostate is simply not capable of having these sensations?

Oh I think your prostate is just fine, by your age its well developed.

Hey there Anonicos,

Just wondered how things are going and whether you decided to bite the bullet.

I got my aneros when I was 19 and if I am honest I simply did not have enough patients with it, now at the age of 24 I can say how annoyed I am with myself for leaving it unused and in a box for way to long.

Its a great product that produces a great feeling, get on and try it, keep on going and things will happen.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Morn

I agree that the aneros requires a certain amount of maturity to get anywhere. If I have tried it in high school, or maybe even in college, I don't think I would have gotten far.