11/9 Aneros Chat Event "Sexual Health" Transcript

Hi Everyone,

Here is a transcript of the "Sexual Health" chat event. Thanks!

Aneros Support

[19:59:45] handlebar: Greetings
[19:59:59] rumel: Hello handlebar
[20:00:31] handlebar: hi rumel.My name is Jim
[20:00:44] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: Hello handlebar, rumel!
[20:01:00] handlebar: good afternoon!
[20:01:13] rumel: Hi Support
[20:01:32] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: welcome to the Aneros community, handlebar
[20:01:34] rumel: Hi skeeter
[20:01:45] skeeter_g: Hi Guys...
[20:01:47] handlebar: Hi skeeter
[20:01:57] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi Skeeter!
[20:02:11] skeeter_g: Hi Support1!
[20:03:08] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: good to have you guys here today, hopefully we'll have some more folks joining as we go along
[20:03:59] skeeter_g: Well if we dont have others we always have a good time!
[20:04:03] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: so we wanted to try another "theme" chat event. the ksmo chat got a great response
[20:04:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: so the focus of this event will be "Aneros and Sexual Health"
[20:04:38] handlebar: This promises to be fun.
[20:04:49] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and of course we'll open it up to whatever you guys want to discuss as well
[20:05:20] skeeter_g: So Do you have a bit more of a descripition support
[20:06:01] rumel: support - Has HIH done any studies regarding health aspects of Aneros use?
[20:06:25] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: more of a description to the topic? yes -
[20:06:50] skeeter_g: Good question Rumel.
[20:06:56] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: rumel, the answer to your question is "yes", which we will get into as well
[20:07:09] skeeter_g: cool.
[20:07:30] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: skeeter, so we all know about the immediate sexual benefits that can be attainable with our products
[20:08:20] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: with the "ultimate goal," if you will, being the Super-O. and the journey to the super-o is itself unique to each individual
[20:08:32] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and a worthwhile undertaking
[20:09:15] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: however, we'd like to throw out for discussion whether or not you all have enjoyed/experienced any other "benefits" to your
[20:09:17] skeeter_g: Ok , support, I understand.
[20:09:24] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: other sexual activities
[20:09:29] handlebar: Likewise
[20:09:48] skeeter_g: I see..
[20:09:58] ichi: hi
[20:10:16] skeeter_g: Hi ichl
[20:10:19] Love_is: Hiya Folks! 🙂
[20:10:20] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: whether it be renewed energy, increased erectile function, stronger sex drive, healthier ejaculate
[20:10:28] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi everyone!
[20:10:39] skeeter_g: Hi Love_is
[20:10:50] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: welcome to the Aneros - Sexual Health Chat Event
[20:10:54] handlebar: Greetings Love_is and ichi
[20:10:55] ichi: I for one have seen an increase in labido
[20:11:22] skeeter_g: Well.. support.. Yes. I have for sure.
[20:11:23] Love_is: Nice to see some familiar names. And also new ones too.
[20:11:37] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: that's great ichi! so before we dive deeper, why don't we start with some intoductions?
[20:11:49] Love_is: Definitely also here...
[20:11:57] handlebar: I have only used one for a few days and already have increased my feelings and libido
[20:11:57] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: let's start from the top with Love_is
[20:12:11] skeeter_g: more drive, a much happer being in general...
[20:12:23] skeeter_g: more emotional
[20:12:44] Love_is: Ok, what do you want to know?
[20:12:48] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: Love_is, can you give us an introduction? maybe age, where you are located and how long you've been using the Aneros?
[20:12:50] skeeter_g: and the wonder of the body, and what it can produce
[20:13:00] rumel: Hi ichi, Love_is
[20:13:02] Love_is: Ah ok, can do
[20:13:06] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and favorite model?
[20:13:13] Love_is: Hello Rumel 🙂
[20:13:49] Love_is: Male, like you ahven't guessed. LOL 37 years old. Vermont, USA.
[20:14:06] Love_is: Been using it for a little over a year now.
[20:14:27] Love_is: I have MGX and Helix. Much prefer the Helix at this point.
[20:14:46] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: great! okay, handlebar you're up
[20:15:28] rumel: Hi thhn, thickmeat - Welcome
[20:15:33] handlebar: Well i'm a newbie to the Aneros lineup
[20:15:43] thickmeat: hello all
[20:16:11] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi thhn, thickmeat, we're going down the line with some introductions
[20:16:14] Love_is: Hello thickmeat
[20:16:14] skeeter_g: Hi thhn, thickmeat..
[20:16:19] handlebar: I have only had the Helix and Progasm for three days nowBut I have used both and am on my way to learning a lot.
[20:16:27] Love_is: Hello thhn
[20:16:46] thhn: Hello to all, gald to be back again
[20:17:02] handlebar: I admit that the Progasm sure gives a full feeling.I'm 42 on tuesday and live in Washington state
[20:17:05] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: great handlebar, you are at the right place for some questions, which we'll have plenty of time for
[20:17:17] handlebar: Wonderful!
[20:17:24] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: ichi? your turn
[20:17:30] ichi: Male, 34, NC...been using my helix almost daily for 4 months now. thinking about getting a progasm.
[20:17:59] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: thank you! okay Rumel
[20:18:33] rumel: I'm 61, from Sac. CA. been using for 19 months.
[20:19:01] ichi: you are the cd guy right rumel?
[20:19:05] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: Rumel is also the creator of the hypaerosession cd 🙂
[20:19:29] ichi: I have a copy
[20:19:36] ichi: 😉
[20:19:56] rumel: Thank you, how has it worked for you ichi?
[20:20:14] ichi: pretty good
[20:20:33] ichi: I do not use it every time though
[20:20:55] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay Skeeter_g?
[20:21:03] skeeter_g: 59 , Northern Calif (Wine county), using for over 2.5 years, have all the models :bigtongue:
[20:21:34] skeeter_g: Love to try and help if possible.
[20:22:00] handlebar: He has really helped me a lot
[20:22:03] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: And Skeeter, we have some news to share about the peridise, which I'll do later in the session
[20:22:17] Love_is: I'll atest to that!
[20:22:19] skeeter_g: OK...
[20:22:28] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay thhn, you're up next
[20:22:38] thhn: I do like the mxg but right now the progasm really gets me humming - I've been at it for almost a year
[20:22:47] skeeter_g: Thanks guys..
[20:23:05] Love_is: No prob skeeter_g 🙂
[20:23:14] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: thhn, where are you located and what's your age?
[20:23:40] thhn: I'm 53 and live in NY
[20:23:58] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: cool. okay thickmeat, an intro please
[20:24:42] thickmeat: 36 in wi have the maximus use it not as often as I would like. love the sensations... got it in now... kind of a rookie
[20:25:06] Love_is: Wow! Practicing at the same time!
[20:25:09] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: excellent!
[20:25:20] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay so as far as the agenda for this event -
[20:25:24] skeeter_g: Rookie is OK...
[20:25:37] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: we'll spend the next 45 minutes discussing "Aneros and Sexual Health"
[20:25:38] thickmeat: lol yes why not put it in and looked at the site and saw the chat was going thought I would stop in
[20:25:50] thickmeat: thanks
[20:25:58] skeeter_g: everybody has to start somewhere.
[20:26:13] Love_is: Indeed
[20:26:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and then the rest of the time for general discussion, and for the last few min we'll share some product news
[20:27:07] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: so to start, to answer your question Rumel, yes we are doing studies about the health aspects of our products
[20:27:35] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: in fact, currently Columbia University is doing a retrospective study
[20:27:52] Love_is: Neato!
[20:27:56] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: of our products and as put out a first draft of a research paper they are producing
[20:28:02] jusboy7: hi love is
[20:28:04] skeeter_g: Oh Wow support..interesting
[20:28:05] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and it looks very promising
[20:28:14] Love_is: Hello jusboy7
[20:28:24] handlebar: Maybe they can include us all in the study
[20:28:26] skeeter_g: Hi justboy7
[20:28:27] handlebar: LOL
[20:28:32] jusboy7: hi skeeter
[20:28:39] thickmeat: can I volunteer?
[20:28:44] thhn: should I expect to get a discount on my health insurance
[20:28:48] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hello jusboy7, can you give us a quick intro?
[20:28:51] skeeter_g: hahaha :laugh:
[20:28:56] Love_is: I can just imagine the adverts for test subjects needed... :laugh:
[20:29:10] rumel: support - Are they going to address the Super-O phenomena?
[20:29:11] jusboy7: what do u need to know support?
[20:29:40] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: where you are located, age, how long you've been using the Aneros and favorite model
[20:30:38] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: Hi Rumel, this study is only in regards to the health aspects of our products - there is an NIH prostate survey
[20:31:10] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: which asks a variety of questions - like pain/urination/quality of life/etc. the study will document how our products have
[20:31:16] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: helped specifically in these areas
[20:31:23] thhn: is there info on the study for on line reading
[20:31:53] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: The super-o phenomena is something that definitely should be explored
[20:32:10] jusboy7: spain(uk),46,2 months, mgx?
[20:32:28] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: we'll have to see how to address that from a research perspective
[20:32:47] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: thhn, the paper has not been published yet but we'll let everyone know when it is out
[20:32:57] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: great, thanks Jusboy7
[20:33:16] rumel: I think it would be great if an institution like the Kinsey institute could do the research.
[20:33:26] jusboy7: ok
[20:33:36] skeeter_g: Yes, that would be interesting support about the super-O...
[20:34:07] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: that actually would be a possibility that we should look into
[20:34:12] rumel: I think there is a lot more going on in this "rewiring"process than meets the eye.
[20:34:37] skeeter_g: Yes Rumel, I'm with you.!
[20:35:15] jusboy7: i find all the terms that people use so difficult to understand
[20:35:21] Love_is: It's interesting that the use of Aneros effects positively far more than just the physical symptoms mentioned.
[20:35:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: rewiring - it's a really unique concept, isn't it?
[20:35:38] Love_is: It's all intertwined so to speak.
[20:35:57] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi jusboy7, the terms do take a while to pick up
[20:36:00] skeeter_g: It is also interesting why folks can rewire in a couple sessions and others can take months or years, but do achieve super-O
[20:36:11] jusboy7: ok stop there
[20:36:19] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: but as you read more on the forum and wiki, and participate in these events you'll quickly become familiar with them
[20:36:24] rumel: There is a deep mind-body connection being established to allow the Super-O to manifest.
[20:36:45] handlebar: I have only begun the rewiring process.It is an incredible thing
[20:36:48] handlebar: Only after 3 days
[20:36:49] jusboy7: ive read all the literature, but still none the wiser
[20:36:58] skeeter_g: Yes Rumel.
[20:37:06] Love_is: Agreed Rumel
[20:37:17] Love_is: And I haven't even reached super-O's yet.
[20:37:22] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: jusboy7 if you have a question about a specific term, just let everyone here know. we'll be happy to answer
[20:37:54] jusboy7: ok. please tell me in PLAIN english what a super/0 is
[20:38:52] rumel: Jusboy - read the definition in the WIKI
[20:39:18] skeeter_g: Love_is, maybe it is time to try a new model and see if that will get you there. I know you have been thinkin about the Proga
[20:39:25] skeeter_g: Progasm.
[20:39:38] rumel: The WIKI GLOSSARY will also tell you much.
[20:39:49] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: jusboy, it really is the best place for the definition
[20:40:13] handlebar: It can be read and understood in only a short time
[20:40:32] handlebar: The forum has taught me so much in only a week or two
[20:40:36] skeeter_g: Love_is, You seem to know where you are going for sure..
[20:41:03] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: the super-o is the ultimate combination of both physical and mental pleasure
[20:41:16] Love_is: Thanks skeeter_g. I don't yet feel that I have hit a limit in my sessions to try a new model.
[20:41:27] skeeter_g: Love_is, That is great!!
[20:41:50] jusboy7: well i find the use of so many terms v confusing, personally id prefer someone to talk me thru it rather than read wikipedia
[20:41:52] skeeter_g: Understand..Love_is.
[20:41:52] Love_is: Thanks. I still feel like I learn something new about this process every session.
[20:42:15] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: Rumel we definitely need to have a chat event specification related to rewiring
[20:42:16] thickmeat: looking to learn more about my toy and how to use it
[20:42:24] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: specifically related to, i mean
[20:42:28] handlebar: Well jusboy7,the forum is the best place,not only the Wiki
[20:42:34] skeeter_g: That is all that counts Love_is
[20:42:52] rumel: jusboy7 - we are no talking about Wikipedia but the Aneros WIKI.
[20:43:01] skeeter_g: Part of the "rewire" Love_is
[20:43:19] jusboy7: thanks handelbar ,, but let me state again.. id like people online to TALK to me about issues.. i thoughyt that was the
[20:43:28] jusboy7: purpose of a chat room
[20:43:38] Love_is: Yup, I agree skeeter_g.
[20:44:25] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: yes, definitely jusboy7, we will have the open discussion section in 30 minutes
[20:44:31] handlebar: jusboy7,I can chat with you afterwards if you like or just learn herefor the next couple of hours
[20:44:38] skeeter_g: So justboy7, you can ask some questions...
[20:44:43] handlebar: There are plenty here that would love to help
[20:44:52] jusboy7: i did already skeeter lol
[20:45:23] jusboy7: firstly let me say i found the literature that came with the aneros v misleading
[20:45:44] jusboy7: the position they suggested did mothing for me at all, and i was v frustrated the first week or so
[20:46:17] jusboy7: then i read online that some people tried on their back, this produced the beginnings of something
[20:46:22] skeeter_g: Oh OK.. justboy7
[20:46:37] jusboy7: skeeter there is NO t in my name lol
[20:47:04] skeeter_g: sorry dude.
[20:47:07] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: jusboy7, as you can tell from the website, forum, wiki, blogs, and chat events there is a ton of information about the Aneros
[20:47:09] jusboy7: but nowhere did i read that you should NOT do any contractions ,but let the body completely do its own thing
[20:47:27] jusboy7: so that was something ive learned for myself
[20:47:45] Love_is: Sorry folks. Got to head out. I'll be back for the next chat. Later everyone 🙂
[20:47:53] jusboy7: adios
[20:47:59] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: there are a myriad of techniques, positions, breathing exercises, etc. which can be used
[20:48:07] skeeter_g: Ciao Love_is
[20:48:11] rumel: Bye lov...
[20:48:14] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and using our products really is a type of self-discovery
[20:48:17] handlebar: Bye Love_is
[20:48:35] jusboy7: so ive reached a stage where some things happen, but im not able to get to the next level i guess
[20:49:11] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: there is so much to cover which simply cannot fully be encapsulated on the back of the packaging
[20:49:18] jusboy7: by not allowing any contractions, other than involuntary, it seems to work much better
[20:49:36] jusboy7: i would suggest scraping the info on the package altogther
[20:49:37] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: which is why we set up events like this
[20:49:39] skeeter_g: jusboy7... Some people need to give some contractions, and others do not..
[20:50:00] handlebar: agreed
[20:50:13] jusboy7: well thats my whole point skeeter .. how do i know if im doing something wrong or not!!
[20:50:33] handlebar: Let your body tell you
[20:50:37] skeeter_g: You dont.
[20:50:39] handlebar: You will know
[20:50:59] jusboy7: hang on..you two are conflicting with your answers!!
[20:51:17] skeeter_g: that is why there is so much out there to read, and hopefully help.
[20:51:45] jusboy7: just end up being more confused
[20:52:08] rumel: jusboy - Super-O is an abbreviation of "super orgasm," a term coined by Aneros user Brian Mayfield for an orgasm that steps out
[20:52:23] rumel: of the normal frame of reference. A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve:
[20:52:41] rumel: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region, particularly a
[20:52:57] rumel: loss of a sense of reality; strong emotional responses; flashes of color (optical activity in the brain); large muscle contractions
[20:53:06] skeeter_g: No two people are alike.. what works for one just does may not work for another. jusboy7
[20:53:14] rumel: (with no emission); protracted involuntary vocalizations, roars or screams; pleasant convulsions; pronounced deep or staccato
[20:53:26] rumel: thrusting or writhing; a sense of soulful release and relief; a sense of self-redefinition; and, an energized feeling immediately following
[20:53:31] handlebar: Exactly!! Everyone is different
[20:53:43] handlebar: I'm a beginner too jusboy7
[20:53:56] jusboy7: thnx rumel, certainly not reached that
[20:53:56] rumel: orgasm and being ready for more (as opposed to post-ejaculation lethargy).
[20:54:06] jusboy7: but some things have definately started to work
[20:54:07] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: jusboy, the answers are actually not conflicting - the point is that you will try different techniques and your body will
[20:54:18] rumel: From the WIKI.
[20:54:18] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: naturally let you know if you are making progress
[20:54:24] thickmeat: and I am going to guess that not everyone will feel or experince the same thing
[20:54:29] skeeter_g: This is not cut and dry unfortunately.
[20:54:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi Brian!
[20:54:37] thickmeat: you have to experiment and see what makes you feel good
[20:54:46] skeeter_g: Hi brian.
[20:55:07] B Mayfield: Hi Y'ALL !
[20:55:07] thickmeat: there is no instant gratification button with aneros
[20:55:11] rumel: Hi Brian,
[20:55:28] handlebar: Greetings Brian
[20:55:34] B Mayfield: that was a special reference to my friends down in Houston...lol
[20:55:45] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: thanks!
[20:55:50] skeeter_g: Side may work, back may work, maybe stomach...
[20:56:10] thickmeat: standing up
[20:56:13] thickmeat: or other positions
[20:56:35] B Mayfield: knealing is good too!
[20:57:09] thickmeat: looks like justaboy left
[20:57:18] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: maybe jusboy7 will be back - so the question i threw out earlier was have any of you all noticed any other palpable effects
[20:57:26] rumel: I wanna try a sling position - free floating orgasms!
[20:57:51] skeeter_g: I have 2 favorite positions... Back for my big Aneros, and stomach for my Peridise...
[20:57:51] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: with using the Aneros, aside from the immediate physical ones
[20:57:58] skeeter_g: just works for me.
[20:58:35] skeeter_g: Rumel that sounds good... :laugh:
[20:58:40] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: "renewed energy, increased erectile function, stronger sex drive, healthier ejaculate"
[20:58:42] thickmeat: I like it for the sensations it give my prostate and how it feels in that is what I was looking for good toy for p-spot stimu
[20:59:13] handlebar: I agree with thickmeat
[20:59:16] ichi: stroner sex drive for me
[20:59:17] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: I guess these would be what could be called "secondary effects"
[20:59:29] handlebar: Even in conjunction with penile stimulation
[20:59:31] B Mayfield: I'd say a big yes to all of the above
[20:59:33] skeeter_g: Sopport, you hit it right on the head!!
[20:59:48] handlebar: Which i know is supposed to be secondary
[20:59:50] B Mayfield: and add to it a better control urine stream! lol
[20:59:50] skeeter_g: no pun intended 😀
[21:00:02] rumel: Use of the Aneros has definitely improved strength of urine flow.
[21:00:05] handlebar: that re-wiring is a lot to learn
[21:00:12] thickmeat: why worry about is it primary or secondary etc just that it works nd feels good
[21:00:15] ichi: what about the addictive aspect of it or is that just me?
[21:00:15] B Mayfield: I can right my name in the snow now!!!!
[21:00:26] skeeter_g: hahaha
[21:00:34] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: :biggrin:
[21:00:47] jusboy7: it does seem v addictive
[21:00:57] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: ichi, the addictive aspect can be discussed as well for sure
[21:00:57] ichi: very
[21:01:11] B Mayfield: seriously...I noticed that fairly early on and it has continued to this day
[21:01:12] rumel: Aneros use has definetly helped develop and tone my anal and PC muscles.
[21:01:17] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: this is something which has been discussed in the forum and on the wiki as well
[21:01:30] ichi: I for one find myself wanting to use it more and more.
[21:01:31] jusboy7: how often do u guys use it?
[21:01:35] skeeter_g: I'm with you Brian.
[21:01:52] ichi: I use mine almost daily
[21:01:53] thickmeat: not often enough!
[21:02:13] handlebar: Daily
[21:02:16] jusboy7: wow ido to.. tho i read u arnt supposed to
[21:02:32] skeeter_g: jusboy7, I try to every other day.
[21:02:35] ichi: I have actually thought about throwing it away becasue it takes up so much of my time.
[21:03:02] B Mayfield: as most people know from my posts,...I didn't get into the Aneros for health purposes....
[21:03:22] jusboy7: im trying to limit it to every other day .. i find my prostrate throbs so much the next day
[21:03:25] B Mayfield: but I consider them as dividends at this point
[21:03:25] ichi: I did not either.
[21:03:56] B Mayfield: how long does this chat last today?
[21:04:01] skeeter_g: I also did not get into it for health reasons.
[21:04:12] rumel: I discovered the Aneros while investigating the health aspects of the prostate.
[21:04:25] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: brian, for another hour
[21:04:27] jusboy7: do other people experience the throbbing?
[21:04:30] thickmeat: me either just for pure prostate and anal stimulation for masturbation
[21:04:37] skeeter_g: But it has sure made more sexually aware of myself for sure!
[21:04:40] B Mayfield: great
[21:04:44] rumel: I thought the pleasure aspects were a great bonus!
[21:05:01] handlebar: I wanted a better understanding of the prostate and orgasm after a checkup last month
[21:05:13] handlebar: And also whether it had any relationship to sciatica
[21:05:32] skeeter_g: I get the throbbing jusboy7
[21:05:52] jusboy7: the following day skeeter? to me it almost feels like the aneros is still in!
[21:06:05] skeeter_g: My prostate wants what it wants.. :tongue:
[21:06:12] jusboy7: lol
[21:06:17] B Mayfield: prostatitis can cause lower back pain...no question about it
[21:06:26] handlebar: :blush:
[21:06:28] thickmeat: mine too skeeter
[21:06:38] skeeter_g: Understand jusboy7
[21:06:42] B Mayfield: but sciatica is different....I've had pain from both sources
[21:06:46] handlebar: I don't have too much lower back pain. But a lot of lower leg pain.
[21:06:57] handlebar: And after an orgasm,the pain goes away for 15 minutes
[21:07:03] skeeter_g: mine does not feel so much like it is still in though.
[21:07:10] B Mayfield: that sounds like referred pain from the prostate
[21:07:31] rumel: thats the endorphins - painkiller effect.
[21:07:32] jusboy7: you mean thats a bad thing then??
[21:07:42] B Mayfield: are having a flare-up now....(prostatitis) ?

[21:11:16] ichi: well I for one do not get any throbbing
[21:11:27] B Mayfield: a couple of things can cause this....
[21:11:44] jusboy7: oh right well i always do
[21:11:48] B Mayfield: chronic prostatitis ......BPH.....
[21:11:59] rumel: jusboy7 - what are you specifically confused about?
[21:12:01] ichi: to be honest, I just want to keep on going....
[21:12:03] skeeter_g: jusboy7 post throbbing is OK, if it is a good throbbing, and not pain.
[21:12:28] B Mayfield: best to consult with your doctor on it if this is an ongoing problem....
[21:12:34] jusboy7: no its not pain .. as i said IT FEELS LIKE THE ANEROS COULD STILL BE IN
[21:12:57] thickmeat: You get that a lot from any anal play
[21:13:08] rumel: jusboy - Is this a problem for you?
[21:13:33] jusboy7: so why does that make it prostitis .. i dont get it?? i didnt feel anything at all until i started with the aneros
[21:13:59] jusboy7: NO rumel .. i merely asked if other people experinced it. i NEVER said it was a problem
[21:14:09] rumel: jusboy - It may not be prostatitis.
[21:14:30] jusboy7: i dont for a second think it is
[21:15:03] skeeter_g: jusboy you are waking up the senses IMO.
[21:15:09] rumel: jusboy - Yes , I have experienced it occasionally.
[21:15:25] jusboy7: yes i agree skeeter .. i only asked if others experienced it!!!!!
[21:15:39] skeeter_g: ok
[21:15:53] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi superH, welcome to the chat event!
[21:16:26] skeeter_g: Hi superH
[21:16:28] jusboy7: u guys all from the states?
[21:16:28] superH: hi i just listening quit arooky you know
[21:16:32] rumel: Hi superH
[21:16:42] superH: hi
[21:17:16] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: superH, can you give us a quick intro - age, location, experience with Aneros?
[21:17:39] superH: i am not from the states
[21:17:45] B Mayfield: perhaps I misunderstood...I thought someone was speaking about having discomfort with associated back pain
[21:17:48] B Mayfield: forgive me
[21:17:56] jusboy7: me too superH .. so dont worry
[21:18:01] superH: i am just a beginner and locxated in europe
[21:18:04] jusboy7: thats ok brian i think you got confused
[21:18:17] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: that's fine - jusboy7 is in spain
[21:18:20] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: welcome
[21:18:21] B Mayfield: won't be the first time lol
[21:18:22] jusboy7: oh where in europe superH?
[21:18:28] handlebar: Hi super H
[21:18:35] superH: hi
[21:18:44] skeeter_g: Hi Brian, that was handlebar for the pain.
[21:19:01] B Mayfield: that's what I get for coming in mid session here....
[21:19:04] B Mayfield: brb
[21:19:14] rumel: Other than being addictively time consuming, has anyone noticed it affecting your other sexual relationships?
[21:19:23] handlebar: I don't have pain in any way associated with the Aneros.Just normal sciatica
[21:19:35] handlebar: And it helps to have an orgasm to relieve pain
[21:19:52] handlebar: Yes.My wife love loves that i have a new hobby
[21:19:53] handlebar: LOL
[21:19:55] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: great question Rumel
[21:19:58] skeeter_g: Understand Handlebar.
[21:19:59] ichi: I find that I can hold off my climax for longer now.
[21:20:27] jusboy7: i find i have seperated the two feelings maybe too well
[21:21:20] rumel: I find there is not a rush to achieve ejaculation, increased willingness to prolong foreplay.
[21:21:37] ichi: I agree rumel
[21:21:50] ichi: I seem to enjoy forplay now...
[21:22:15] ichi: it is no longer a rush to the end
[21:22:29] handlebar: I agree!!
[21:22:35] rumel: I'm more sympathetic to the female need for longer stimulation time.
[21:22:48] skeeter_g: I also agree.
[21:22:59] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: ichi, what I find interesting is how the physical secondary effects melds with mental effects
[21:23:23] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: for example, there have been several posts in the past on the forum about how the aneros has made the man
[21:23:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: "a better husband"
[21:23:51] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: and more sensitive to the needs of the female
[21:24:10] skeeter_g: I believe that support.
[21:24:20] thickmeat: by learning better to understand his own reactions I bet
[21:24:23] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: we strongly feel that the "rewiring" is a large component of this
[21:24:34] ichi: well, I am not sure that I would claim to be a better person for using it, but I would say that my selx flife has changed
[21:24:44] rumel: Absolutely!
[21:24:55] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: because really, sexual health can be applied to both the physical and mental sides
[21:24:59] skeeter_g: really opened up my eyes for sure!
[21:25:25] rumel: support - I think they are inseparable.
[21:25:28] handlebar: And good sexual health almost always leads to better mental and emotional health in my opinion
[21:25:29] ichi: I have always been attentive to her needs, but now I find that I enjoy the kissing and the touching more
[21:25:37] jusboy7: its a sure sign we dont know our bodies THAT well
[21:25:56] handlebar: I agree ichi
[21:26:35] ichi: I guess you could say that sex was a about the ending
[21:26:51] ichi: now it is about being together
[21:26:57] rumel: ichi - being attentive is one thing but being empathically attentive is quite a bit more.
[21:27:14] ichi: I agree rumel
[21:28:06] rumel: I think the Aneros experience can rewire us on a deep psychic level.
[21:28:33] ichi: yes, I think I am more emotionally connected now
[21:29:26] ichi: perhaps it is because I had to pay attention to the very minor details during a session
[21:30:11] ichi: compound that over weeks and you really do change because of it
[21:30:37] handlebar: I think it also depends on how long one has been with their partner
[21:30:45] handlebar: Time makes us know more
[21:30:53] ichi: true
[21:31:11] skeeter_g: I have picked up a lot of extra emotion I did not have previously.
[21:31:59] rumel: skeeter - or was it emotion you had but did not express fully befor?
[21:32:47] superH: I have noticed that i am smiling a lot more since using aneros
[21:32:52] ichi: so when are we opening the floor?
[21:33:13] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: i think we can do that now
[21:33:13] skeeter_g: And finally after 35 years of Marriage I can understand my wife for who she is.
[21:33:31] ichi: I have a few questions
[21:33:34] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay everyone - open discussion 🙂
[21:33:41] skeeter_g: Rumel it was not expressed as much.
[21:33:49] rumel: skeeter - that is wonderful!
[21:34:17] ichi: How hard should contractions be?
[21:34:47] jusboy7: i try not to do any contractions
[21:34:49] skeeter_g: My wife being Italian, and me being kind of a dry American.. it was hard.
[21:34:56] B Mayfield: this is an individual thing
[21:35:11] B Mayfield: there is not one prescription that applies to all
[21:35:16] skeeter_g: Agreed Brian.
[21:35:22] rumel: ichi - IMHO - not hard at all, Ithink you can have great fun teasing yourself with light contractions.
[21:35:31] B Mayfield: the one thing that I have found with some consistency
[21:35:45] skeeter_g: Yes Runel.
[21:36:04] B Mayfield: is that one should fully explore the power of subtle contraction
[21:36:16] ichi: what is light? if very hard is a 10?
[21:36:44] B Mayfield: most of where I'm at is between the 1 to 4 range
[21:36:57] rumel: ichi - 2 or 3 on that scale.
[21:37:00] ichi: oh, so very light then
[21:37:06] jusboy7: my body seems to do its own
[21:37:11] skeeter_g: I would say 2 to 3 also.
[21:37:13] B Mayfield: with some 9's and 10 s to shake things up every now and them
[21:37:37] B Mayfield: really it doesn't take that much
[21:37:50] rumel: jusboy - that is the "do nothing" technique which can work for people too.
[21:38:07] jusboy7: yes i try to do NOTHING
[21:38:19] B Mayfield: it's about the simultaneous stimulation...generating that "positive feedback loop"
[21:38:29] jusboy7: i havent worked out how to make contractions
[21:38:53] ichi: next question..can you use too much lube? I seem to get better sensation with no prelube
[21:38:57] B Mayfield: you mean what intensity and timing works for you?
[21:39:09] B Mayfield: that comes with time
[21:39:22] B Mayfield: that's a preference thing
[21:39:39] ichi: I kind of figured B
[21:39:45] jusboy7: i was told i wasnt using enough lube last week, so added more in
[21:39:45] handlebar: I have not had any large contractions yet
[21:39:50] B Mayfield: some require it to get adequate response from the unit
[21:39:57] B Mayfield: others do not
[21:39:57] handlebar: Just minor ones,around a 1-2 level
[21:40:08] ichi: well that is what makes me wonder
[21:40:23] ichi: I mean should the helix be able to slide in and out?
[21:40:34] ichi: relly easily
[21:40:37] B Mayfield: yes
[21:40:43] handlebar: Mine doesn't
[21:40:51] B Mayfield: it should....whether your prelubing or not
[21:40:54] handlebar: Thats becasue i'm still new to it
[21:40:57] ichi: or just bob
[21:41:08] ichi: or pivot
[21:41:31] handlebar: I won't say it is difficult to put in
[21:41:32] ichi: Mine does not either handlebar
[21:41:34] B Mayfield: yes indeed ...it's movement should be unfettered
[21:41:38] handlebar: Thats not what i meant
[21:41:54] handlebar: I meant it doesn't fall out easy
[21:41:59] jusboy7: is mine different to the helix?
[21:42:18] rumel: IMHO, the lube needs to be sufficient so that your Aneros moves without friction or discomfort.
[21:42:19] ichi: I mean if I grab the handle and pull on it it will pop right out
[21:42:37] ichi: no pain or effort
[21:42:42] handlebar: I try not to pull hard.A little discomfort
[21:42:43] B Mayfield: yes...Rumel's got it right
[21:42:52] ichi: but it does not slide in and out on its own
[21:43:23] handlebar: I might need a bit more lube
[21:43:27] ichi: even when I really prelube
[21:43:55] rumel: ichi - that sounds about right, you wantyou musclesto control the motion.
[21:44:09] ichi: cool
[21:44:17] ichi: that happens
[21:44:37] ichi: but it does not move a lot in and out
[21:44:49] ichi: more of a pivot
[21:45:09] B Mayfield: naturally the device should not fall out on it's own...but should move easily with any anal contraction
[21:45:36] ichi: next question...porn during a session.
[21:45:37] rumel: ichi - That's perfectly OK, it does NOT take a lot of movement to generate sensations.
[21:45:46] handlebar: Mine seems to fit just right,especially that Progasm
[21:46:07] B Mayfield: the actual amount of movement or "excursion" (the distance in and out) is fairly small
[21:46:40] B Mayfield: remember this is not like a vibrator or a dildo...
[21:46:58] jusboy7: no
[21:47:23] ichi: do you think that watching porn is more of a distraction
[21:47:25] B Mayfield: when it's "seated" properly....the action of the unit is far more subtle than any of those devices...
[21:47:35] B Mayfield: again...a preference
[21:47:58] B Mayfield: if you are easily visually stimulated, as many men are....
[21:48:05] jusboy7: i likie to concenrate fully on the session and really relax
[21:48:23] B Mayfield: then it's terrific for amping things up!
[21:48:27] handlebar: I have not tried porn yet while using it.I want to soon
[21:48:36] ichi: that is what I was thinking B
[21:48:40] B Mayfield: for me...more as foreplay
[21:49:13] B Mayfield: give it a shot....see how it works for you
[21:49:38] B Mayfield: it won't take you to long to figure out whether it's worth your time
[21:49:44] rumel: I'm with Brian, porn is great to build arousal before a session but I find it distracting during a session.
[21:49:55] B Mayfield: yes
[21:50:06] jusboy7: ive not used it either
[21:50:13] handlebar: And it can be tough NOT touching yourself
[21:50:22] skeeter_g: rumel you are correct.. some soft music is better.
[21:50:24] B Mayfield: unless you're engaging in a totally different kind of session....which we're not really getting into here today
[21:50:49] skeeter_g: Porn will get you started for sure.
[21:50:55] B Mayfield: brb
[21:51:36] rumel: I think instrumental music during a session can be wonderful.
[21:52:05] skeeter_g: Yes agree totally.
[21:52:09] jusboy7: any favourites rumel??
[21:52:11] ichi: next question....when the involuntaries start, should I relax and let them do their thing, or do I continue to contract?
[21:52:12] rumel: Music with lyrics, I find a distraction.
[21:52:20] handlebar: As a classical music collector and major,i can understand that
[21:52:39] handlebar: There are certain pieces,instruments that fit the bill
[21:52:48] jusboy7: im a professional classical person so kinda interested in your idea!
[21:52:48] handlebar: yes,vocal solo can be
[21:52:50] handlebar: Or opera
[21:52:58] handlebar: but choral can be relaxing
[21:53:15] jusboy7: i wouldnt recommend opera no lol
[21:53:19] rumel: jusboy7 - the music I used on "HypnAerosession" turns me on!
[21:53:22] handlebar: LOL
[21:53:42] jusboy7: what mnusic is that rumel?
[21:54:11] skeeter_g: ichi you can continue to contract slightly, if it keeps things moving forward.
[21:55:01] skeeter_g: Usualy best to let go and see.. if not mild contractions again.
[21:55:04] rumel: jusboy7 - check out http://cdbaby.com/cd/alanahypnosis
[21:55:11] ichi: the girl in the bacground getting off turns me on rumel 😉
[21:55:38] handlebar: Nothing like an erotic voice
[21:55:50] ichi: will do skeeter
[21:56:37] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: hi everyone, we are nearing the end of this chat event, we would sincerely like to thank all of you for joining today
[21:56:42] ichi: should I relax completly or keep that mild contraction?
[21:57:11] handlebar: Thanks for the chat event
[21:57:14] handlebar: it was a delight
[21:57:23] jusboy7: ok no classical composers then
[21:57:52] skeeter_g: ichi If it continues to build with no contractions then relax.
[21:57:57] skeeter_g: let loose
[21:57:58] rumel: support - you indicated some info re: the PERIDISE models?
[21:58:02] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: some product news - we are working on a stainless steel version of the peridise
[21:58:33] skeeter_g: Yeah Baby!!! support.
[21:58:34] handlebar: Plenty of composers.Rachmaninov,Mozart,Mahler
[21:58:38] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: we are working with the weighting right now, the right balance is key
[21:58:47] handlebar: ooo new products
[21:59:02] jusboy7: ok handelbar .. which pieces???
[21:59:13] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: so more info to come in the near future

[22:03:22] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: right Brian
[22:03:24] skeeter_g: I dont think aluminum is any worse than plastic for cleanliness
[22:03:40] rumel: Yes titanium would be good perhaps magnesium as well.
[22:03:41] B Mayfield: it also has a marvelous cache'
[22:03:46] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: thanks Skeeter
[22:04:08] B Mayfield: I'm wearing my titanium eyeglass frames as we speak
[22:04:16] B Mayfield: as we chat that is!
[22:04:41] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: 🙂
[22:04:41] jusboy7: lol
[22:04:53] skeeter_g: Titanium is highly flammable
[22:05:02] skeeter_g: If I remember corrrectly
[22:05:06] jusboy7: ooer
[22:05:15] B Mayfield: yes....if it's in a powder form
[22:05:22] rumel: skeeter - my ass ain't that hot!
[22:05:34] skeeter_g: Oh Ok brian...
[22:05:36] B Mayfield: it's used as a catalyst in many chemical reactions
[22:05:37] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: haha
[22:05:43] skeeter_g: I could not remember.
[22:06:05] skeeter_g: rumel ... :laugh:
[22:06:08] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: well, the chat room software is scheduled to close here automatically in a few minutes
[22:06:15] B Mayfield: on the aluminum...I seem to remember that some people have reactions to it
[22:06:36] B Mayfield: OH....say it's not so.....and I just GOT HERE lol
[22:06:55] rumel: I believe in formed metal form it is highly heat resistant that is one of the reasons it was used in the SR-71.
[22:06:56] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: i knowww Brian 🙂
[22:07:00] B Mayfield: my bad....my schedule has gone awry today...
[22:07:24] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: if there is interest i can keep the room open for an additional hour
[22:07:24] B Mayfield: Nurse Funk is that you?
[22:07:27] B Mayfield: lol
[22:07:30] handlebar: Thanks for the chat support
[22:07:41] handlebar: it was helpful
[22:07:49] B Mayfield: yes....it's wonderful that you guys do this...
[22:08:01] rumel: I can hang around a bit longer.
[00:00:00] Administrator: This chat event is ending soon. See you at the next one!
[22:08:18] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay the event has been extended an hour
[22:08:20] B Mayfield: the software is gonna shut us down though
[22:08:21] B Mayfield: see
[22:08:40] B Mayfield: IT'S THE MECHANIZED HUM OF ANOTHER WORLD!
[22:08:51] skeeter_g: So support when do I get my stainless Peridise... any ideas on when they will be finished at this time?
[22:08:56] rumel: Cool - the Party's On!
[22:09:19] B Mayfield: it'll probably kick us off pretty soon
[22:09:33] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: skeeter we are working on the prototype
[22:09:48] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: no exact date set
[22:09:58] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: one sec
[22:10:04] rumel: Well we can always switch over to the Forum and start a thread.
[22:10:04] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: let me fix the locking of the software
[22:10:17] skeeter_g: OK thanks Support!!
[22:10:20] B Mayfield: that would be cool
[22:10:37] B Mayfield: specially for later comers like me
[22:10:47] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: okay, i think the software is okay now - should be good for another hour
[22:11:10] B Mayfield: LOL
[22:11:12] rumel: Thanks support.
[22:11:22] B Mayfield: oops...lol
[22:11:30] skeeter_g: Cool support!!
[22:11:40] handlebar: Thans
[22:11:45] rumel: jusboy7 - did we get most of your questions answered?
[22:12:06] @aneros.com">support@aneros.com: I will be sigining off now but feel free to continue the great discussion here. hope to see you guys at the next one!