Worried about hurting my wife during orgasm

Posted by: @bens

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I’m worried that I could hurt my wife while I’m orgasming -... & could give me some practical advice?

I suggest you look into some bondage devices, ropes , ankle/ handcuffs should be able to provide sufficient restraint to limit your bodily movements and avoid any potential injury to your wife. The upside of this is that would also add to the kinkyness of the session and get your wife even more involved as she installs the restraints. Warning, this may start to change the power dynamics of your relationship, hopefully for the better..

Good Vibes to You!

@rumel - thanks so much for the suggestion - we tried light bondage a few years ago but didn’t really like it - this would give it a different spin though & would address the contractions problem

Anyone else on here that has strong contractions / spasms during MMO sessions and has involved partners?

I’d love to hear about your experiences of how those sessions went & specifically  how you dealt with strong contractions while being with a partner (being pegged in doggy, on the bottom in missionary position, getting a blow job etc.)

Thanks!!

You could just have her watch a couple times first, just so she knows what she's in for, too. 

@faith-manages - good idea - thanks!

i will also do a session or two without her to see if I can find some ways to control the contractions / spasms 

6 months later…

Short story: no need to worry - I control myself subconsciously 

Long story: first time I planned to have a prostate orgasm/ weed session with my wife, I was very self-conscious about having a prostate orgasm in front of her & also hurting her whilst thrashing around while spasming mid-orgasm - but it was fine, I think I sub-consciously controlled the orgasms so I wasn’t thrashing around so much. We had sex a few times that evening and it was nice but not amazing

Since that first time we’ve probably had another 6 sessions  and they just keep getting better & better, maybe also due to me also getting more experienced at having prostate orgasms, but also that I’m more comfortable in front of her - we’ve had sex for 30-60 mins & I had prostate orgasms every 5-10 minutes during, once or twice I’ve ejaculated inside her & been able to carry on fucking afterwards & have more prostate orgasms 

When I’m in this state, my wife’s pussy feels so intense - I can feel the muscles & the tightness much more than normal and the inside feels like a lake of golden energy I’m connected with, kind of mirroring the white light energy I feel flowing through my prostate & up & down my body - amazing

Sex is much more sensual than normal too, it’s like I’ve taken ecstasy but an incredibly sexual version

My wife loves it too - the raw sexuality, the sensuality, the dirtiness, the whole beautiful depravity of the situation

It’s an intense evening, 2-3h normally, so we only do it once a month, but the great thing is I can still do solo sessions inbetween & they’re different, even better in some ways 

Highly recommended

Favourite toy for sex sessions is the Tempo or nothing

In solo sessions i use the Tempo, Eupho syn or nothing - all slightly different, all great

For weed, I prefer a pure sativa or a pure indica, not as much the hybrids - the pure strains give quite distinct effects, especially when mixed with different toys but all are great