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Thanks for the info Ruby! I was all set for my 2nd visit last Tuesday, but alas she canceled due to an illness, so I'll have to wait until next Tuesday.

Usually when using the prostate I'd say I'm hard maybe 40-50% of the time, while having a Super O, I really couldn't say b/c I don't really care, lol, but then towards the end of a session when I want a traditional O, I find it's easy to get hard and stay hard for over 30 minutes (if I choose). That's why I was a little bit surprised at my inability to get hard towards the end of my first "massage therapy" session even when cock stimulation began.

One thing that I think played a huge factor is that the night before session 1 I really could not sleep at all and was just really anxious about the whole ordeal. The night before what was supposed to be session 2 (keep in mind I didn't know it'd be canceled yet) I was still looking forward to the session, but got a good night's rest. So I am thinking being so amped up about the whole ordeal may have made it even more difficult to get a Super O and then get hard throughout the session. We'll see next time, I'm so excited and I'm gonna do 90 minutes instead of 60, and already have a better plan based on what felt like it worked the first time. I'm really hoping she has a vibrating strapon as well.

Ruby;

Glad I could be helpful.

Rando;

Can't wait for your next report. Good luck, dude.

All;

Aside from Ruby Ryder, we don't hear much from the female side of the pegging experience, nor do many women post about it. Here's a recent exception, below.

Cheers,

Dave

From Our Open Marriage Adventures on 6 September 2011...

Okay, I am working slighty out of order on all of the posts that I need to finish, but I think K5 might explode if I don’t get this posted. As Deviant has already told everyone, I had a huge fantasy to use a strap-on with him. It is just so empowering to think about me on top, to think about me being the one in complete control.

I used to have a huge problem with fantasies. It’s not that I had anything against them, it’s just that I rarely had them. When I did have them, I never told anyone about them. I still know that I don’t have as many as some people, but at least I fantasize now. So, I had thought about pegging Deviant in the ass for a while, and one night in bed, he asked me what my craziest fantasy was… that’s the one I told him about!

When my strap-on arrived in the mail, I sent Deviant a message right away telling him. He immediately wrote back saying “is that a subtle hint that you want to fuck me in the ass tonight?”

Maybe…

Later that night, I noticed that Deviant had poured himself a drink. This isn’t normal for him, so I knew that he was nervous about it. I was also a little nervous, but I was also really excited. When he went to get in the shower, I went to open everything up and get it ready. I had the harness on and when he came out of the shower, but the dildo hadn’t been cleaned yet, so it wasn’t attached yet.

He told me to get everything ready, and come let him know when I was. After everything was clean and ready, I went to go get him. We both giggled about the purple cock that was between my legs for a few minutes.

I decided that he deserved to get a blow job to start things off. I gave my best efforts, and it was obvious that Deviant liked what was happening. He was rock hard and I could taste the cum that was leaking from the end of his cock. He looked me in the eyes after a few minutes and told me that if I was ready, so was he.

I was a little shy about what was about to happen, and luckily, Deviant noticed. He asked me how I wanted him. That was all of the encouragement that I needed!

I told him to bend over the bed, and he listened to me. I got the lube out and ready while he bent over the bed. I positioned myself behind him and started to slowly enter him. I needed his help to guide it in since I couldn’t really feel what was going on.

After a short break, we were able to get the dildo all the way in. I immediately went into “I’M FUCKING HIM IN THE ASS” mode. I grabbed hold and started thrusting. Apparently I wasn’t very gentle, and he had to ask me to slow down once. I had 2 problems with this position: 1) I couldn’t feel how far out I was pulling, so a few times I pulled all the way out and 2) it was really hard to give a reach around! (but I did try)

We decided that a different position might work better, so I laid flat on the bed, and Deviant lowered himself onto my purple cock sideways. This was much better for the reach around. I was able to jack him off while he was getting nailed.

It was so fucking hot to hear him moan while this was all happening. I know that he was doing this for my fantasy, but, what a feeling to know that he was enjoying it, too.

Next position: missionary-like. Deviant flat on his back while I thrusted into him. I think we both liked this on the best. I was able to get some real thrusting, and I could hear him moan and see the pre-cum that was covering his stomach and chest. I really got into it at this point. I was really hoping that I would make him cum while I was nailing him. I could also feel myself getting more and more excited. As I thrusted, I could feel my clit swelling. With every shove and moan that came from Deviant, I got more and more excited.

There is nothing like the power and control that I felt while we were doing this. I have played Mistress before, but this was different. This was complete and total control. It was such a different feeling for me, and I was having a blast.

I started having troubles with the dildo slipping out again, so we decided to call it quits with pegging.

At this point, I wanted to make him cum. I wanted him to get off. I wanted to taste his cum. I sucked and licked with all of my might. I could feel his cock, so hard, sliding between my lips. I could taste him in the back of my throat.

When he came, it was awesome. There was such a load, and I loved it. Afterwards, we talked about it. I wanted to make sure that he had a good time. I also wanted to make sure that he understood how excited I was that he did this for me. Granted, I doubt he could have not known with the smile that was spread across my face.

This was such a wonderful evening. I had always thought about it. I had always wanted to know what it would be like to be able to do it. And now, here I am, with another fantasy off the list! Deviant made that happen. and… IT WAS HOT!

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A wonderful message sent to me through my website. Sharing from the female POV is rare - I received her permission to post this.

Six months ago my fiancée, then boyfriend of two and a half years, told me he had tried anal play during masturbation and was interested in exploring this together. At first I was mildly upset/offended. Hadn't I been a good enough lover? Was he bi-because he certainly isn't gay. Most importantly we had been fucking for two years and he never mentioned it, although he had mentioned an interest in giving anal pleasure. I began to feel ill-equipped to please him, compared to a toned man with a raging hard cock.

Since then he has shared all of his sexual experiences with me, and I have learned that no, my future husband is not gay. Rather he is a heterosexual male who really enjoys having his ass fucked by a woman, and a prostate massage in tandem with being blown.

The best part is...I LOVE it. Seeing my glistening purple Share dildo right before I penetrate him gets me so hot, and I love hearing him moan as he gives me his ass and totally submits all thought.

There is something so erotic about being fucked and submitting as I am being penetrated. To simply feel, and not think. I am so happy to bring that same pleasure I experience to the best lover I have ever known and get to spend a lifetime in the sack with. Since we have started pegging, it has become a normal aspect to our sex life.

I am still coming to terms with accepting that I like to fuck and make sweet love to his ass, but I am coming to accept it. I enjoy taking his ass, and desire to be inside him almost as much as I long for his tongue on my clit when he is at work.

I love anal sex, and what is has done for my sex life.

What a delightful message! It's so wonderful to read about a woman who has a passion for delivering anal pleasure. I love how she likens it to her own experience of being penetrated as well. Thanks for sharing Ruby.

BF Mayfield

Indeed B Mayfield!! And thank you so much Ruby Ryder!!! 😀 😀 😀

all the best m/f sharing on this delicate subject for many all

artform

This part definitely struck a chord with me: "There is something so erotic about being fucked and submitting as I am being penetrated. To simply feel, and not think."

It's so nice to just give up complete control sometimes and be able to "sit back" and just enjoy the ride.

I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same way, but one of the reasons I love prostate play (whether by myself of being pegged) is that I can just experience endless pleasure and can decide myself when it ends. When you are penetrating a female, you can't quite let loose fully b/c at least in the back of my mind I have to temper my pleasure a bit lest I ejaculate and then it immediately ends. So you enjoy the experience, but you don't want it to end, so you can't experience too much,or it might end, it's like a constant balancing act.

And more to the subject of pegging or anal play in general, is it best to let it be known very early in a budding relationship? It seems like it's a bit more of a shock to a female to learn about a male's desire to be pegged if they've just been having traditional sex for a year+, but maybe if you introduce it very early in a relationship, it can lead to much more favorable outcomes. I will also throw out there that I'm in my mid-20s and about to embark on a new relationship (yet to have sex), but it's gotten to the point where if a potential partner is unwilling to take part in pegging, that it is basically a dealbreaker, b/c I enjoy it so much. 🙂

This part definitely struck a chord with me: "There is something so erotic about being fucked and submitting as I am being penetrated. To simply feel, and not think."

It's so nice to just give up complete control sometimes and be able to "sit back" and just enjoy the ride.

I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same way, but one of the reasons I love prostate play (whether by myself of being pegged) is that I can just experience endless pleasure and can decide myself when it ends. When you are penetrating a female, you can't quite let loose fully b/c at least in the back of my mind I have to temper my pleasure a bit lest I ejaculate and then it immediately ends. So you enjoy the experience, but you don't want it to end, so you can't experience too much,or it might end, it's like a constant balancing act.

Spot on, 100%, couldn't agree with you more:D

And more to the subject of pegging or anal play in general, is it best to let it be known very early in a budding relationship? It seems like it's a bit more of a shock to a female to learn about a male's desire to be pegged if they've just been having traditional sex for a year+, but maybe if you introduce it very early in a relationship, it can lead to much more favorable outcomes. I will also throw out there that I'm in my mid-20s and about to embark on a new relationship (yet to have sex), but it's gotten to the point where if a potential partner is unwilling to take part in pegging, that it is basically a dealbreaker, b/c I enjoy it so much. 🙂

There are a number of different schools of thought about when to divulge. Too soon and too blatantly and you will scare off a woman who could have been convinced. If you check out this article, "Convincing Her to Try It" it will give you an idea of the factors involved as far as women are concerned...and there are many. (Myself I divulge right on my profile on FetLife because not only is pegging my passion, I write about it and teach about it, which presents additional challenges.) For men there are pitifully few women who already love pegging or are turned on by the idea of it, so limiting yourself to searching only for women like that would narrow your choices ridiculously. So you find a woman you like to date and when do you tell her, right?

Your generation tends to be much more open minded about sex and accepting of what my generation would deem as quite kinky stuff. So you could divulge early and first say you are really into ass play just to see if that is a hard limit for her. Asses can be a very hard limit for people of all ages because of the whole excrement factor. Usually a woman who is into receiving ass play is more open to her guy suggesting that it be his ass they play with. Sadly, even women your age sometimes have the He's Gay reaction. If you can get them past that they usually discover pegging rocks. Don't wait too long, though. Dangerous to wait too long because then you are emotionally involved and she might say absolutely not.

Another option is to do what this man did: "Vanilla to Pegger - One Man's Story". I could talk a long time about this subject - it is a major topic of discussion everywhere people are talking about pegging. I do wish I had a magic wand to instantly make a woman interested in strap-on sex. But I guess the whole dance is an important and necessary step in developing more intimacy and opening to each other.

I wish you the best with your potential new partner!

Ruby

I went back to my sensual massage therapist today for a 1.5 hour session, I wish I had a mindblowing experience to report back to you guys, but it was another good, but not great session.

So I get there and just like last time we take a minute or two to plan out what we're gonna do. Last time I thought the sensual massage she gave was amazing, she does a more traditional massage for a bit, then with me laying on my stomach, she focuses in on my erogenous zones. If you've never had this done, it just feels incredible. She runs her fingertips all over my butt cheeks, all over my taint, asshole (but no penetration just yet), balls, and just the right amount of contact with my cock. This went on for about 25 minutes and I had told that I wanted her to go straight into a prostate massage right away while I was charged up from the massage.

Part of the problem was that she doesn't really have enough toys. I was hoping she had kind of a handheld prostate massager or vibrating dildo or something to use on me while I was laying on my stomach, but she did not. Anyway, she went into a prostate massage with her fingers for a little bit and it was ok, but I guess my prostate wasn't quite awakened yet b/c it didn't really start any intense pleasure waves.

She had mentioned last time that she got really sore from fucking me in the same position for too long, so she asked me to turn over onto my back and I was ok with it b/c the manual prostate massage was getting a bit stale. She used the same strapon as last time which was a bit of a letdown, I was really hoping she had a vibrating one and was a bit surprised that she didn't. Just like last time it felt pretty good, but not great. I was getting erections every now and then as well so I think I was a bit more relaxed than last time, but still not close to any kind of orgasms. Part of the problem may have been that the strapon she uses is kind of a beginner one, it's a bit less girthy than I'd like, and it isn't that long, so when I'm on my back we both have to strain a bit too much to get it deep enough to hit my spot, which dampens the mood a bit.

So then she asks me to turn over again and I was thinking cool I can relax on my stomach while she goes to town on me, but instead she suggested a doggy style position with me on all 4s and I agreed. The odd thing about this position is that it almost led to too much penetration, I think the strapon was pounding me a bit too hard, but it still felt pretty good, and finally in this position I was getting close to mini Os, but couldn't quite get there. This was also a completely different sensation of being penetrated than while on my back. I don't know exactly how to describe it, but it's a more raw and pounding feel. It was definitely a bit different and was the first time I got the sensation where I need to take a #2. It seems like this is probably not a position you want to try right away if you're new to pegging. This position is ok for 5-10 minutes, but after awhile my shoulders just got really tired b/c they were supporting most of my weight and some of hers. At this point there was about 15 minutes left so I ask her if I can get back on my back so she can finish me off.

It is kind off odd that I was pretty erect during the prostate massage, got a couple hard erection the first time I was on my back (none during doggy though), but once again I had trouble getting an erection the second time on my back. She wasn't really pounding me that hard with the strapon, I think it might just be a little too difficult to hit the right spot without us both doing acrobatics. Anyway, I really had to focus a lot to finally ejaculate, she was telling me stories of her lesbian exploits in strip clubs and such, I'm not sure if they were true or she was embellishing a bit for my benefit, but I shut my eyes and really focused in and had a pretty good ejaculatory orgasm. It seemed like semen was shooting everywhere and some even shut up to my cheek bone, which she found quite amusing, I thought it was pretty cool too and I didn't mind a bit of laughter at my expense b/c I believe the sexual arena is a place to have fun and not take yourselves seriously.

Overall, I would have to say the experience was maybe slightly worse than last time which was a bit of a disappointment. This one was 90 minutes instead of 60, so it was a bit more pricy at $165 USD. I'm not really certain if I want to do another session or not. I think if I do I will probably wait 6 weeks or so. I really wish she had a vibrating strapon b/c I think that would make a world of difference (I love my Aneros Vice). As such, I'm not sure if I can really justify the expenditure. The sessions are not even in the same ballpark of pleasure as some of my better Aneros ones, but there is definitely something to be said about experiencing this pleasure completely at the mercy of another. I can only imagine how great it might be to share it with someone you truly love. Another part of the problem is that when I'm really trying to focus on the sensations around my prostate to build them up into an orgasm, I am pretty quite and focused, but I think this might confuse her and make her think I'm not enjoying something when that couldn't be farther from the truth. It is a bit hard for me to stay completely focused when I have to balance my pleasure with also providing her feedback.

I've started dating 2 girls so hopefully one of these relationships blossoms into sex and I will for sure try to introduce pegging into any new sexual relationship. I guess the dream of being fucked by a Feeldoe (or its equivalent) will have to wait a little longer.

Rando - I love the way you are so generous with sharing the details of your experiences with us. Thanks for that.

The sessions are not even in the same ballpark of pleasure as some of my better Aneros ones, but there is definitely something to be said about experiencing this pleasure completely at the mercy of another. I can only imagine how great it might be to share it with someone you truly love. Another part of the problem is that when I'm really trying to focus on the sensations around my prostate to build them up into an orgasm, I am pretty quite and focused, but I think this might confuse her and make her think I'm not enjoying something when that couldn't be farther from the truth. It is a bit hard for me to stay completely focused when I have to balance my pleasure with also providing her feedback.

Yes - I would have to say that some of my masturbatory experiences that involve the G-spot are far more intense than what I can achieve with a partner, but for me having the partner there is still preferable most of the time because of the human connection factor. I wish you the best with your blossoming relationships!

@ All -
I found a great description by a man about the first time his wife did any serious anal play with him with a toy. Not quite pegging, but well written, humorous and encompasses everything from preparation to play. Enjoy.

Great read Ruby!
I was extremely concerned about the pineapple under the heading "Tools and Toys I used", Those leaves on the top are very sharp, not to mention the girth of the actual fruit.
I needn't have worried, although I thought that use of pineapple was very considerate of him!

Rando, where did you find someone like that?! Are those sort of "massage therapists" even legal in the US?

I think I posted this in some other thread before, but feel it deserves a spot here as well...

Article :: Hitting the He-Spot

For the record I'm still a virgin, but obviously very open to the idea of anal play and can only hope the woman I end up will be willing to oblige. That article gives me hope...

This might be a double perversion... but has anyone tried pegging in the "woman on top" position ? Two negatives produce a positive... or something.

Rando;
Thanks for the excellent and comprehensive report. Considering that you're paying what would be top dollar in my neck of the woods, you should get complete satisfaction, your way; vibe, positions, whatever it takes. I'll bet it works out better for you when you have a GF who is into it. Best of luck in finding one.

Ruby;
Thanks for the link. BTW, I subscribed to your stories and recommend them to anyone into this kinky side stream activity.

Skywalker;
So, you chickened out of the Share XL, didn't you? 🙂

Sensitive;
Many independent massage therapists will do prostate massage, toys or strap-ons. Find them on Craigslist or Myredbook or in the local street newspaper's back pages. The code word is "FBSM," full body sensual massage. Then, ask the lady if she does what you want.

airbag;
Woman on top, or "reverse missionary" is one of my favorite pegging positions. Unfortunately, it makes my wife's hip joints hurt after about 10 minutes. Perverse? Hell, yes!

Cheers,

Dave

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All;
Here's a fun video clip about a couple trying pegging for the first time that is cute and not porn:

Young People Fucking - Strapon Fuck

Cheers,

Dave

LOL, I've seen that movie...not bad overall, but God that is an awkward scene to watch. I assure you I wouldn't take much convincing, lol

sensitiveguy22 - that was a great read - only part that made me blanche (though I know it was meant to be humorous) was:

5. Have the girl clip her fingernails. Maybe decades from now, sticking sharp objects up your ass will be the hot new thing but that’s a different article for a different generation.

No - that will never be the hot new thing. Ever!

airbag - "double perversion"? If perversion means totally hot, yes. That position allows for a lot of intimacy, eye contact, kissing. You just have to be careful that the family jewels don't hang down in the way and get knocked around. That is why you see men holding their balls up sometimes in gay porn. Not always necessary depending on the angle and how everything hangs, so to speak.

Dave - Thanks for subscribing! I trust you will enjoy the stories...

Is this more or less what it meant by "woman on top/reverse missionary"?

That's from Tristan Taormino's Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men, which I was just watching and thought that position was super hot as opposed to others where your back is to the girl and you can't see her or anything.

Is this more or less what it meant by "woman on top/reverse missionary"?

I think so sensitiveguy, now just imagine her leaning forward all the way to passionately kiss you and putting her weight on you (watch out for your balls though! those boys can get squashed) Now bring your legs up onto her bottom or lower back and push her in, as if she needs any encouragement! Very passionate.

Yes Ten_s_nut, I have chickened out for now, the standard Share has had a run since, but you now how it is, it's hard to stop to change equipment!

Sky_Walker;

Yeah, I learned about the ball-smashing in the position pictured, above.

Your decision not to use the Share XL is smart. That thing could cause damage. 🙂

BTW, check out the image of the cover of Q Magazine. Gaga does it.

Best Regards,

Dave

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Lady gaga looks like a blond version of Edward penis hands!

Are you saying she has donned a strapon for that photo, I can only just make it out, pegging's gone mainstream!

This video, like all of Lady Gaga's, is pretty bizarre...but there are several unmistakable scenes that flash by. Yep, Gaga does it.
As far as mainstream - pegging has been mentioned on the Colbert Report. Worth a watch to see Colbert's face!

Have any of you ever considered the real thing? I mean if the opportunity presented itself? I am curious as to how many of you would be willing to try it? 🙂

Hello, Liam.

You know, there have been more than a few threads on this board about exactly that topic. Try searching on "attracted to men" or "real thing."

Here's one: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/clarity-gay-thing-15441/ Kudos to darwin for posing the question.

Most guys know what their sex partner gender attraction/preference is from the get-go. By definition, straight guys are attracted to women, gays to men, lesbians to women, and bi-people to whomever. A woman with a strap-on phallus is still a woman.

Speaking only for myself, if I was attracted to men or was bi, I'd certainly want the real thing, but I'm not and I don't.

Cheers,

Dave

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Hi Liam9 and ten_s_nut!!! 😀 😀 😀

Hello, Liam.

....Most guys know what their sex partner gender attraction/preference is from the get-go. By definition, straight guys are attracted to women, gays to men, lesbians to women, and bi-people to whomever. A woman with a strap-on phallus is still a woman.

Speaking only for myself, if I was attracted to men or was bi, I'd certainly want the real thing, but I'm not and I don't.

Cheers,

Dave
...

And there can be even finer divisions on the response/orientation spectrum.

I am hetero-bi, enjoy male form aesthetically as much as female, check out gay "porn" as well as lesbian, bi and straight from time to time, tried the gay/bi full range in my youth and found out where I fit more specifically. I don't feel any need or want to have m/m physical sexual contact, yet I can enjoy that other men do and celebrate intellectually, emotionally, openly with them platonically.

Others have asked, if something ever happened to my dear wife?? I would very clearly, highly most likely find a new female partner. Butt you can never say never in this range of the spectrum, and I accept that comfortably. That little gap, while no threat at all to my m/f relationship, is a little zip zest that seasons my ongoing life from the richness of my whole life journey experience to date!! 😀

This from a bi-guy who is sexually attracted virtually exclusively to women. Butt who is aesthetically and erotically enjoying male and female beauty and energies in all their forms.

I have put countless varieties of things up my ass to massage my prostate over the past 50+ years, including my friend's dick in our youth experimental fling, and I don't miss it at all. I just don't need a penis in there. Now Aneros and Mrs. A's fingers!!! Super-O-ing all the way in SO many ways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!................................

enjoy all of your journey's subtle richness in your eroticism all wherever you are on the great potentials spectrum all

artform

Hello, all, and especially visitors to this site.

I've noticed that this thread is one of the most popular and the longest one on this website. Looking at Google, I think I know why. If you search on "pegging" and limit the time span to "Past month," you'll find this thread on the first page of results. That means many men reading this thread are not Aneros users. Rather, they are here because of an interest in pegging. This post is aimed at those guys.

There's a beneficial relationship between Aneros practice and pegging. Had I never started with Aneros, I probably wouldn't have become interested in pegging. Aneros use "wakes up" the prostate to pleasure. And once that happens, a logical question is, what else might feel good down there? "Dildo" might be the next thought. Dildo attached to my wife or GF soon follows. Next thing you know, you're searching the Web to find out about pegging.

So, if you're interested in pegging, I suggest starting with Aneros first. Aneros will get your prostate feeling good. I used Aneros for 6 months and was at the routine Super-O stage before any pegging. My prostate was warmed up and ready for more action. Continuing with nightly Aneros use after pegging became a regular part of our sex life means that I'm always ready for whatever my wife wants to do.

I think the best choice of an Aneros device for someone interested in pegging is the Vice. It's size, material and vibrator are the closest Aneros gets to a pegging dildo. In fact, I find that using the Vice with the vibe in Mode 4 (pulse-pulse) is not all that different from the sensations I get when my wife pegs me in a jiggling motion. Of course, a thrusting dildo is another story, mainly because the full diameter of the dildo holds the anus open all the time. With Vice, anal stretch is relatively limited. Vice's in and out motion is a maximum of a half-inch, and typically around a quarter-inch, total range.

If you're already using one of the smaller Aneros models, like MGX or Helix, I'd suggest moving up to Progasm, Ice or Vice before pegging. That will give your body a chance to adjust. Even then, a typical 6-inch dildo will take some getting used to.

Cheers,

Dave

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I just wanted to add a few comments to this thread.

1. Has anyone else noticed the increase in Pegging videos on the web over the last couple of years? I sure have. For me, this fantasy is not really about a Dom/Sub relationship, which is what a lot of videos I used to find depicted. Lately, in the amateur porn I watch, I have notice a lot more videos between loving couples which are not of the Dom/Sub type, but just two people enjoying sex. I think this is a good sign that this sex act is becoming more "mainstream" and that it is not about power and control like a lot of the porn out there suggests.

2. Unfortunately for me, my SO will not indulge me in this type of sex. I have explored alternate ways of exploring this with my wife even if she is a passive participant, and I thought I would share my techniques. I have even been able to have hands free prostate orgasms using these techniques. I think my aneros journey has helped.

My wife really enjoys getting body massages, mostly while she lays on her stomach, while I straddle her and massage her body (head, shoulders, back, butt, legs, calves, feet. Not always in that order). My first technique is to straddle her facing her feet so that we are butt to butt. So what I do while massaging her legs/feet, I will spread my cheeks and sit down on her butt and grind my anus against hers. Leaning forward toward her feet is the most stimulating position. This kind of simulates the cowgirl positions and I imaging I am riding her dildo. On many occasions I have had full release hands free prostate orgasms doing this. Sometimes this even leads to sex, since it feels good to her too, she is usually moaning when I do this.

The other technique also involves giving a body massage, but this time I will straddle one of her legs where I can sit down on one of her heel and I will grind my anus back and forth and up and down on her heel.

One more thing we do, where she is an active participant, is that she will get on top while I spread my legs around her waist and she humps me as if we were in the standard missionary position. This at least gives me a sense of what it might be like to have her do me.

So, I just thought I would share some of my thoughts on this subject. Hopefully one day my SO will loosen up a bit and be willing to try it for real.

Thanks for reading,

David

she will get on top while I spread my legs around her waist and she humps me as if we were in the standard missionary position. This at least gives me a sense of what it might be like to have her do me.

David;

If you had Aneros Vice in your butt when she did that, you'd be getting 90% of the pegging experience. The other 10%, thrusting, can be a challenge you might want to skip anyway. If the Vice is too pricey for you, almost any silicone or jelly dildo with an anal-safe flare or bar will suffice. Just don't try to use a hard plastic Aneros or dildo for "dry humping."

Also, that was a great post. Based on the Pegging Survey (below), I'd say a lot of guys here are in the same boat as you.

Best Regards,

Dave

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I found another source of pegging videos that thankfully bypass most of the porn stereotypes...it's a blog called "Sensual Pegging". Nice photos, too. Here's the link:
Sensual Pegging
Enjoy!

Thanks very much Ruby Ryder!!!

I found another source of pegging videos that thankfully bypass most of the porn stereotypes...it's a blog called "Sensual Pegging". Nice photos, too. Here's the link:
Sensual Pegging
Enjoy!

This is a big help in a gentle introduction to pegging getting underway here.

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