I have been an aneros user for many years but only had recent success. I had big issues regarding getting beyond a certain point, it seemed after a few mins things would die down, no matter what i did. Today i discovered that the issue is my arousal levels and a total lack of them after a few mins.
So going against the grain today the following happened around lunchtime:
[LIST] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Sitting propped up using pillows on bed[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Used laptop and had some awesome porn on it[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]I was already a little already a little excited/mildly aroused[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]I used the mini medium device[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [/LIST]I mostly observed the do nothing technique and allowing things to develop through the visuals i could see. If things faded etc I observed:
[LIST] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Light tension, visualisation of the ‘slit’ muscle (see below)[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]I noticed after a while a sort of warmth all over, constant light orgasm feeling throughout my pelvic [/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]region, legs, penis head and shaft[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]Each orgasm, which i think is what they are, would rise with an accompanying erection, i focused away from the penis and on the muscles quivering inside[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]So for me the erection is helpful, it in and of itself aroused me knowing it was getting hard[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Arousal is by far the key here, something i have been missing[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Strong core as well. I had just been to do some work outside the house rather than usually being at home so felt like i was ‘fitter’ somehow[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [/LIST][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px][B]Note to self:[/B] i now need to get to the GYM and get some exercise! need a strong core[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] –
Second session approximately 2 hours later (was disturbed by phone calls etc in first one)
[LIST] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]Started with the Zini Medium again (same positions etc as before), felt not bad then moved onto SGX (just felt i needed it somehow)[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Wow, Lovely! strong orgasmic feelings rising[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]Then moved on to the ephor classic (again not sure why just felt i needed) modded with tail cut off[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]Lots of dry o’s, couldn’t believe how it felt like i was ejaculating, orgasm feeling in my penis, really strong, prostate twitching crazy and lots of warmth everywhere inside, amazing![/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [*][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]NB: i would also have my legs up, sometimes by my ass, sometimes more stabilised outwards and sometimes i would lay them flat, When flat this is when i would feel lots of internal prostate an muscle ‘quivering'[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [/LIST][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]-[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] Hours later….
[LIST] [*][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]Whilst sitting VERY intense aless, way more intense than normal. Had forgotten that it could be this intense![/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [/LIST]-
This also helped at times as well (i observe this as a sort of ‘slit’ inside myself, i can’t make that any clearer sorry!):
[I][I][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Helvetica][SIZE=12px]”Big contractions are not needed either. Very light tension is best. Then a complete focus on the sensations and moving them around the device and your body. Start with the area between the perineum and the prostate. Look for a feeling of continuous tension, an ache. Think about moving your interior pelvic muscles without actually moving them.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR] [/I][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]Lastly, commit your mind to arousal connected to this focus on tension and sensation.”[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [B][FONT=Helvetica][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=12px]​PS. I also have aneros less control, all i need to do is just tense and release muscle, results in the same as above however more general, ‘mild’ if you will[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT][/B][/I]