Your ability to withstand delayed gratification correlates well with success, it's also been seminal in our evolution and the development of the frontal cortex.
There are some people on this forum with addiction problems, be it PMO or marijuana. Both cases the outcome is inevitable a decline in sensitivity. So despite the logic being the less you do the better it is, you do more because of the instant gratification, and roll back the millions of years in evolution.
Anyway point being I like doing both, and cutting out PMO makes it easier to stick to not using mj and it shows me how easy it is to at least be able to withstand instant gratification )for PMO(in certain areas of my life that this would carry over is self control in other areas since the principal is exactly the same. If you can withstand this instant gratification and patiently wait it out not only will the rewards be greater but you will have grown in the process.
IMO it's not about excluding the 'vices' from your life, but using them to practice self control and by knowing what you're missing by foregoing you're training your patience muscle, growing your frontal cortex and you get a more intense experience with much less
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Patience
Posted on March 15th, 2015. Session Length: unspecified Models Used:
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Anonymous
Thank you for your post on patience, Ehm. Delayed gratification is perhaps the biggest lesson that I must study during all my Aneros sessions. Yes, I must and do put pornography, masturbation, orgasm [PMO] out of my mind when I have an Aneros session and even in Aless following. PMO is at best a major distraction.
For me, the biggest consolation I receive from all my sessions nowadays is Aless along with exquisite sensations, even sexual energy and sweetness in my perineum, anal tract and musculature and surrounding my prostate. It is all so sweet and exquisite!
Anonymous
I think it's also why the 'do-nothing' approach works well. It's coz when you hold off orgasming until you can't take it anymore it's going to be a stronger orgasm than when you go for the 'quickie'. It works that way with the traditional)if you can still call it that after rewiring( but also and especially with the Aneros and A-less. You're rewarded when you can let the pleasure build and hold off the urge to contract, i.e. patience is rewarded.
Yes, I second what you wrote about Aless, the paradox is however that Aless works best after you've used the Aneros especially a bigger model like the Progasm or Maximus