Anyone hiding this from their wife?

Next time you get in a progressive foreplay sequence, validate her g-spot orgasm and cheer her on to have another. Caress her brain and body delights and express your envy. The next day discuss with her the idea that, when in the womb, the nerves around the male's prostate and around the female's g-spot are analogous and functionally identical.

Later in life we stimulate our mate's g-spot through the vaginal wall using a finger, sex-toy or our penis. Similarly we can be driven to multiple, non-ejaculatory brain orgasm with a finger, sex-toy or by someone using a penis, or pegging device.

You are envious and desire what she is experiencing. After all, what's fair for the goose is also fair for the gander. Make sense ?

If not, play the "health aspect" card. You need this to slow or arrest prostate growth aka BPH. Show her the non-erotic website < www.highisland.com >. The tool we "Anerosians" refer to as the Helix is also sold as the High Island Pro-State PS-X to the world of medicine and pharmaceuticals. This application was the first employment of Dr. Takashima's invention.

Early users found that they were experiencing orgasmic sensations. That moved prostate massage for both health and pleasure from the doctor's office to the bedroom.

Any comments on how I can approach my wife about the new partner in our bed?

This question has popped up on the Forum a number of times in the past. The consensus of opinion is that it is best to be truthful and honest about your use of these devices. Whether your use is primarily motivated for health or pleasure (probably both), letting your wife know about it is important to maintain trust and communication. I think @rook 's advice above is a valid approach to opening the discussion in addition to the thoughts expressed by various posters in these threads on the topic ->
Need "Tell the Wife?" advice..., Are your wives ok with you using the Aneros, A question for married guys & Telling Wife bad experience. Failure to fully communicate your usage can have very negative repercussions as seen in this thread from a wife who found out about her husband's secretive usage of the Aneros despite her knowledge of its existence (see Aneros brings lies and selfish bedtime practices). IMHO, getting your wife's acceptance of your Aneros usage is of paramount importance even if she chooses to be a non-participant but all the better if she wants to help you reach those higher orgasmic levels.
Good Vibes to You !

Direct her to the High Island web site, it describes the benefits of Prostate Massage for good male health

I agree ... start with the health aspects of prostate massage first. Then you can move on to the pleasure aspect of the experience. However, my only additional advice is to explain the direct benefits to her as well! I don't know how old you are, but as a man in my mid fifties the effects of aneros use were obvious to me (and her!) immediately. She commented very early on in my journey how much harder I was getting and how much longer I could maintain control without cumming during our times together. She loves my aneros use almost as much as I do! She likes it when I have it inserted when we make love because she loves the over the top reactions I have as she works away on me.
Unfortunately you seem to have some negative feelings on her part to overcome now. However, once she sees how much it helps you in so many ways, she will hopefully turn her thoughts around and see how great it is!
Good luck...and let us know how you make out....

Thanks for your suggestions. I will bring it up with my wife, eventually. I'll post how it goes.

Hi there,

I have recently purchased the helix syn (only used it 3 times so far) so very much a newbie in this world.
I would love to tell my wife about my new purchase but she is a bit of a prude so I can't really imagine where to begin to reveal to it her.
And then have to answer the hundreds of questions after: where did you hear about, where did you buy it from, have you used it.....What, you masterbate.....? oh god.....(not religious, just a saying).