What are your anal erotic practices?

Hello, all.

One of our Forum members, "rook" complained that I didn't have a category for "Other." Sorry about that. If you are up to something anal that is not in the poll, please reply to this thread. BTW, I'd consider anything that is roughly penis-shaped that is inserted anally to fall into the Dildo category.

Cheers,

Dave

Hello, all.

One of our Forum members, "rook" complained that I didn't have a category for "Other." Sorry about that. If you are up to something anal that is not in the poll, please reply to this thread. BTW, I'd consider anything that is roughly penis-shaped that is inserted anally to fall into the Dildo category.

Cheers,

Dave

[COLOR="blue"]hey dave - i assume you don't include a penis-shaped penis in the "dildo" category LOL

- rip

OK Dave, you asked !

this is not intended to steal Dave's thread/poll but rather to offer a nudge to our memories of summer camp ventures and fettishes. Following is a list picked from several websites dedicated to male BDSM and casual fetishs:

Medical Exams -- simulated checkups & examinations
Enema Fetishs -- solo or partnered/coached
Party accessories -- Pony tails etc.
Lighted candle fetish (solitary)
Lighted candle fetish (competitive) -- last guy to snuf his candle wins!
Speculum play -- might be assistive for apples and oranges
Semi-solid enema (Bananas) -- cramming a quantity of banana segments into the colon
Orange & Apple fetishs --

Late edit -- gee, we missed Fisting.

My own fetishes:

I checked dildo as I've re-possessed a 40 year-old 'clone-a-willy' my wife wasn't using. Interesting since I've lost length but gained girth -- probably dame nature's way of helping us match what happens to our female mates as they age. Since I failed Darwin's self-fuck drill two weeks ago, use of this clone offers some comfort in "knowing myself." Age is taking a toll on the surface of the clone though. So, it might be wise to clone the clone.

Since my early teens I've cultivated a fetish for solitary enema. -- those sessions equal Aneros in their consumption of spare time and like the Aneros supercharge the navel and heart chakras.

Then there are slender anal explorers. One rigid and the other 'bendable' Neither would qualify as a dildo. Perhaps those are part of a MedFet that I'd not recognized until now.

Just learning about electro and have installed a brass screw on the base of my Tempo.

rook;

Wow! You're right. I should have included a category for "Other."

After reading your list of somewhat obscure and kinky anal fetishes, I've re-evaluated my sexual self-image. Prior to your post I considered myself fairly kinky in the sexual practices department. Now, I realize I'm much closer to the middle of the spectrum and I realize I probably won't be getting any kinkier with age.

Best Regards,

Dave

rook;

Wow! You're right. I should have included a category for "Other."

After reading your list of somewhat obscure and kinky anal fetishes, I've re-evaluated my sexual self-image. Prior to your post I considered myself fairly kinky in the sexual practices department. Now, I realize I'm much closer to the middle of the spectrum and I realize I probably won't be getting any kinkier with age.

Best Regards,

Dave

[COLOR="blue"]don't worry about it dave you are kinky ...

- rip

rip, is kinda what I was thinking too....nice toes I saw on the beach!

Thanks for the comments, rip and priapusone.

One thing that has surprised me about this poll is the low number for "Intercourse." Given that at least 30% of the site membership are Gay or Bi, wouldn't you expect more guys to check that box?

Cheers,

Dave

Thanks for the comments, rip and priapusone.

One thing that has surprised me about this poll is the low number for "Intercourse." Given that at least 30% of the site membership are Gay or Bi, wouldn't you expect more guys to check that box?

Cheers,

Dave

Several years ago I would have said; 'Yes.' However, experience in the ASI (yahoo E.D.) forum has taught me otherwise. Some gay men, just like their str8 brothers, are turned off by anal penetration. Others, particularly those who became sexually active in the 1980's when HIV/AIDS was gaining a foothold in the big-city gay communities, found and cultivated alternative means for expression of sexual love.

These guys still like to get hard but aren't into penetration of another warm body. Hence there's a need for E.D. support in the gay community.

Thanks for the comments, rip and priapusone.

One thing that has surprised me about this poll is the low number for "Intercourse." Given that at least 30% of the site membership are Gay or Bi, wouldn't you expect more guys to check that box?

Cheers,

Dave

[COLOR="blue"]yeah dave it's natural to think that ...

p.s. if i'm incorrect i wouldn't mind being corrected

rip, you said,

another thing that has in my experience surprised me ...
is the apparent preponderance of those who DO engage in anal intercourse would rather bottom than top

In my thread a month or so ago about sexual versatility, I linked to a survey of gay men that showed bottom and top exclusive preferences to be about equal, with most gay men reporting they would do either. Here's the link:

Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Correlations between Sex-Role Preferences and Physical Preferences for Partners among Gay Men

The results surprised me, too.

Best Regards,

Dave

rip, you said,

In my thread a month or so ago about sexual versatility, I linked to a survey of gay men that showed bottom and top exclusive preferences to be about equal, with most gay men reporting they would do either. Here's the link:

Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Correlations between Sex-Role Preferences and Physical Preferences for Partners among Gay Men

The results surprised me, too.

Best Regards,

Dave

[COLOR="blue"]dave - thanks for the comment and link ...

- rip 😀

rip;

Don't worry, I assumed you were referring to what you'd heard in conversation. Although if you really are a secret Gay Bottom nobody here is going to hassle you about it. 🙂

Best Regards,

Dave

rip;

Don't worry, I assumed you were referring to what you'd heard in conversation. Although if you really are a secret Gay Bottom nobody here is going to hassle you about it. 🙂

Best Regards,

Dave

[COLOR="blue"]thanks babes
- rip 😀

You're welcome anytime, rip.

Another thing about this poll that's interesting is, Almost as many guys who use Aneros also use didoes. Perhaps HIH, the Aneros manufacturer should consider expanding their product line into dildoes. I'd especially be interested in a well-designed pegging dildo. Nothing currently on the market really does a good job for both partners. Every design out there has one compromise or another.

Best Regards,

Dave

Seriously considering a dildoe here, but the choices are overwhelming! I think for just one-on-one use, it could be fun too!

Use a 6" vibrating Dildo with the help of my wonderful Wife. This always gets the juices flowing for me...

Great discussion men and increasingly informative poll, thanks ten_s_nut!! 😀 😀

Thanks for the comments, rip and priapusone.

One thing that has surprised me about this poll is the low number for "Intercourse." Given that at least 30% of the site membership are Gay or Bi, wouldn't you expect more guys to check that box?

Cheers,

Dave

Progasm was designed for the gay market here according to BF Mayfield in a post at: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/%2Amale-sexual-orientation-here-12285/

At the same time I was first considering Aneros, and mrs. a and I took our trip together to the store in the Big City to equip ourselves for our mutual adventure, I was a member on a European male sex and health website. One of my friends there was a gay man and a gay men's health worker. I championed Aneros there and we added numbers in this forum for some time.

My friend when we were discussing this topic, said that 50% or more of gay relationships do NOT include penile/anal intercourse at all. Yet he said almost all include mutual anal/prostate fingering. So our Wedding Band position (mrs. a and I), which is a fantastic hetero-couple expansion practice, is a highly popular gay-couple practice. That may explain why your option of Manual Prostate Massage is as high a percentage as it is.

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Dave I did not include "intercourse" in my voting either, although I have experience with it from my youth experiments. The key thing is that it is not so much the penis inside you, butt all that is attached to it, and all the varied attitudes and priorities of two men that may come into some degree of conflict.

Being penetrated and ploughed, by a male friend even, is a complex and delicate balance that can easily create other issues and imbalance in the m/m friendship, in my experience, having both bottomed and topped with my youth gay relationship friend.

The poll results Dave do not surprise me. I know from the discussions cited above, that males who start as macho tops, often wonder why their bottom is getting so much great action during their sessions, and then discover their prostate to the point of becoming curious about being penetrated themselves. They and their partners often become versatile together and flip-flop becomes the order of the day.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

However, based on the ongoing Energies Exchanging-at-a-distance Sharing experiments still going on and exploring further here, I am thinking I could have ticked "Intercourse" in the energies sharing-at-a-distance sense. A few months ago now, a fellow Anerosian and long-time partner in these experiments were doing a coached session with me the active one and he the coach.

I was in the floating bliss mode and headed higher when suddenly I felt that I was physically being penetrated, and by his cock! This was totally unexpected and completely new. The visuals came into focus and it was hot hot crimson, orange and gold vibrant energies filling my anorectal sheath and pouring this into my prostate, and yet it all continued feeling physically to me as if he were penetrating me. At first startling, it became exquisitely pleasurable. It felt like the astounding initial bottoming I did in my youth, and way beyond that too.

Because this energies work is not restricted to replicating the physically possible, after we later tried this with me coaching him, we tried doing a simultaneous mutual penetration (SMP) of us both together!! He is straight, I straight-bi. You have to remember that this is all hands-off, hands-free, pure body energies responses, although some guys who have experimented with this break that guideline and have touched to ejac.

SMP worked beyond words for us in our experiment. Far more beyond what an actual one-on-one physically could produce. Energetically, it sets up a very very intense compact energies cycle looping the two cocks/prostates in anorectal/prostate sheathed contacts: a NanoCosmic Orbit of great speed and power. I named this Male "Nuclear Fusion" or "groinjoin"!!

Imagine siamese twins, both males, with their bodies joined at the groin, each with their cock and balls positioned such that their erections go directly into the other's anus, if you need to have a physical image of this. Energetically, none of that matters. So I have taken this experiment to several other Anerosians, the next one being gay, and it worked vast wonders there too.

So if two guys, of whatever orientation, are sufficiently energies sensitive, and can make the at-a-distance energies connection and stay hands-off; they can achieve this ultimate male union virtually that is beyond any actual physical event's possibilities. Virtual energetic shared total male being. It leaves men with a permanent new perspective and power.

In the spirit of rook's additions to your first pass list Dave, I'll add
[COLOR="purple"]"Virtual Mutual Intercourse" ,
another pure energies ecstatic totality... Thanks very much again for raising this question!!

all the best men's health and ecstasies for hungry holes/prostates of all orientations all

artform

Great discussion men and increasingly informative poll, thanks ten_s_nut!! 😀 😀

Progasm was designed for the gay market here according to BF Mayfield in a post at: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/%2Amale-sexual-orientation-here-12285/

At the same time I was first considering Aneros, and mrs. a and I took our trip together to the store in the Big City to equip ourselves for our mutual adventure, I was a member on a European male sex and health website. One of my friends there was a gay man and a gay men's health worker. I championed Aneros there and we added numbers in this forum for some time.

My friend when we were discussing this topic, said that 50% or more of gay relationships do NOT include penile/anal intercourse at all. Yet he said almost all include mutual anal/prostate fingering. So our Wedding Band position (mrs. a and I), which is a fantastic hetero-couple expansion practice, is a highly popular gay-couple practice. That may explain why your option of Manual Prostate Massage is as high a percentage as it is.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Dave I did not include "intercourse" in my voting either, although I have experience with it from my youth experiments. The key thing is that it is not so much the penis inside you, butt all that is attached to it, and all the varied attitudes and priorities of two men that may come into some degree of conflict.

Being penetrated and ploughed, by a male friend even, is a complex and delicate balance that can easily create other issues and imbalance in the m/m friendship, in my experience, having both bottomed and topped with my youth gay relationship friend.

The poll results Dave do not surprise me. I know from the discussions cited above, that males who start as macho tops, often wonder why their bottom is getting so much great action during their sessions, and then discovers their prostate to the point of becoming curious about being penetrated themselves. They and their partners often become versatile together and flip-flop becomes the order of the day.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

However, based on the ongoing Energies Exchanging-at-a-distance Sharing experiments still going on and exploring further here, I am thinking I could have ticked "Intercourse" in the energies sharing-at-a-distance sense. A few months ago now, a fellow Anerosian and long-time partner in these experiments were doing a coached session with me the active one and he the coach.

I was in the floating bliss mode and headed higher when suddenly I felt that I was physically being penetrated, and by his cock! This was totally unexpected and completely new. The visuals came into focus and it was hot hot crimson, orange and gold vibrant energies filling my anorectal sheath and pouring this into my prostate, and yet it all continued feeling physically to me as if he were penetrating me. At first startling, it became exquisitely pleasurable. It felt like the astounding initial bottoming I did in my youth, and way beyond that too.

Because this energies work is not restricted to replicating the physically possible, after we later tried this with me coaching him, we tried doing a simultaneous mutual penetration (SMP) of us both together!! He is straight, I straight-bi. You have to remember that this is all hands-off, hands-free, pure body energies responses, although some guys who have experimented with this break that guideline and have touched to ejac.

SMP worked beyond words for us in our experiment. Far more beyond what an actual one-on-one physically could produce. Energetically, it sets up a very very intense compact energies cycle looping the two cocks/prostates in anorectal/prostate sheathed contacts: a NanoCosmic Orbit of great speed and power. I named this Male "Nuclear Fusion" or "groinjoin"!!

Imagine siamese twins, both males, with their bodies joined at the groin, each with their cock and balls positioned such that their erections go directly into the other's anus, if you need to have a physical image of this. Energetically, none of that matters. So I have taken this experiment to several other Anerosians, the next one being gay, and it worked vast wonders there too.

So if two guys, of whatever orientation, are sufficiently energies sensitive, and can make the at-a-distance energies connection and stay hands-off; they can achieve this ultimate male union virtually that is beyond any actual physical event's possibilities. Virtual energetic shared total male being. It leaves with a permanent new perspective and power.

In the spirit of rook's additions to your first pass list Dave, I'll add
[COLOR="purple"]"Virtual Mutual Intercourse" ,
another pure energies ecstatic totality... Thanks very much again for raising this question!!

all the best men's health and ecstasies for hungry holes/prostates of all orientations all

artform

[COLOR="blue"]art -

- rip 😀

Well rip!! 😀 😀

It is safe and healthy indeed. It is also an energetics answer to Plato's challenge of the four dimensions of the full male being. It has a high order spiritual dimension, and in many ways transcends sex, in the sense of hormone driven reproductive drives. Those drives are core male experiences, whatever the orientation, and have multiple roles in forming and enhancing human partnerships, couples, ideally for a lifetime.

Yet even as we are experiencing a form of male individual, and couples, liberation here as Aneros practice people, part of that is a new freedom about our anorectal anatomy and its wide-ranging and astoundingly rich sensorium for our whole body and whole being.

Not so long ago, anal penetrative activity used to be seen medically as the final proof of homosexuality as a pathology diagnosis. Not only has that pathologizing been scientifically discredited and abandoned, butt heterosexual men have discovered its joys, centred on Prostate Awakening and the move into the world of the full spectrum of Tao-defined energies, and powerfully orgasmic to vast spiritual and healing energetics.

So we naturally gravitate to the greatest potential human values expression of this new freedom and the celebration of its full powers at all levels. And with a joyous sense of humour, we can apply the old disparaged vernacular as a simple poetic of this new male liberation, community, and energized lifetime health, well-being and sustaining vitality.

New health, pleasure and purpose beyond imitation sex. Up with "butthole hunger" or "ass hungry" or whatever phrases erupt and subside, and those that filter to become the Aneros era's new vernacular. Hallelujah!!!

artform

Art;

Thanks for your very interesting philosophical take on Aneros-enhanced male eroticism. No doubt, the times they are a changin'. With any luck, humans will evolve into a wider-ranging and healthier attitude about sex and relationships.

Best Regards,

Dave

Or, imagine this, a woman or (as rip puts it) a catcher in a gay couple one saying to the other half
" We have a better sex life than you. "
" Oh, how do you make that out ? "
They reply
" Well imagine you have an itchy ear, when you stick your stick your finger in your ear, which is more relieved the finger or the ear ? " 🙂

Or, imagine this, a woman or (as rip puts it) a catcher in a gay couple one saying to the other half
" We have a better sex life than you. "
" Oh, how do you make that out ? "
They reply
" Well imagine you have an itchy ear, when you stick your stick your finger in your ear, which is more relieved the finger or the ear ? " 🙂

[COLOR="blue"]always had - and still have - an itchy finger i guess ...

- rip 😀

Hi love hole and RipTheJacker!!! 😀 😀

Great conversational haiku LH, and all too true!!

Rip, I almost always use my ICE now for BPH therapy sessions, with the added joys of maximum pre-cum, multi-chains of dry Super-Os leading to the Grand Clean The Pipes Finale with more semen flying than anytime since my teens!! And this is true butt slamming action from the ICE in cahoots with my anal-rectal muscles team!! (Vids delayed in editing...)

Most of my sessions other than the very physical BPH ones are now anerosless. Those in which I still use my aneros models are for special new exploratory high flights or tune-ups, (Eupho or/and TEMPO, sometimes renewed MGX) and the heavy artillery scratchings of a hungry hole (ICE, VICE or/and Max)

Like you Rip, I don't anticipate having "someone else scratch that itch" physically for several reasons. These include health and interpersonal issues of course, and paramount my monogamous 41+ years with my dear wife and mutual prostates partner, above all else!!

The other is that, having had two fabulous VMI sessions with guys this past weekend, we all agree that these hands-off, dry, pure energies events actually build/amplify great energies that greatly boost both men, and wonderfully enable each to share that energy back with their spouse!! 😀 😀 Straight males, curious and beyond, really can have it all, safe energies-expanded core relationship sex and joyous friendly healthy energies boosts, IMHO...

all the best power/peace energies full dimensional practice development all

artform

Hi love hole and RipTheJacker!!! 😀 😀

Great conversational haiku LH, and all too true!!

Rip, I almost always use my ICE now for BPH therapy sessions, with the added joys of maximum pre-cum, multi-chains of dry Super-Os leading to the Grand Clean The Pipes Finale with more semen flying than anytime since my teens!! And this is true butt slamming action from the ICE in cahoots with my anal-rectal muscles team!! (Vids delayed in editing...)

Most of my sessions other than the very physical BPH ones are now anerosless. Those in which I still use my aneros models are for special new exploratory high flights or tune-ups, (Eupho or/and TEMPO, sometimes renewed MGX) and the heavy artillery scratchings of a hungry hole (ICE, VICE or/and Max)

Like you Rip, I don't anticipate having "someone else scratch that itch" physically for several reasons. These include health and interpersonal issues of course, and paramount my monogamous 41+ years with my dear wife and mutual prostates partner, above all else!!

The other is that, having had two fabulous VMI sessions with guys this past weekend, we all agree that these hands-off, dry, pure energies events actually build/amplify great energies that greatly boost both men, and wonderfully enable each to share that energy back with their spouse!! 😀 😀 Straight males, curious and beyond, really can have it all, safe energies-expanded core relationship sex and joyous friendly healthy energies boosts, IMHO...

all the best power/peace energies full dimensional practice development all

artform

[COLOR="blue"]art -

- rip

p.s. thanks for pm'ing me about the maximus for dickroot/penile bulb stimulation

I might help out as a catcher if it gets a bit busy. 🙂

I might help out as a catcher if it gets a bit busy. 🙂

[COLOR="blue"]love hole -

- rip 😀

rip
True. I sometime imagine my own cock going up my ass, butt i'd could'nt shag my own ass, if that makes sense ?
Male butts are gross to me, even my own.
Or if I do, I try to imagine myself with big curvy hips an a great big rear end.
Now we really are going into depths on unreallity 🙂

OK Men!! :D. 😀

The VMI League Play Book and League support system will be available soon! It is a simple mental game and is working so well for those now in the league!!!

Your references to physical equipment remind me of an earlier teledildonics design of mine from a few years back... ;). :D. Butt that is another story!

artform

OK Men!! :D. 😀

The VMI League Play Book and League support system will be available soon! It is a simple mental game and is working so well for those now in the league!!!

Your references to physical equipment remind me of an earlier teledildonics design of mine from a few years back... ;). :D. Butt than is another story!

artform

[COLOR="blue"]art - are you pullin' my leg mate?

- rip