Is your sphincter (opening) a sexual hot spot?

I've been working on awakening my anal glans sexually as I've come to realize that it's a sexual hot spot for me. I remember when I used to use the mgx the ridges were stimulating. I've since gone through the Prograsm and now focusing on KSMO without aneros use. However, things in my life like to go "full circle". I recently discovered how much pleasure there is in the anal glans, which is good for me because I've never felt much in my prostate. Many times now I've had intense pleasure in the sphincter in the form of P-waves.

The reason I'm wondering is because it seems that most of us are using Aneros and dildos, but I rarely see any mention of simply caressing the anal glans with finger or two to produce pleasure or orgasm. I'm wondering if anyone has had similar experiences. Here's an experience I had today in which I felt like I had no refractory period after ejaculating:

[cross-quote "Korkelz" in KSMO Forum: Just starting, want to know about Ejac Control]

[COLOR="blue"]korkelz thanks for sharing yer hot erotically arousing experience

- rip 😀

After two+ years of aneros use, I'm finding my anal canal increasingly pleasurable. The past few weeks, I've returned to using my mgx; and, it seems I can feel each ring of the stem. After withdrawing my aneros OR after an intense external prostate massage, I often insert my ring finger into my well relaxed and lubed anus AND just hold it in place. As my anal walls close in around my finger, I can feel every pulsation of the walls and soon contractions start --- followed by repeated orgasms. And yes, Rip, the root of my penis AND the entire length of my perineum (with pressure applied) brings intense pleasure too!

it seems I can feel each ring of the stem.

So why do only the early models have ridges? Ah well.

People here often talk about having aneros sessions which leave their prostate glowing causing all sorts of pleasure and erections to happen spontaneously. I feel like this is happening with my sphincter. Seems that if I spend a little bit of time stimulating the sphincter, it glows throughout the day and I've been doing light sphincter contractions every now and again if I'm feeling something good and it seems to add to the pleasure. I dunno about my prostate, but I think I'm starting to get effects similar to those whose prostates are starting to awaken, but with the sphincter.

Just today I suddenly had a desire to massage the sphincter and nipples and it was very pleasurable. It feels good just knowing I can experience this kind of pleasure whenever I want, it's immediately rewarding and all it takes is a finger and some lube. I'm excited to see where this will develop... my first non-traditional orgasm?

Edit: Oh, just want to add: Was very awesome this morning (in bed); I was feeling intense P-waves and throbbing pleasure in sphincter and penis. I awoke to a semi-erection and I remained semi-erect for quite some time, getting fully erect once in a while for a short time. It was very nice to just be inflated without the "pain" of being hard. Very interesting, never happened before quite like this. I usually get fully erect for long periods when feeling such pleasure.

It is 5:44am, can't sleep! Not sure if I'll get any sleep tonight, so decided to turn the computer on to write some stuff down.

I made the mistake of taking a "sensual" shower before bed, cleaning/massaging my body, sphincter, and nipples. By the time I got to bed my sphincter was throbbing lightly. I could relax and let my semi-erect cock rest on my stomach. I noticed that doing some sphincter contractions were really pleasurable, but then my body started to take control and do it automatically! Each uncontrollable contraction felt awesome! At one point I had a very interesting P-wave, a glowing pleasure at the opening shot to my belly where it dissipated. Ahh! The slightest brush across a nipple sent an electrical signal of pleasure to my pelvis. But, the pleasure started to become constant and getting out of hand, so I had to make an attempt to escape. I got into a fetal position hugging myself in attempt to protect my sensitive nipples, but as soon as I did that, my sphincter was left wide open to attack and immediately throbbed intensely! I silently cried out. When I moved out of this position my nipples would brush against the bed sheets, couldn’t escape! Pleasure had me cornered so the only thing I could do was submit its commands. Finally I gave in to this extreme urge to lift my legs off the bed in a submissive missionary position. Here, I lightly touched the sphincter. It felt amazing and could feel my cock being choked with engorgement. My balls started to cry out for a massage causing additional pleasure when I fondled them.

WARNING!: Do not awaken your nipples and sphincter at the same time unless you want to leave yourself prone to attack without hope of escaping!

After I got up, a large drop of pre-cum was making its way out. I let it form a long string before detaching to the floor, I love when I drip like that. Since my anus has started to awaken, this now has happened twice recently. I am seeing a bit more pre-cum in general and definitely have some when my anus is throbbing.

When I sat down to type, I felt a delicious glowing in my anus as if I was sitting on the most comfortable cushion in the universe. Ahhhh, almost a floaty feeling.

Overall I just feel so thankful and grateful for all of this. I finally feel like I have more than just a penis/frenulum. I have nipples, the balls, and finally my sphincter which I feel like can be stimulated any time, feel really good, never worrying about going over a refractory edge and I feel more masculine than ever before!

I'm going to quote myself:

Yep, the body was made to be explored. Now I strongly feel that if a man has not awakened his anus, he's only half a man... only the penis half.

[back to KSMO forum]

Resonating with you all just reading your joys men!!! 😀 😀 😀

My sphincters have been great friends since I began anorectal prostate play over 50 years ago, and Aneros has expanded the range and depths of these possibilities for me with each new model! The effects of this great sensorium development has strong effects throughout both the gut (second) brain and the whole body/brains system, IMHO. All to the good, after we get by transitional obsessions and achieve true, profound balance and flow.

I agree with you Korkelz and think Plato would too, butt would add an awakened prostate too to your statement my friend!!

all the best journeying along this pathway all

artform

Thanks for the giving me a nice morning erection, Korkelz!! I learned about the pleasures of the my sphincter/anus many years ago, much like Artform. I found that anal sex was so satisfying to me that the need to ejaculate was not necessary. At times, it would actually spoil the mood.
Generally, when I'm having intercourse with a man, (him in me), my cock is not erect. Though I have a LOT of pleasure from him inside me, there's just not a big erection unless I'm stroking myself. So, I am usually fine with giving him full rein on me. After all, I'm getting just as much (if not more) pleasure out of the ride as he is! I'm happy, my prostate and sphincter are happy, my cock drips wildly, and when he's done.....AHHHHHH!

Yes. What's with the the 1/3 of the voters who don't get intense pleasure. What brought them here? Or they just on-lookers and we are the animals in the zoo.

Good point, Newbie!!

To be honest, I have been called an animal at times....well...usually a pig!! 🙂

To be honest, I have been called an animal at times....well...usually a pig!! 🙂

Why is that?

Tip for awakening the sphincter: Caress it with a finger very lightly, just enough to feel you're touching it.Expiriment with lube and without, sometimes being dry and sticky instead of slippery feels nice. Register the light touches in your mind and enjoyable. What I did was... everytime I took a shower I would lightly caress the sphincter with soap until I got some sort of erection.

Why is that?

I think we'd need a private chat to explain that, Korkelz!!

This is what I referred to in advising a newbie a few weeks ago. Experiment and see what works for you . . . we are all different. As valuable as the threads and the advice were to me when I started (and they were), I had real success when I began to experiment on my own and did things that were not suggested. I discovered that light pressure on my frenulum kicks off p waves almost immediately. Classic advice I received was do not touch your cock, I have to touch my cock to launch myself. In three years of super o's I have never cum from pressure on my cockhead. I discovered this trick for me by accident.

Yes these threads are good for basic advice but they are also valuable for sharing of each of our unique successes (and failures). We can learn from each others discoveries.

Bigguy I love it! You just said what I've been trying to say for some time now but could never quite find the right words... or the experience to back it up! Thank you.

Just be careful with too much pleasure from sphincter pleasure. According to some well known yoga master, there are three major center in that region. Anus was one of them. All three needs to be trained for a balanced person.

I think there is some truth to it. When I discovered I can use Sphincter to power start my pleasure engine. I concentrated on it and forwent some other part. I enjoyed it so much that my cock didn't even bother to get hard. I believe sphincter gives us Yin energy. I had too much Yin without balancing Yan from other pleasure centers that I did not want to have penile sex.

Well if I'm a total bottom and attracted to man, I should be OK. But I'm not. I image it'd be very difficult to find a woman who doesn't want to have vaginal sex and prefer to pegging me. So I had to rewrie it correctly. I haven't finished the process yet. It kind of sucked.

Sometimes, love is a choice. Our mind can over write the body.

hydrogen, I believe what you're saying, but first of all, a lot of us are here trying to deal with premature ejac and if you have a woman who needs penetration, she is doing you a disservice, when you could instead both be awakening new parts of your body and/or maturing sexually. It's interesting you said we need balance. How about this: Most men on this planet only feel pleasure through their frenulum. That's extremely unbalanced, woudn't you say? The world would be a much better place if it was unbalanced the other way around: anus-only. Anyway, we do what our instincts tell us, and enjoying anal stim has nothing to do with being gay. As for your cock not getting hard... hard or soft it's a beautiful thing, and I'm sure you can re-awaken your erections very easily.

Penile sex is for reproduction. It's difficult to turn it into something else, as is evident of our world and this forum, but it must be done. Not wanting penile sex is not bad at all. It's a choice, and you can choose to do something about your desires or leave it be. I personally am striving for the balance; but so far there's a lot more weight on my penis... slowly but surely, just gotta keep chugging away.

Hi milky and all!!! 😀 😀 😀

Thanks for the giving me a nice morning erection, Korkelz!! I learned about the pleasures of the my sphincter/anus many years ago, much like Artform. I found that anal sex was so satisfying to me that the need to ejaculate was not necessary. At times, it would actually spoil the mood.
Generally, when I'm having intercourse with a man, (him in me), my cock is not erect. Though I have a LOT of pleasure from him inside me, there's just not a big erection unless I'm stroking myself. So, I am usually fine with giving him full rein on me. After all, I'm getting just as much (if not more) pleasure out of the ride as he is! I'm happy, my prostate and sphincter are happy, my cock drips wildly, and when he's done.....AHHHHHH!

Great to have a happy bottom's perspective in this great thread! Thanks to you milky and again Korkelz!!

This is what a great BPH therapy session is like for me now!! Chains of dry Super-Os, until I want to throw the switch, or my body/mind does it first! :D, and then into the great prostate-driven super wet Super-T finale!!! The Ice is such an amazing slammer model, when your anorectal muscles/nerves learn to drive it, that it truly simulates bottoming and doles out the heavy duty prostate massage that leads to Super-T-ing.

And, IMHO, this is a great element in finding the most excellent balance and flow of all levels of these orgasmic energies we are learning to so thoroughly integrate not just in sex, butt in are whole life's being. Hallelujah!!!

In doing so, it also prepares us for being able to enjoy all this and way beyond through pure energies sharing/amplifying hands-free at-a-distance, connecting with each other's energy body in many ways, including VMI, Virtual Mutual (Male or Female) Intercourse, for men of every orientation. At this level, it is not sex, not wet, not touching, butt mental/spiritual universal love energies.

all elements awakened fully and alive to all possibilities all

artform

Thanks artform!

Getting back to Korkelz' original question, I have to say that when my man starts touching my ass, my legs immediately start to spread in anticipation. When he starts giving my sphincter the finger, my juices immediately start to flow. He wets his finger with saliva and massages my hole gently while I writhe in the pleasure, my cock hard as a rock and starting to drip. He then slowly starts working his finger into my hole and from there, well, it just gets better, (see my earlier post!).

milky

Ah, milky, nice! Are you dripping pre-cum?

Lots of pre-cum, Korkelz! And he uses my pre-cum as lube in my hole.

Absolutely!! I have been pleasing myself anally since I was a young teen. Now in my early 40s. My anal opening is enormously erogenous. I can sometimes make myself come when stroking myself and then stimulating my hole with my middle finger, just up to the first finger joint (3/4 inch maybe). Once I figured out the intense pleasure of my ass as a young teen, I was looking all over the place for things to put up there! Had to improvize back then, with the usual suspects (cucumbers, plastic toys, etc). The aneros has been a marvellous extension of rich anal play beyond what I could have imagined. Just lovely.

Mine is, since I began working with Peridise and Tempo a few weeks ago. My anal sphincters and auxiliary musculature now have a vibrant connection with my awakened prostate, not to mention my "live-wire" penis and testicles! 😉

However, I am having problems with the wording of the question:

[h=3]"Poll: Is your sphincter (anal glans/opening) a sexual hot spot?"[/h]

I thought that the glans had to do with the glans penis which is a prominent feature in most guys.
Do you really mean "anal glands/opening?" For more information, see the Wikipedia article on anal gland.

Thom./BigGlansDC

Mine is, since I began working with Peridise and Tempo a few weeks ago. My anal sphincters and auxiliary musculature now have a vibrant connection with my awakened prostate, not to mention my "live-wire" penis and testicles! 😉

However, I am having problems with the wording of the question:

[h=3]"Poll: Is your sphincter (anal glans/opening) a sexual hot spot?"[/h]

I thought that the glans had to do with the glans penis which is a prominent feature in most guys.
Do you really mean "anal glands/opening?" For more information, see the Wikipedia article on anal gland.

Thom./BigGlansDC

I agree with Thom's comment, ahd I think GLANS (in English) refers only to a man's dickhead (and possibly the distal tip of a woman's clitoris). Anal GLANDS are what get infected in cocker spaniels, and much less frequently in humans.

With regard to Korkelz's question regarding the erotic sensitivity of our assholes, I think I may have previously answered or commented. My answer is YES.


I was never into assplay, or anal stimulation during wanking, until I began working with my Progasm in late 2010. I have had considerable experience relaxing and opening tight and apprehensive holes (sphincters) in my years working in healthcare (for anorectal ultrasound probes, and for MRI probes, as well as vaginas - always with a chaperone, most certainly with a female patient), and have been told by physicians (urologists, gynecologists, radiologists) that I'm skillful and very patient (the KEY), persistent, and even seductive, although not quick. LOL.


So I knew I could handle a Progasm Classic if I worked at it. And I did indeed work, often daily (or nightly) for a good four months. I always, even now, use the same slow and deliberate, unhurried technique, which I consider a form of 4play. I found penetration with the humongous Progasm much less challenging than the average newbie (and remember, I was, and am, a real tight-ass). I get a raging hardon when I get my Progasm out of the drawer at my sink, and have since very shortly after I began my personal "asswork," and long before I ever wakened my prostate gland to pleasure. The pleasure of the gentle stretch is in itself extremely arousing and gratifying. In the early days it kept me from becoming discouraged at my slow progress with my prostate.


I have talked to a couple men with radical/total prostatectomies (for cancer), in their late fifties and early sixties. They were anal bottoms, and they reported that they could still orgasm from receptive anal intercourse, even without prostate glands. At least one of those two persons was totally impotent and unable to obtain an erection. They did not have to manipulate their penises to cum. (Incidentally, most men with total erectile dysfunction can masturbate their soft penises to orgasm)!


I doubt if I could obtain orgasm from just sphincter play (without prostate stimulation), but it has become a source of intense erotic pleasure!


- rip

Absolutely!! I have been pleasing myself anally since I was a young teen. Now in my early 40s. My anal opening is enormously erogenous. I can sometimes make myself come when stroking myself and then stimulating my hole with my middle finger, just up to the first finger joint (3/4 inch maybe). Once I figured out the intense pleasure of my ass as a young teen, I was looking all over the place for things to put up there! Had to improvize back then, with the usual suspects (cucumbers, plastic toys, etc). The aneros has been a marvellous extension of rich anal play beyond what I could have imagined. Just lovely.

Once you get inside more than a couple inches FletcherCat, as with cucumbers and toys, you must have had a fully awakened prostate, even before you began work with Aneros.

- rip

I agree with Thom's comment, ahd I think GLANS (in English) refers only to a man's dickhead (and possibly the distal tip of a woman's clitoris). Anal GLANDS are what get infected in cocker spaniels, and much less frequently in humans.

With regard to Korkelz's question regarding the erotic sensitivity of our assholes, I think I may have previously answered or commented. My answer is YES.

So I knew I could handle a Progasm Classic if I worked at it. And I did indeed work, often daily (or nightly) for a good four months. I always, even now, use the same slow and deliberate, unhurried technique, which I consider a form of 4play. I found penetration with the humongous Progasm much less challenging than the average newbie (and remember, I was, and am, a real tight-ass). I get a raging hardon when I get my Progasm out of the drawer at my sink, and have since very shortly after I began my personal "asswork," and long before I ever wakened my prostate gland to pleasure. The pleasure of the gentle stretch is in itself extremely arousing and gratifying. In the early days it kept me from becoming discouraged at my slow progress with my prostate.

I doubt if I could obtain orgasm from just sphincter play (without prostate stimulation), but it has become a source of intense erotic pleasure!


- rip

I wish to thank @RipTheJacker for his insightful comments which are graphic, clinical, and erotic at the same time.

Glans Penis, we all know, is the clinical term for the head or helmet which caps a guy's penis. Glans means 'acorn' in Latin. Most guys' glans are similar to acorns when flaccid, but in many guys flare out to a mushroom. Yet some guys have cocks with glans that are huge mushrooms even when flaccid.

I believe that the Aneros Instructions describe the anal glands in guys emitting viscous fluid which is a thicker version of precum which oozes from a guy's aroused glans. Since I am working with my Aneros tools pretty much daily except Sundays, it is gratifying to observe this thick viscous fluid on my Aneros tools after each session. This is an indication that I am well along in my Aneros journey.

In recent months, I have noticed also increased sensitivity and pleasure at my anus both within and outside my Aneros sessions.

Thom./BigGlansDC

Hi ALL 😀

Great to see the flow of ideas and experiences here in this important thread!! And great to hear of your clinical experiences and persoanl growth in this area Rip!! Thank you.

Over the past couple of weeks, I have awakened with morning wood as usual, AND, with my anal glands dispensing their lovely autolube fluid all around my hole, and my hole penetrated (as recommended by some above...) by one of my middle fingers up to the first knuckle MMMMMMMM and my anus quivering quiver that it is, sucking on my finger in various levels of ecstasy mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

This has been making mornings an even more erotic ecstatic start to the day!!! 😀

all the very best anal/prostate awakening to the highest ecstasies all

as we rewire
we are all reconnected

What you describe, @artform, sounds so sweet. Sexual sweetness in fact, so male too! 😉 Yeah, your amazing morning wood, along with "autolube" oozing from your anal glands, shall I say, viscous "f**k" lube? 😀

Interestingly enough, I use the middle finger of my left hand, dripping with extra virgin olive oil, to prep my hole in a slight "f**k" action, before Anerosing. 😉

My penis now that I am Anerosing just about everyday, Monday to Friday, feels so plump when I awake in the morning, these days, alive with sexual energy.

Also in recent months, my anus feels itchy from frequent Aneros sessions. (No, I am not developing hemorrhoids, thank God). However, in recent weeks when I scratch that area to relieve the itching, my anus quivers with delight, and wants more! 😀 😀 😉

Finally, just about every day, I spend quality time with Progasm Classic in all my sessions. I thank our good buddy, @RipTheJacker, for spurring on with my main man, big bruiser Progasm Classic!!! 😉 😀 😀

Thom./BigGlansDC

Hey Thom (and Art, and others) -
I appreciate reading both (@artform and @BigGlansDC) your comments, as I do those of @Korkelz (where the hell has he been?), @FletcherCat, @Linghaman, @hydrogen, and others). I find it easy to perceive positive and helpful concepts from both you guys, likely due to being "grownups", our experience(s), attitude, concerns and habits.

Anyway, I (like Thom) picked up immediately Art's, on your "lovely autolube", your "anus .. quivering .. sucking .. in various levels of ecstasy." Also to your "great .. to see the flow," and to "growth." Surely you paint a picture behind your words, much as might a prophet; remember "[Jesus] .. wilthout a parable spake he not to them ..." I'm assuming, and bet you were raised christian (or Christian)!

What you men describe are very similar to my own experienced(s), especially since anerosing (or "zonerosing) for 3-½ years. I am inspired by the experiences that many, or most, mens who stick around and stick at it, share - something that does form some sort of a bond among the group. Wow, don't wanna get in a cult here! LOL. And Thom is right that "sexual sweetnes .. is so male." I see pictures in the whole ("hole"?) message, but "viscous 'fuck lube,' "dripping," "virgin," "slight 'fuck' action", and " .. my anus quivers with delight, and WANTS more!" all add to the picture in my mind of the message, and elicit very similar responses, in me - both physical and mental.

I am recently back into my Progasm, my nipples, and ass, after some months of neglect, and gotta be careful not to become either a zealot or helpless addict.

Thom, regarding YOUR anal sphincter, I would use something GENTLE like Baby Shampoo to cleanse it (and I'm sure you do cleanse it frequently and well), try to use "Tucks" pads or wipes (and avoid toilet tissue) after you take a shit, possibly try witch hazel, which I think is once again available everywhere, and keep it very MINIMALLY lubed around the hole (TINY quantity Vaseline or similar viscous ointment) two or so times daily (definitely post crap and clean). If the itching is intense, use topical OTC ½% hydrocortisone sparingly (ointment beats cream, but the former isn't readily available). Brand-name OTC's are not superior IMO, but cost more). I would bet money the itching is NOT due to your assplay or Aneroses, or even lube, butt due to HYGIENE. I'm a Type A, and sort of a clean freak, so I too have to be careful and disciplined to avoid overdoing it. I have the same problem with my hand at times, as I'm a scrubber, plus I always wash them before and in front of every patient I see (much for their benefit in the seeing), even though I have washed them after [every] preceding patient (for my benefit). Try and avoid scratching your itchy hole - let a trusted partner do that, butt as a form of arousal and 4play, even though I KNOW "[your] anus quivers with delight, and wants more."

I enjoy the forums and chats. I admit I often get aroused in chat, and often to the point of full-on thick standing (and oozing) hardon. And I do enjoy the feeling of fullness, heaviness, and heightened sensitivity, of a steel-hard boner. Since Aneros, that "congested" feeling includes my prostate, asshole and tits. It makes penile sex (oral, vaginal, tactile) at least an order of magnitude better than B.P. ("Before Progasm"). Even passionate kissing of my partner now sends strong signals to my prostate, surrounding internal sex organs, my anal sphincter, and nipples.


All the very best anal/prostate awakening to the highest ecstasies all. And yes, as we rewire
we are all reconnected!

- rip 😉

sometimes, not enough, my wife licks me there, gently, and it feels beyond amazing, sometimes I feel like I have mini-Os from it, and if she touches my cock, it loses its intensity. Love it! I want her to go at it sometime because I feel like I might even cum from her licking me alone!

@techpump, someone posted a vid just recently where a guy had cum from being rimmed, so it is possible!

@techpump, someone posted a vid just recently where a guy had cum from being rimmed, so it is possible!
Yes, it's happened...to me! It's entirely true!