How old were you when you discovered nipple stimulation or diddling?

@BigGlansDC

Take the time to gently explore your body with your very sensitive finger tips. You will push buttons you never knew you had.

@m-bc, thank you for the suggestion! The Aneros in the five/six years I have used it in being a great pedagogue in getting me in touch with my body. Its attendant P-waves, Super-O's, MMO's, and Aless have been wonderful in engaging my consciousness when it comes to sexual pleasure.

All this is reflected in the delicate tactile pleasure of diddling my nipples in bed at night. The delicate tactile pleasure of using the softest touches upon one's penis is something that most males overlook when they masturbate. Most masturbation videos that I see on tumblr or Xtube indicates the opposite. Many guys from their youth "man handle" the cocks in getting their rocks off rapidly!

I notice that when I use soft, delicate tactile stimulation on my penis is very powerful. Since I have been circumcised most my life, my Glans is a prominent feature of my penis. It is absolutely wonderful when I use soft, delicate touches on my Glans especially on the rim or flange of my Glans corona and frenulear delta on the underside of my Glans. Now I would like to use similar touches on my cockshaft down to my cock root to my perineum or taint. Caressing my scrotum which contains the orbs of my testicle calls for very gentile tactile action. No wonder athletes who play contact sports wear athletic cups!

This sort of tactile exploration of one's genitalia can be time consuming, but is necessary when done lovingly.

Like such touching is useful for sustained masturbation sessions which involve edging, riding the edge of ejaculatory inevitability (PONR). Edging educates the male in developing control in his lovemaking. Edging does produce the best, more glorious ejaculatory orgasms!

@BigGlansDC

Thanks for your post above. Like you my coronal ridge, sulcus, frenulear delta are highly highly highly erogenous, especially in conjunction with nipple play.

Have you tried nipple engagement/nipple diddling/nipple play while gently massaging or gently tugging each of the erogenous areas mentioned above. It is heavenly and produces in me what I call instant orgasm even when flaccid.

By the way, there is a book out there dubbed INSTANT ORGASM written by a husband and wife team. I think for myself, I have discovered instant orgasm which is certainly heaven sent and heaven allowed and for me, it is a spiritual experience and a time to thank the Almighty since the bliss and pleasure is so exquisite.

Just wondering if you had discovered nipples plus the areas of our glans together in concert. Sheer bliss

I'm fully with you both, @m-bc and @BigGlansDC, I only like to add that sometimes the contrast intensifies the sensations even more. If you never tried a little self-spanking :o, then being patient enough to let the blood fully come back into your asscheeks 😡 only to next give them the most sensitive touching of your fingertips, but then suddenly hit your butt again to call the ultimate and pure bliss, the best is yet to come! 😀

I'm fully with you both, @m-bc and @BigGlansDC, I only like to add that sometimes the contrast intensifies the sensations even more. If you never tried a little self-spanking :o, then being patient enough to let the blood fully come back into your asscheeks 😡 only to next give them the most sensitive touching of your fingertips, but then suddenly hit your butt again :p to call the ultimate and pure bliss, the best is yet to come! 😀

[...]Nipples plus the areas of our glans together in concert. Sheer bliss

Affirmative!!! And doing this form a ring closing thumbs with middle fingers.

@Turnrow, I discovered my glans and its exquisite sensitivity at age four or five. But I did not discover the pleasure of diddling my nipples more than sixty years later. Your suggestion that I diddle my nipples while caressing one of my erogenous zones or my penis sounds very good.

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Turnrow, I discovered my glans and its exquisite sensitivity at age four or five. But I did not discover the pleasure of diddling my nipples more than sixty years later. Your suggestion that I diddle my nipples while caressing one of my erogenous zones or my penis sounds very good.

We may never see you again as that type esctacy of nipples plus glans play will send you into an orbit yet unknown to you. Be sure to post about it if you reenter earths atmosphere anywhere around your D C apartment.

@Turnrow, don't worry about me. Like everybody else, I have to face the realities of everyday life. I plan to be a part of this forum for some years yet! 😉

I don't know where to begin as all the comments have been so insightful and right on. Over the last twenty years I have had Word Press Blogs, Blogs on SexForums, Dick Net and others under several different names. In all of them I wrote about my journey of sexual discovery that probably began in a modest way at puberty, but really engaged seriously in my mid 40s. In the early years it was entirely physical and in its physicality totally penis focused. There was an occasional foray into anal penetration with dildoes. Looking back I would describe those as pursuits of curiosity that were relatively inert in sensation or eroticism. Nipples weren't even on the radar screen. Relative to my sulcus and frenular triangle all they were was a fast track to ejaculation and my fascination with watching cum spew from my cock slit. There was an element of harmless (consensual) exhibitionism in the mix as well

Then approximately 13 years ago I stumbled (literally) onto Aneros while cruising the internet for Sexual Forums. The Aneros Forum came up. Once in the forum (pre chat) I met B Mayfield, Darwin, Arctic Wolf, Artform and others who were seasoned practitioners. After obtaining my Helix I ventured on the journey we all took to become anally orgasmic with their help and guidance. In 6 months I was there experiencing Super O's in rising and falling waves over the course of 30 minutes . That achievement was a turning point. I became a sensual man. For me that meant that sexual ecstasy moved from my erect penis to my brain; the sensation of erotic pleasure became an all body experience that awakened my nipples and my anal opening as orgasmic triggers. I was rewired. The full gamut of my sexuality was now opened up. I have characterized that turning point as opening Pandora's Box. Ever since that event I have been turning corners and unwrapping my biology discovering new things about my body and my sexual response, and new techniques as my pathway to erotic euphoria widened and deepened.

Six months later I was inspired by posts in a thread of A - Less orgasms. So one night in a hotel in Poughkeepsie New York I literally stayed up all night (from 1 AM to 6 AM) trying to induce an A - Less Orgasm. It was around 5 AM when out of fatigue induced delirium and sheer determination I had my first A - Less orgasm. Although nipple stimulation was a part of my repertoire before it was that A Less that expanded the responsiveness of my nipples, their link to my prostate and their role as triggers in orgasm. A Less also taught me the intricate choreography of nipple stimulation, breathing and pressure on my sulcus and "forbidden" fantasy to extend super o's. What resulted is what many of us describe, a dance of sensual pleasure where I am enshrouded in creamy euphoria. The subtle and strong A Less orgasms were chains of body twisting spasms that lasted for hours not minutes. Heavy and lugubrious white hot ecstasy tugging on my cock, flooding my anal canal and inducing throbbing bliss, as out of body mental imagery causes my prostate to pump pre prostatic fluid and precum from my cock slit in a drooling stream.

This has been a long response but it is intended to communicate that nipple stimulation has been a process for me that has been nuanced and extended over my sexual journey. More importantly as my command of my nipples grew so did their capacity to induce ecstasy.

@gnawdol, your description of how you discovered nipple stimulation or diddling and how it interacts with your Aless resembles very experience with both in the last year or so. Recently I have been waking up to a delicious tingling in my prostate and anal canal. Right now both are pulsating with pleasure which I can accentuate with my Kegels. Your writing style is very sweet! 😉

@TabooSonDad, that's wonderful that you discovered the erotic power of your nipples in your early twenties. Did you discover that by yourself or have a buddy or girl show you that? As regards your adult son, I would like to know how old he was when he discovered masturbation and ejaculatory orgasm. Some guys are sexual precocious at a fairly young age when they discover masturbation and dry orgasms at eight or younger.

Seems like my nipples came alive once I discovered prostate orgasms. Never was interested before. Now the wife can tease me to a stanch erection by just nibbling on my nipple.

@awired50 The same for my husband. Before Aneros his nipples were dead now they are as sensitives as mine.

Wow I discovered my nipples at 11 or 12 and basically that's all I did because at that time I didn't know about masturbation. My penis would get hard and I had no idea I could put my hand on it and you know. Now I pump my nipples making them more sensitive and bigger which gives me incredible pleasure. I use a product called supple nips to pump them and sometimes I use them with the aneros and it's mind blowing.

That is wonderful, @Juanbeardy!

I like others have always thought that nipple stimulation was just for women. Boy was I wrong! I learned about nipple stimulation about 6 months ago when I started using the Aneros at age 70. Sure wish I learned about it earlier. Now when I have an Aneros session I always start ticking, rubbing my nipples. I usually tickle them or put cold cream on them and rub the cream in. I have also tried rubbing them with nylon lace which automatically sends electrical pulses to my dick and testicles. It really helps when I insert the lubricated Eupho Trident into my rectum..
Try rubbing your nipples now and see what you feel. You won't be sorry!!

@New adventure, I am glad that you learned to diddle your nipples at age 70. Isn't that wonderful especially you notice that nipple diddling or stimulation directly affects your dick and testicles? I love to diddle my nipples in bed when all is quiet and dark. 😉

@BigGlansDC Thanks for the comments. I guess I am never too old to learn new nipple dribbling.

@New adventure, the more you practice nipple stimulation or dribbling, the better it feels. Nipple stimulation, or as I call it, diddling, is actually health promoting! 😉

16. Whats dribbling?

16. Whats dribbling ?

@Bigusdickus, I think dribbling is another term for diddling or stimulation of one's nipples.

Hay BigGlansDC, you are correct. I have really started enjoying playing with my nipples. I have started using cloths pins on them to increase the sensitivity. Boy does it feel great in my dick.

That's wonderful, @New adventure, what ever turns your crank since you use clothes pins to heighten their sensitivity and pleasure! 😉 I prefer the subtle and soft approach of nipple diddling. That approach really revves up my sexual engines! 😀

Hay BigGlansDC, you are correct. I have really started enjoying playing with my nipples. I have started using cloths pins on them to increase the sensitivity. Boy does it feel great in my dick.

I'm fully with you both, @New adventure and @BigGlansDC, again I only like to add that sometimes the contrast intensifies the sensations even more.

Especially NOT touching them, but coming as close as possible, enormously heightened my sensitivity.

While standing fully naked in front of the bathroom mirror I looked at my nipples and I hit on the idea of doing some mental nipple play. I raised my elbows and pointed with my forefingers at my nipples, slowly coming closer but not yet touching. Like induced electric power some signals at once stirred my gland and sudden involuntaries followed. In half a minute I had a semi-hard-on and was fully aroused doing some wild erratic motions.

Good vibes!

thanks to big glans dc post re his kegels routine i discovered nipple play.
to me it was an epiphany.........i did not know what pleasure my body was capable of generating without penile stimulation.

my nipples are now very sensitive and act like electric light switches that connect to my prostate at the very start of my sessions.....i am there almost immediately.

b g dc my hero
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thanks to big glans dc post re his kegels routine i discovered nipple play.
to me it was an epiphany.........i did not know what pleasure my body was capable of generating without penile stimulation.

my nipples are now very sensitive and act like electric light switches that connect to my prostate at the very start of my sessions.....i am there almost immediately.

b g dc my hero
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@smaster, you made me super horny tonight. When I go to bed in a few hours at 10 p.m., I am going to spend much of the night engaging myself in nipple diddling and the Kegels. 😉

Nipple play has been with me since I was about 24....so about 30 years. My wife introduce it to me after a nursing instructor made comments in class that "it is all connected", referring to how the body parts are linked together and one stimuli can affect another. At this same time, she also introduced me to anal stimulation, why? I have never asked, but I am thrilled she introduced me to both! Since the intro, I have enjoyed much exploration and mutual stimulation of my nipples. A sexual encounter never goes by without the nipps getting some action. My wife has given me multiple nipple, dry-orgasms. It is a favorite of mine. It does not always happen, but when the sensitivity level is right and all things are super erotic, she can bring me to orgasm via my nipples only. The only thing that I count as a very minor negative is the rawness that occurs sometimes. I am so wound up in the moment sometimes that I literally beg for more and ask for hard pulling, sucking and some biting. Be careful what you ask for! Super erotic and crazily satisfying in the moment, but it can take a few days for that thin layer of skin to heal over...LOL. The best bj ever is while wife is going down on Happy-boy, she tweaks the nipps. Sometimes she takes it to another level and pulls on my sack, rubs my perineum and/or hits my rosebud. With this activity, I frequently dry orgasm multiple times.

Just reading this wonderful and titlating poll through. Thanks for all the writing. I think this writing by @gnawdol is so wondrous.

A Less also taught me the intricate choreography of nipple stimulation, breathing and pressure on my sulcus and "forbidden" fantasy to extend super o's. What resulted is what many of us describe, a dance of sensual pleasure where I am enshrouded in creamy euphoria. The subtle and strong A Less orgasms were chains of body twisting spasms that lasted for hours not minutes. Heavy and lugubrious white hot ecstasy tugging on my cock, flooding my anal canal and inducing throbbing bliss, as out of body mental imagery causes my prostate to pump pre prostatic fluid and precum from my cock slit in a drooling stream.

Hope my experience is as rich as my journey continues.

Here’s something I posted elsewhere that is appropriate here as well. (Lately my nipples have been so sensitive that when I’m driving my t-shirt just barely touching and playing with my nipple (no hands involved) is such a tease.)

I have a 30+ year history with nipple stimulation. When I was in my early 20s another guy touched my nipples, I think mostly because he wanted me to touch his. Because I wanted to move on from that M-M memory I hesitated to use them for many years. Some years into my marriage, I found that nipple play was a great way to get and stay hard. I would use them for that purpose during masturbation and encourage my wife to suck and rub them when we were having intercourse. Discovering this forum has helped me to shed my inhibitions about this and non-penile pleasuring in general. My experience is that I need to let my body tell me how they want to be touched. Sometimes not at all; instead I should rub my sternum. Sometimes when I am already aroused they want to be teased and barely touched. When I am very aroused or working up my arousal I sometimes rub them or pinch them very hard. Also, I allow myself to be aroused by pictures of other men's chests/nips; they're everywhere. I am relating to the sensations that I suspect every man latently has in his chest/nipples. I use my hands different ways in the process of stimulation. Sometimes it's my ring fingers with my hands crossed to the opposite side of my body. Sometimes it's my thumbs, coming from above arms crossed or not crossed. Sometimes I use the heal of my hand or even the back of my hand. Sometimes my body tells me to arch my back so that my chest is stretched and then rub over the nipples. Sometimes dry feels great. Sometimes a little precum, spit or lube feels great on them. Almost forgot; one of my favorite caresses is to put my left arm above my head and, with my right hand, start caressing the inside of my upper arm, run across my armpit and then across my nipple - heaven. Hope this might give some ideas.

Just reading this wonderful and titlating poll through. Thanks for all the writing. I think this writing by @gnawdol is so wondrous.

A Less also taught me the intricate choreography of nipple stimulation, breathing and pressure on my sulcus and "forbidden" fantasy to extend super o's. What resulted is what many of us describe, a dance of sensual pleasure where I am enshrouded in creamy euphoria. The subtle and strong A Less orgasms were chains of body twisting spasms that lasted for hours not minutes. Heavy and lugubrious white hot ecstasy tugging on my cock, flooding my anal canal and inducing throbbing bliss, as out of body mental imagery causes my prostate to pump pre prostatic fluid and precum from my cock slit in a drooling stream.

Hope my experience is as rich as my journey continues.

[USER="58214"]Pasttime[/USER], I enjoy very much your use of highly graphic language in describing your super-O's and Aless orgasms. I suppose your use of 'sulcus' refers to 'coronal sulcus,' the rim of your glans penis, yes?

Also @goldenboy, in his blog entry, "Precum Pump!" , spoke of your prostate to "pump pre prostatic fluid and precum from my cock slit in a drooling steam." I can relate to that in my own Aneros and Aless experience too!
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Also, please see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulbourethral_gland

Also, [USER="58214"]Pasttime[/USER], you described this:

"The subtle and strong A Less orgasms were chains of body twisting spasms that lasted for hours not minutes. Heavy and lugubrious white hot ecstasy tugging on my cock, flooding my anal canal and inducing throbbing bliss, as out of body mental imagery causes my prostate to pump pre prostatic fluid and precum from my cock slit in a drooling stream":

Could it be that you milked your prostate as well as your two Cowper glands??? I find all this to be sexually hot! 😉