Porn is a great tool for getting off. And it's disease free! I once speculated that there are different 'levels' associated the kind of porn you watch. These 'levels' increase as you get older. When I was younger something as simple as seeing some tits in a magazine was enough to shoot a load. Then it was a vagina. From there it was penetration. Then onto facial cumshots. Those were the good old days. Now I need to see a asian shemale fucking a donkey while being pissed on...woe is me. I fear what comes next!
Absoluely hysterical!
:)) I agree that the levels do increase. I guess port is sort of like any addictive susbtance that way. I prefer genuine homemade/amateur stuff. I loathe most professional porn, especially the typical female porn star (i.e. ridiculously massive breasts, constant loud yelling, and obvious fakery). But each to their own of course. It's just not to my taste. But, yes, I have explored more fetish sites just to get that excitement level. I think our brains get rewired along the way.
I voted yes to porn. I think watching a girl have an orgasm while using the aneros is a huge arousal boost! Sometimes its as if the girls moans channel into my orgasmic waves and I get increasingly stronger p-waves as they reach climax
Anyone else find this is true for them? I would say female.orgasm is my favorite tag on the porn site I use and watching a (real) orgasm from a woman is pretty much my # 1 trigger to help me get to a super O. Can do it without but I find that very compelling.
I do not view and read pornography now as I did some years ago, but when I do, and it is the right porn, I find it extremely arousing. But now I let my sexual fantasies guide me along. And yes, at age 64, I still get horny! 😀 😀 😉
Aroused yes... but useless and distracting for session.
Less and less interested in porn, despite a high degree of arousal due to temporary ejaculatory abstinence. I consider this reduced interest a result of my aneros and other multi-orgasm-inducing activities.
I never found porn useful for sessions, as opposed to the occasional classy photos of attractive guys with their clothes mostly on, although non-sexual nude photography can be good too. I think less is quite often more. My interest in other men is more and more about the whole person, and not just their body and body parts.
In my pre-aneros days, I would say that I used to be an almost obsessive porn user.
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I've always considered porn to be boring. Here are the kind of things that turn me on:
Search YouTube.com for:
Glass Duo
acrobatic duo
synchronized swimming
wingsuit flying
Glass Duo - J. S. Bach - Invention No. 8 in F Major
www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkjGkvPwdrw
Glass Duo - J. S. Bach - Toccata and Fugue in D minor
www.youtube.com/watch?v=gDm4IphrlYg
Hand to hand adagio act - Duo Focus from Poland
www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK84bBSvWNM
Natación sincronizada. Eindhoven 2012. Combo. España
www.youtube.com/watch?v=YL7d1cGO1m0
Michael Jackson Tribute, Olympics 2012
www.youtube.com/watch?v=InpNh-u5LWw
Jeb Corliss Grinding the Crack
www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWfph3iNC-k
Jeb Corliss Returns to the Crack
www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRXz_MZqYPA
It has been said on these pages that the best sex is like meditation. I agree. What's the point of watching a video of someone else meditate? If it doesn't look like meditation, then it's probably not very good sex anyway.
Enjoy!
@Thruster, quoting:
It has been said on these pages that the best sex is like meditation. I agree. What's the point of watching a video of someone else meditate?
That is so good. That is if one has a willing partner, who does not have a demanding job at work, does bring marking or work home home, does not do all the cooking, housekeeping, looking after the kids, is not exhausted at the end of the day and there is time and room for privacy AND has a partner who can say what he would like. There is something to be said for retirement if there is a salvageable relationship.
My partner said: "say it as it is for most folk".
But coupled with a fantastic "job description" line from @devajones. This forum is a gold mine of life changing wisdom. We are now at last on a "stellar" change.
@isvara - Thanks for the validation! I'd like to point out another Jeb Corliss video, begging everyone's indulgence here. Just like with an Aneros (or a-less) session, his heart is racing and he is breathless at the end of his solo experience, yet he made only the most imperceptible body movements throughout the whole thing. This is like Aneros sessions on hyperdrive. Jeb's "meditations" are designed to be viewed, and he then has some thoughtful words of wisdom to share.. Awesome!
Jeb Corliss flying the Matterhorn in Switzerland
www.youtube.com/watch?v=_gK-zACrlZc
Then he brings some friends over to share a gentler ride together...
Joby Ogwyn, Jeb Corliss and Jeff Nebelkopf fly around the Matterhorn
www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLYQrFZ77VM
Advance apologies to @BMayfield - I didn't mean to hijack your thread. It's just that my particular reactions and alternatives to porn are way off the beaten path and needed elaboration, not just a vote. Thanks for your tolerance.
There is a lot to be said in favour of retirement.
You are both relaxed and, if like us, you like to watch murder mysteries until late at night, it's great to be able to prepare breakfast in bed for your loved one and then take a leisurely time about getting together afterwards as one's reward!
I feel that pornography is detrimental during an Aneros session. One should be able to mentally prepare himself for the session, without any outside help. There is a thread on here, that speaks of how pornography re-wires one's mind, in an addictive way.
@Pspotsquirter, I would be good if we knew what we meant by pornography. It is a bit like saying all liquid is bad for you and you find this includes water. There are just so many shades to this word. It would include taking a photo of my wife for old times sake! From my point of view there is some gross unnatural activities that are not helpful, or could define normal activity. Just recently there was an article in paper saying that pornography creates a very soulless impression of loving relationship. BUT there is no where else for young people to get the critical information. There is a lot or classical art that could be classed as porn. I think there is such a thing as naked beauty and there is information here that would be very helpful, after all that is what we really are under the clothes. It would be silly for a gardener to cover the roses in case they were seen.
I do agree with you but just think we need to be wary of what we include as pornography and what is erotic art and erotic activities or shall we say beholding the beauty of creation.
@isvara I think OP included erotic art in the definition of pornography for this poll... and if it is, I'd say rightfully so. I say this because I think the question is the one of arousal by the use of image. It doesn't really matter what image turns you on, it is the use or not of this medium of stimulation that is revealing of different mental wirings.
For myself, and apparently i'm not alone, pornography IS arousing BUT NOT for a session. It is kind of strange. Here is how I explain it:
My male side NEEDS a visual stimulation (a proper one but that is another subject) in order to become erect, build up and reach a penile orgasm (well, when masturbating at least). Conversely my female side NEEDS internal focusing (and hence can absolutely not watch anything) to buildup and (hopefully someday) climax.
These are two very different ways. The porn-less is very new to me and I find it rejuvenating to explore. It is a rewiring process and I am more than happy that it diminishes my previous addiction to porn. All the more because most porn was not doing it for me and the constant hunt for really arousing material was... simply wasting my time.
@Canacan, I totally agree with all you have said. Thank you for the clarity. I find what you say is so for me.
I suppose I was just being picky.
I don't use porn, but occasionally like to look at nudes, but even then, never while riding MMOs.
I enjoy porn for masturbation, but do not use it for my Aneros sessions. The sessions require too much concentration for me.
I agree with @awired50. While porn can definitely be arousing for lots of sexual play, it can be too distracting from focusing on and being aroused by the self during an anerosession. The latter is what I'm striving to keep and maintain.
I watch porn during my session, I prefer mostly female arousal, female whole body orgasm, anal orgasm focused videos. And I love 3D cartoon porn too. My favorite 3D cartoon types are futanari, tentacle porn. multidimensional orgasm and more. In cartoon porn, I can image sexual fantasies as more and more exaggerated, more kinky. And in this way I am more stimulated. I watch these videos at the beginning of my session and then just listen to their voices and finally I concentrate completely in my inner world and listen to my own body. By this point I am well aroused.