Newbie- stuff definitely happening but not the euphoria

It will definitely come over time. I’ve been right in the same spot. I can say taking some time off does help. The prostate can get over stimulated and seems unresponsive. The sensations you are receiving are enough to keep trying. It becomes addictive in a way. Look at it as quality over quantity. Eventually you will get feelings within that tell you your body is looking to have a prostate orgasm. Those that are able to have orgasms straight out of the box are very lucky. I started with other devices and was able to have a hands free wet orgasm but I was more interested in the super o. It’s definitely worth the journey.

@will704 thank you for your reply. I agree that I probably need some rest time. Getting kind of sore and thinking I gave myself a fissure.

As Will mentioned it takes time to experience the pleasure to be had! Just continue the journey and learn to totally relax and focus on the subtle twinges and spasms. Sounds like you’ve already made some good progress! Like many of us you’re searching for the miracle toy to give you the orgasms but only the technique will do that and it will do it with any of them! When you’ve developed the technique, you can experience the ultimate pleasure without any toy simply doing Aless!

Thank you, I heard great things about the njoy wand and I thought that might be the fastest way to experience what a p-orgasm felt like so I would know what to look for with the other tools!

@fred27 
So looks like last night things all fell into place (with the help of some delta 8 for the first time in my life).

 Was quite intense and I would describe it as an uncontrolled spasming going back and forth at the prostrate, rectum, anus heightened by nipple stimulation. The contractions are extremely fast and I would describe the ones at the perineum as a rapid tapping sensation where the p tab is. My guess is those muscles kept contracting and pushing against the p tab which gave a feedback loop for it to continue along with nipple stimulation, anal squeezing, aneros eupho pressure directly on the prostate all heightening and continuing the leg shakes, full body convulsions, a growing need to grind, sweating, and groaning/moaning, rapid breathing/hyperventilating, faster heart rate, for several hours. Eventually my body was aching and I was getting fatigued so I tried to slow down on purpose by doing away with the nipple stim and initiating some slow breathing, turning on the phone for distraction. 

Throughout the night would have occasional extremely strong prostate orgasms- like full body uncontrollable shaking along with the prostate spasms for several seconds. If I started with nipples again I could see spasms start up again but was too tired so didn’t pursue it. 

I eventually decided to masturbate/ejaculate the usual way and then went to clean up and take out the Eupho and sleep. Did not experience any aless stuff and was able to sleep.

This morning I’m spent and likely having some hangover effect. 

I wouldn’t describe the super O as a super pleasure event all throughout. Some of it was “oh look this is really escalating” and other times it was “holy shit this is really happening” and other times “uhh.h.h.hh..”.  There were definitely some really pleasurable (sometimes subtle?) feelings. Enjoyable event but I’m not in a rush to do that all again.

Re: thc.  Yesterday after having some rather disappointing results from my new toys, I started looking up the legality of thc and discovered delta 8.  Initially I took one delta 8 (25 mg) and it didn’t seem to have much effect so about 3 hrs later took another one. Was able to achieve one wet hands free emission with the njoy wand but it wasn’t really enjoyable because it was painful for the muscles involved to spasm around the njoy. Also tried out the eupho syn v which gave nice sensations but that’s about it.  About 5 hrs I gave up disappointed and went to have dinner and went to bed, covered in a blanket, reinserted the eupho syn (non-v), and turned off the media (which really helps— at one point it was more distracting than helpful to have the phone on) and dozed off. I think that’s when the delta 8 started really taking effect that much later. 

One other thing- the delta 8 really sensitizes you to feelings in your groin and pelvis. One other thing to mention- there are times when there’s a growing coolness or burning or even numbness (like at a dental procedure) growing and growing in the groin— I focused on keeping that going and that helped a lot.